Just a reminder:

MACMUA · 2021-05-19T20:12:21+00:00

The term choose your battles doesn’t apply to every single person.

Sometimes you need to block/delete and keep it moving. 💯💯💯💯💯💯

BlueJeanMistress · 2021-05-19T21:22:14+00:00

I’m so honored: just received my first Scrote DM asking if my husband knows that I’m involved with FDS.

Yes, of course, and because he’s a HVM he agrees with our principles. HVM aren’t threatened by FDS.

PinturaMagnifica · 2021-05-19T20:31:39+00:00

I cringe thinking about the literal years I have wasted trying to help men change.

_bethiebabes · 2021-05-20T00:07:51+00:00

also, you cannot shame someone into treating you well. if they don’t have it within themselves to treat you properly of their own accord, nothing you do or say will change what is broken inside them

spicyspa · 2021-05-19T21:06:42+00:00

Male therapist, " I don't see an issue with your husband not cleaning or picking up after himself. He doesn't have a problem with that." Literally happened to me. And it's still took me another ten years to dump him.

AngryBees88 · 2021-05-20T04:20:27+00:00

Just like you cannot make chicken salad out of chicken shit.

BasketLow8411 · 2021-05-20T04:09:12+00:00

THANK YOU. I needed this reminder today. It is so true, but it’s also so aggravating that sometimes folks can’t see their behaviors at all in a self-reflective way. And yes I am talking about my ex.

CrepeCraze · 2021-05-20T04:22:58+00:00

I need this tattooed on my hand or something because I keep forgetting

lmc80 · 2021-05-20T05:36:36+00:00

Or who doesn't want to see an issue..

millrice · 2021-05-20T07:38:39+00:00

Also,

You can't change someone who sees issues in your actions

wrice05 · 2021-05-20T12:59:46+00:00

Another way to say it: "The unmotivated are invulnerable to insight." --Edwin Friedman

Title	Just a reminder:
Author	BlueJeanMistress
Upvotes	1386
Comments	27
Date	May 19, 2021 8:10 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ngfpv8/just_a_reminder/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/just-a-reminder.754176 https://theredarchive.com/post/754176

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