I AM

Beneficial-Donkey-10 · 2024-02-25T15:03:59+00:00

Not to demotivate but first I read , I am all pumped up . Now I again go the list and read , why I feel bad ? Wasn’t I already or trying to be the best or good ? Wasn’t I trying to be alpha in the so called family providing bread / butter care to my kid and ex wife ? Whom was I earning for ? Whom was the rest of the life for (not for me atleast) I had motivation to make sure my family survives the future and I earn for it ..

And now .. all gone .. no wife no kid everything looks superficial .

But yes still going to gym hoping to get better . Hoping to find some path forward or purpose .

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2024-02-25T13:43:02+00:00

Yes.....!!!!

TadpolePuzzled · 2024-02-25T04:23:26+00:00

I woke up because of constant thinking of how wrong she never gave me a chance. I had these same feelings. It’s amazing how god put us around positive people to cope with our problems.

Intimacy4u · 2024-02-25T01:50:41+00:00

Some motivation songs song 🎵 to help. 💪🏼 script - hall of fame.

Cheb44 · 2024-02-25T01:32:49+00:00

Man this really just helped me. I am dead serious, I was sooooo close to just being done today and after reading this it made me realize I am letting one fucking person dictate to me what I am. I love that woman, but if she doesn’t know what she had then fuck her. I am a good man and I am more than my failures.

I am serious man, not everyone here believes in God, but I am telling you, you were led to post this even if you didn’t know it.

Formal_Ad4612 · 2024-02-25T01:23:24+00:00

Ride that wave bro!

DivorceCoachTeddy · 2024-02-24T19:22:56+00:00

Congrats brother, we're all gonna make it

Lumptbuttcat · 2024-02-24T18:26:36+00:00

Good for you. I tell you once you start improving, it just snowballs. It’s a really great feeling. Just be wary of the next headwinds. I always feel knowing what to expect can help navigate the things that can take oneself off course.

When I really got in a good place, there was a lot of sadness. Like “why didn’t I get my shit together sooner?” You’ll feel unmotivated at points. Just speed bumps.

The one that I struggle with today is resentment. It is tough. Especially when my ex makes very positive (and what should be) flattering comments. Let me frame this. My ex did a lot of crap late in the marriage and after- really bad shit. So, let me be clear, I want nothing to do with her now. However, I resent her for not communicating and giving me a fair shot before everything before she blew everything up.

beezo123 · 2024-02-24T18:16:35+00:00

hell yeah bro!

Title	I AM
Author	Comfortable-Long-419
Upvotes	40
Comments	16
Date	February 24, 2024 5:52 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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