What do you do for fun.

AudriWrath · 2024-02-07T12:45:00+00:00

3d printer, my man. You get one, you research. You fill your time so busy trying to re enact helms deep. Catapults. Drones(rasberry pi 😋, targetting systems with collision avoidance easily available online), keep ya hands busy and your mind working! You got this shit, my man. There will be ups and downs, but in the end you will realize how awesome you can be as you face this adversity. Read about stoism, plato, socrates, and nietze. My dms are always open to any brother in need, never hesitate to reach out! 🙃🫠

HurtingUnit45 · 2024-02-05T14:13:55+00:00

Woodworking. It can be pricey, especially starting out, but its very good for keeping your mind and your hands busy. My tools were one of the few things I kept from the divorce, and I'm glad I did. Self-sufficiency and craftsmanship breeds confidence.

I've built a lot of the furniture in my place, and I'm turning bowls on a lathe now. Letting a woman watch you knock out a bowl for her in 30 minutes to an hour while she has a glass or two of wine is a panty-melter.

probebeta · 2024-02-04T18:34:49+00:00

Work on a side business, believe it not that can also be fun. Being active, hikes, biking, golf, some skiing, dating, connecting with friends. I bought Xbox too with my fav game Diablo, but it's been sitting there unopened. I think it's fine to do video games but don't forget to level up your main character too... You! :)

wisstinks4 · 2024-02-04T14:31:45+00:00

Golf, fishing all consume hours. Focus on burning hours.

belowzero273 · 2024-02-04T08:59:18+00:00

I'm thinking of starting to play some musical instrument

Reflog1791 · 2024-02-04T06:00:32+00:00

I urge you to consider GOLF.

Least_Attorney9006 · 2024-02-04T01:52:09+00:00

Before I was married, my escape from the ex was competitive bbq. Focusing on cook meat for 12-14 hours eased my mind and let me escape from how awful home life was.

But it’s expensive. I still cook it, but can’t compete as much as I would like.

So then I took up competitive steak competitions. It scratches that same itch at a much lower price point.

I also fulfilled a twenty year dream by joining a local men’s roller derby team.

If I didn’t have to still deal with my ex wife (we have kids), I would say that I’m the happiest I have ever been.

Is0prene · 2024-02-04T01:01:30+00:00

I have discovered I love fishing. I love the freedom of doing whatever I want to without having to apologize or gain permission first. I used to video games a lot more when I was married, since the divorce I hardly play them anymore...

Its an incredible feeling waking up on your day off and being like... hmm I'm going to go and do xyz... right now because I want to. And you can just simply go and do that shit. Even better, you can be like... I'm going to sit on my ass and do jack shit today because I worked my ass off this week and nobody will judge you for it!

Interesting_Stress28 · 2024-02-04T00:27:43+00:00

Been playing more Xbox with buddies. Walk my dogs. Might try to hit up the gun range more. When it’s not winter would like to try to golf more. Some good ideas in these comments

team_starfox · 2024-02-03T23:02:01+00:00

I got into rc car racing. It might sound silly but it's fairly involved mechanically and much of the crowd are middle aged men. Myself and others used to race dirt bikes and this is something to enjoy with out the danger.

Its a lot of tinkering/testing as these are bot walmart toys but performance cars

dukeofthefoothills1 · 2024-02-03T22:38:49+00:00

Meet up with others are going through or went through divorce. Concentrate on my work. Watch YouTube. Go for walks. Hang out at coffee shop. Cook. Hit a bunch of grocery stores that have the best of each particular item.

Emotional_Lettuce251 · 2024-02-03T22:18:27+00:00

I've been going to concerts. Even when it's not something I'm not that interested in. Saw "Disturbed" last week. Not a band I've ever been into, but they put on an entertaining show. The band that opened for them, "Falling in Reverse" was really good ... I'm considering buying a vinyl of one of their albums. Going to go see "Cake" in a few weeks.

laser_scalpel · 2024-02-03T18:52:02+00:00

Xbox, bike, hike, casino, massage..

Lean_BigDaddy · 2024-02-03T18:47:12+00:00

I will say hike even though most of the time I am doing one that could be considered a workout. I have wanted to learn salsa dancing for a while, so started toward the end of last year (salsa and bachata). I am a musician as well.

atomicnugget202 · 2024-02-03T18:13:44+00:00

Second Job, I run a good amount, I go to the Gun Range at least once a week.

rhett342 · 2024-02-03T18:04:27+00:00

Got a new job and work a ton of hours.

I actually really like that I do so I might as well stay busy and make some cash.

warrior_up · 2024-02-03T16:53:48+00:00

“Working out” with my 27yr old very flexible, and open minded girlfriend multiple times per day

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2024-02-03T16:48:09+00:00

Start a daily journal.
Take up painting or drawing.
Learn to play a musical instrument.
Explore photography.
Try your hand at pottery or ceramics.
Take a dance class.
Start a podcast or YouTube channel.
Join a hiking or outdoor adventure group.
Take up knitting or crocheting.
Learn to cook new recipes.
Join a book club.
Volunteer at a local charity or organization.
Learn to code or develop a new tech skill.
Take a martial arts class.
Write a book or short stories.
Start a garden.
Learn to meditate.
Take a yoga class.
Go on a solo retreat or spiritual journey.
Explore genealogy and trace your family history.
Start a blog about your interests or experiences.
Take up birdwatching or nature observation.
Try your hand at woodworking or carpentry.
Learn to sew or quilt.
Take up calligraphy or hand lettering.
Explore wine tasting or brewing.
Join a local sports team or league.
Start a home DIY project.
Learn to build and program robots.
Take up archery or target shooting.
Start a fitness challenge or train for a marathon.
Join a local theater group or improv class.
Take up stand-up comedy or storytelling.
Learn to make jewelry or beadwork.
Start a collection of something you're interested in.
Take up rock climbing or bouldering.
Learn to surf or paddleboard.
Explore astronomy and stargazing.
Take up geocaching or treasure hunting.
Start a YouTube cooking or baking show.
Learn to create digital art or graphic design.
Join a local choir or singing group.
Take a woodworking or sculpture class.
Learn to do magic tricks or cardistry.
Start a podcast about a topic you're passionate about.
Explore urban gardening or vertical farming.
Take up beekeeping or learn about sustainable farming.
Learn a new form of dance, such as salsa or tango.
Start a home workout routine or take online fitness classes.
Try your hand at interior design or home staging.
Take up swimming or water aerobics.
Learn to play chess or other strategy games.
Join a local community theater production.
Take up fishing or fly tying.
Learn to make your own natural skincare products.
Start a virtual book club or discussion group.
Take up paddleboarding or kayaking.
Learn to create pottery on a wheel.
Start a collection of rare books or vinyl records.
Explore woodworking and make your own furniture.
Take up horseback riding or horse care.
Learn to make your own candles or soap.
Join a local cycling or biking club.
Take up fencing or swordsmanship.
Learn to make your own clothes or fashion accessories.
Start a small business or side hustle.
Explore film photography and develop your own prints.
Take up gardening and grow your own vegetables.
Learn to create your own website or blog.
Start a podcast about divorce recovery and personal growth.
Take up geology or rock collecting.
Learn to do magic tricks or illusions.
Join a local chess club or play online chess tournaments.
Take up rowing or canoeing.
Learn to create your own pottery glazes.
Start a collection of antique or vintage items.
Explore woodworking and make intricate wooden sculptures.
Take up tennis or pickleball.
Learn to make your own herbal remedies or teas.
Start a virtual support group for divorcees.
Take up photography and learn to develop your own film.
Join a local gardening or permaculture group.
Learn to make your own natural dyes for textiles.
Start a collection of rare coins or stamps.
Explore hydroponics or aquaponics for home gardening.
Take up sailing or learn to navigate with a compass.
Learn to make your own jewelry using precious metals.
Start a virtual writing group or participate in writing challenges.
Take up beekeeping and learn about honey production.
Learn to make your own natural cleaning products.
Start a collection of vintage cameras or photography equipment.
Explore pottery and create unique sculptural pieces.
Take up frisbee golf or disc sports.
Learn to make your own fermented foods, like kimchi or sauerkraut.
Start a virtual fitness challenge with friends or online communities.
Join a local birdwatching or ornithology group.
Learn to make your own paper or stationery.
Take up rollerblading or skateboarding.
Explore hydroponics or vertical farming for sustainable food production.
Start a collection of antique or vintage toys.

Remember, the key is to find activities that bring you joy, promote personal growth, and provide a healthy distraction during the divorce recovery process. Adapt and choose the ones that resonate with you and align with your interests and goals.

No-Exit6560 · 2024-02-03T10:40:41+00:00

Got back into martial arts, now I teach them as well.

Was always in the gym already, enjoy video games, reading/audiobooks etc…also working on growing my business.

Volunteering at my kids school so I can be involved in that part of his life as well.

Diablo 4 is sucking up a lot of my time.

After this experience I’m absolutely never getting married or even living with a woman again, and at this point I’m not even remotely interested in dating.

Sea-Satisfaction4656 · 2024-02-03T05:50:42+00:00

Golf (joined a top golf league) trivia with friends, get out in nature, read, write, work on learning a new skill. And of course play some Xbox and watch some shows. I also plan out my evenings a week ahead for the most part to help me stay on task - workout routine, meal plan, what to focus on in the evening.

OPs_Mom_and_Dad · 2024-02-03T05:26:06+00:00

When it’s warm enough, I golf. It’s a great way to kill 4+ hours.

Also a weird but fun one, when I was in high school and college I played in the band (clarinet). I found a band for adults at my local college, we rehearse Wednesday nights for two hours. It’s a phenomenal way to spend two hours a week I’ve found.

fewdo · 2024-02-03T04:25:42+00:00

Go for a walk and look at the water

Seldation · 2024-02-03T04:16:27+00:00

Whatever the fuck I waaaant

Go fuck around at work for a couple of hours, sometimes most of the day. I keep the RC cars in my truck on work days so if I fuck off early I can go to the track or the park.

Lots of naps. Surprisingly, much less video games than when I was married. Keep the house clean.

Title	What do you do for fun.
Author	Comfortable-Long-419
Upvotes	16
Comments	44
Date	February 3, 2024 4:04 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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