I have a regular spot for going on first dates. It's a very nice lounge with a nice bar and tables. I split an appetizer and buy some drinks with the girl. Always have a good time.

When seated I always start commenting on other couples at the bar/other tables. I will usually give them names and start a running commentary throughout the night. Like, "Dane cook and shakira might have something there.. woow, did you see him lightly pet her arm? dane on the offensive!" I can't tell you how much fun I've had with this line of talk. By the end of the night, sometimes the entire conversation centers about resolving whether or not our couples are going to have sex. (edit: you can also start talking about the type of sex the two would have; the funnier and more outlandish the better!)

You can kino the hell out of the girl with this technique by mimic'ing what the couples are doing. Last time, there was this crazy pickup by this cougar on a young man. She was stroking his neck and I was like, "woow, does that really work? [I begin stroking her neck; she laughs but is totally into it]". Then the cougar girl whispered in the guys ear and they both walked out. My date says, "she must have said, 'hey baby, let's get out of here and go to my place'. At the end of the night, I said the same thing.. hahaha. Guess who got laid? :) The time before, I said, "woow, what would people say about us? Am I having success"? I don't remember her response but 10 seconds later we are making out.

Anyways, this shit is golden. Very easy to turn the conversation to sex and build attraction. Combined with kino (you are sitting next to her, right? never across) it's very powerful.