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half LOL
/r/PussyPassDenied04/08/17 02:30 PM
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We think the universe resolves around us, (•_•) ( •_•)>⌐■-■
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/17 07:21 PM
40

Where does it say the "other one" is for women? It says, "classic" right on the bottle, not "women."
/r/PussyPassDenied13/07/17 07:42 PM
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She was held until her dad came and picked her up. http://www.burlingtonfreepress.com/story/news/2017/06/23/burlington-police-womans-sexual-assault-allegations-unfounded/424450001/
/r/PussyPassDenied07/07/17 03:03 PM
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Most of them small in stature, privileged and in their early 20's.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/17 03:26 PM
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Everyone involved in that trial knew the outcome before it ever started. I'd go with same chance.
/r/MensRights17/05/17 02:38 PM
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Antifa boasts about their violence. She was dressed in common Antifa garb, so yes.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/05/17 03:18 PM
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Victory always goes to the first one to get a fist full of hair.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/05/17 04:09 PM
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I used to go that route. Now they're anti-vax, anti abortion, anti climate change.
/r/MensRights04/05/17 06:30 PM
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Same as being a Christian. People assume I'm a homophobe, and vote solely on the abortion issue. A lot of younger hardcore liberals assume I'm out protesting abortion clinics, screaming at homosexuals, and demanding women go back to the kitchen.
/r/MensRights04/05/17 06:29 PM
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That Milo Yanapolis (sp?) guy said that's why he does what he does.
/r/MensRights04/05/17 06:26 PM
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And no chance of something falling into it. RIP My first Blackberry.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/04/17 04:02 PM
4

The best defense if you're unable to run away is to flail, scratch, kick while screaming for help at the top of your lungs.
/r/MensRights04/04/17 02:42 PM
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"Everybody loves The Notebook." Oh, that movie where they woman is engage, but goes back to repeatedly nail her ex-boyfriend while still engaged?
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/17 07:15 PM
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Every mother lives for those small, joyful moments when her child masters something new No, there are plenty of asshole mothers out there. And fathers live for those moments too. Historically they've been stripped away from far more fathers than mothers.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/17 07:00 PM
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This article gave me a flashback to 1st grade when a friend was at the range with is father over the weekend, and picked up .22 casings and bullets. He put sand into the casing and kind of pushed and twisted the bullets into the casing. You could take it apart and put it back together with a tiny bit of effort. He offered one to me, and my sister, 2 years older, hit the roof. Ordered me not to take it. I did anyway, and she walked straight into Sister Mary Beat-me-I-Love-it's office of the Catho…
/r/MensRights24/03/17 07:39 PM
1

I'm guessing it was washing the plates of everyone who ate.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/17 03:37 PM
1

Or to actually create some awareness.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/02/17 04:04 PM
1

Yinzers gonna yinz.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/02/17 07:23 PM
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Given the sentiment ITT, I dunno.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/17 06:10 PM
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Nooo, the patriarchy just loathes women working so incredibly much, they intentionally just don't want to hire them. /s Haven't you been to the meetings?
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/17 08:23 PM
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She tried to shove him in, didn't have the strength for it. When he was successful where she failed, suddenly she's going to "fuck him up." Sure ya are.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/17 09:14 PM
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Friends don't assume the other is paying. Ever.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/17 08:51 PM
5

My ex mother in law bragged and celebrated how she got child support, plus half his military retirement, while in the same breath complained about her husband having to pay child support.
/r/MensRights03/01/17 10:00 PM
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ex-spouse
/r/MensRights13/12/16 02:52 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u5e1HG5Xkgk
/r/MensRights12/12/16 08:15 PM
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The wife nagged at me for never crying, or showing sadness. My dad got cancer, and I cried when he told me, for like an hour. I heard her on the phone the next day with her friend, complaining about how she had to spend "soooo much time, dealing with his crying, and being sad." Edit: My father is alive and well. He had prostate cancer. He had it removed, went through treatment and is fine.
/r/MensRights12/12/16 08:09 PM
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Before the inevitable "how is this a denied pass?" Claims of stalking, kidnapping, beatings ... only get believed by cops when a woman is making the claim. It'd be dismissed if a man made such a claim. They'd want evidence, first. That's how. She believed being a woman making these claims would benefit her. She cherry picked the faked crimes, because of her gender.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/12/16 03:08 PM
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She took a plea deal. Life in prison.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/10/16 06:47 PM
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Same here, except I'm the fat guy. Sparred a lot of shorter, thinner guys. Most often, I'd get hit a bunch of times, because of their speed, but when I was fast enough to catch them with a good strike or kick, it would level them. The way I most often got beat was getting worn down cardiovascularly, then getting pounded. There were some guys 1/3rd my weight that were VERY precise in their strikes that could fold me in half in no time. Being huge has plenty of disadvantages but there are a tiny b…
/r/PussyPassDenied20/10/16 08:40 PM
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I worked with a female electrician like that. She held her own, on her own, and killed it. She had the full respect of her coworkers, and she didn't mind the typical "construction talk," so long as they weren't commenting about her. The crew were like a pack of Dobermans when it came to protecting her, though. Far, far more than had she been a guy.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/10/16 06:53 PM
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My only problem with yoga is how addicting it is. If you skip a few lifts, you notice it, but (for me) the difference you feel is different than skipping yoga. It's like you feel your body getting tighter, by the minute. You feel comfort in the stretches you used to hate and wish you could just stay in a stretch forever. The other positions/poses that aren't stretches (for me) aren't as addicting, but they feel damned good after missing a few days.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 08:10 PM
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Imagine if it were a man, who did this to that woman. Any changes or new discoveries in the story would be top of the hour, top news story.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/09/16 06:35 PM
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heheheh ... well, there's no counting for taste.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/08/16 12:37 PM
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Oh does it? Does it really? Does the power of Christ compel me?
/r/PussyPassDenied17/08/16 09:25 PM
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Does "guey" really translate to "dude?" In San Antonio, it means "stupid," and "vato" means dude.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/16 08:04 PM
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On the asphalt
/r/PussyPassDenied20/04/16 09:09 PM
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See, the thing is, traffic laws differ from state to state, and city to city. There is absolutely no way in hell, ANYBODY knows all the law in every municipality. There may well be an ordinance in that city, county, or state requiring drivers to roll their windows down all the way.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/04/16 09:07 PM
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2 1/2 year old article, she's already been in and got out.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/04/16 06:24 PM
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If she's an alcoholic or drug addict, potentially she ate in jail while she wasn't when she was "out."
/r/PussyPassDenied22/03/16 08:37 PM
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More like "we've trained a hardcore, balls to the wall fucking killer, so we'd better subdue him quickly, before he's able to do damage."
/r/PussyPassDenied18/03/16 07:14 PM
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You're not supposed to start 20 feet apart, either Yep, because when you run out of ammo, you're supposed to be closer than 20ft from your enemy. On the Island in '87, we trained closer, but we also went at each other from a distance. Basically, this dude just hard-charged and used his body weight to knock her down, which is not the point of the exercise. How dare he train in a way that would allow for victory against his enemy. "Oh, I'm sorry Mr. ISIS soldier, how unfair of me to use my body we…
/r/PussyPassDenied18/03/16 07:13 PM
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But did you count calories? There is a contention that eating the way Taubes defines, makes you naturally reduce calories.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 03:46 PM
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Yeah, that's the people reporting unemployment. Most don't do their weekly check-ins after their benefits are cut off around the 6 month mark.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 07:37 PM
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that's his offspring that could be And the father would have no say in how the child is raised.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/15 01:50 PM
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In this case, prior to her getting pregnant, the two parties agreed under the case of divorce, the frozen embryos get destroyed. It's different than 2 horny teenagers having to face the consequences of their actions.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/15 01:49 PM
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For me she is. The only times I've paid to watch is when she's on the card.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/10/15 01:35 PM
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She's not going to learn anything by going to jail Hmm, in the follow up she was respectful, and sober. So I think she learned a thing or two.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/15 06:25 PM
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IMO that's the first PPD. She thought she wouldn't get called out on it, because of her gender.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/09/15 09:20 PM
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What did she say to the cop when he says, "You want to go for bribery now, too?" What'd she offer him?
/r/PussyPassDenied05/08/15 07:08 PM
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What's blending? You mean making it into a smoothie type thing?
/r/askTRP26/06/15 09:07 PM
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If you're learning guitar, find some people to jam with. Maybe start a band.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 04:25 PM
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Opt for a clear lensectomy http://arkansaslasik.com/procedures/clear-lensectomy/
/r/askTRP09/06/15 06:57 PM
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Never ask for a number. Tell them to give it to you. Or when you're about to go, say "text me ###-####" and shut down.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 09:11 PM
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Nuclear shit test is all it was. Just as if you two had a huge argument, she just took it too far. You called her bluff, she'll behave from now on.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 07:51 PM
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I remember those days, I was in H.S. It was totally an girl's anthem back then, along with "Like a Virgin" (I know I've banged everyone in town, but with you, it's LIKE I'm a virgin) and "Material Girl" (If they don't give me proper credit, I just walk away) by Madonna.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 09:32 PM
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Glad it worked well, but y'know ... sometimes I wonder if it's not outcome independence that turns her on as much as it is if the lady is wondering if she can coax you away from something you're currently doing.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 10:23 PM
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If you don't hard next, you'll regret it. Trust me, that's not the end of it, and it'll escalate each time. If she's mean enough to hit you, she's mean enough to lie to the cops and say you were the one doing the hitting.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 06:50 PM
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Great story to finish my work week. Well done!
/r/ThankTRP13/02/15 10:11 PM
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MMSLP .. buy it and read it. WTF
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/15 08:30 PM
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Would love to know the whole story. What started it, what happened to her after he restrained her, etc.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/02/15 10:26 PM
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Get MMSLP
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/15 08:26 PM
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46 here. Loads of 40+ single moms, most of them with adult kids or near-adult kids. They rarely even need to be gamed. Just have your own place and a job, they're givin' it away.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 04:33 PM
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Fix it. Plain and simple. Approach isn't really different for women and men. Get someone to spot you at the gym when you need it ... if you're there regularly the other regulars and guys you've had spot you .. it'll happen naturally.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 05:53 PM
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You can be angry at anyone. Just don't drop frame and lose your damned mind. That's giving them control over you.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/15 05:05 PM
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I would add, if she wants it to stay where you're the one picking up the kids, she gets the crappy car.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/15 03:18 PM
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Leave. Tell him what she's going to do to him once you're gone, and tell him you can move back to help him recover his life after she moves on to the next cock.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 03:00 PM
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So nothing consumes your thoughts on a regular basis? You have no hobbies? I cant even imagine what life like that would be like. If you don't like your job, you'd better have something amazing you love to do outside of your job, or you're going to lose your mind.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 09:44 PM
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It could be medical. Have her discuss her lack of drive with her obgyn.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 04:29 PM
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Loved the play by play. Were I in your shoes, I'd probably feel like a boated a marlin.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 03:03 PM
1

This
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 12:38 PM
2

I know an atheist that regularly comes to my church because of how uplifting it is.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 08:02 PM
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You're doing it wrong. Work and gym, because you have to. All the rest is up to you. If it doesn't make you happy, stop doing it, and find what does. You're lonely because "you just can't think of anything fun to do!" (Ferris Buehler)
/r/askTRP15/12/14 12:42 PM
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"Ecofriendly, why can't you just apologize so that we can have some fun?" Translation: Give me control, and I'll give you a cookie.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 09:11 PM
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Well done! If you haven't purchased Athol Kay's book, do it now.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/14 12:33 PM
1

If she's not telling people she has a BF, she's not "way more invested." If she "making" you do anything, she's not "way more investsed."
/r/askTRP23/09/14 02:07 PM
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Not sure of your age, but are you the same person you were 10 years ago? I've never been in prison, or any trouble with the law at all, but I've damned sure been in situations where that could have been the case. Your seed donor isn't a murderer, and what happened was a long time ago. People change ... not always for the better, but we all do change. If you talk to your brother, you should prepare yourself for a lot of possible scenarios, both good and bad.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 08:44 PM
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You lost 100 lbs in 6 months? What's your secret?
/r/askTRP27/08/14 05:50 PM
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This is it exactly. Had my g/f try this, and I said, "sure. Just be sure to have everything you own out of my house before you go."
/r/askTRP21/08/14 08:48 PM
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Getting up and getting her water is failing. Oh bullshit. There's nothing wrong with getting your lady some water now and then. If she's treating you nice, and there's a low number of shit tests, getting a fucking drink of water is fine.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 06:39 PM
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A friend of mine went with his now-ex girlfriend. One story he told, just killed me ... I must have laughed for 10 minutes non stop. Apparently, she had a problem with him not changing the toilet paper roll when it was empty. So, whenever she changed it, she put the date on the empty roll, with a sharpie, and saved it. She brought in this bag of empty rolls, and dumped them on their therapist's desk. The therapist was aghast at first, and finally she told the girlfriend, "you're really sick!" LM…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 02:04 PM
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I once ran over a bee hive with a riding lawn mower, got stung over 200 times, and went into anaphylaxis shock. I lived out in the country, so over an ambulance ride, the (now ex) wife had to drive me to the hospital. One of the symptoms of that, is an "impending sense of doom." I was 100% convinced I was going to die in just a few moments. I said, "I'm going to die," and got that same expression you're speaking of. An expression, and tone of absolute disgust, and impatience. Like I had constant…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 01:58 PM
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I think you're being completely and totally reasonable. I make less than you, and support one that doesn't work. But I don't lift a finger to cook, clean, or do laundry. I have my coffee made in the mornings, and a lunch packed and waiting.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 06:59 PM
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I've tried that before. It's actually pretty difficult to return to that mindset, and even if you pull it off it's hard to do it in that ONE setting, it'll care over to the rest of your social areas.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 08:19 PM
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Those aren't shit tests.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 06:30 PM
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You amplify that which you "agree" with. You didn't necessarily have to A&A, either, but if that's what you were looking for: "You're right, I'm a terrible person. Bin Laden's got nothing on me. Buy me dinner or die."
/r/trpGAME28/07/14 08:45 PM
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You did not. Fell in to her frame by making an excuse, which meant you agreed with her.
/r/trpGAME28/07/14 06:37 PM
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1) STFU 2) FIX IT! Simple as that. Your whining like a girl will go away after about 2 weeks of regular gym visits of lifting heavy stuff. 3) Spend some time outdoors, get some sun. 4) STFU and Fix it.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 07:10 PM
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I know quite a few people well into their 40's that are junk food eating string beans.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:19 PM
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She wanted the fucks without giving up the bucks.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 03:53 PM
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There is so many broken women at 40, you don't even need game, you just need to show up and respond. The answers don't even matter, divorced women over 40 just want to put up a charade that they're qualifying you. It's like getting "accepted" into ITT's degree program. The difficult part is turning down the bottom of the barrel politely enough that they don't get all pissy with you about it.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 09:13 PM
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Her: What do you do? /u/lateralus01: I'm Richard motherfucking Feynman Her: Huh? I thought your name was lateralus01? /u/lateralus01: It is. You asked what I do, and I told you. It's not something the feeble minded usually understand. If you're good, I might explain it to you later.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 08:07 PM
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You can be all of those things without being negative in the eyes of a female. Be a leader of sweet and gentle people. You have tickets to go see a friend or relative over the holidays in a city you've always wanted to see. Girl you're not banging says, "I wish you could stay with me over the holidays!!" Too nice guy drops plans, girl is never, ever attracted to him. Sweet guy says, "yeah, that would have been fun, but I already have plans. See ya when I get back." Sweet guy will make progress. …
/r/askTRP23/07/14 03:06 PM
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Tease him like he's a bitch. If he's shorter than you, refer to him as some nickname pointing that out "Tatoo", "the midget" etc. To him, say, "Dang, what are you, like five two?" If he says anything remotely feminine, ask him what brand tampon he uses.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 09:01 PM
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trying man, trying Are you? Have you been to the gym today? Worked on any of your hobbies?
/r/askTRP22/07/14 08:46 PM
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So you can orbit.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 06:39 PM
1

Entertain the idea that she just wants to enjoy being naked in nature. It might be the case.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 03:43 PM
1

Yeah, I don't see why you should've forced her to take the money. But with this extra bit of information, I'd say take her out on a normal date, just like all the other ones, but maybe spend 25 bucks more. Since she's in this situation, if you want to help her out, don't ever offer her money. Give her a gift, like a pre-paid credit card, or something she really needs. She won't refuse a gift.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 09:00 PM
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To me, she acknowledges all others as dates, and this is just her way of saying she did that stuff for free.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 08:18 PM
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I don't know how it is now, I swallowed the pill 6 years ago, but back then, all I got was Cosmo articles suggesting I "do more for her" in order for it to lead to more sex. E.g. "If she's tired, make it so she doesn't have to do any work when she gets home, draw her a hot bath, and stick a towel in the dryer so it'll be nice and warm when she's ready to dry off"; "tell her how beautiful she is, often"; "kiss her often, and not with the intent of it leading to something"; "send her on a girl's n…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 06:05 PM
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He was surfing reddit one day, saw an /r/askreddit thread about the worst subreddit, and wound up here. He read the sidebar, realized he's right in his feelings about her, and executes this. He's gone full boar dread game and fixing his marriage. Or so I'd like to think.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 04:22 PM
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Many a man gets married with the intent of doing his best to make his new bride happy, for the rest of her life. Often, this causes them to lose frame, to become the "second in command" of the relationship, and for them to grow increasingly submissive to their wives. That causes a decrease in attraction, and less sex, which makes the husband try even harder, which decreases sex further, and so on. A marriage requires a mix of alpha/beta traits to keep it going.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 04:15 PM
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When I was 17, she'd have to have been beaten severely with an ugly stick for me to pass on it.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 09:22 PM
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Those comments mean you're doing it right. All shit tests. Keep doing what you're doing, but don't ask her why again, ever.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 06:17 PM
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Nah, spin that shit.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 06:51 PM
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I actually agree with this, but daily, and unwarranted are big no-no's. Tell her she's beautiful about 1/3 the time she compliments you, or after a pleasing romp in the hay ("You look so beautiful when I bang you like that")
/r/askTRP08/07/14 03:30 PM
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^ This. Except for the Starbucks part.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 09:04 PM
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"okay" while laughing.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 03:12 PM
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I'm skeptical of any man saying he's not interested in getting laid. Especially if he's in his 20's. Be 100% sure you're not making excuses based on fear / AA.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 03:06 PM
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I live in S. Texas. There are plenty of hunters here, but I'm constantly running into people that say their son doesn't hunt, or "I used to hunt, but my wife hated me doing it, so ... " We can't get rid of feral pigs here, white tails are all over, albeit small.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 02:33 AM
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I don't know that they're waking up so much as they have just been pushed too far. Somewhat collectively, woman have banded together to shame men for being men. "Be more sensitive," they started with, "share your feelings," and "share in the house work" (which really meant "do more than half"). Doing manly shit is scorned, save sports. The term "muscle head," "gym rat," or "lunk" wasn't coined by men. It was coined by women. They were the first to make fun of the very fit man that spent time in …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 07:34 PM
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Don't forget "OMG! I'm on vacation at an awesome place", and "Look what my honey just bought me!!"
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 04:37 PM
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I worked as a bouncer for male strippers, who performed on "male stripper night" in various clubs. While they weren't allowed to full on start sucking bare cock, they sure did it through the g-string all the damned time.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 08:55 PM
2

While I was at the wedding, she was texting me to make sure I wasn't trying to fuck other girls (I would never do that because of what my bitch of an ex-wife did to me). Dude, she's your g/f, not a fuck buddy. A fuck buddy is a plate, and not someone you're committed to, or faithful to. This is a girlfriend. Your choice is to next her, or not. But it's best that you not fool yourself.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 09:14 PM
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"I like your shirt" "Thanks, I like your boobs" "Thanks, I like your ... " whatever, this starts the conversation. Eg: Thanks, I like your necklace, is that Mexican jewelry? Did you actually go to Mexico to buy it" ... conversation ensues. "You should see my ass, it's pretty hot" "Babe, you don't need a line to get my attention, you could've just said, 'Hi'"
/r/askTRP22/05/14 07:52 PM
1

Me personally, I would say exactly what you've already said, except that we could possibly pick things up when she gets back. She'll most likely bang some foreigner(s) while she's gone.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 07:49 PM
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What does that have to do with the female agenda of fat acceptance?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 02:47 PM
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The mere fact that she's brought it up, makes her immediately next-worthy. You're just lying to yourself. Time will prove me right, when you find out she's been banging dudes behind your back.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 04:01 PM
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My plan is to sleep well tonight and think about this again tomorrow Under no circumstances brought up by this girl, are you to alter that plan, for her.
/r/trpGAME05/05/14 07:12 PM
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"So you don't want me to come over on Thursday?" "I'm still going over there to fuck you."
/r/trpGAME05/05/14 06:33 PM
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This happened to me, and sadly, I listened to the guys. I didn't get invited to parties, because I was supposedly an asshole, but they'd still hang out with me. What if finally came down to, was I took much of the lady's attention from them.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 09:28 PM
1

Get on it bro! You can start improving right now.
/r/ThankTRP02/05/14 05:19 PM
1

It doesn't necessarily have to be guitar. I was in a writer's meetup group for awhile. It wasn't my cup of tea, but did hook up with one of the regular female writers before I left.
/r/askTRP30/04/14 08:27 PM
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meetup.com for any hobbies you may have. As a guitarist myself (just a little over a year now) I've made a lot of new friends by going to jam sessions, and met even more by going to places local musicians are gigging. The musician appreciates it, and can even wing for you by bs'ing with you on breaks. I have to constantly turn down invites to go places, because I've committed to some other invite before hand.
/r/askTRP30/04/14 07:34 PM
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www.dietdoctor.com
/r/askTRP30/04/14 05:49 PM
0

Wow, so you want to single women out? Aren't we all seeking equality among the sexes? It's pretty chauvanist of you to single out women like that.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 07:04 PM
11

Stepped in on a woman getting slapped around, once. Had the batterer on the ground, my knees pinned on his shoulders when I got a tree branch broken against my back by the girl who just seconds earlier, was getting slapped around. Never again.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 07:02 PM
3

He then goes home and thinks about her and because he knows he will see her again, thinks of another clever thing to say to her. Repeat for a few days and the next thing he knows, his substantial mental investment in her has resulted in oneitis. His problem is going home and thinking about her. If he went home, worked on his hobbies, hit the gym, or went out with friends and saw all the other hotties out in public, talked with some of them (not to mention get a number or bang one), she wouldn't …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 06:21 PM
7

I'm 45, and 3 of my closest friends have heard TRP, yet dismiss it. They'll agree on a point by point basis to most of it, but dismiss it all as a whole. No idea what that's about.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 06:08 PM
1

Immediately the white knights at the table jump in and start calling me an asshole for waving her off, and even telling me to apologize to her. one of the white knights just feels awful, and leaves the table to go apologize to her for my behavior. You should've snapped a pic of her swallowing your cock to send to them.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 04:07 PM
12

I can't tell you how many images I've seen that read "A REAL man will love another man's kids as their own." in one word or another.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 07:23 PM
3

If anyone's reading this as a cure for oneitis, don't fucking do it. Firstly, he got attention from another woman, and it made him feel good. I guaran-fucking-tee he went back into a depressive slump in less than a day (or will). If you want to cure oneitis, get your ass outside, and do something that fucking makes you happy. It might be dancing, it might be washing your car, but be damned certain, staying home and not moving is the worst thing you can do. MOVEMENT is key here, not a specific ac…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 04:57 PM
7

I'd sweep that lady off her feet ... with a left hook. /kidding
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 04:11 PM
7

He probably puts up with it because he fears the public shaming of a father "abandoning" his special needs daughter.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 03:50 PM
7

Nice perspective. When speaking to general people about your relationship with your father, I'm willing to bet most advice is that you suck it up and be like a long lost puppy to your dad? My father's just fine, but he's often detached. If I go over for a visit, I'll get about 2 hours of his time, max. Less if I'd been there recently. Then he's off doing his own shit, which usually is him in my old bedroom now his computer room, surfing the net. More power to him, he's happy, I'm happy. But peop…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 01:38 PM
5

As a former smoker, being able to limit yourself to 6 a year is as red pill boss as it fucking gets in my book.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 01:23 PM
2

Couldn't agree more. After being at 11 when it came to being beta in my marriage, there's just no fucking way I can be submissive in my relationships. Current g/f has stated many times how much she loves that I don't take her shit, and how "manly" I am. It took far too many years for me to be happy most of my day.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 01:21 PM
-1

I knit, crochet, and sew. I enjoy these activities While this seems to be working fine for Mr. Strom, most women that participate in these hobbies, 1) don't do it often, and 2) expect men to be in the same room while they're doing it. It's hard to use wood working power tools in the living room. For me, those hobbies are a red flag, because they can start and stop on a whim and have no negative side effects. A musician or even a chess player loses ground if they set the hobby aside for awhile.
/r/AlreadyRed24/04/14 07:17 PM
20

Yeah. Start wearing a condom, and tell your wife it's because you're taking the responsibility of protection ... see how well that goes over.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 06:41 PM
1

Do something that YOU want to do, regardless of whether or not you have company. Tell your friends where you'll be, and when. If they show up, they show up. If not, have fun anyway.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 04:24 PM
6

extremely interested for a few days maybe even weeks if I am lucky. I can never seem to stick with something and I can't tell if that's just me being lazy or if it's the fact that maybe I'm not into it as much as I thought I'd be. Promise yourself that when you're about to start a new hobby, that you'll stick with it for a whole month. Commit to doing just that, as often as you start out with. Don't procrastinate any of it, stick to the schedule you've started with, whole heartedly. Allow yourse…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 04:22 PM
2

That's it exactly. They don't want you to have hobbies, unless that hobby is kissing their ass.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 04:18 PM
2

The only TRP answer ITT. The rest is all diet and exercise "experts."
/r/askTRP23/04/14 03:16 PM
2

Because what people believe is a healthy way of eating, or a healthy way of exercise is like a religion, and excludes any and all other methodologies as vehemently "wrong."
/r/askTRP23/04/14 03:15 PM
1

This right here is the answer to your problem. Marriage isn't all alpha all the time, there's a mix that's necessary. You seem to be on the right path already, just don't go overboard alpha. Read this book, and things will turn around for you.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 03:04 PM
2

That's where you're wrong. The only way you'll see that TRP is real, is to put it to practice. Don't be a wuss. Man up and open your mouth. Who cares what her reaction is.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 01:42 AM
5

Have you ever wanted to buy something, really bad? You know it's a stupid purchase (due to it being too pricey, or just a dumb product), but you buy it anyway? Then you try to justify it to everyone around you, "well, I thought if I use it right, it'll pay for itself", or "I know I didn't finish paying off my other car, but I think I'm supposed to get this huge raise at work", or whatever else excuse you can make to FORM the purchase into a correct one. A good idea instead of reactionary "OOH, S…
/r/askTRP22/04/14 09:22 PM
2

Treat her like a kid sister. If you hear anything where you can interject a playful slam on her, do it. The times I've been in this situation that have turned out positive for me were to ignore, but be the life of the party. She'll want to know you then. A positive response from her should clue you in to maintain frame
/r/askTRP22/04/14 09:16 PM
2

There are a lot of un-heard stories of those bailing in these situations as well. I personally would like to know the ratio. In addition to those that actually do empathize, I'm sure some do it only because of the social contract, or getting life insurance once he passes. I had a friend who's wife bailed the moment he was diagnosed with Lou Gerig's. My uncle's wife left him, then suddenly reappeared and all taking care of him once he was diagnosed with lung cancer. My uncle knew flat out she was…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 02:00 PM
2

It's a bitter pill to swallow. This is going to so very cliche, but the inner peace you'll soon experience, combined with the freedom you have, and the extra happiness, less stress ... man, it feels good! You'll see how your past was a necessary ingredient in your current joy, and you won't be as angry about it.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 07:26 PM
0

On top of that, when someone apologizes, don't reply with "that's okay". Use "apology accepted" or "don't worry about it." "That's okay", relieves them of ownership.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 07:18 PM
5

Did this in my youth as well. She bought me a ton of clothers too, it was great. The downside was going back to girls my own age. You have to train them, and they rarely suck your cock like it has the cure.
/r/askTRP16/04/14 07:18 PM
5

The ones I've conversed with on it, started in H.S.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 02:57 PM
7

The under 25 girls I've discussed sex with have a way bigger list of different guys they've slept with. I've heard "For our generation, sex just isn't that big a deal. It's not something so precious it has to be saved for committed relationships, it's just a casual thing to everyone."
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 01:48 PM
0

Big talk lil man. You go on, do your thing.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 09:09 PM
1

I posted that I was dating girls 10 - 15 years younger than I. You called them post wall, which I stated wasn't necessarily, because of my age. You then posted that you're younger, and that perspective is what's correct. You write all the posts you want there, big guy.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 08:33 PM
2

So, you're saying that unconfident wealthy men are attractive to 20 somethings, and not 30 somethings? And confident middle class men are only attractive to 30 + ? I don't date 20 somethings because they're fucking boring. I banged a couple, but beyond a hot bod, they have nothing for me. Even the intelligent ones. I could give a fuck about the Kardashian family, and really have an automatic dis-taste for anyone that makes it the main topic of conversation.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 08:11 PM
3

When you're 40 + , early 30's is just fine.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 07:39 PM
8

I don't disagree, but looks and money without confidence don't go as far as you're asserting. Additionally, I maintain that confidence will go a long way in the pursuit of money and looks. Being a tech nerd, I work with quite a few Computer Engineers that make a boat load of money, that have no confidence, even in their own field. They're freaking geniuses, but quite unaware of that fact. Most would be good looking, if they stopped buying clothes based on its practicality. If they faked confiden…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 05:49 PM
3

Wow, a unique and original question. Sounds like the mom is far too interested in her daughter's relationship. How old are you? How old is she? Imagine a bad break up. She does something that pisses you off, but a bunch of hamstering females would find not that harmful, or a legit belief, such as "Once I get married, I can get fat, because that doesn't matter any more," plus you overheard her suggest to a friend to get pregnant in order to get a guy to committ. So you try to leave and break clea…
/r/askTRP15/04/14 05:41 PM
13

Sorry, I don't buy any of this. When I got separated, I was 420 lbs, and bald. I also knew my own strengths as far as humor and social skills went, and I flat out didn't give a fuck about much of anything. Didn't care if I offended anyone, didn't care what they thought of me. I made no excuses for any of my limitations, and threw it all out there if asked. I made the crudest of jokes in front of anyone, I joked that I was the most gorgeous and strongest man in the world. I actually expected wome…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 05:09 PM
-5

THIS
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 05:00 PM
-2

You were drunk? Now how am I supposed to know if I like the real you, or the drunk you?
/r/askTRP15/04/14 04:50 PM
1

I don't know that it necessarily takes hold early. I was "girl crazy" in my youth, for as long as I can remember. All through elementary, and Jr High, no girl showed interest, and I heard quite a few "he's ugly", "he's a dork" and so on. I shot up from 4'10" to 5'9 in less than a year, got into weight lifting, but gave up on women, because I thought it just wasn't going to happen. It was seriously like I went one day from girls expressing no interest, to a slew of women wanting to spend time wit…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 02:32 PM
2

If you want to lose weight, it's about what you eat. If you want to look and feel strong, hit the gym. Check out /r/keto, it works well for me. Every time you find yourself sitting back, doing nothing and fantasizing about getting laid or starring in a chick flick in real life, do some exercise. Walk, jog, lift, dance, whatever, just get up and move. Focus on the end result as you do it.
/r/askTRP10/04/14 10:27 PM
51

I've witnessed that roofie incident too many times to count. No rape, just roofied them, because the perpetrator likes watching women make fools of themselves before they piss/shit themselves.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:59 PM
4

Get some from someone else. Re-read the side bar material.
/r/askTRP29/03/14 12:53 AM
3

Block and dodge while laughing, or humiliate. If I knew this girl typically acts like that, I wouldn't have anything to do with her, personally. If it caught me off guard, I'd loudly say "oh, you're hitting because you know I won't hit back and knock you on your fucking ass!" When I was in H.S., a girl did this to me. She swung with her right, I caught it with my left hand, and held it. She then swung with her left, I caught it and held it too. She then tried to kick (you could see them all comi…
/r/askTRP28/03/14 09:03 PM
3

I hope that ratio is 3:1 girls to guys.
/r/becomeaman28/03/14 08:06 PM
13

She also said that Fiamengo doesn’t have the appropriate educational background to promote a critique of rape culture. “She is an English professor; she has no background in feminism,” she told the Journal. “She has no background in political studies and she has no background in women and gender studies.” So only those with degrees in said studies, know about rape. Gotcha.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 08:27 PM
4

Only posting as a joke
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:37 PM
1

Simple. Break up with her. Seriously, it's the only way to possibly salvage this. At worst, you get your free time back. At best, she'll do "anything" to fix it. Tell her you don't think you two are compatible, and if she pushes for more, tell her she's boring. Either she'll beg and plead, say "fine" then come back later, or she'll go about her merry way. What you gain by doing this, is the possibility of banging her whenever you come back in to town in later months/years. There is a slim possib…
/r/askTRP27/03/14 03:23 PM
1

Given the financial repurcussions, the law should require them, to protect the actual father, and the implied father.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 08:36 PM
1

Be. Aloof.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 05:37 PM
18

or Alpha
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 05:31 PM
1

This. Be sure to be a bit aloof as well though, she's going to be a tough one.
/r/askTRP26/03/14 05:28 PM
3

At minimum, she just wants attention (which is power, to her). At max she wanted to try and get things going again.
/r/askTRP24/03/14 05:12 PM
9

Tell her to apologize to your parents, in person, or you're done. And stick to that. She's violated your trust, and needs to work to earn it back. If she won't take that step, she's not someone you can trust. At all.
/r/askTRP21/03/14 04:25 PM
14

Yep. She knows how to market herself. The contradictions she's thrown out already, are numerous. She'll be well paid soon enough. She's also started her own sex toys website ... "Leave me alone! Stop shaming me! BTW, I have a fine line of custom sex toys, on my website at .."
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 04:15 PM
1

Then dread her into therapy. Don't put up with mental illnesses, things will only get worse. Therapy, or leave.
/r/askTRP21/03/14 01:45 PM
2

Talk is cheap. Action speaks. What have you actually done so far to start the change?
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 03:28 PM
8

That's it exactly. Often, your own self interests are what will give you the asshole label by women. Scenario: You're at the gym, playing basketball with your friends, per a regularly scheduled weekly event, set up years ago. You're warming up, and your phone rings (or you get a text). Her: I just made homemade spaghetti and meat balls, want to come over for dinner? You: Sure, what time? Her: Right now. You: Well I can't right now, I'm playing basketball with friends. I can be there in about 2, …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 02:49 PM
3

"Abs are made in the kitchen, not the gym" - Some guy ... can't remember who
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 05:53 PM
2

Wow. If I were a teacher, I'd have cameras in my class from here on.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 01:36 PM
23

Not to mention being out a decent amount of cash, and not having any fun. "Dude, can I have 80 bucks, and bore the shit out of you?"
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 09:29 PM
1

And the best example of AFBB
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 05:21 PM
1

I don't know how many were when I joined, but I've been here awhile. I'm still a regular reader, and don't see a downgrade in the quality. Every subreddit has whiners that bitch about a subject coming in too often.
/r/AlreadyRed17/03/14 03:36 PM
2

Sweating: Keep a bandana in your back pocket, always. Check out /r/keto I used to sweat profusely, but once I started following this eating plan, the problem has gone away, and I live in S. Texas. Conversation: Observe others that "get away" with it. You're probably way off in what's acceptable and what's not. Observe and imitate. Work on starting conversations with people that are standing alone, or you're in an elevator with. Notice things about others that stands out, and bring that up.
/r/becomeaman14/03/14 05:39 PM
10

She said TRP'ers were her best customers.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 03:21 PM
18

Creeper has essentially become the new female code word for unattractive It's worse than that. "Creepy" is the go-to word, that has a lot of power for women. There are no levels of "creepy", it's a maxed out level in all cases with them.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 08:45 PM
11

Hell fucking no. I pushed the limits of beta, hard core, literally to the point where my entire day when not at work, was doing 100% of the shit she demanded of me, and coming up on hitting the 1 year mark of not having sex ... for the third time (non-consecutive). When my efforts reach the limit of my abilities, and she was "so disapointed" in me, I finall snapped. Pre TRP, I blamed her 100% for my divorce, because I felt I did everything I could, and it just wasn't good enough. Now, it was pre…
/r/askTRP28/02/14 10:06 PM
4

45 here, found TRP about 7 years ago. Sex with women my age is pretty easy to get, gaming half my age plus seven takes some work. I find this whole thing fascinating, because 1) Most beta marriage examples describe my marriage to a "T", and 2) It's fascinating, from a behavorial point of view. Trying gaming techniques and then watching the result is just amazing.
/r/askTRP28/02/14 09:54 PM
3

Man, that was the funniest fucking thing I've read in awhile. I wish I knew how old she was, cause ... dayum. You argued your point quite well, and is could only be taken in a negative way by women you wouldn't find attractive in the first place. "I'm sorry, I don't find your crew cut, camo'd shirt, combat boots and lack of make-up in any way attractive." / "BUT I HAVE A PhD in Women's Studies!!! Love me!!" LMAO
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 06:18 PM
1

Is he a reader? Get him a copy of one of the books on Game, as a gift.
/r/askTRP26/02/14 09:46 PM
1

Being RP with a former "one" is a big risk. But to each their own. I see it as a challenge. It's definitely a milestone in your cross-over to accomplish it. You're full RP if you can manage it. If you can't, it could be a good learning experience. In the case of OP, I'd try it, were I him. I sure as hell wouldn't travel to see her though.
/r/askTRP26/02/14 08:51 PM
18

He ruined my life Okay? I want to be a women’s rights lawyer and a civil rights lawyer, so my hope is that I can use my experience within the porn industry to help other women. I’m hoping my experiences can perhaps even be a good thing for me, but I’m not worried about it.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 07:17 PM
3

Allowing endorsed contributors to make submissions, while limiting non-endorsed contributors to making comments This is the best option, IMO. Other TRP related subs already have an outlet for the other scenarios.
/r/AlreadyRed25/02/14 08:40 PM
2

Everyone I know, has that friend. Some internalize confidence to a level those of us that had to work on it, will never know. Another possible reason: He's just damned good looking. My best friend is like that, and has been since we were kids. Some people are just blessed in life. I remember a comedian making a joke about that. Where he and the MC (another comic that opened for him. He basically looked like a Ken doll) were at spring break. "I'm talking all kinds of romance and love and anything…
/r/seduction16/02/14 09:03 PM
2

Maybe it's just me. I'm 45, my g/f gives it to me whenever I want, freeing my brain up to think about other things for a change. I still think about it, just as often as when I was 20.
/r/askTRP16/02/14 02:59 PM
2

When you're younger, most men definitely DO think about sex quite often, so if that's where your journey takes you, go with it. I personally think it would really help with all aspects of life to master game, as a life primer and will certainly help you advance in other aspects.
/r/askTRP16/02/14 02:22 PM
6

She's trying to keep you orbiting, that's all. A friend had an ex that would say "I'm not ready to get back with you. Not yet" just to keep him around while she went and fucked other dudes.
/r/askTRP15/02/14 05:01 PM
3

Troll post
/r/askTRP14/02/14 08:21 PM
1

IME the blunt direct one is also harboring major issues with her last ex, who no matter how much mud she slings about it, sounds like a decent guy.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 08:15 PM
6

What's worse is the collective of many women to promote men doing their work for them. How many times have you heard "There's nothing sexier than a man doing the dishes", or "A real man shares the housework", and so on. It's a bit fascinating how quickly they are to self sabotage.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 07:02 PM
6

" 'The attitude' dictates that you don't care whether she cums, stays, lays, or prays. When you have THAT, then you have 'the attitude'" - Damone in Fast Times at Ridgemont High
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 05:54 PM
6

As a fat guy in his 40's, can confirm Louis CK's findings. You don't have to game women in their 40's. Just chat them up, as they figure out the best way to ask you if you have a job, and don't live with your parents.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 04:56 PM
4

After I laugh at them, I pretty much say that I get laid more being single than in any relationship. Then they blame the girls: "You must've dated the wrong girls". Oddly enough, this same type of woman will/has given advice to married men complaining about not getting laid, to romance her more, do more chores around the house, buy her more stuff. Which as we all know, we result in even less sex.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 08:33 PM
29

Heh ... Whenever I got asked why I'm single, I'd say because I don't want a relationship. Women would get all snotty and say, "you must not like getting laid much." Like a relationship is the only way to get sex.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 06:08 PM
46

From the comments: I also see a boon for women in monogamous, commited relationships. Once both parties are commited, the woman can stop taking her own contraceptives and avoid the expense and side effects. Then again, it will make for an interesting conversation. "Hey sweetie, we've been steady for a year now, and I've had the shot, why are you still taking birth control pills?" Love it!
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 10:14 PM
1

because my male friends are so BP with their generosity (which is well liked/respected by the girls) Have any of these girls banged them? If not, it's just verbal words encouraging beta behavior. You can simply say, "I don't have the kind of finances that you two have, to allow me to be as generous as you two are." If they can't understand that, fuck 'em.
/r/askTRP11/02/14 07:55 PM
12

That's it exactly. You have to get up at 6 am to get to the airport. She the Hispanic/Indian friend calls at 2:30 am, is stuck in a public place because her car won't start. "Can you come help me?" Alpha: FUCK NO! Call your daddy, call whomever you were out with until 2:30 am, call a tow truck. But I have to get up at 6. BitchBitchBitch Look, I'm not discussing this with you, I need to get to sleep. (hang up, silence your phone, go back to sleep). Beta: In the hopes of it getting him in a relati…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 05:12 PM
2

High School is the worst time to get oneitis, it could potentially sabotage years of your future. Know this, and don't kiss women's asses thinking it'll get you anywhere. Work out, and come college you won't have to work for it much at all.
/r/askTRP09/02/14 02:29 PM
-3

Dread game Lots and lots of pages dedicated to the subject. Just use google and start reading.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 06:39 PM
7

it happened to me again and my gf just randomly disappeared for a week id probably just say fuck it and ignore her right back or just walk away Yep! Were she to come back, she damned well better know that kind of behavior is unacceptable. This has happened to me, after a week I started seeing someone else. Pissed her off to no end when she saw us together at a public place. I tried not to, but I laughed my ass off at the whole exchange. She was all "WTF are you doing with her?" I said, "going ou…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 06:21 PM
13

My ex mother in law went on and on about how she "deserved" child support for her kids that lived on their own, then bitched about ho un-fair it was after she re-married, and her new husband had to pay child support for his 2 kids, 1 of which lived on his own.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 08:05 PM
0

My (work) browser wouldn't play the tape. Did it seem faked?
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 09:20 PM
1

The article does say they each lead their own separate romantic lives.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 09:19 PM
5

Which is exactly why she won't win. Any potential non-status quo candidate gets raked through the coals with false and true accusations (the true ones are typically true of all other candidates).
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 09:18 PM
1

If it's a true story, this is exactly right. It has little to do with how the guy looks, it's his confidence, and probably dirty jokes. Switch those qualities with the Doc boyfriend, and he'd have a fuck ton of women at his beck and call.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 05:50 PM
3

I'd think going out of my way to apologize would be putting a stamp of approval Damned right it would. If/when she comes to you to talk it out, wait for an apology from her first. Her reaction was far more severe, and shouldn't be tolerated.
/r/askTRP04/02/14 04:14 PM
-2

I don't think looks do matter. With game you can easily get it going with a girl 3 points higher than you. If you're a 2, you're pretty much limited to a 5. Dressing well, increasing your financial earnings, getting fit, will bump a 2 to a 5, allowing you to get 7's and 8's.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 02:01 PM
11

Phone records with timestamps should negate that.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 02:14 PM
-4

I'm sorry your diatribe didn't get the ovation you felt it deserved. Find some tissue, let it out.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 01:15 AM
11

Well she did say (paraphrasing) "I told him that I have plans for my future, and don't think he can be a part of that, and he understands". So she said she was going places, and was like "cool. Later."
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 10:14 PM
-4

I dont want to be 75 and alone. So marry at 70.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 09:56 PM
0

My advice is to either go to a hooker a couple times, or redpill it up to max level. Own that you're a virgin, and proudly and confidently say that you're not going to lose your virginity to a scag. Tell them all (guys included) that you find most women fucking boring, and don't have time for games and bullshit. Act like just kissing you is a trophy. When 2 or 3 girls are hanging out drinking, they WILL bring it up, and that's when you give in. "All right. I'll let you 3 kiss me, then I'll go ho…
/r/askTRP31/01/14 06:39 PM
3

I'm in a LTR with a girl that was quite active on the site years ago, and friends with guys and gals that have used it. All these people made long distance friends and acquaintances via CM. Those that met others for face to face activities, ALL hooked up. Not a single one of the ones reported, waited for marriage, or anything of the like. They'd hit it off, meet and bang, every time. Quite often, they'd do it knowing full well nothing else would come of it (all while being the hypocrite on the s…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 05:18 PM
9

Oddly enough, if you have any close friends that have used Christian Mingle, talk to them. MAJOR sluts on that site.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 04:37 PM
3

Is it free? If not, what's the fee?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 04:37 PM
2

If you must. Give her attention when she initiates, face to face. If she texts, don't reply right away. If she bitches about it, it's a shit test, respond appropriately.
/r/askTRP30/01/14 03:20 PM
48

A 6/10 can go up to a chiseled guy and say, "hey, would you like some pussy?" and he'd probably take her up on it, because it's effortless. Doubtful he'd stick around.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 02:06 PM
2

Firey tempers, firey sex drive.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 08:17 PM
3

Would you have done it if it was a dude asking? If you wanted to bang her, you should've teased the shit out of her for that comment: Done eating, check comes: Hey {girl's name}, see if you can pay with "the gift of your presence". "My plate didn't cost as much as yours", oh, you got the "gift of my presence discount"
/r/askTRP23/01/14 02:47 PM
1

There should be clues. In your example, there should be quite a bit of makeup around, shopping trips, magazines with articles on applying make up, conversations with other females about it. I find it hard to believe you could be passionate about something, with no evidence. Additionally, when getting to know someone, especially when you have romantic interests, who wouldn't throw out the "do you have any hobbies?" question out. Or "What things are you into?"
/r/askTRP21/01/14 12:22 PM
5

Feminism has painted every man as a rapist.
/r/askTRP17/01/14 09:05 PM
2

Do stuff that you feel is masculine. I can relate. Years ago, I was in your situation after being emasculated. After my divorce, I went out and did stuff that I thought I enjoyed, that celebrate masculinity, if only one time doing it. I took martial arts classes, and sparred anyone willing (and not insane). I went hunting for the first time, and butchered my own kill (avid hunter now). I started watching football again, and going to live music venues. This stuff might not be masculine to you, an…
/r/askTRP16/01/14 09:40 PM
21

No passion. I see this one a lot in females. They just have no hobbies, no interests, no drive for other things. They do their job, because that's what you have to do, they come home and make a boring dinner, then park it in front of the tv, computer, or sit back and listen to music. Without ever telling you what's so great about those activities. It's like they're just waiting for life to end. Most men I socialize with, have so many interests and possible hobbies, there's just not enough time i…
/r/askTRP16/01/14 05:26 PM
1

Loan one guy money, and you don't get paid back. Next time he asks, "dude! You never paid me back for that last loan." Done and done. "Oh, you want help moving? Yeah, remember that time I asked for help in {x}?" Not happening. They'll figure it out, stop asking, and hang out because they enjoy your company, or they won't. Now you've weeded out "fair weather friends" from your life.
/r/askTRP16/01/14 03:32 PM
2

No other statement is necessary in response to the OP.
/r/askTRP16/01/14 03:09 PM
4

You don't need to spin plates in an LTR. What you need to do is flirt with other women. Preferably, allow them to flirt with YOU. You just need the constant reminder to your lady that you have options.
/r/askTRP16/01/14 02:11 PM
2

I think it was Athol Kay that said something like this (completely paraphrased). There's the nice guy (beta), the "not nice guy" and the asshole. Your lady comes home from work, and mentions that her back was sore. The asshole says, "Kwitcher bitchin and get me my fuckin' sandwich" The nice guy says, "I'm so sorry, my precious princess, would you like me to give you a back rub?" - the answer usually will be no The not nice guy says, "take off your shirt and lay down for a back rub" Hopefully you…
/r/askTRP16/01/14 02:04 PM
2

I go into my own personal story of my dad teaching me to shoot when I was young and how it likely saved my life when I was a teenager (young idiot showing off dad's revolver. I unloaded it for us). Same story here. Additionally, knew to get the hell out of there when they wouldn't let me unload it.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 10:24 PM
1

You want to see the ultimate blue pill movie, check out The Last American Virgin.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 10:14 PM
2

Seen it happen, loads of times. To myself, and others. I remember one when I was 20. Had just split on a 2 yr relationship a couple months before. She tells me she doesn't want a relationship, because I'm "damaged goods". Said it wasn't wise to start something so soon with someone that recently out of relationship. So she offered up FWB, and shit, I was 20 ... of COURSE I'll take that deal. Well a month after having our flings, she saw me just talking to another girl in a student waiting area ..…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 09:50 PM
10

/r/keto for weightloss, and start lifting. Worry about being sociable, before focusing strictly on women, and gaming them. Spend some time first, on you. You can join a gym, and once you prove to be somewhat regular, people will start talking to you. Starting reading the book, Mastering The Game by Neal Straus.
/r/askTRP15/01/14 08:30 PM
8

Who said that? Besides you, of course.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 03:11 PM
1

If I wasn't doing anything, I'd probably go over. If there were a spider, I'd make fun of them, and act some-what inconvenienced about it. If I was busy, I'd tell them to wait. If I was asleep and had shit to do tomorrow, I'd have flat out told them no, and not cared how they felt about it.
/r/askTRP14/01/14 05:37 PM
-3

You've read The Married Man Sex Life Primer, and it sounds to me like you're doing the MAP correctly. Follow the books advice, and don't do anything rash until you've finished the MAP. DO NOT just read the book ... DO it! From what I've read, so far, things are working precisely as they should, and you're driving towards a Captain and First Mate situation. You've been taught, now act.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 04:55 PM
2

No way it can be good, if she won't let him fully enter. She's not "so tight I can't get it in", she's clamped up, kegal style, and isn't giving herself to him.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 03:54 PM
1

I'm taking it on faith that you've seen a doctor about this, and your hormone levels are correct, and you're healthy and all that good stuff, my first question is: Why would you even bother? What do you get out of a relationship, that just being close friends with a female doesn't already provide you? Were I in your shoes, I would just spend all my time on ME, doing MY own thing. It's a natural thing for women to seek out the highest alpha they can, so they can procreate and pass on a geneticall…
/r/askTRP10/01/14 11:50 PM
4

Soon she'll hit 40, be giving it out to anything willing, and will be staring at the ceiling while getting pumped by a guy she hardly knows, and realizing that guy she met 10 years ago, was right. Then she'll probably start crying.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 07:20 PM
4

Exactly. Seen it too many times to count, where a woman has a list of traits they demand, yet never follow. Growing up in the 80's, there was a girl I dated, but she made all the moves. I told her I was always broke (I didn't like spending my money on dates, then wind up not being able to buy whatever the hell I wanted). She said she was fine with that, and paid for almost every single date. Then in Sunday school, she was listening to Material Girl, by Madonna (I'm old), and said, "yeah, that's …
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 01:43 PM
15

Or too flabby
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 10:15 PM
2

Well, being in that age group, they're at most social events, and Facebook is rife with them. I've met plenty at clubs us older guys go to. The only real thing to take caution on, are which ones let themselves get flabby & which ones didn't. They both come on just as strong, you basically get your pick.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 04:32 AM
2

There is that, for sure. But very little hamstering, and they get freaky in bed. I've gamed a few early 30's when I was at my heaviest, but the late 30's early 40 wall hitters put in serious effort.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 10:36 PM
20

Maybe. I know my marriage was torture, and practically empty of sex. I'm still fat, but happier, and healthier. Hope to continue losing.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 07:41 PM
10

Yeah, bad marriage, and a junk food addiction. Bad news.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 06:40 PM
16

45 here, can confirm. There are a bunch of "40 somethings" (fucking hate that bullshit term) just on the prowl for cock. It's not even a challenge. I've lost over 100 lbs, but at my peak at 420 lbs (40 yrs old) it was a piece of cake to get laid by women my age. I never asked a single one, and while using TRP technique or MGTOW without knowing it, they came at me fast and hard. I make no bones about being in a relationship, and live with my g/f. I still get hit on by old friends, and a LOT by HE…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 05:39 PM
1

Yeah, then bang about 20 broads, before you even think about attempting it.
/r/askTRP08/01/14 02:34 PM
3

Dude, you're not the only one to ask that damned question. askTRP is for people that have/are studying the material and asking questions in that regard, over a "Give me a step-by-step template on banging this one girl". Most of the oneitis posts are CLEARLY by fuckohs that haven't finished reading the material, and are hoping to get a checklists of do's and don'ts. The reason this is hitting home for you is because it's the same as all the others. You sound like "that guy". If you've read the ma…
/r/askTRP08/01/14 02:34 PM
5

If you make a post asking anyone here for advice about "this one girl" then you have failed to understand what TRP is about. Plain and mother fucking simple.
/r/askTRP08/01/14 02:28 PM
5

I was shocked at how often this works.
/r/askTRP08/01/14 03:02 AM
5

That's all that blog is. Instead of an single forum, or site, she's trolling the whole internet, to get attention.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 05:36 PM
5

Fuck it. You took a shot and missed. Oh well.
/r/seduction31/12/13 05:18 PM
13

Those bastards are dating younger women! They're scum! They should see the value in a woman that's sucked 36 dicks, and has let herself go!
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 02:55 PM
2

My ex-wife is an RN. While I'd normally advise against going in to a femal dominated career field (if you can help it), from the stories I've been told, Nursing seems to be an exception to the rule. Male RN's seems to get more respect, and get to avoid the drama. The downside is they're expected to do ALL the heavy lifting. There also seems to be an exception to the rule of sticking your pen in the company ink. I've heard quite a few stories from nurses just banging one out in a closet, and goin…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 02:51 PM
2

So very true. The more women have participated in combat related MOS's, the more trouble has been brought to the men who actually do the fighting. Getting Captain's Mass/Article 15 or any other trouble, because some dainty female finds something you do as offensive? Fuck that. No victim, no crime.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 12:38 PM
11

Fighting and protecting are inherently male attributes, ones in which we've evolved ourselves to do well (that, and run away really well). Men are constantly shamed into acting more feminine, while 2nd and 3rd world countries (some of which just might be interested in coming over here and starting some shit) don't apply 3rd wave feminism to men, and allow them to do what nature has intended them to do. Basically she's saying we've raised up a country full of pussies that can't fight anymore. I f…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 06:15 PM
3

He had me hooked for the entire thing. Great report, and damned interesting.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 02:56 PM
1

That works too.
/r/askTRP26/12/13 07:17 PM
1

Drinks but the 2nd round, then the 4th If you want to carry her bags, take them from her. Don't ask for them. Don't initiate that text. If she texts you saying she had a good time, then a "me too" txt is okay, but not an OMG!!! ME TOO! We're on the same wavelength!
/r/askTRP26/12/13 06:21 PM
4

Ex-wife went to Nursing School (99 to '01), can verify. She never stood up to it. There were other students, older than her, pursuing a 2nd career that every time, took the teacher aside, each time, and told them it was bullshit. Said, "Look, I'm an adult, there's no fucking reason for you to be talking to me this way, and I won't put up with it". It stopped. The majority of the time, it was a male student that did it. It's stereotypical bullying. Once stood up to, they backed down.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 07:52 PM
1

That's a good idea, but in order to show how beta this fucker is, he needs to lay him out in front of his cousin. She'll be pissed at him at first, but she just might mull around and realize what a punk bitch she married. If so, she'll seek out someone a lot like her cousin. Video will help her cousin prove self defense if it came down to that.
/r/askTRP25/12/13 07:41 PM
9

Getting physical, or standing your ground with him won't change your cousin's mind about him. IMO, you have two options 1) Take him aside, and tell him how it's going to be, and the consequences of his actions. Be ready to deliver, and be ready for whatever legal action comes against you after the fact. 2) Be nice to him, and "tease him". "Boy, you're really short, what are you 5' 5"? Make him look as beta as possible whenever your cousin is around. If he tries to put you down, laugh, then come …
/r/askTRP25/12/13 06:20 PM
14

I don't insult women, ever. I make myself responsible for my own happiness, and don't rely on a women to be a part of it. I enjoy being sociable, and not having a relationship or sex factor into how I view myself, or interact with others. I don't bend over backwards to make a woman happy, and I damned sure don't inconvenience myself to do something for someone I hardly know. I treat all people with respect, unless they're not worthy of it (whatever the attitude, so is the response). I'll start u…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 08:17 PM
2

At 16, women are only now starting to get the Princess treatment from a slew of men. You can apply the social aspects of "game", which you certainly should do. But F closing quickly might be a struggle. Don't know how old you are, but if you're not in college yet, just wait. It'll be a snowball in your direction like you won't believe.
/r/askTRP23/12/13 10:27 PM
-3

I'm going to have to agree. Since I started dating as a teen, I've dated few that had their own passions and interests, besides club dancing. My ex-wife seemed to only want to be able to watch TV, and gamble. I've always had so many hobbies and interests, that I had to make choices on which ones to pursue.
/r/askTRP23/12/13 03:36 AM
8

She felt so entitled by that time, she was fine with it. She's the mother of my kids, so we've had to maintain contact. At first she tried to first demand, then later manipulate me into things,but eventually figured out she can't. She's as nice as can be now, got a new man, & me working the same tactics as before. It looks like she's not having as much luck as she did with me. I had a dose of TRP just from being able to do whatever the hell I wanted. It was maybe 2 years after my divorce that I …
/r/askTRP21/12/13 10:09 PM
14

I was manipulated so hard in my marriage, that one day I realized, I have zero time to do any thing for me. I didn't understand at the time, but it hit me like a ton of bricks, that she (my ex) doesn't love me. There was no evidence to support that she even liked me. I literally did everything for her, every minute of every day, and I got nothing for it. I left that very day.
/r/askTRP21/12/13 05:24 PM
3

How many of those would be on an 8's list?
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 12:14 AM
32

I remember watching Howard Stern on E! Years ago. He had Kid Rock on as a guest. A girl comes on, says she'll show her tits, if she could meet Kid. If memory serves, she was a 7-8. She shows her tits, and Howard asks Kid if he'd bang her. She got an excited look on her face, but Kid said, "Maybe about 3 gold records ago." Celebs only bang 10's.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 11:51 PM
1

You can help him. Get him one of Athol Kay's books.
/r/askTRP18/12/13 03:37 PM
17

I expected an altered rule set.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 09:42 PM
41

My g/f pulls this from time to time, and I act like I couldn't care less. I stole a line from Scrubs once, when she said some dude kept asking her to the movies, and telling me how much money he has. "Bring a brother back some Snow Caps." Edit: couldn't
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 04:32 PM
2

How often do they hyperfocus? I do that all the time, and don't want it fucking fixed. But people are constantly bitching at me for "drowning them out" when I'm reading, on the computer, or watching tv.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 08:17 PM
0

Start applying game. While a full dose of TRP contains more than just game, for you my friend, that's where you start. I don't care which book you start with, but start, today. Focus on applying it, go out and get your stripes. Applying it is highly important for someone like yourself. As you apply the methods, you'll see the proof in the results. Subconsciously so much around you will change for the better.
/r/askTRP14/12/13 05:19 PM
24

The book is a shame in 21 st century.St Paul is ancient and his teachings or preaching s were perhaps OK for his ancient times .Today young women can teach a thing or two to the young men they marry . Accessibility to knowledge is equal today and girls attain maturity of body and mind more early than men . Hence it is apter for the young men who marry to listen and learn from their young spouses . If he is submissive to his wife its all the better. Physically the young wives might be weaker but …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 07:25 PM
16

It's also forcing the concept of manhood into being a woman, using shaminng tactics, mostly.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 02:41 PM
0

OP didn't say anything about them being in a relationship. This is just someone he's interested in.
/r/askTRP11/12/13 02:07 PM
2

In Ahtol Kay's book, this is normal behavior from a women in love. You re-assure her, but not every time. Tell her you've done the best you can do to convince her you're committed to the relationship, it doesn't need to be brought up all the damned time.
/r/askTRP11/12/13 02:00 PM
13

You need to also examine sit-coms. 90% of them are based on shaming men for enjoying being men. Wife gets mad because she over hears a man talking about how hot another female is. Wife gets mad because husband was caught looking at/flirting with another female. Wife gets mad because hubby watches football. Wife gets mad because doesn't want to go to Elizabethan poetry reading. The list goes on and on. Then every chick flick movie is filled with either the massive shaming, or alpha getting tamed …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 02:17 PM
3

Fact of the matter is, he out-alpha'd you. Dismiss this girl, mentally, but it couldn't hurt to hang with the guy, so you can learn.
/r/askTRP09/12/13 02:04 PM
6

Nothing else needs to be stated.
/r/askTRP07/12/13 07:19 PM
0

There's no such thing as out of your league, but that doesn't mean you can land them all. I'm in an LTR now, but 5 years ago, I was just under 400 lbs (lost another 65 since then), and 40. I was banging early 30's that were smoking hot in my book. Solid 9's and 10's. I've always used the "cocky and funny" approach, since that was in my wheel house.
/r/askTRP02/12/13 10:10 PM
12

I schedule mine, for that reason. "I do lunch with the guys every wednesday, so no need for a lunch that day".
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 02:43 PM
5

If it's the same article I read, it was focused on men. It didn't say women should get married for that reason, because feminists would lose their damned minds.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 02:43 PM
0

My dad had blonde hair, my ex-wife's father did too. Neither of us have blonde hair, or blue eyes (mostly brown, with some green specks). Both my kids have blonde hair (although it's darkened from super blonde to dishwater blonde now) and both have blue eyes. My sisters have blonde hair. My daughter looks exactly like my kid sister, and my son looks exactly like my dad. It can happen.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 04:04 PM
2

Your life is going to change for the better. It's just a bumpy ride at first. I left my marriage before finding TRP, but Roosh, and Athol define my marriage to a damned "T". Athol's methods work, very very often.
/r/askTRP27/11/13 01:46 PM
4

Been there. They want control, without responsibility. A lot of women I've worked with are ruthless in the work place, and would stab you in the back at their first chance to do so, if it means getting ahead.
/r/askTRP27/11/13 04:15 AM
0

megafap is for someone who needs testosterone. How does that work? Friends that have taken testosterone steroids have report monster increase in horniness, and the 3x a day thing.
/r/askTRP26/11/13 09:26 PM
1

Where do you think you'll get an accurate source of the "why"? Do you expect her not to hamster, and be real? The one thing I've tried telling friends over and over is: don't ever chase the 'why'. You'll never really find out.
/r/seduction26/11/13 07:29 PM
2

Maybe ... but not at 40. Plus, there are quite a few celebs in their 60s, knocking women up. Chuck Norris, Tony Randall, David Crosby, Rod Stewart, to name a few.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 01:53 PM
4

You pass them the same way you would normally. Shit tests are shit tests. They shoulkd reduce in an LTR, but they never go away. Check out Athol Kay's book/blog/website.
/r/askTRP15/11/13 11:33 PM
8

The feminist movement has pushed the idea into commonplace, what a "good man" is. They say they want beta's, and that idea has flooded everything. Any tv show, talk show, news show about successful marriages and relationships push the beta ideal. Men comply, because they're told all too often that is the formula for a successful marriage, and a happy wife. Men dive in, in order to accomplish this, and by doing so, the wife entices the fantasy of banging an alpha. It might be that women are actua…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 06:40 PM
16

Female judge, too. He's screwed. Probably should've just cut her a check, they're both going to lose a shit ton to lawyers.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 02:19 PM
3

You nailed it. It's probably not the right thing to do, but I would have been pissed. I'd have ridiculed the fuck out of her for that. "Based on all the evidence you've seen of me being violent around others?". I'd bring that shit up constantly. "Can you get me a drink?" Nah, you should get the drink, I might kick someone's ass on the way to the bar! Third party with us? "Hey, are you feeling safe? I don't want to give you any vibe that I might suddenly get violent". I'd do that shit iront of he…
/r/askTRP30/10/13 01:27 PM
1

Not paying support is a criminal offense. At least in Texas.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 02:37 PM
2

The only possible way to salvage it is to date others in front of her, do nothing until she makes a move. If she wants to hang out tell you can't, you have a date.
/r/askTRP13/09/13 07:57 PM
4

Your choices are to escalate, now. Start kissing her and taking off her clothes. If she mentions her b/f tell her you don't care and keep going. If she makes you stop, then stop hanging out with her. OR Continue orbiting.
/r/askTRP13/09/13 05:42 PM
25

For those of you red-pillers over 30. Post this on facebook. Watch how many women will say "Ohhh, I don't know about that. I know when MY man does housework, I get ... oh sooo horny". Which is complete and total bullshit, and a huge massive shit test. What I find unfathomable is women's inherent drive to push their men into roles they'll find less attractive, and then complain once their marriage disolves, or they get cheated on. Edit: Spelling
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 05:15 PM
21

I wonder if she got Federal grant money to pay for that bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/13 05:54 PM
17

There's the "nice guy", the asshole, and the "not nice guy" ... there is a difference between them. I think it was Athol Kay that stated it something like this (totally paraphrasing). Girlfriend comes home from work, says, "man, I had a hard day, and my back is a bit sore". Asshole response: It better not be so sore you can't fix dinner and ride my cock. If I have to order out, I'll be ordering some pussy too. Nice guy response: I'm so so sorry puddin' pop. Do you want me to give you a massage? …
/r/seduction02/09/13 05:19 PM
3

Fuck her. Man up, learn game, and have a slew of women to pick from. You're too focused on this one girl, when you should be focused on improving yourself, and making YOU happy.
/r/askTRP01/09/13 02:56 PM
1

Why would you want to deceive anyone? TRP is about putting your best foot forward, not putting someone else's foot out there.
/r/askTRP01/09/13 02:43 PM
1

Watch the way Justin Timberlake interacts with Amy Adams in Trouble With The Curve. He's not playing asshole game, but his confidence and teasing is done well.
/r/askTRP27/08/13 03:53 AM
3

Barbara is one such woman. In her late 50s and divorced, she travelled to Jamaica for her first holiday alone last winter. She had fantasies about sunbathing on white sand and swimming in a clear blue sea, but no plans for a holiday romance. Yeah. Sure she didn't.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/13 09:50 PM
2

If you want to marry her, you're going to marry her, no matter what advice on here recommends. If she's a true southern Texan, doesn't disrespect you, doesn't do a shit load of out late as fuck "girls nights" and comes form parents that are still married to this day, she might be worth the risk. But you'll be better off living with her in Texas, so she'll hold true to those values. If you marry her, be sure to get Athol Kay's book(s), and stick to gaming her throughout. Also, be prepared to lose…
/r/askTRP26/08/13 08:41 PM
1

Get yourself a copy of Mastering The Game, and start working.
/r/askTRP23/08/13 09:06 PM
4

Just let it out there. Let her know, you WILL NOT be controlled. Outline that shit for her if you need to. My g/f tried that bullshit, and I flat out told her, "Well I'm sure there's some pussy out there that will do everything you want and not worry about his own happiness. Go ahead and go find him". It rarely comes up now. If this relationship sours, you'll find someone hotter that doesn't give you so many shit tests. It's the law of TRP.
/r/askTRP23/08/13 12:58 PM
-1

Good that you didn't respond immediately. Then say "I could be persuaded to reschedule, someday", or "OK, but now you're buying". Then let it go, unless she makes the effort next time.
/r/askTRP22/08/13 05:46 PM
10

Only in the same what that it's okay to have sex with a drunk woman. The woman should face the same consequences/rewards.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/13 06:30 PM
1

I personally think it's all in how you handle it. Don't tell her "I need you to be my wingman, pretty please??" Just tell her "I'm scouting chicks to hook up with. You're going to be my magician's assistant. Here's what you need to do ..."
/r/askTRP21/08/13 04:07 PM
6

If you enjoy her company, and can deal with not banging her, have her wing for you, while NOT being beta with her. You can potentially turn things around this way, but if you can't, a female wing is pretty helpful.
/r/askTRP21/08/13 03:09 PM
7

Now you'll need new orgy clothes, and new orgy friends.
/r/seduction21/08/13 03:00 PM
5

Guitar would be the better choice. Women don't tend to pay much attention to the lone saxophone player at the party. If not guitar, another "chord instrument" would be a wise choice, like ukelele, or mandolin.
/r/seduction20/08/13 03:29 PM
2

Tits McGhee, Titty Tuskadero, etc. Also, if you get ahold of her phone when she's not looking, change your name in her address book to Super McSchlong or something similar, then text her when she leaves.
/r/seduction20/08/13 02:23 PM
1

I think most of them just don't like the stigma of being a "divorced woman", or "single parent". Women compete with each other for status, as evidence by the number or men vs. women on facebook that post about thier vacations, or "my man just bought me an {x}" Many of them don't want to be single, so they'll leave once they have a backup. As a 40 yr old, the women I meet of my age are all divorced at least once.
/r/askTRP19/08/13 01:52 PM
15

It should be required by law, before any man's name is put down on the birth certificate as the father.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/13 12:35 PM
1

Usher's ripped, Chris Brown too. There's a difference in looking fit as hell, and body building to compete. If you want to bank on making it as a singer, and being able to look squireley or fat, knock yourself out. Thout of shape living room musician isn't gonna get more than the guy that hits the gym & achieves results.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/13 11:48 PM
1

Henry Rollins for one.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/13 10:06 PM
2

And being msucular and in a rock band will get you more than either of the above.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/13 09:04 PM
2

I realized this one before I was in my mid 20's. I was never successful at getting my friends to realize this. They just had to know why. It was aggravating as hell.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/13 08:27 PM
4

You're way off the mark. It's far more than a placebo effect. Women equate muscle mass to strength, both consciously and unconsciously. Strength = dominance, dominance = alpha. There are reasons why the silverback gets to fuck any and all the females he wants. 1) No one is strong enough to stop him. 2) All the females want him, because he's the biggest and the baddest. It's an evolutionary response to propagate a better species.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/13 12:54 PM
4

Same here ... then there was the 2nd wave of grasping at straws and said all subscribers here were potential psychopaths, and/or 16 yr olds that never leave the house. Hysterical!!!
/r/TheRedPill12/08/13 03:35 PM
15

It's not really about change. It's about not allowing the desire to get laid to change who you are. That being said, I had a friend that wanted a g/f SOOO freaking bad. Yet, he never left his damned house. He'd say, "I'm not a club type of guy", well asshole, who said you had to go to clubs? He enjoyed camping, but "couldn't find anyone that wanted to go with him"? Who the fuck cares? Why do you need someone to be with you, in order for you to enjoy yourself?? So do what you like to do, and don'…
/r/askTRP09/08/13 05:38 PM
1

Is that a link, or book? "The Private Man" is the title?
/r/askTRP08/08/13 02:31 PM
4

I think you're on the right track. Tug it until you're about to blow, then stop, wait a few seconds until the sensation goes away, then resume. It'll build stamina. A Also, do kegels. Also, when you're bangin' a girl, swith positions often. It takes time.
/r/askTRP06/08/13 07:24 PM
7

I've only had one, and it was when I was 17, and she was 16. I also don't know what the big deal is with it. It's a shit ton of fluid all over the damned place.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 01:15 PM
0

Other girl's problems are not YOUR problem. You need to focus on YOUR happiness. If being an asshole makes you happy, then be an asshole (so long as you don't physically hurt anyone). Do something, EVERY. SINGLE. DAY, that makes you happy. Focus on your own happiness, and understand making others happy isn't your fucking job.
/r/askTRP06/08/13 12:52 PM
2

Way to own that shit! Don't wait for her, you two get back out there and approach some more chicks. Don't get too excited for one girl.
/r/askTRP02/08/13 10:34 PM
1

Oh, gotcha. I agree.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 05:29 PM
2

In a LTR, the shit tests will never go away, but they should decline. You never stop gaming, maintaining the lead in a relationship. If she escalates, trying to show a higher SMV, it's time to next her. Typically, they don't stop backing down, they follow the lead, because that's what they truly desire.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 12:52 PM
1

I agree on the nice guy point. I don't understand why anyone feels entitled to a partner who brings more to the table (looks, success, etc) than they do. It's ridiculous. But a lot of the men on this sub are likely unattractive yet expect attractive women to overlook their appearance. And then they whine about it when the girl isn't into them and say she's too entitled. WTF?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 09:19 PM
16

Not buying women drinks is pick up 101. That sub is no longer about game/pick-up/seduction, it's turned into a big pile of shit test. How the hell can they collectively agree to buy women drinks? Unbelievable!
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 09:13 PM
3

Kudos. Did you tell her you'll allow her to make it up to you?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 04:07 PM
2

Did you go back?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 03:33 PM
-1

I think you're trolling. But in case you're not,women get gina tingles from seeing you're desirable to other women. Nature's role, Danielsan, not mine.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 07:53 PM
1

Maybe. It seems to be working fine for now. I might refrain next time, if this one goes sour.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 07:49 PM
7

Sooooooooooooo true! I've explained game to my g/f when we first started dating. She thought it was all "garbage", and she loves me for me ... blah blah blah. One time, she asked me to hold her purse when she wanted to try some clothes on. I flat out told her doing so, is beta, so it's not going to happen. She tsk'd, and went on her way, but didn't throw a hissy about it. She admitted being more attracted to me for saying no. She's been pissed at me for flirting with other women in front of her …
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 03:29 PM
5

TRP should make you aware of the hell a blue piller would go through, in a LTR scenario or otherwise. If you want to be married, it doesn't violate red pill thinking. You just need to know how to stay red pill while married.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 09:24 PM
4

Later on in the Bible (New Testament) the provision is dropped. Source?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 05:38 PM
17

It was local government, and I'm gone, thank God.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 10:06 PM
26

I've seen it 100 times. I've also seen people to go so far as to placate the bullshit, at the expense of the customer, or end-user's department, just because girl feelings. I've also been forced to apologize for telling a female database analyst that the database she created had no constraints, and supposedly argued (All I said was "I disagree" and got a consensus from the other programmers) with her saying that "normally" constraints should all be handled in the software only. She was allowed t…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 09:18 PM
5

IMO, Mr. Feynman was talking most about asshole game. You can be alpha and pass shit tests without being an hardcore asshole. Asshole game is the easiest, IMO. As a man in my mid-fourties, it's not even close to necessary. The basic tennants of confidence, slightly aloof, fit, and employed seem to be enough.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 06:36 PM
8

Great description. When I got divorced, I claimed no fault. Practically every minute of every day was me doing something to make my wife happy, and constantly failing. I swallowed the red pill, and saw it as proof that I wasn't at fault. Then, the realization came in, that I allowed myself to become a pussy, following all directives from my wife and her lies of what would make her happy. I now know it was all my fault. Had I not allowed her to castrate me, and gamed her during the marriage, thin…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 12:56 PM
2

Keep going. Check out the links in the sidebar. Start doing!
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 05:03 PM
2

It's not enough to red Red Pill stuff, man. You have to live it. First off, own up that this one is gone. She cheated on you, move on to the next girl. Don't fucking tell her why, it's just flat out over. Secondly read up on game, and go DO it at the same time. Start from the beginning, actually fucking do it, and this bitch will be nothing but a memory.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 04:40 PM
1

Man, I wish I could. It was 5 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 05:58 PM
13

Count yourself lucky. I was slowly converted to blue pill by my soon to be wife. After my divorce, I stumbled upon Roosh's blog, and Athol Kay's. Roosh pretty much described my marriage to a tee. It was so incredibly shocking. I must've stayed up 2 full days reading his archives. The worst part of those days, was having to accept the marriage failing was my fault. The best part of it, was taking no time at all to find my own happiness, which far exceeded any level of happiness during my marriage…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 12:41 PM
2

I don't know that it can all be put into words, plus it's a bit different from person to person. For the most part though, it's always been an unspoken, undefined thing that naturally occurs among men. To make the case for men vs. women in the work place, you see a LOT more of this in construction, than you do in a corporate office.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 04:38 PM
6

Raw doggin' some randoms!
/r/TheRedPill15/07/13 06:25 PM
8

Or, no divorce, her cheating on him, having kids from someone else that'll he'll raise as his own.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/13 06:19 PM
45

Now get him a copy of No More Mr. Nice Guy, so this never happens to him again.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 06:57 AM
5

I think he meant just random females out on the side of the road. Most of which, don't bother to learn how to change a tire, because they know they just have to be pretty and look helpless, and someone will stop.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 09:00 PM
5

In the name of equality, there should be a campaign educating women as well. Please link to where they exist?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 06:05 PM
2

A single friend of mine went to get one, and was told you have to have already had at least 2 kids in order to qualify for the procedure. Not sure how it works if you self pay though.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 06:54 PM
5

I hope not. The gathering has girls at least 2 pts higher. Although, if he goes TRP, is aloof with her, and flirts with the other, hotter ladies, I don't know how he'll be able to keep her mouth off his cock.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 02:11 PM
5

I really want this to happen. I hope he bangs her sister, and at least one friend, if not more.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 02:09 PM
8

Get Athol Kay's book. It's the best book for gaming your wife to maintain a healthy, sex filled marriage.
/r/seduction04/07/13 10:07 PM
8

Okay, say anything not fucking retarded. Sure, you can come up with an "anything" that won't work, but using normal friendly banter will definitely work. It doesn't have to be smart, it doesn't have to deep, or purposeful. Fucking ask her what kind of car soap she prefers. The answer will be "umm , what?" or "I don't know", and then say "Yeah, me either, I just wanted to see your reaction to a stupid question". Words will work! You just have to have the balls to say them.
/r/seduction02/07/13 08:45 PM
1

heheheh ... nice.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/13 12:29 PM
15

Maybe a "Plan B" site is necessary, or some way of communicating with TRP subscribers in the event this happens?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 04:51 PM
6

Potentially endangering your life, if you're convicted of pedophilia.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 02:13 PM
1

step 4. number close new girl and nail her later in the week. step 5. Have her smell his finger.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 08:55 PM
5

No, he would need to alpha up more than just that. He needs to flirt with other girls when she's around, not kiss her ass like he has been, and THEN grab her and kiss her.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 08:54 PM
18

Wow, so many there are under the incorrect assumption that if you have 50/50 custody you don't have to pay child support. I hope there isn't a single male in there that believes that nonesense.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 08:41 PM
2

My ex, who was the source for turning me to epic blue pill proportions, started off abusive. I had been punched multiple times, kicked in the face, had my nose broken twice, by her attacks. It hurts to even type that shit, I was so fucking idiotic. Well one day it got to be too much, she was raining down a constant series of punches on me, and I got fed the hell up. Mentally, decided the relationship was over, and slapped her across the face. It was like swatting tissue paper, I felt no resistan…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 02:25 PM
3

Chimps, monkeys, gorilla, orangutans ... they all rub one out in the wild. That's good enough for me. I can buy into their stuff about watching porn, and it causing an addiction, or lack of interest in real women. But I can't buy the premise that not jerking off is normal, or the natural thing to do. Trying it as an experiment, or as like InsanityManifest did is fine, for the learning experience. Luckily, I'm in my 40's and dating a nymph, so there's no need to jerk off at all.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 03:01 AM
1

Well done!
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 04:02 PM
2

Are there any other requirements beyond this 20 dollar "donation"? Is it based on income or anything?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 12:41 PM
4

You have: 1) Oneitis and need to get the fuck over it. 2) Very, very low self value. Man the fuck up and realize you have plenty going for you that other women will want. Three months, and she's throwing this bullshit at you? NEXT HER! You're staring at the complete course of a relationship with her.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 08:30 PM
4

Not as much as how it's portrayed. When you're a social guy, cubicles aren't too bad.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 11:31 AM
5

That's what I think, too. No one is THAT bluepill, yet staunchly defending it. "Oh, she'll cheat on me, but I'll just let it go". No. Most bp'ers would just say, "yeah" and go on being bp. It's a troll.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 07:06 PM
22

Somewhat related: I was talking to my boss in her cubicle, when she decided it was appropriate to ask me why I didn't marry my g/f yet. I told her that I'm flat out not getting married again. She went on and on about why, so I said, I like to reserve the right to show her the door whenever the hell I want. Her reply was, "Well that strategy might have you in your 50's, all alone in the property you want so badly to keep to yourself". Before I could even reply, a guy pops up from his cubicle, and…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 07:01 PM
3

Yeah, I'd make her give me a doctor's note. People with celiac have trouble eating, are thin, and have trouble maintaining a healthy weight.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 04:13 PM
1

If she doesn't, she's a boat anchor, plain and simple. She has to bring something to the party, or get thrown out.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 04:12 PM
3

To avoid the upvote the brigade accusation, for one, and some people are just unsavable, for another.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 03:01 AM
12

I resisted the urge to PM the guy and tell him to get here, QUICK. The first blue piller I wanted so badly to help, out of anger on the cunt he's married to.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 06:26 PM
2

Islam doesn't allow for either as well.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 04:48 PM
1

The article states that the sex drive isn't panic induced, though. It tends to lead to them actually wanting the sex on a subconcious level. Which is why being a bit aloof, and showing there's other interested females is part of game.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 01:11 PM
2

Go on. I wish I knew game at 14, and I didn't do half bad in my teens and early 20's.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 12:47 PM
6

Every bit of what I've read about it, sure has that tone to it. Much like the "rape isn't about sex, it's about control" hot phrase. No one ever seems to question the sources.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 09:08 PM
17

You're mixing alpha/beta wrong, if you're looking at it that way. The reunion is highly important to the woman you're supposed to love. It's not beta to attend in any way, shape, or form.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 06:27 PM
5

It won't happen over night, but stay focused, stay determined, and it'll happen. You'll be in pure bliss once you've figured it out.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 03:57 PM
-1

Well said sir!
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 07:00 PM
2

Who cares about the reputation of this subreddit by others? Why is how others see you, or this group of any concern at all?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 04:53 PM
4

I would love to see this happen.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 06:47 PM
3

Should be mandated at birth.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 03:20 PM
3

Field report. Check out the glossary in the side bar.
/r/seduction02/06/13 03:36 PM
3

A successful LTR mixes alpha with some beta. You're the leader of the relationship, but shit tests still happen, just not as often.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 12:43 PM
3

I've had similar discussions. My g/f will deny that I'm in control, and that I'm "such a sweetheart", but I've far too often been able to convince others. Mostly, I think because of age. Women and men over 40 have witnessed far too many blue pill scenarios to walk away without swallowing some of the red pill. I've actually been thanked before. One woman, a beta friend of mine's wife, always tries to laugh or make fun, then complains about her beta hubby, and has actually tried to fuck me, after …
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 01:28 PM
1

I don't know, I'm > 40, and I've found women my age to be pretty sexually aggressive, though they definitely weren't "back in the day". Additionally, I think with the advent of porn being readily available, that women are becoming more sexually aggressive. There's ass loads of amatuer porn out there where women are at the very least, not repressive about it.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 12:58 PM
12

In H.S., I went from fat to fit, and shot up, height wise. I guess the girls at school always had my past image stuck in their head or something, but whenever I traveled outside my neighborhood, women always went for me. We had teen dance clubs back then, where I never had to ask a girl to dance, they always asked me. I was always macking at various places, and my life long friends, didn't like it. I'd find out about parties they'd have, or attend, after the fact. They didn't invite me, ever, be…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 11:52 AM
9

That's one I throw. With the "you can get naked in front of me", I once got "you're saying that because you want to overcompensate for your denial". I said, "yeah, you caught me. I want to overcompensate so much, I'm willing to let you fuck me, let's get to it, I have psychological issues I need to work out."
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 10:41 PM
5

There are levels. I opt for cocky/funny, yet when it comes to shit tests, teasing the shit out of them for even daring to try ... "like your kid sister" is used often.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 10:38 PM
8

Even further, on TBBT, Walowitz talks about game theory in a few episodes, and pulls off the worst execution of it, so it doesn't work, and makes him look like an idiot for even trying.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 02:30 PM
2

When I was in college, I rode a p.o.s. Kawasaki 400. It didn't seem to matter. I've had it happen also when I had a Honda Shadow. Granted, a Harley is level 10, but for me, just having a bike, escalated things.
/r/seduction08/05/13 05:13 PM
4

You'll like him just fine. You just won't be all that sexually attracted to him.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 07:24 PM
1

Agreed. Some TRP subreddit hater's collection.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 03:47 PM
23

Read Athol Kay's book, The Married Man Sex Life Primer 2011. You won't regret it.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 08:30 PM
2

Feed on that anger, to push you to start putting game in to action. It'll help! I can empathize, only my experiences happened after my marriage went to crap. Did counseling, read bullshit online, about having a successful marriage, with an increase in the amount of sex. Every. Last. Bit. of advice, face to face or online, was about ME doing more. Nothing for her. "Oh, you're not getting laid enough in your marriage? Do more chores at home, let her sleep in while you get up with the kids (even if…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/13 01:03 PM
2

That's the problem, we're somehow trained to take it personally, when we never actually know the reason. A small number of them are just flat out bitches. Is that your fault? Does that somehow reflect on you? Hell no. They're just mean, self centered people. Hardcore game CAN take down that bitch shield, and some like to work that, but to me, there are plenty of other women that don't require it, so move on. Others can be having a bad day, or forgot to take their meds, or their best friend just …
/r/seduction28/04/13 02:11 PM
2

Keep in mind that a negative outcome shouldn't affect you in any way. There are an infinite number of reasons why you'd get a negative reaction, and very very very few of them, have to do with anything about you.
/r/seduction27/04/13 07:22 PM
5

She's hamstering, just in a non-typical kind of way.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/13 06:25 PM
2

This man agrees with you.
/r/seduction22/04/13 05:09 PM
10

"My intentions? To have fun, that's all." Maybe a little hand holding take her hand and 3 ... 2 ...1 "okay, that's enough, let's go".
/r/seduction22/04/13 04:58 PM
4

They're answering in the what the femisist regime is telling them they want. Almost all of the females I know would take that deal in a heartbeat. I've even explained to some, how the feminist movement created the situation where most women no longer have the choice. It's great to see the expression on their face once they get it.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/13 09:16 PM
8

Don't respond to any text or comment where that nickname is used. Or Come up with one on her, use it whenever she uses the one she's given you.
/r/seduction09/04/13 06:36 PM
17

Brilliant perspective! I've been using a bit of this, arguing with women (it's fun as hell), and now you're going to help me kick it up a notch. For some reason, for me, getting in to a heated discussion with women, about feminism, traditional values, always gets them wanting the D. Like 2 weeks ago, I argued with a woman that their gender doesn't TRULY care about abuse, based on the evidence of 1) Rihanna getting back with Chris Brown, and 2) the number of women that would still fuck him, knowi…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/13 04:52 PM
13

Notce the one on the left didn't think HER weight had anything to do with it? As a man in his 40's, if you want to bang a woman in her 40's, the only game you need is your own place and steady paycheck. I don't know if the 40's women bang so easily because they're trying to prove worth, or if they bang so easily because they're trying to get some whenever, wherever they can. All I know is it's pretty damned easy to bang a 40 yr old. Especially that chunky one on the left.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/13 08:09 PM
1

You give her control when you get angry. If you'd have done all of that without cussing her out, it'd have been fine. But in addition to making your demands clear, and not giving her positive attention for bad acts, you should be maintaining a high level of fitness, and be bringing in good money. Gaming is far more than just having an alpha personality. You did well, mixing in some beta, by taking care of the kid like you did, so kudos for that. What happened won't cause any harm, unless it keep…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/13 07:31 PM
2

A man, a father still has needs. I agree with you, but that damned sure doesn't mean we should live with being treated like shit, or get cuckolded (which will happen if you don't maintain a perceived market value greater than your SO's. Check out Athol Kay's book.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 05:08 PM
2

I have. You do have to mix some beta in, when in an LTR, especially a marriage. To quote Athol Kay, set up a "Captain and First Mate" type of relationship.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 04:39 PM
8

It would last if he continued gaming her, and maintained his sexual market value above hers. He tried to "be everything" for her, which caused her to lose respect for him, and get a tremendous vaj tingle with the first alpha she ran into.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 12:57 PM
3

That hamster's done spinning.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/13 05:09 PM
5

There are a lot of red pill relevant comments in that thread as well. Lots of women committed to major league assholes, and "still love him".
/r/TheRedPill22/03/13 02:50 PM
7

I've only dated Mexican American women, born here, but descendants of immigrants. What you've stated above is true for them as well. The only downside is it doesn't take much to make them jealous. VERY often, if you get caught cheating, they're pissed at the woman, not the man they're dating.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/13 02:01 PM
4

Which is why we have game. A man's instict is to propogate the species by selecting the hottest mate. A woman's instinct is to propogate the species by selecting the strongest. Which is why game works.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/13 09:32 PM
6

This post here is a recipe for cuckolding. You'll wake up one day and realize you're "just not attracted to" the man you married and/or made a monogamous commitment to. You'll excuse it away, I'm sure, but this is what's going to happen. The media is filled with feminist writers like you. Pay attention to the (excuse me for using this fucked up term) "forty something" women that write on social subjects, and dating advice. You'll see many a divorcee, quite lonely, articles written about how it's…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 03:19 PM
7

Rule number 1: Talk about them. A person's favorite subject is themself. Hold back until asked questions about you, unless you have a funny story on the same subject of what he's talking about. Suggestions: "Hey are you going to be here next week/tomorrow?" "I'm going to be a place x on such-and-such. If you're not doing anything, stop by." "It was nice bullshitting with you, hope to see ya around sometime" If they work in the public sector, stop by. "Window shop" Don't force it, or come off as …
/r/TheRedPill06/02/13 01:53 PM
1

I found your blog 4 years ago, the exact day my divorce of final. Had I only known then! I understand you have monetary interests in coaching on game, but it sure seems like you sincerely want others to be aware of it. Am I off base here?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/13 11:48 PM
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Have you read Athol Kay's book? Gaming your wife can, and should happen. You can create attraction with your wife, and get the sex life you deserve.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/13 04:36 PM
2

9 1/2 weeks.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/13 03:10 PM
5

That made me want to puke. Mostly because I was so beta in my marriage. I didn't need beads, sex was so few and far between it became a compulsion. Damned near every minute of every day was spent thinking "What can I do to make her happy enough to fuck me?" It wound up where there just wasn't enough time in the day to get all that needed done for her. I read Athol Kay's stuff about a year after my divorce was final. He described MY beta marriage, to the letter. It was a damned shame I didn't hav…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/13 03:59 PM
1

SO very true!
/r/TheRedPill09/01/13 01:26 AM
1

You just described my marriage. Twice, I went a year with absolutely no sex. The last few years of my marriage, was an average of 4 times per year, I'd say. Each and every time, was after my being fed the hell up, and at my break point. She waited for that last possible moment, and then she'd phone it in. I took the red pill about a year after my divorce. I've gotten laid at least triple the entire time with my ex, per year, ever since. Different women. The ex flirts with me now, when we're supp…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/13 12:46 PM
2

Either Roosh or Heartiste, I can't remember which, predicted this feminist anger towards paternity tests, years ago.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/13 11:33 PM
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White male here, living in a city over 50% Hispanic. My experiences mirror yours, to the letter.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/12 10:26 PM
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The approach should be seriously easy.
/r/seduction06/12/12 07:33 PM
2

"Fake it 'till you make it". Observe some other girl that acts how you would like to in this situation, and impersonate. Don't try to copy, but think to yourself "what would she do", and do it. Soon you'll find yourself acting instinctively, and not having to think about it.
/r/seduction05/12/12 09:32 PM
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I found it entertaining, and funny. Just if OP is the author of that article, I was giving him a heads up.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/12 08:45 PM
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I do this as well, but I love turning that shit around on them, and accusing them of trying tactics to get me to sleep with them. Any time they do something nice for me, I tell them they're just trying to get some, or just an excuse to come by and look at my ass, what have you. Now, many of the female friends will throw that in. Just the other day, a bunch of us were hanging out, and one girl, who bought some cookie dough from my son, gave me the cash for it, and said, "You were fabulous, you're…
/r/seduction30/11/12 08:10 PM
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Misleading title. "Prince Charming Is Gay" isn't a rule. Should be entitled Things Single Women Should Know.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/12 07:54 PM
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Athol Kay writes heavily about this, in his blog and book. I encourage those in LTR's to check it out. I only wish I had, before my marriage ended.
/r/seduction24/11/12 11:48 PM
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Same here. I wince at the thought of being the beta puss fuck I used to be.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/12 07:12 PM
1

Once kino is flowing freely, and you're on a date, don't initiate it all the time. Let her. If she's not, then start, and after a few minutes, take it away. Hold her hand after you park your car. Then let go, and say, "There'll be time for that, later, I'm not that kind of guy". It'll make her want it more.
/r/seduction14/11/12 02:39 PM
1

He's also stated that game is different in each country. Game works here, it's just at a higher intensity level. Alpha all the time.
/r/seduction13/11/12 09:43 PM
1

That's a great start. Now commit to just talking to a stranger, daily. Girl or guy, just try as often as you can, and it'll become second nature.
/r/seduction10/11/12 03:51 PM
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I disagree. You'll still get shit tested in a relationship. Maybe not as often, but it'll still happen. If you up the beta in a relationship, and lose the alpha altogether, you're gonna have a bad time. Your lady will lose respect for you, and cuckold -at least mentally, but most likely physically too. A successful relationship is a nice mix of alpha/beta.
/r/seduction30/10/12 03:28 PM
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If you're into women your own age, in 10 years it's going to be pure bliss. Micro-game at my age (44) works really well on women in their 40's. No need for negging, AA goes out the window because even if they're not interested romantically at first, they welcome new social discussions, so all you have to do is prove a higher sex market value (which is super easy). F closes come far more often, because they're horny as fuck.
/r/seduction20/10/12 01:07 PM
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You'll have to talk to someone else about gaming via email, it's not my thing (you can't get body language feedback). I don't think "hey, did you get that recording?" is needy, I think it's a good approach. If you're new to game (and no offense, but you're coming across like you are), and really interested in this girl, you should go somewhere, like your student union, or any other place where a lot of students hang out, and start practicing your approach, dialogue, and inner game. Maybe you can…
/r/seduction07/10/12 11:05 PM
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If you're interested, there's no problem gaming her, at all. Separate from the recordings, IMO. She's not someone trying to use her looks to take advantage of you, she just made a mistake, and you're helping out a fellow student. Me personally, I'd just consider the recording as an approach accomplished, and move on from there. She'll be greatful, "thank you sooo much, you're so nice!" ... Yeah ... I got a nice butt, too! I think that's your M.O., you find a butt that appeals to you, and you fak…
/r/seduction07/10/12 10:42 PM
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That's different. She's not trying to get out of attending class, and asking you to do something, just because she's attractive. She makes her own effort, and something bad happened. I would do it. Compare favors to girls that expect you to buy them a drink, in clubs. They've no intention of doing a single thing for you, many take the drink and walk away, fuck them. Don't buy drinks/make recordings/any other beta "favor" for someone you're not dating, and there are no sure signs it might end up …
/r/seduction07/10/12 09:01 PM
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"Fake it 'till you make it". Mentally, and physically copy somebody that's how you'd like to be. Mentally go out there, and think "I'm her. I'm confident, funny, and talkative. I'm good company, and a great socializer". Just like with Approach Anxiety (AA), you're going to screw up. DO NOT let it get to you. It's part of the process. Learn to laugh at your social errors while you're doing this. Don't be afraid to go out alone. If eye contact makes you nervous, set a goal. "Man up" so to speak, a…
/r/seduction03/10/12 02:06 PM
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I don't think it's any different than when a woman gets buffed and puffed and her hair done, waxed, and what have you. They know full well that the hotter they look, the better their chances are. Men are attracted to l ooks. Game is the same thing. We're doing what we can to create attraction. Personality creates attraction. Game works outside of the dating realm, just as much as a woman looking her best works outside of the dating realm. I wouldn't tell anyone I practice learning seduction beca…
/r/seduction01/10/12 06:16 PM
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Link
/r/seduction27/09/12 09:11 PM
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NICE! And so true!
/r/seduction27/09/12 09:09 PM
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Oh, I'm with ya there. I learn best by seeing first. But the OP has already seen it in action. The next step to seeing ... is doing, IMO. I don't blame the OP for wanting videos, either. I've been a computer programmer for 15 years. I still watch youtube videos about programming in VB.NET, just in case I might learn something new.
/r/seduction27/09/12 09:03 PM
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This. For the love of God, this. Go. Do. If anyone isn't willing to do exactly this ... they're still suffering from AA and will never get to the next level until they cure this. No amount of video watching is going to help. Go, make mistakes, reflect, laugh, and go at it again.
/r/seduction27/09/12 08:52 PM
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Canned jokes: Tell it in your own style, of course, don't try and repeat word for word: After having been commissioned by God to take a survey of how man was doing on Earth, St. Peter now stood before his boss ready to present his findings. "Tell me, St. Peter, what have you found out?" God asked. "I'm very sorry to have to tell you this, but the people are behaving in a sinful manner. There's drugs, alcohol, murders, you name it-a regular Sodom and Gomorra. But the worst is this new obsession w…
/r/seduction27/09/12 08:48 PM
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I tend to ignore them, personally. In my personal experience, those type want so badly for you to make a move, so they can shoot you down, and throw in a rant to everyone else about how you made a move, and "OMG, I don't know where that came from!". I've hooked up with girls like this before, but they're the ones to amplify, not me. If she's with a group of other girls, hit on another one. It'll piss off Ms Flirty, and she'll either amplify, or let it go, and focus on her easy audience.
/r/seduction25/09/12 07:49 PM
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This Link. It deals mostly with fixing your marriage through game techniques, and a mix of Alpha and beta in a long term relationship. But it applies well to using game while in a successful relationship as well.
/r/seduction13/09/12 03:57 PM
2

That sounds like a technique called "the nines". You don't have to full pull out, just wiggle head to half way in ... 8 times. 8 half or quarter thrusts, then on the 9th, all the way in. Repeat.
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:13 AM
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The best thing about game and seduction as a young man, is options. Too many people marry "not the one", because they think they can't get any better, or that their options are limited, and wind up a few years down the road, miserable. Even the wife. Often they split up, and THEN live a happy life. Game gives you options. When you realize that you can have a large choice of women, that YOU are a prize, you become more selective. When you can get laid all you want, eventually someone will come al…
/r/seduction31/08/12 12:47 PM
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You didn't blow it. Re-build the attraction you've already done from yesterday, but don't spend too much time on it. Move for establishing rapport, then get the number.
/r/seduction30/08/12 04:40 PM
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Frame control.
/r/seduction30/08/12 02:51 AM
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That's it ... allllll kinds of shit you can say. I'm only 6' even, and when shorter girls say anything about my height, I tell 'em I can see down their shirt, and throw in a "so thank you for that".
/r/seduction29/08/12 08:22 PM
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This
/r/seduction26/08/12 11:37 PM
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That was my thought. Start approaching while there.
/r/seduction26/08/12 11:25 PM
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You don't stop gaming your g/f when you're in a committed relationship. You stay alpha, but mix in some beta. More so than if you were out on a pick up. It's GOOD for your relationship for your g/f to know you have options. Her getting upset about this is GOOD. Tease her, laugh about it, make jokes ("I can't help it if she wants all up on this!"), but do NOT apologize. It's too beta.
/r/seduction11/07/12 12:37 PM
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Blow her off. Do NOT acknowledge her flirts, even wing for your other friend. Pass it all off to him. She thinks she can control you by her b.s. flirts. Another option, just flat out call her out on it, by being cocky/funny. "Dang, girl, I know you like 'da flavah', but you're going to have to take a number. The butcher can only give out so many free samples of the meat." If she actually wants something from you, she'll escalate to a blatant sign, like coming over when you're alone, and taking h…
/r/seduction27/06/12 02:36 PM
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So, men's rights is now about commanding others to do things based on loose facts, and no longer about equality. Gotcha. Aaaaand, unscubscribe.
/r/MensRights31/05/12 01:40 PM
1

They didn't knock him out from what I saw. It was like a 2 minute procedure. He was a day old.
/r/MensRights29/05/12 02:27 AM
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What you're describing, minus any pacifier, sounds like what I saw. He seriously slept right through it.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 10:32 PM
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That's not a baby, that's a toddler. My son had a ring put around his penis, and it was tied. His foreskin foreskin fell off, there wasn't a single tear.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 03:47 PM
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Loads of stories similar to yours, on this blog . One story (though you'd have to scroll pretty far back) was where a 3 yr old child walked out of her own house, and went missing, then died. A man reported seeing her, at 2 am or something (I don't remember the exact details) out in the neighborhood. When asked why he didn't speak to the child, he responded that he was afraid he'd be accused of something.
/r/MensRights06/05/12 02:47 PM
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That's how it goes, in Texas. They require it that way.
/r/MensRights28/04/12 01:24 PM
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I pay 25% of my income for child support. I get my kids 3 nights a week, plus alternating weekends. I have to feed them, give them money here and there for school. Take them places, pay fees, provide them with educational products, toys, etc. Their mother makes the same yearly salary that I do. Tell me, please. Why in the hell, should I pay support? I'm "somebody", right?
/r/MensRights28/04/12 01:23 PM
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Part of creating and keeping attraction from a female, is competition. If a woman knows you have options, they stay attracted to you. You're maintaining your sexual rank, and keeping her aware of it.
/r/seduction18/03/12 03:17 PM
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Some people are looking exactly for a relationship, but that doesn't mean gaming ... being alpha, ends. A relationship allows for some beta, but for the most part, to keep the relationship healthy, you never stop being alpha, don't stop making money, staying in shape, and never stop passing shit tests. You flirt with other women in front of her, so she knows you have options, and you maintain the Captain's roll of the relationship, and the family.
/r/seduction17/03/12 01:55 AM
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Stay away from the ones where the men are the ones that go from seat to seat. You're automatically in the beta position. Studies have shown that women, when in the stationary position while men move from one seat to the next, are more selective than when they are the ones moving from seat to seat. Defenses are up, automatically when they're in the "power position".
/r/seduction09/02/12 05:27 PM
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Yeah, but then he texted her, and set up a date.
/r/seduction18/01/12 03:23 AM
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BAM! WTG!
/r/seduction18/01/12 03:22 AM
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Find someone that you feel is socially how you want to be, and then "fake it till ya make it". Pretend you're him. Respond to anything like he would, do what he would, and have no fear.
/r/seduction17/01/12 09:40 PM
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There are levels of alpha. You don't have to be THAT alpha, but you do have to be a leader in the relationship, or forever be cuckolded.
/r/seduction17/01/12 05:23 PM
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This blog is dedicated to the eternal use of game, to maintain a long term relationship. This particular blog post, sums up game, regardless. It's about being the dominant male, in the relationship. Being dominant starts at the approach. You won't be submissive when it comes to the power of her attraction, or sex appeal, now, or ever. And that's just the beginning.
/r/seduction16/01/12 01:52 PM
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Debatable. (I should have said "Primates" instead of Chimps": All the males in a community (group of chimpanzees that live in an area of forest though they don't always all travel together) will mate with each female when she is fertile. This way, any of them could be the offspring's father so none of them will kill the infant. The more dominant males tend to mate the closest to ovulation and therefore they father most of the babies. link "male gorillas, after all, are happily polygynous, mating…
/r/seduction15/01/12 03:43 AM
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Ridicule all ya want, then go spank it to porn, while anyone following my advice gets knee deep in pussy.
/r/seduction14/01/12 06:30 PM
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Way WAY off. It's in the nature of the whole of the animal kingdom, to propagate the species, so that it will evolve into a higher, stronger form. In 2 legged mammal world, that means there is an inherent desire to have sex with the alpha male. The most alpha among chimps, is the pack leader. He can get any female he wants. There's no law of civility, when the pack leader is horny, he TAKES the pussy. The reason why he doesn't tear up the female, is that because she gets wet, by his sheer alphan…
/r/seduction14/01/12 05:50 PM
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IMO Game is about dating higher than yourself.
/r/seduction12/01/12 09:43 PM
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Make a business card: Ear Wigy, Esquire First Date Enterprises President of Awesomeness Dept 555-555-5555 Call after your shift. And give it to her
/r/seduction12/01/12 07:45 PM
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Game is only necessary for your sexual market value equal, or higher. If you're a 7, and want another 7 ... or an 8, 9, or 10, then you need game. Strauss outlines a step by step approach in his book, follow it to the letter. On the other hand, a 7 doesn't need much game, if any, for a 6 and below .. other than maybe a simple approach. If you're a 7 or higher, just get your ass out, to social places. Start with Starbucks, and work your way up.
/r/seduction12/01/12 06:17 PM
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The post is making the accusation that the way the nice guy treated the girl, was an act, just to get in her pants. I say it wasn't. The guy was being as nice as he would be, regardless, and just didn't have the balls to make a move. Or, he made a move and got the "it would ruin our friendship" speech (which essentially, is the true definition of being friendzoned)
/r/seduction12/01/12 04:41 AM
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Well, yeah. After being friendzoned enough as a teen, we all learn not to waist time. But if we've deemed someone a friend, that's female, there's not difference in how you treat them, is there?
/r/seduction12/01/12 03:46 AM
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Yeah .. ask ANY guy that's been friendzoned, how that went for him. He got the b.s. line of "I don't want to mess up the friendship", or "you're like a brother to me". Guaran-damn-tee if he was more confident (even if faked), and more aloof, her panties would be in a ball beside his bed.
/r/seduction12/01/12 03:37 AM
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Where does make up fall in to those labels? Nail polish? Eye lash curlers? Seddit is maximizing your strengths, in order to initiate a response, much like getting wart removed, to maximize the strength of your beauty. The comic is bullshit too ... the guy is being himself, but spending time with the girl, because of how well they click, and his attraction to her. To her, the guy is a great confidante, a lot of fun, but sexually, she's not attracted. If the guy stopped kissing her ass, exuded mor…
/r/seduction12/01/12 01:50 AM
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Game will work, of course, but it's a bit easier, for girls over 30. If she's never been married, she's scouting hard for a man, and she's a bit more desperate. They don't need to be negged too hard. If she's been married before, and has no kids, you barely need to game. Just don't be a pushover, and pass the shit tests as they come (although they'll be few). Over 30 and has kids, just say "hi".
/r/seduction11/01/12 06:11 PM
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"I'm charming, too"
/r/seduction30/12/11 01:15 PM
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