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[–]BellaMobFDS Apprentice183 points184 points185 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It’s a term used in human trafficking. “To break a woman” is when a kidnapper/pimp rapes her for the first time to break her spirit and prepare her for multiple rapes per day by johns. The fact that some men are trying to have a similar impact on the women they are dating is beyond disgusting.
[–]nobodybutiliketypeoFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My heart sank reading this. I'm on my cycle so I'm emotional but I'm just sad hearing this. I want to protect our women from predatory men. I wish women never talked to men.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sad :( this is also why I purchased my first firearm. men in America are not going to successfully human traffic women when they are armed. There was a great video of a man who did an armed robbery of some mothers with their children outside of a school in Brazil. One of the mothers was an undercover officer and real casual she took out her gun from her purse and in one swift motion she shot him (that's okay for self-defense if someone is holding a gun to your head or your child's head). I guarantee you that reduced the number of armed robberies at least in that particular Town lol.there was even a law created I think in Colorado because one girl was prohibited from having her gun on campus because of the firearm free zones that they claim help gun violence. She was forcibly raped in her dorm room and so the law was to allow women under 21 I think to have their concealed carry if they're over 18. Don't quote me I forget.
I feel so much more safe and empowered now that I own a small handgun. seriously ladies, what are you going to do if some big giant man comes towards you with a knife or multiple large men try to throw you in a vehicle? I strongly recommend every woman embrace her second amendment rights.
[–]fineapplegalFDS Newbie195 points196 points197 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Break her heart, soul, spirit and self-esteem and then she'll have no other choice other than to worship me because she won't know any better 😔
[–]Works_For_TreatsFDS Newbie44 points45 points46 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah, the fun game is over. NEXT.
That's the reality of the depravity of many men.
[–]AdrasteaRedFDS Newbie77 points78 points79 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And the stronger a woman is ,the more masculine they feel if they succeed. It is a terrifying thought that that man acting nice to you is just lowering your guard with intentions of breaking and domineering you the moment you show you are emotionally invested. The older I get, the more I think there is no real love in romantic relationships.
[–]Descendant_of_InnanaFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
there is no love, love is a lie created by men to keep us chained to them. if they could they would go caveman style but the polite society does not allow it. so they invented courtship, seduction and all kinds of toxic strategies to keep us hopeful there's a unicorn out there (there isn't) so they could get sex and offspring. Love is an illusion. men created it.
[–]ChammaliaFDS Newbie60 points61 points62 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I dug through pornhob and I'm terrified at what I found. They have literal brainwashing "hypnosis" videos for men to show their girlfriend to turn a her into an object that only exist for mens pleasure and to be used by men. Like, this 'breaking women in' thing is not just BDSM, it is the worst of the worst kind. I can't believe stuff like that are allowed to be on any site at all. It's absolutely horrifying to think someone's using this on women out there.
[–]cheesymacaroonyFDS Apprentice39 points40 points41 points 5 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
Andrea Dworkin and Catherine Mackinnon campaigned for a law for a woman to sue if it can be proven she suffered harm caused by pornography
The porn lobby countered with “porn is freedom of speech how dare you limit my freedoms”
“Our civil rights are under attack by these feminists “
The film The People Vs Larry Flynt took this argument mainstream and brainwashed a generation of young minds that any one who counters the freedoms of porn is anti American.
Scene from the movie https://youtu.be/7PO051G_JTc
This film was cultural propaganda they had Edward Norton play the lawyer to argue for the freedom of expression in porn. Deliberate casting as Norton has that good earnest guy vibe
Scene https://youtu.be/OSc1_gfVfCc
This film turned Larry Flynt into an all American hero.
Edit: Catherine Mackinnon the OG still continues this work in Andrea Dworkins spirit.
Catherine provided free legal counsel to Linda Boreman aka Linda Lovelace of Deepthroat ( first mainstream porn in the 70s).
Catherine was also a hidden hand in the film Lovelace with Amanda Sigfried who plays Linda.
The film depicts the coercion Linda endured and the rapes that “broke her in” for the industry putting the reality of the depravity of the industry on display
Shoutout to Catherine Mackinnon and her advocacy 💗🙏🏻
Edit 2 : and Andrea Dworkin - may she rest in beautiful, queenly peace 👑🙏🏻💗
[–]PornruinedsocietyFDS Newbie21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Omg this! I've often thought women should come together and sue over the damage porn has caused to our lives and treatment we experience from men because of it. I remember wanting breast implants before I was 11 because of Baywatch and page 3, this how fucked up insidious and damaging it is. Before age 15 I thought anal was normal. I wasted so much time and energy turning myself into a sex object, because I thought my only value was how sexy I was!
[–]cheesymacaroonyFDS Apprentice8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Feminist have been trying to enact this law for over 30 years. Soo much pushback
The only way we can fight this is to talk about it as much as we can. Online, with your mates, to younger women - any way we can - just keep spreading the message of the brutality and the brainwashing that we are subjected too
[–]UnstrirringCoffeeFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Watched the first clip and serious what has objectification got to do with sex? How can you even have sex if you are a object rather than a human being? If you are an object you can only have things done to you.
[–]cheesymacaroonyFDS Apprentice5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly - it’s watered down shite. But people gobbled it up. “Yeah that low life pornographer has a point, maaaan”
That film was pure cultural propaganda - and if you follow the money - pretty sure big porn funded it
[–]lacyvultureFDS Apprentice4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Linda Boreman/Lovelace suffered so much, and that movie made so much money at her expense. It’s just sickening. She made nothing.
[–]chasingastarl1ghtFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What? That is so scary.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Personally I support outlawing porn because that is why cp is outlawed- it feeds their obsession. Ted Bundy was found to have a lot of violent porn in his possession. it feeds their obsession and then these men walk around like zombies with that kind of thing on their brain period what's wrong with smut novels? When are we going to protect women, no woman wants to be a prostitute or human trafficked on an internet website for the profit of men.
[–]FantasticYetHorribleFDS Newbie109 points110 points111 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I know fds is anti kink. When I used to be more into the femdom kink, I always had guys trying to force me to submit. It was so rapy and gross...
[–]whatiidwbwyFDS Newbie90 points91 points92 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
From what I've heard, femdom still centers the male experience.
[–]FantasticYetHorribleFDS Newbie50 points51 points52 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It does. I just liked it because of the control I had with men who wanted to submit.
[–]Works_For_TreatsFDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel like this kink is one of the only ones worth leveraging. Especially if you're being paid.
[–]sikedykeFDS Newbie101 points102 points103 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
They get it from porn a 100%. A lot of porn titles are about “breaking women in” or “watch this woman get broken”
[–]shortywannarockFDS Newbie56 points57 points58 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh it’s way older than that.. ever read Taming of the Shrew?
[–]geologykittyFDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We had to read that in high school. I can't believe they even teach shit like that anymore.
[–]99powerFDS Newbie36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Tbh this is a massive source of trauma for me and I remember being just 12 and seeing the movie Overboard and being terrified of the underlying message of breaking a strong woman with abuse. That’s why kink is evil. That’s why porn is evil. This shit is the sinister underbelly of patriarchy and I can’t stand that liberal feminism will outright ignore it.
[–]Lilybb16FDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Why are men like this... Like.. Wtf is wring with them.. Why arw they so sadistic... fucking unevolved pigs
[–]asteria2002FDS Apprentice11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I just wish I could go away from men😔. Living with them is a literal hell.
[–]nobodybutiliketypeoFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same here. I'm so scared and I live alone and have to go grocery shopping etc by myself. I could cry. I'm only 20 too..
[–]gutsandgoreyFDS Newbie60 points61 points62 points 5 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
Is this some more bullshit coming from the black male community?
[–]muniherbsFDS Newbie[S] 59 points60 points61 points 5 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Unfortunately a lot of this does come from them.
[–]Introambi1FDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
It’s not worth much if it’s coming from them so.
[–]muniherbsFDS Newbie[S] 76 points77 points78 points 5 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
I’ve just noticed that a lot of black men have this unconscious vengeance for us black women, especially us darker skinned black women.. it’s really sad.
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[–]muniherbsFDS Newbie[S] 29 points30 points31 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thank you for your support! :)
[–]thinksimasparetireFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, I’m not black but have dated black men. While it is to a lesser degree, I still experienced abuse and was emotionally broken down akin to how the thread is describing. If it’s bad for me, it’s definitely worse for black women, who are fetishized and valued based on their looks and how they can serve a man. From talking about it with male friends and assessing from my observations, the value of a man in many cultures is often assessed by how many women they sleep with. It’s a value at the expense of women, especially when the means to get laid are overlooked.
[–]shortywannarockFDS Newbie30 points31 points32 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I’ve seen it a lot, though I’m not black, I live in a predominantly black/latino community, and from my perspective it almost seems like a way to stay in control and on top even when the rest of society tells you you’re not.
[–]muniherbsFDS Newbie[S] 26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yep, definitely. I’ve also noticed that a lot of black men go out of their way to let us know they don’t like dark skinned women & that they think we’re undesirable. Obviously this is not ALL black men, but it seems as though there’s quite a lot of them. A lot of the hate we get is very uncalled for, I see it A LOT on Twitter especially. Like.. what did we do to deserve that?..
[–]shortywannarockFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Idk doesn’t make sense to me, especially since the leaders of nearly every racial reform movement in this country have been black women. Men are happy to have you fight for their causes when it benefits them, but don’t you dare ask for respect outside of that framework...
[–]muniherbsFDS Newbie[S] 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Exactly! Sometimes it’s really hard to not feel alienated in society because it feels like everyone is out to get us, it’s really tiring. But I definitely do appreciate your perspective and outlook on this, thank you for your support. :)
[–]shortywannarockFDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As Maya Angelou said,
“Each time a woman stands up for herself, without knowing it possibly, without claiming it, she stands up for all women.”
We’re all in it together sisters ✊🏽
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Is that some weird form of self hate?
[–]muniherbsFDS Newbie[S] 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yep.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😞
[–]of_allFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good luck little man, I built this castle with my own two hands and dug the moat around it too.
[–]LunaAmoryFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is what my ex boyfriend said he was going to do to me and any other women he found remotely attractive.
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[–]AfricanaissuesThrowaway Account11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men are truly sick.
[–]lynette-scavoFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
this is so triggering. It makes me think of my first and last relationship
[–]Waste-WinFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If a man implies that he wants to break me what need to be break it's the relationship
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