Women Like Catching You Checking Them Out

chweb · 2020-06-07T16:46:27+00:00

Major caveat **This ONLY works when we find the guy attractive.***

shallow_haily · 2020-06-07T13:26:47+00:00

Nah we like it, but only if we find the guy attractive, even if only slightly attractive. If we saw you looking at our ass, we’ll intentionally walk in-front of you any chance we get. Also, we’ll wear clothes more often that accentuates what ever body part we saw you looking at from that point on. However if we think you’re weird or ugly or just don’t like you, then we’ll avoid you abs find you repulsive and begin to hate you.

jag_umiak_roans · 2020-06-07T16:42:24+00:00

Only if they like you

jchillin365 · 2020-06-07T15:41:44+00:00

For me at least this is very true. There was a customer at a restaurant I worked at and he was checking me out so intensely. Every time I would walk by he would look at me. Normally I wouldn’t be attracted to him, but for some reason I was really into him. He never actually said anything to me, but I still think about him sometimes haha.

appmanga · 2020-06-07T14:22:45+00:00

"Peak" =/= "Peek".

guest123420 · 2020-06-07T18:52:59+00:00

*If you're not creepy and at least somewhat attractive.

Fery93 · 2020-06-07T17:13:37+00:00

Same thing happened to me about 2 years ago.

There was this milf where I worked and she caught me checking her out and she smiled.

Since that day she always said hi and we talked couple of times.

bambiii420 · 2020-06-07T13:51:26+00:00

They don't wear low cut tops and tight Jeans for a reason. Maybe some, but definitely not all. I hope anyone that'll take your advice won't be creepy towards women.

njugiste · 2020-06-07T20:59:42+00:00

We ugly people still don't stand a chance.

itscoolyy · 2020-06-07T17:23:49+00:00

I don't like it though. Just being honest. I'm not going to position myself so you can see it better either. I just want to be spoken to like a human being. If I noticed I was oogled and I felt like a piece of meat, I will definitely avoid assuming you were creepy. There is a way to look to not make me know I have activated your whole entire cerebral cortex.

But I admit some women dress up just for this reason.

lmaokeeptryingretard · 2020-06-07T22:42:14+00:00

Women like attractive men checking them out, not ugly dudes..... that’s when you get called a creep.

Katastrofa2 · 2020-06-07T17:30:31+00:00

One women like it guys, therefore the other 3.5 billion do too!

henlostinky123 · 2020-06-07T17:49:39+00:00

Unless ur ugly then it’s harassment

lil_baby_aidy · 2020-06-07T22:13:56+00:00

Not every woman is the same

Dominus-Prime- · 2020-06-07T19:38:57+00:00

Actually you missed the ice breaker. She sees people noticing her ass all the time. When she approached you that was your time to say something flirtatious. Fail

retro-rabbit · 2020-06-07T22:04:59+00:00

Checkout but respectfully.

kyzen142 · 2020-06-07T18:47:16+00:00

Yeah women likes it when you check them out and own it. If she catches u checking her out and you look away quickly as if you just got caught it is a turn off. The right way is when she catches you checking her out look her in the eyes and smile or something because it shows that you find her attractive and you r not gonna apologize for it.

vanilla_love_sauce · 2020-06-07T19:54:50+00:00

For all the girls here saying we only like it if we find the guy attractive, I wholeheartedly agree. It’s definitely true. Just like how I won’t send nudes to a guy I’m not attracted to, even tho he literally offered to pay me. I’m only able to have any fun at all with guys I’m attracted to, if I’m not, no fun to be had at all.

Bbarakti · 2020-06-07T18:58:22+00:00

I'm not sure, but I think hetero women like men, hetero or bi men would seem to be a preference as well. So, if a decently healthy (physically, mentally, spiritually) man does what men do (notice/enjoy female sexuality), and is still able to maintain his air of civility (ie... don't leer, etc..), then I believe it's an exciting part of the courtship ritual and something that most people (females) can appreciate.

But, we're all so socially deprived, emotionally ignorant, and porn-brain-addled that it makes intergender relationships very difficult.

Social behavior and inter/ intrapersonal communication is complicated and messy.

Care about yourself first, get your "house" in order.
Find and stick to your "mission" (you have a mission in life, right? How about rules to live by that will allow people to say nice things about you at your wake?)
Respect other humans and interact with competence-based humility.

Be yourself and be good at it. Your desired demographic will find that attractive and enjoy your gaze.

God is good, girls are beautiful (..and I don't mean just physically).

DajuanKev · 2020-06-07T16:08:19+00:00

Hopefully we're parallels, dude. I mostly check out women while their on their bikes and shit can get real. Them legs.

I actually approached a women on a bike, I caught up to her, but I still kept my distance and she seen me coming, as if she wanted me to approach. I had to slightly yelled my call out to her to get her attention and the chemistry was strong, it was amazing. She didn't have a bf, but wasn't interested and replied so it doesn't matter. See ya.

I went back to the bus stop and eventually home, but I can sense from her suddenness there was something more to her replies, even if slightly. I'm positive like that.

cmcgee19 · 2020-06-07T20:54:54+00:00

This is pretty disgusting, assuming that staring at women is always gonna work. No, it makes me rather uncomfortable when I’m sexualized in the works place. And I definitely do NOT dress for any male.

Edit: It doesn’t matter if I am attracted to someone or not. Being creeped on is a turn off through and through.

PetalofRed · 2020-06-07T20:01:49+00:00

I don’t like feeling obligated to talk to a man. You can take a QUICK look but then fuck of, please :)

jade_1989al · 2020-06-07T17:40:19+00:00

Only when it’s a genuine reaction. Not like a fake show that your husband does to make you feel like he’s still interested in you after he already has you. Lol

recyclablebanthas · 2020-06-08T02:13:38+00:00

We can't generalize about all men and we can't generalize about all women.

The title is unintentionally misleading.

magnetradio · 2020-06-07T23:44:50+00:00

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HippolytasDaughters · 2020-06-08T02:24:27+00:00

Depends on the context. As a professor, I've had colleagues AND students make me uncomfortable by doing that at meetings (colleagues) and class (students). Context matters.

cuandoquieras · 2020-06-07T22:36:16+00:00

I honestly don’t mind when guys catcall me or if I catch them checking me out. usually I find it amusing/flattering. the only times I actually mind are when they start following me while I’m exercising or if I say I’m not interested and they won’t leave me alone because that’s sketchy...

mr_Tobbor · 2020-06-07T16:32:40+00:00

Is it so interesting? Has it something to do with seduction? Do you think you get laid w this lady?

RichWannabe · 2020-06-07T20:30:56+00:00

Meanwhile girls going with bra's and shorts that cover half-a-butt be like: Ugh, I hate guys checking me out!

Title	Women Like Catching You Checking Them Out
Author	magnetradio
Upvotes	524
Comments	166
Date	June 7, 2020 11:55 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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