You are in the early stages of chatting with a gorgeous voluptuous vixen. You say something ridiculous or cocky or grab her hair too hard and she takes a step back and is not sure what to think. Some loser boy who fancies her jumps in to "save" her from you.

"Hey man! leave her alone!"

What do you do?

What I recommend (that I don't think I've seen on any similar threads):

You say: "She is a big girl, I'm sure she can defend herself :)"

With a big smile. Turn your body to face her and anticipate her to "defend herself" or attack you back. Your body is turned so that the other guy gets zero attention from you and is zoned out. If he says anything now ignore him.

It is fine turning your full body towards her and paying full attention in this instance (as opposed to not paying total attention) as you are putting the work on her to try and impress you, and you are hoping that she does (its cool to even tell her how to defend herself if she is shy. Make it a game). If she does not impress you with her self-defence then show you are disappointed by turning away from her a little and paying less attention. Maybe "give" her to the other guy and walk off.

The girl will hopefully smile and "fight back" by calling you a bully or trying to attack your frame or call you ugly or something.

(BTW when I talk about fighting and defending I'm not talking about physical contact obviously)

If she visibly is still uncomfortable then say "Perhaps I was too harsh", touch her arm and walk away and move onto something/somebody else. If you bump into her later she will either be attracted to you and wanting to make sure you don't walk away again (tease her for being annoyed at you earlier. Tell her it would never work between the two of you as you are so annoying etc.) or she will still be uncomfortable (consider a sincere apology if you did something bad - it is fine apologising now as it is of your own accord rather than expected of you (it will also appear more genuine)).

The white knight who you turned away from has either orbited around you and shown inner-loser, or walked away. Hopefully he isn't still there attacking you (might happen if he is a friend in love with her) - depending on that situation you may want to eject, persist, AMOG or befriend him. Tough call...