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Last submitted post here! Just saw we're getting locked. I'm not going to migrate, so thank you for the great convos and lessons everyone. Stay safe ✌️
/r/askTRP23/06/21 03:40 AM
3

It's always your fault. At least your eyes have been opened now.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:43 AM
1

So gross.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:33 PM
1

What do you mean by "good core"? If the core was good, there wouldn't be any significant problems. Post to married RP, most people on this sub (myself included) won't have answers for you.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 12:52 AM
0

What makes you say that?
/r/askTRP19/06/21 03:19 AM
0

Of course, Asian girls will do anything to be with white guys. That's what makes it so repulsive to me. They're the only race to date more frequently outside of their race than within. Likely a mixture of self-hatred and disgust for Asian guys.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 03:12 AM
7

No, it's not rigged against you. This was a comment of mine from a couple weeks ago to someone like you: Tinder (and I suspect Hinge) has algorithms that give you a desirability score. Based on number of right swipes to left swipes you receive, your attached Instagram profile, etc. you are rated and this is your ELO score. It can fluctuate a little at the beginning but generally stays the same during your time on the app. Your ELO score determines which people you see on the app. If you are a 75…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:28 PM
-4

Your question? Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:05 PM
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Told me to kill myself, then spouted something else I can't remember after.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 07:11 PM
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Is it better to just look for foreign women at this point, considering a plain, slim 5/10 American woman has thousands of orbiters she's swatting away and she has the luxury of holding out for that 6'3, 9/10 Chad? Blackpill. Reported, enjoy your ban. You can go hang with the guys at MGTOW.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:41 PM
2

Sweet! What kind of job on the street?
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:49 AM
0

u/TRPCops, angsty teen here needs a vacation.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 09:19 PM
-3

Your fault for telling her you're a virgin. What do you want us to say? This isn't even a question. Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:21 PM
2

I can't take overweight people seriously. If you don't have enough respect for your own body and health, you surely can't have respect for the work and ideas you produce. Welcome to the sub. Read the sidebar, get out of this marriage and best of luck ahead.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:20 PM
3

Not going to read this essay about one girl. She's not yours, it's just your turn -- and the second half of this doesn't apply because you're not even with her. Reported, digest the sidebar during your ban.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 10:31 PM
6

For you, yes.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 10:30 PM
1

You don't have a high SMV.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 10:29 PM
2

Don't put all the blame on them. A girl won't leave if she doesn't have better options. OP failed multiple times to be that guy.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 03:49 AM
2

Sweet, and no problem man. Might be in Toronto in the fall, let me know if you'd like to grab drinks sometime! Cheers.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:47 PM
0

Not looking for a debate man. I'm a Canadian guy, same age, and was interested in hearing about the problem you're experiencing because I don't know much about firearms myself. Would recommend you reach out to immigration lawyers and see what they suggest.. especially with COVID it's not so easy to pack up your bags and book the next flight to Texas or Florida. Best of luck mate! PS -- if you do stay, check out the PPC. You may find more of their values/platform aligns with yours versus the Libe…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:10 PM
-2

When have firearm-owning citizens been harassed in Canada?
/r/askTRP12/06/21 08:59 PM
-4

19 year old guy who has no game, doesn't get approached by girls, and a random woman on the street starts chatting him up. Yeah, don't think so. At best a hooker looking for an unsuspecting virgin (hey OP!) but otherwise, this would never happen and didn't happen. Sorry to burst people's fantasies.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 08:15 PM
1

Your question? Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 04:44 PM
1

Are you gay or asexual? If no, then stop lying to yourself and everyone here.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 04:38 PM
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Yeah, this never happened. Reported, enjoy your ban. At least you'll have time to write more fiction.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 04:33 PM
1

? this is playful. Most high quality girls wouldn't even mention anything about sleeping with them. Would much rather converse with this girl than a stuck-up girl who gives one-word replies.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 04:32 PM
1

You didn't polarize and escalate quickly enough. If you haven't already, establish touch quickly, throw in a couple sexual innuendos/teases along the way and at the very minimum, end with a kiss on the first date. If logistics allow, you really should be trying to f-close assuming you're still interested.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 05:26 AM
3

What does their atractiveness and hair colour have to do with anything?
/r/askTRP11/06/21 04:11 PM
1

Here's my reply: don't name yourself alpha on the come up when you post three times in one day about a girl. Delete your post, read the sidebar and come back after, instead of taking and not giving anything to the community. u/TRPCops, OP could use a nice vacation to do some studying.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 05:01 AM
2

I definitely have to also, man. Just haven't found the right camera (or moments) to take new ones yet. Good luck!
/r/askTRP11/06/21 03:23 AM
1

Pathetic. You're white and can't even get with white girls, so you complain about them and put Asian women on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 02:58 AM
3

Tinder (and I suspect Hinge) has algorithms that give you a desirability score. Based on number of right swipes to left swipes you receive, your attached Instagram profile, etc. you are rated and this is your ELO score. It can fluctuate a little at the beginning but generally stays the same during your time on the app. Your ELO score determines which people you see on the app. If you are a 75, you'll see girls who are 60s-80s, with maybe the odd 90 thrown in. What this all means is that you are …
/r/askTRP11/06/21 02:55 AM
3

If Hinge is anything like Tinder, everyone has an ELO score and is shown cards that match their perceived attractiveness/desirability.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 01:59 AM
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Your question? Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 01:57 AM
1

I don't think oral is necessary. I would go down for certain girls but all of the girls I've been with have given me head a) without me asking and b) not requiring me to do the same for them. I did get a couple that were surprised I don't really give oral, and they eventually left, but it is what it is. I don't agree with the guy in the video about 'submitting to' and pleasuring a woman. Giving head is one way of pleasuring and I think it's really hot to give a girl the time of her life, especia…
/r/askTRP06/06/21 06:03 PM
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Using the words 'beta' or 'alpha' mean they have a) had to read PUA/TRP-type things online, because they were never naturally 'alpha' from young and b) are retarded enough to use it in daily conversation.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:29 PM
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The dude that invited me even called out “that’s some beta behaviour” at one thing. Cringe. Let me guess, these guys need to wear expensive clothes, drive expensive cars and go to expensive clubs to consider themselves 'high value'. Would never associate with men like this but you do you.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:27 PM
2

Damn you are insecure. How did you even get a GF?
/r/askTRP23/05/21 01:59 AM
1

10-12.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 11:43 PM
4

"Chad" is a mindset, not a person. Also would not recommend FDS sub, not representative of girls you'd actually date IRL and none of them would ever get with a "Chad". Think about it... how many 8's and above even know what Reddit is?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 11:41 PM
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Fewer than 40 followers? Use it for your own pleasure but that account is not going to help you at all.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 12:21 PM
2

No, I don't agree. You can provide excitement in many simple ways that don't even involve $.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:43 AM
0

Hamster spins for OP. Lol. She'll gladly fuck another better guy. Probably already has.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 02:30 AM
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The only one that sounds rude here is you. Its always the fucking average or below average girls too. Fucking fatties and plain Janes. Ffs man. Speaking like a twelve year old isn't going to help you get with girls. Edit: from your post history: "20m here. First year of uni, moved into student halls. Haven't made any friends, don't get along with my flatmates, and failed some of my modules on my course so I'll probably have to resit the entire 1st year of uni" As predicted. The problem isn't her…
/r/askTRP16/05/21 05:55 PM
1

basically FWB resembles LTR but without commitment/demanding bullshit. you invite them to do stuff with you. So dating in other words. Having an LTR doesn't mean there's commitment bullshit. You set the rules.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 08:00 PM
1

Your question? Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 05:15 PM
1

You don't initiate sex, they do.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:39 PM
1

The pt is that they're not high value.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 11:43 AM
2

Pareto principle. Give or take a few percent and yep, you're right.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 04:41 AM
-7

Your question? Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 11:47 PM
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Dating apps are a waste of time. Always said by the people that can't get matches. OP, your choice whether you listen to people who deride apps or use them to get with girls.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 08:32 PM
2

Your question? Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 08:32 PM
4

You're in India, yes? Have you looked around and seen what's going on before trying to approach girls? Get real man.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 03:32 PM
1

This is so gross. And I thought I had seen a couple sketch girls in the past. Don't fuck crazy (and unattractive).
/r/askTRP07/05/21 08:53 PM
2

Bogart.. what a guy. Watched The Maltese Falcon and Casablanca a couple summers ago. They don't make 'em like that anymore.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 06:41 PM
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I like Curb Your Enthusiasm. LD is the epitome of saying what you think and not giving a fuck. I also happen to really appreciate the show's humour. Scale that back a several degrees and you're good to go. Read, follow the latest trends and find out what makes you 'tick' (in my case, I love sarcasm).
/r/askTRP01/05/21 06:40 PM
1

( I don't particularly enjoy putting numbers on people, but you get the drift) ? You just did. what's the red pill take? Marry whoever you'd like to.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 05:38 PM
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Your question? Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 05:37 PM
-1

You're exactly right. Not only a stupid question Valid question, but a stupid reply by him to deflect and blame something (Reddit search) which is working completely fine. I didn't go to college and have been working ever since Blaming. most of my friend groups have broken up and it looks like I'm going to be breaking up with an LTR of 3 years really soon Blaming. Like sheesh, take some responsibility. People hate whiners.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 01:01 AM
1

BC here. It's awful mate, I feel ya. Seems we're somehow in a worse position after the fifth (?) lockdown compared to last spring.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 12:56 AM
1

It's already been removed so I can't. Don't drive for girls that aren't worth it. They should be coming to you. Good luck.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 06:14 PM
1

Dated a 22 year old Cuban girl So? AWALT. Reported for breaking rule 1, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 06:13 PM
1

In a way you're right. The tenets are valuable but many of the posts you see are borderline autistic. The 'top' posts in this sub and the regular one are gems, along with the sidebar, and they are all you need. I don't get why you're being downvoted. "IDGAF" means exactly that. Many people here are still in what's known as the 'angry phase'.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 06:12 PM
0

Your question? Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 06:10 PM
2

You're barely getting sleep? You're failing.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:36 PM
9

You didn't hook up if you didn't have sex. Move on.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 06:25 AM
3

Maybe means no.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:53 AM
5

Yep. Don't give this girl another minute of your time, let alone a week.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 01:33 AM
4

I've converted probably 80-90% of cold approaches to dates. Pretty low wrt hook ups / plates (like so far sub-20%) because I didn't end up finding some of them attractive & had more success from Tinder and clubs.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 04:25 AM
1

Gross post. I don't know who the heck you think you are, but it certainly didn't warrant randomly shitting on a fat girl.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:14 PM
1

I cold approach pretty frequently. At least I did in college before Covid hit, since I'm now stuck at home. I think we have similar mindsets, I just go about it slightly differently. I maintain a "IDGAF" mindset and keep it casual. Thinking I'm better than the other guys approaching her, of which there are few, helps boost my confidence a little, but it mainly stems from doing lots of cold approaches over time.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 02:25 PM
3

I think we have different numbers. I'm in college and I doubt more than 5 guys in an entire school year, during the day and without alcohol, ask out even the 8s and 9s. It's too scary for even a lot of the top guys. I also just assume, almost delusionally, that my game is better than any of theirs. So I really never think about other guys and I go in thinking she'll fall for me.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 10:24 PM
3

Go out with the goal of getting rejected, How come you'd do this? I always think that I'm at least good enough, and realistically better than any other guy because none of them can cold approach.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 10:10 PM
1

$300/hr? What job is paying that?
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:46 PM
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Your question? Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:45 PM
1

Brother, who told you to marry someone older? Were you not aware of the SMV curve? Even same age couples present enough issues on its own already. She could be one month older, we didn't know from the OP. What's the big deal? Your SMV goes though the roof at 40 If you still look good and have high status, yes. Again, we don't have enough information to conclude anything about the OP, and electrical engineering isn't exactly a sexy job.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:32 AM
2

Not you, someone else posted almost verbatim the same question a couple of days ago. Go search the sub, maybe you'll find some other answers there.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:13 AM
-1

You're welcome mate 🤘
/r/askTRP04/04/21 10:45 PM
-1

That's his problem, not mine.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 10:44 PM
-16

Repost from 2-3 days ago. Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 09:03 PM
1

I haven't noticed any demographic changes in my area, so if that's been the case then fine. Look, take up your antagonisms with the app developers, not me. The bottom line is that you think you're more attractive than you are and your lack of matches proves it. Calling me a retard or spouting nonsense about criticizing Tinder doesn't improve your situation, it only reveals your immaturity.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 04:48 AM
1

Lower your body fat, take better pics and improve your bio. Apart from that, don't use it. It's not made for everyone and that's okay.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 03:57 AM
-2

How has it been turning to garbage? It works the same as it did years ago and if anything, the user base has only grown. I don't understand why guys who don't get matches always bitch on here and blame others. It's really childish. Either become attractive enough to use online dating apps or cold approach. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 11:46 PM
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Eh, I'd disagree. Every girl wants a cheat meal and gets horny. Been out with a couple girls who legit modelled, solid 8s, tall and slender, great fashion sense and obviously rich. They're few and far between sometimes but they're there.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 07:51 PM
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A whole essay about one girl? Delete your account because you are nowhere near being that username and spend a good couple of days reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 03:17 PM
1

Top 0.01% by annual income or net worth? What do you do and how did you get your start?
/r/askTRP03/04/21 02:05 AM
1

As a 22 year old, disagree also. The 20s are a time to build your career, invest and learn to be responsible so you can set up your 30s and 40s well.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 02:03 AM
3

Yeah, I read the post. I don't get why you would include your home address in the first place, but if you do, most people would put something fictitious that's sensible. This resume reads like a twelve year old posted it. I'm surprised people were willing to actually help you.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 12:55 AM
1

What the heck is this? Handjob Lane? Seems like you don't take this seriously at all.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 12:40 AM
0

Right? She's an entrepreneur. This is what capitalism is all about... I'm confused because I thought trp leaned that way. Guess not.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 10:24 PM
-7

Reported for violating rule 1. Enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:21 PM
3

You're exactly correct, I misspoke when I said he was a 'role model'.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 04:18 PM
-2

You're right, I'm lost on why I see his name seemingly every few days on this sub. I think we can have better role models than some fat, inarticulate guy who barely lived until 40.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 03:56 PM
17

Lol at that point I'd abandon because you'd be fucking someone really crazy.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 06:25 AM
1

True. They will do favours for you and come to you. It's always effortless and so easy to tell.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 06:24 AM
-18

Cringe
/r/askTRP02/04/21 06:23 AM
1

If you're actually a prize, why would she want to leave you? Reported for spam.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 02:46 AM
1

Reported for repost. Read the sidebar during your ban.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 04:12 PM
0

OP doesn't have a high SMV if he's asking these types of questions. I reported this post as trolling.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 04:05 PM
2

You're absolutely right. Not sure what went into that decision but it was nonsensical.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:59 PM
-2

You really thought it was sensible to ask this sort of question in askTRP and not with members in the medical community... wow. That level of critical thinking is legitimately scary.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:59 PM
3

Right? Like who gives a shit about these guys anyway. More women for us :)
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:32 AM
1

Can't say your age for privacy reasons? What? I'm 22, go find out who I am right now. Stupid...
/r/askTRP17/03/21 11:58 PM
1

You don't.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 04:14 PM
1

Your question? Reported, take a read of the sidebar during your vacation. u/trpcops
/r/askTRP15/03/21 05:10 AM
2

Maybe is always no. Move on.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 05:22 PM
1

Sweet! I'm in engineering, sent ya a PM.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 05:21 PM
1

Ah you're down under mate? I'm in Canada.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 06:27 AM
1

In whose name? Michael in chains?
/r/askTRP14/03/21 04:55 AM
1

"Hb9" who is desperate enough to like your IG photos. Yeah, no.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 04:54 AM
0

(Former) swimmer here too, man. Barring you're sub 5'3 or something, height doesn't matter. Seen way too many guys shorter than me pull girls I've wanted at clubs.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 04:53 AM
1

Lol me too man. Don't you have finals rn?
/r/askTRP14/03/21 03:11 AM
2

And I’m not one to really give a shit how strangers decide to live their lives, but I have noticed that men get called out for being losers all the time, while women almost never do. You don't give a shit, yet you wrote out multiple paragraphs about this and posted this same topic in another sub? I hate when people say things like this, "that being said," etc.. Just say what you mean and don't hide behind words to make yourself appear faultless. in fact, they’re frequently referred to as queens.…
/r/askTRP13/03/21 11:46 PM
1

I don't think you don't have to. If you're high value enough and can say it confidently, there's nothing wrong with saying it.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 11:44 PM
1

Are you in college right now?
/r/askTRP13/03/21 11:43 PM
1

If you're not 100% against it, how come you would get a vasectomy? Talk about fucking yourself up before you're even of age to make that decision. How about getting your sperm saved at a bank and rethinking about this question when you're in your mid-late 20s?
/r/askTRP13/03/21 05:50 AM
1

You're weird if you're unattractive. You're mysterious if you're attractive. See which you are, and adjust accordingly.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 05:47 AM
1

You married; you never "took the red pill".
/r/askTRP12/03/21 05:11 AM
0

At this point this is spam; question has already been asked and answered. Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 04:16 AM
2

Who gives a shit about nudes? Have sex, don't fap to photos she send to five other guys.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 01:52 AM
8

Leave without saying anything. I would say that she deserves that, but you're also at fault for letting it get to this state. Reread the sidebar and go meet some other women.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:18 PM
0

Your question? Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 05:27 PM
6

If you actually digest RP, I don't think girls there would realize them because they're positives you've ingrained into your daily habits (setting boundaries, leading, etc.). Guys (mis)using RP strategies and things like negging are probably the types they've encountered.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 12:50 AM
2

For sure that makes sense. And thanks mate! Cheers.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 07:32 PM
1

Talking about sex is the least sexy thing Not if you have high SMV. On Tinder (and in person) though, most guys don't.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 07:28 PM
1

Buy higher grade plates.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 07:27 PM
1

Damn you are a narc. I would be very uncomfortable with any of my "friends" sharing our personal texts to an online, anonymous community. This whole post reeks of creepiness so it's no surprise she's cheating on you.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 07:25 PM
1

Not a question. Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 07:24 PM
3

Can someone explain to me what the point of that is? You should've asked her!
/r/askTRP23/01/21 01:25 AM
3

It's over. Had this happen to me before, you either didn't satisfy her enough or she found someone better. Move on for your own sake.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 08:52 PM
1

That is a you problem.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 05:50 AM
3

Please tell that to all the Turkish people who are invading Greece like parasites.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 02:17 AM
3

You know, that's a good point. I always looked at it from my end (meaning obviously there can be no attraction from me at times), but in those instances, there's a solid likelihood that the girl on the receiving end may like me. It's happened numerous times before, anyway. In this case, the girl is actually being manipulative in remaining in contact without expressing her true intent. Meanwhile, the guy's social proof will likely decrease. There is no benefit, unless someone is getting help on s…
/r/askTRP15/01/21 09:41 PM
2

How do EC or general contributors have time to post? ? Wdym? Everyone has free time in their day, let alone every week. Why wouldn't they (we) have time to post?
/r/askTRP11/01/21 12:40 AM
1

Fuck... if she's doing this at 14 she's been doing this since she was 12 or 13. No lie when they say our generation is the most libertine. Well anyway, have fun mate. I'd love to have known this stuff when I was in my mid-teens.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 08:19 AM
19

All women can be easy. AWALT.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 07:59 PM
3

I wasn't referring to talking about TRP if that's what you were meaning. I was more so referring to politics, etc.. I wouldn't bother but it sounds like OP wanted to get all of this off his chest.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 11:24 PM
2

If they're actually trying to start a fight or bully you, then punch one of them in the face. What does that achieve? You think OP could knock any of them out? He'll be labeled a freak because he already has low SMV and be ostracized.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 10:12 PM
1

And my bad, only now realized you're not in the US. My points still remain.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 09:34 PM
5

You talked about an 'extremely liberal college', feminisms, coyboys, simps, minority rights, etc.. If you're not conservative, what are you? Some lying snake in the grass moderate? Don't sugercoat things. I'm a conservative who is upset about a lot of those things, too. I don't talk politics around girls and only do around my best friend, who leans right like I do. Girls will not me-too you or leak your texts if you tread carefully. For one, what would you be sending over text to be worried abou…
/r/askTRP08/01/21 09:30 PM
1

Yeah, no. Stop spouting bullshit. Unless you are at a place like Reed (which would then be your own fault), all schools from Ole Miss to the Harvard's of the world have conservative enclaves. You aren't silenced, you aren't isolated, and the campuses are definitely not full of soyboys or simps. I have cold approached and fucked girls, and never had a me-too. You know why? Because I don't put myself in that position. I don't go out with crazy and I don't leave myself in vulnerable situations. Par…
/r/askTRP08/01/21 08:35 PM
11

"8.5" lol. Don't think that's worth it, maybe if she was an 8.75 though.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 09:08 PM
1

You need to set boundaries and not be afraid of controversy (eg. telling someone off if you disagree with them / they do something you don't like). Takes practice and isn't easy to do at first.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 05:56 AM
0

No. Is this even possible for men below 7 or 8 out of 10 in looks? Non white guys? Yes and yes.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 03:09 AM
1

"Alpha" women can be great if you know how to lead. Few guys do and that's why they're used to taking command.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 09:45 PM
1

Sent.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:11 PM
1

Yeah my point was that they aren't really alphas. I guess it still looks like AMOGing in the moment though.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 12:21 AM
2

I DM'ed you because I think linking to other subs gets comments removed here. Cheers man.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:16 PM
2

Don't really get the stop hand sign and what it's doing... why not just wave and when they get close by start talking? Anyhow I love cold approaching in the daytime so I'll try this out sometime, cheers.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/21 08:21 PM
1

Not sure if this is in the sidebar, but Mike Haines' post in the main sub (#2 highest post of all time) is absolute gold. I was probably flabbergasted when I first read it since that was pretty early on in my journey, but everything about it rings so true to me even to this day. Too bad he stopped posting because he provided some really valuable insight.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 08:17 PM
0

Well yeah that's unfortunately a them problem and not you. Lots of white girls in college think it's fun to be crazy, take drugs and experience BBC and so on. Of course it turns guys like me off and it might turn you off, too. Some good white girls out there for sure still. Let me just say that as someone who grew up with an Asian mom you might think they're more submissive, subservient, etc. but they can be extremely controlling and scary at times. Buyer beware.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 07:43 PM
1

No, I have more self-respect for myself than that.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 07:35 PM
1

White women are so much better looking and I'm fucking jealous of you man. I'm half white, half asian myself. Of course I find girls my race somewhat attractive, but white women are the pinnacle of beauty worldwide. I don't date them because I figure white guys should. And to be honest with you, the only white guys I know that go for Asian girls are ones who I think don't have the balls/game to get with white women.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 07:32 PM
1

Dude. You are white. Why would you want to get with Asian girls?
/r/askTRP05/01/21 07:29 PM
2

I don't lift so if that's your reason fine. I'm saying ideally you're doing it for your own health and girls come along the way.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 07:08 PM
2

Dude, get your head out of the sand. The average Joe knows SWEs make good money. Anyone who doesn't know that isn't worth your time. But no, I wouldn't consider it a turn on. Might help for girls looking to settle down but that's about it.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 07:06 PM
0

Agree and amplify or ignore. Though guys who are actually "alpha" wouldn't be insulting you without reason in the first place. They don't have time for that. The guys who do are 'fake alphas" and who gives a shit about them.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 07:05 PM
5

Okay, maybe it matters a little, so you got me there. But I think its impact is overstated on this sub. Seen way too many guys with either dad bods or stick figures (I'm 21 for reference) be popular with girls at frats and so on. I'm into cycling and I'm planning to drop to 155ish at around 6' tall... don't think it'll affect my dating at all. Personality matters way more.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 06:09 AM
4

It's really a great read Eh, I found it the most annoying book I've ever read in my life. Absolutely hated the tone and writing style.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 05:52 AM
0

It doesn't matter at all. Your physique should make you proud, not anyone else.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 05:45 AM
3

One other thing to add is that you might be coming off as desperate, of course it's hard to ascertain because I have no idea what your interactions look like. When I approach, of course I'm attracted to said girl but I also wanna find out more about her. The 'chasing' phase is actually the most fun for me because once I know that she's into me (can tell within a few minutes of our interaction), it's easy mode from there. Be curious, have fun and go with the flow with no expectations.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 08:42 PM
5

Okay I read a couple same and similar books so that's fine. Yeah I mean from what you've written mate it sounds like you've got everything down pat. Usually when I approach I start off by shaking their hand while introducing myself... I've seen guys here say not to do that (and I guess it'd be even more unusual since I'm also 20-21 yrs old) but I feel that it's a great way to establish a touch connection within the first five seconds of meeting. I also tend to be pretty sarcastic so I'll tease a…
/r/askTRP04/01/21 08:38 PM
6

No, I'm not Chad. I like to think I'm pretty good with texting and cold approach, but for some reason I'm usually out of my element at bars/clubs which is where the majority of action in college happens as you know. I get with girls but they're 6s and 7s, not 8s and above. I'm also not white so my dating pool is a little more restricted, it's just how things are. What stuff have you read? How are conversations going when you approach girls? I think more details would be helpful.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 07:53 PM
9

You are either lying about your appearance or are really socially impaired. 100 approaches and you couldn't get some dates? I'm not even white, 5'11 and close to every girl I approach I get a number and meet up with. You should also know that girls at our age don't give a shit about your university or internships. Please, read the sidebar, work on what you're messing up and report back. Women around me think im a player, but they dont give me action This also doesn't make any sense. The definiti…
/r/askTRP04/01/21 07:47 PM
1

given you can’t out-alpha everyone? Cringe.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 07:37 PM
1

Guys really don't read the sidebar anymore, do they?
/r/askTRP04/01/21 07:35 PM
1

Someone made it seem like I (and/or another user) was forcing OP to not follow those types of accounts. I wanted to clarify that I wasn't.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:56 AM
8

You weren't talking to me, but I'll give my reason. I'm not proud to be here. I like many guys found TRP because I didn't have a strong father figure, brother figure or even friend to teach me this stuff growing up. I wish I did, but I didn't. Some posts here have been gems and indispendable in helping me realize things I was doing wrong. Over the last year or two I haven't needed the sub as much and I hope to leave with enough internalized knowledge soon. Kudos to him if he actually has an IG a…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 12:33 AM
49

You're the cringe one for following that stuff on Instagram.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 10:51 PM
1

Yeah I know how you feel man. Stopped watching CFB, NFL and NBA for all those reasons and only watch a couple sports now. Don't really watch the TV anyways since I prefer following the markets and news via newspaper (WSJ and NR).
/r/askTRP28/12/20 10:14 PM
1

(men and women aren’t the same in this respect) Says who? I think you're making this more complicated than it needs to be. If you want to go on the trip, go. She's not going on any trip so why worry about a what-if?
/r/askTRP28/12/20 10:09 PM
1

So you're allowed to go on a trip with your friends but she isn't? Listen to yourself man, how is that fair?
/r/askTRP28/12/20 09:16 PM
1

Never had anything beyond a plate/FWB so can't comment on that but my point remains, there are definitely worthy girls out there. I'm up in Canada and would have dated a few girls I asked out had I not fucked up our first dates. I usually have a few red flag factors I keep in the back of my mind and as long those aren't raised I'd be fine dating, I'm only in my early 20s so we're not marrying or anything. I only get with white and hapa girls. I'd love to stay within my race and data hapas though…
/r/askTRP28/12/20 01:37 AM
1

First of all I'm WMAF so if you're ever down to chat about dating experiences or life in general hmu man! And second I can see what people are talking about here but there are "still" tons of hot, fit and nice girls out here. It's all about wading through some of the unattractive ones and asking out the keepers. Let's just say that in any big city or college campus you'll have more than your fair share of women.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 01:20 AM
1

You okay mate? From a fellow 'retard', 'loser', etc., the guy you were conversing with has been pretty respectful in his replies. Happy holidays and hope you treat others with a little more respect. It goes a long way.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 11:31 PM
0

Why would you want to browse other ones? All the main points are already here. You should also be aiming to get off of sites like these. That's when you know you've internalized everything.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 11:29 PM
2

This is cringe af. You're in high school mate... stop worrying about kino, shit tests, etc. and just go with the flow.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 11:27 PM
14

She didn't reject you for your height. She rejected you because you weren't good enough for other reasons. Height was a place-filler.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 11:23 PM
0

Yeah, no they're not. Stop making shit up. This also isn't even a question so enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 11:21 PM
2

You're a needy misogynist who does things not for himself but for women and you expect them to like you? Get real.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 05:42 AM
1

Maybe I should've put that in quotes. I didn't mean that they would actually be the love of their lives. And yeah man, you've asked me that twice. I know where I am. Just don't delete your comment like you did the last. Cheers.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 04:28 AM
0

If you know you don't want kids, by all means get the vasectomy. That's the key thing. I think a lot of young guys (under 30) see a vasectomy as an end-all-be-all, and then have regrets once they meet the love of their lives in their mid 30s. You've really got to be certain of what you're doing because there's no way in hell I'd do a reverse surgery.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 10:48 PM
4

I don't think so mate. I'm not you so if that's really been the case, you haven't been finding high quality black women. I'd suggest focusing on your education, getting fit and approaching more women. Get things like 'pro athlete' or 'criminal' out of your mind because unless you're really young, none of that stuff is (or should be) happening.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 10:46 PM
5

Black women seem to hate (black) men that aren’t pro athletes, rappers, or gang members. Yeah... no. It's black guys who are dating outside of their race. Just be normal, don't be a mischief to society and date a nice black girl.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 10:42 PM
1

What are you trying to prove?
/r/askTRP26/12/20 10:28 PM
-2

Bros don’t read much of the side bar So we're planning to spoonfeed them like children? Either read and digest the sidebar or GTFO. This isn't quantum physics; the "concepts" are very easy to understand. Implementing them is what can be difficult at times.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 07:26 AM
-2

Who are you to decide the top 3 questions? And this sub is strictly for questions so if you're planning to post articles, prepare to get banned. Happy holidays!
/r/askTRP26/12/20 07:24 AM
8

Using condoms is blue pill. Lol okay mate.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 07:59 AM
1

Cost of a box of condoms: $15 👍
/r/askTRP25/12/20 07:47 AM
3

Guys can, but you probably won't judging from your posting history. Stop asking questions and/or reading and start doing.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 10:40 PM
1

Think about how many guys women string along for their own benefit. We're men. We're better than that, or we might as well coin 'AMALT'. Be upfront about your intentions if they ask and if they don't like it, move on. What's the point of hiding things? You scared of her retaliating?
/r/askTRP23/12/20 07:31 AM
1

I lied to her saying that I’ll smash her exclusively Why are you scared of being upfront? Stop being a bitch and tell her if it really eats away at you. If she leaves, find someone else.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 07:29 AM
2

I never assume they're not interested. You assume interest until proven otherwise.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 10:31 PM
0

Not sure what's with the downvotes... having to hire hookers is pretty beta. It means that instead of attracting a girl on your own, you need to pay them to fuck. Can't get a lot lower than that.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 03:56 AM
1

I don't think it's morally wrong, though I don't get why any guy here (or in general) would resort to this. To me it's giving up. Improve yourself and you should be able to get with women.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 03:55 AM
2

West coast here man!
/r/askTRP22/12/20 03:53 AM
3

Take it slow. The only first dates I failed were those I didn't f-close.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:08 AM
3

"Ughh I'm so busy lately" So true. Went on a date with a hottie, fucked it up, she texted that to me after and that same day I saw her on Tinder. Girls will make time for guys they like.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:07 AM
1

? If you're on a date with her, she likes you. You don't need to worry about other guys. Tell her you're the best thing ever that'll happen to her and escalate.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 06:27 PM
1

Really stupid. I can't imagine waking up in your 50s and realizing you never fucked the hot girls of your late teens to twenties, and resigned yourself to [potentially] one woman your entire life, assuming you're married.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 07:18 PM
1

Why don't you both just get a proper massage together?
/r/askTRP15/12/20 07:11 PM
1

Your guy friends or family.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 09:25 PM
1

Looks like this covid shit is here to stay. Says who? Vaccines are rolling out, I'm pretty optimistic the fall will be looking good. Tinder is shit. That's your problem. Lots of people open to meeting up right now, especially when everyone's horny. Honestly this shit sometimes makes me slightly suicidal. See a psychologist. You need to be comfortable with yourself before you can really attract others. Right now your whining will get you nowhere.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 09:24 PM
1

Fake it til you make it.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 06:31 PM
3

Fucking lucky. I wanted to go to a cougar bar with my buds this fall and of course Covid happened (and the bar shuttered). I'm 21, too. Go for it dude!
/r/askTRP04/12/20 11:12 PM
1

Who said that fat chicks are fun? I've only heard they give good head.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:56 PM
11

You tell her to join you to do x activity. Or just tell her to come over and watch a movie. If they're still being bitchy then I next and chat someone else up.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:55 PM
1

It's bad of her to do that. Her actions don't even deserve a reply. Walk out and don't talk again. Save yourself the trouble of crafting a text message!
/r/askTRP14/11/20 07:43 PM
2

You need to reread the sidebar. This: mainly because I am focused on my career and don’t really care too much about getting multiple women at this stage of my life. is not incompatible with being 'red pill' or 'maroon pill' or whatever you want to call it.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 07:41 PM
1

What I don't get is why you are so invested in a FWB. FWB by definition means the relationship is not closed and you only use each other for sex. This situation doesn't even warrant a post in my mind. You asked for our thoughts, I gave you mine. Chin up, not everyone has to agree with what you did. And if you want everyone to or otherwise you'll lash out like a child, why make the post?
/r/askTRP14/11/20 07:29 PM
1

Why do you have to tell her anything? Just leave. What you did was just petty, and I bet you didn't even meet up with any friends that night.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 06:57 PM
0

Equating a woman with a burger... lol. Gotta love this sub.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 06:54 PM
1

Dude, she's a FWB. You don't own any girl. He was a dick, not her, and you're taking out your anger on her like a petulant child. Also, your story doesn't check out. One line: We take her back to a hotel to sober up Few lines later: immediately grab her to start kissing her. She is 100% black out drunk and does not know what the fuck is going on. What the fuck are you doing? You let an inebriated girl get sexually assaulted, then dump her? The sidebar is that way --> (and PS, you probably want t…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 06:53 PM
1

I have bad pics and get matches and dates. Girls can tell when you're attractive or not.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 11:48 PM
0

Tinder is all about looks. If you can't do Tinder well, it means you're unattractive. At least I have the guts to say it and be real with him rather than coddle & pretend to deny it.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 08:52 PM
0

It sounds like you're unattractive because dating apps don't work, so yes, approaching is your best bet. Depending on how you look and act, street approach may be too gutsy so as someone else alluded to, approaching at clubs/activities you're part of, or at bars, may be more successful.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 07:16 PM
2

If she agreed to meet up a second time, whatever you did before was good enough. Keep doing what you're doing, relax and have fun. Sex isn't like a test, where you can cram "studying" for two days before it happens.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:33 PM
1

And what does this ivy league thing have to do with anything? It doesn't, they just wanted an ego boost to compensate for how pathetic their love life is.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:30 PM
1

The fuck is this? Do people at Ivy Leagues have their own higher tier of dating standards and protocols compared to us uncouth, benighted folk? Who the heck do you think you are?
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:29 PM
2

Confirm a time then radio silence until day of. "See you at __ tonight."
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:27 PM
1

ethnocentric meaning only wanting men from their own nationality or more their own race? Usually stick to their own ethnicity. Italians with Italians, Greeks with Greeks, etc.. The other possibility is that 'opposites attract' -- blondes like darker haired men and vice versa. Haven't seen this much with the Med girls I know but obviously you have your own experiences.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 07:14 PM
1

if you you're asking if it's creepy or whatever shit, it probably is cos you act like that. That or other jealous guys (or girls) with their dead bedroom a year into the marriage are calling you out on it and making you question yourself. Ignore and proceed.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:33 PM
0

What scarcity mindset?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:32 PM
1

I don't think you're weird at all. As long as it's legal, I would do it if I was in the same position.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:00 PM
2

Like you, I've always done better with mainly light brunettes and some blondes than Med-type girls. I've found that Italians, Greeks, etc. are more ethnocentric with their dating. For reference, I'm slightly tanned with dark brown hair and brown eyes, though don't look Mediterranean.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 05:36 PM
3

I'll try that next time, thanks.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 05:34 PM
1

Your first time is going to likely be underwhelming. I didn't cum and thought "wow, that's it?" after leaving her place. I lost mine at 20 and now at 21 my count is around 10. Read the sidebar and get out & approach. Don't lower your standards too much, but otherwise I'd be fine losing it to anyone a 6 and up personally.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 07:19 AM
2

After finishing I normally cuddle and chit chat a little before they leave. But when I can't cum, I tend to put pressure on myself and the anxiety causes me to ofc not be able to cum. I usually figure I don't want to waste any more time, don't attempt a round 2 and they leave, mad.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:18 AM
2

Been there done that and always been a positive. How exactly do you do that? What do you say? Every time I haven't been able to finish, the girls have had really dejected, almost angry looks and I ended up getting ghosted. I didn't care too much because I figured I wasn't that attracted if I couldn't even cum (young with no health problems), but I wouldn't have minded keeping them around.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:06 AM
1

Yeah, I never realized it was but honestly it's a huge turn off for them. You kill their self-esteem and from personal experience, I've gotten ghosted afterwards. Better to cum early and do a second round than not cum at all.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:04 AM
1

Good on for her sharing that information. Obviously everyone should, but it's nice for someone to be transparent like that.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 01:56 AM
12

Idk what guide that is but I wouldn't open with a line like that. If you do, make some sort of sarcastic reply playing yourself up.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 05:26 PM
17

So many girls, why would you go for damaged goods. I don't consider myself morally superior at all, but I'd also feel like I'd be obligated to tell every one of my future partners I have herpes and whether you like it or not, that's a turn off for most. Why complicate your life for one girl? If you're curious, go test for it now. You might already have it since you have a fairly high count, and if you do this isn't even an issue anymore.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 05:16 PM
1

We all started off there. Blame their parents and the environments they were raised in, not them themselves. You don't need to tell them anything; they'll find TRP if they're committed to better themselves. Women think so lowley of them anyways that they shouldn't really concern you. Just keep doing your thing.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 04:12 PM
3

Why would you next? Unless you're in the position of spinning plates, tell her to not do that again and continue on.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 05:02 AM
-11

Asian girls not good enough for you?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 11:00 PM
1

Every girl has been receptive and given me her number/social media when I've approached in person, yes. I've been able to set up first dates with most of them. I have never gotten the "I have a BF" rejection. The rejections post first date have been ghostings. I like to think girls respect me enough to not send BS things like the BF excuse.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 11:14 PM
1

I can honestly say I don't think I've ever been rejected on a cold approach. I'm in university so I approach girls in the cafeteria, walking to class, at the gym, etc.. Granted, most of these girls are 6s, maybe 7s, and they turn into FWBs, not girlfriends or anything long term. As for first dates (I'll usually only go on dates with girls at least a 7), I may have been ghosted once or twice when I was younger but over the last couple of years, barely at all. My first date success rate is a bit m…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:00 PM
2

Have never been rejected with a cold approach, and have never really gotten ghosted on a first date. If you do it right your odds of success should be pretty high, because so other few men have the balls to do it. It's funny because the chase, the in-person day approach, is exhilarating to me and actually fun. Swiping online or crafting text messages is boring as fuck.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 06:03 PM
3

Not on campus rn (and my school is commuter heavy anyway), so I'm just using Tinder. Once I'm back in the winter/spring semester, I plan on doing a mix of Tinder and bars/clubs since they're open here. If your school has frats they might be having socials, too.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:36 PM
7

I'm in college, too. Focus on your grades and get an internship next summer, especially if you're a sophomore and up. That should be your number one priority. Otherwise I'd be making sure to take care of my mental health (sleep, meditation if that's your thing, exercise, etc.). Girls are definitely down to meet up right now, especially college ones, so your social life shouldn't go to shit if you don't want it to.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:35 PM
12

They don't if your SMV is high. Focus on yourself first.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:21 PM
1

It's over, move on.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:54 PM
1

The US' wasn't strict. Of course lockdowns work for smaller populations that can be monitored but the US, apart from going full authoritarian, had no chance of a successful lockdown. They should've never went into one to begin with.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:37 AM
3

Didn't read all that but girls are definitely down to meet up right now. Everyone's tired of this lockdown BS. If you're gonna date, do them in person and proceed as normal.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:35 AM
2

The sidebar is enough Red-pill related knowledge. Without knowing more about what your goals are, stay healthy, continue your career and start approaching women now. Get in the game and learn from your mistakes.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:34 AM
1

Just ignore. Why do you need to waste any more time on her, she doesn't deserve it.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:48 AM
-1

I'd think they're immature and would never date them seriously. Big turn on for me would be someone who listens to music I like (60s/70s classic rock) or "intellectual" music (jazz, indie bands, etc.).
/r/askTRP01/11/20 03:19 AM
7

Okay I'm only a few years older living with my parents, too, so I get you. Just tell her to hang out now and stop with the Snapping.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 03:06 AM
9

The fuck are you doing... I would've already arranged to meet up after the photo. Have fun being her Snap buddy while she's getting railed tonight at a Halloween party.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 02:47 AM
3

Because so many men are simps these days. They make a 5 feel like she's a 10.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 01:00 AM
1

Why would you ask us? For some it may be, for others not. Entirely dependent. Do what makes you feel secure.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 02:02 AM
2

Don't get involved with crazy. Should be able to tell who is and who isn't.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 02:01 AM
1

I don't know why you're getting downvoted. If you say this confidently and have the looks/SMV to back it up, this would work much better than a feeble "Hey.. so um wanna go out and get coffee with me?". If I was a girl that would turn me on tbh.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 05:35 AM
1

Yeah I agree to an extent, I like the challenge of getting with a girl so I enjoy trying to game them. Once I know they're hooked it's actually kinda deflating and I want to move on. Of course, I don't mind hooking up for a while though haha.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 12:08 AM
5

Haha well I won't say I'm Don Juan by any means and don't consider myself way above average (honestly a 7-8 on a good day), but I do meet up with 3-4 girls in a couple of months, so I'm doing better than the guy I replied to. I start off with a line about their profile, or ask about themselves (funnest thing they did over the weekend, etc.). Exchange 1-2 messages back and forth, then frame it into an activity we should do together / something even better we can do. I get their contact most of th…
/r/askTRP29/10/20 07:36 PM
3

You suck at texting then.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 06:14 PM
4

It's definitely a numbers game, but if you can't meet girls off of there (assuming you actually are fairly attractive) you're doing something severely wrong. I get lots of matches, most reply and I can meet with one every 1-1.5 months without trying too hard. Of course if I had met up with most of the girls in person first hooking up would've been a lot easier. Petty guys here will say girls are on the app for validation (already can see lots of comments like that in this thread) but really, 99%…
/r/askTRP29/10/20 06:13 PM
-1

Going to the cafe is stupid, do something fun. Tell her to join you, get her contact and text her the day of.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 06:11 PM
1

If you do it enough you'll get a gut feeling you can follow. Generally they shouldn't really ignore you; a shit test to me means she's being active asking you questions or making fun of you, but you've still got her attention. If you're being ignored that's not the best sign. The OP in the link I shared said ignoring is a type of test, I just don't have much experience with that because all the girls I've been with have showed interest of some sort off the bat. That's probably a type of test rec…
/r/askTRP23/10/20 04:48 AM
1

Take a read through this when you have a few minutes. A lot of people doubted his words, but I think he's right on the money. (remove spaces below, can't paste URLs here otherwise) old . reddit . com / r / TheRedPill/comments/5fihmu/how_to_get_laid_like_a_warlord_37_rules_of/ See: point 10.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 07:23 PM
1

I think it could go either way. Some girls will be really slutty and just wanna make out with you ASAP, while others that I could tell were interested shit tested me, agreed to the date and then yada yada. Generally shit tests are a good thing, some girls just employ them more than others, at least in my experience.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 07:00 PM
2

Just ask her out. Tell her to meet you for drinks and see what her reply is.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:24 PM
1

I don't think they would. They wouldn't be in a position to because they know the guy has fifty other women he could hit up at any moment.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:23 PM
2

Doesn't fuck with mean you like it? And in general bitchy attitude is good because you're getting shit tested... she's actually considering you. Of course if you have extremely high SMV she wouldn't need to shit test you but we all can't be Leo Dicaprio. Hope you can pass them, otherwise the sidebar is that way -->
/r/askTRP21/10/20 02:59 AM
1

Your question? Reported, enjoy your ban and being the PT's bitch.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 02:45 AM
0

I'd consider myself an 8/10 and have lost many girls to guys several inches shorter with frankly unattractive faces and/or bodies. "Game" (really confidence and IDGAF) matter way more. Of course, I'm assuming you're not some 5'2 neck beard who has no social status, because of course then it does impact you.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 01:16 AM
1

Who cares if you're bald... if you're white (which I'm assuming you are), you've won at life. Why the heck are you getting over-invested in some Peruvian girl? Date white and be done with it.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:24 AM
1

Not going to read all of that. You either a) suck at sex, b) suck at escalating or both. Sidebar is that way ->
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:23 AM
0

Girls don't really care about height, or eyes, or jawlines, or muscles. They care about your personality and how you make them feel. This thread will likely devolve into incel talk. The sidebar is that way -->
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:44 PM
-2

Do you mean cologne? Which guys use perfume?
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:43 PM
1

You should be able to fuck any girl on the first date. The only girls I've been ghosted by were girls I didn't fuck on the first date. Every girl is a slut on varying degrees so at that point I look at n count and personal qualities for relationship material.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 01:20 AM
1

Make sure you get the number next time. I also wouldn't open with something about her looks but at least you initiated which is the hardest thing to do. Keep doing it often and it gets easy after five or so tries. At this point I prefer it to approaching at clubs/frats and I'm in college.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:39 PM
2

Yep, you've gotta have this mindset. If you lose a girl's interest, it's your fault, not hers.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 06:41 PM
1

That's what he is. You can call it whatever you like.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 12:40 AM
-1

Why don't you stop being a race traitor and just date girls of your race and you won't have any problems? Plenty of attractive Indian women around (unless they're all not good enough for you) and you will never feel like you'll have to compete against white guys.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 06:49 AM
-6

I don't know how old you are, but if you're in college you should be focusing on school and not the gym. He probably thinks you're a meathead. I had the bodybuilding/gym phase back in the fall. Now I'm into cycling because I realized it's actually a sport and it's a lot better for my body. I couldn't really care about what my body looks like otherwise because I'm healthy and sub 15% BF.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 04:29 AM
3

Who cares. She's not yours, it's just your turn. Please read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 11:45 PM
1

A&A.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 04:30 AM
1

It's kinda funny because I usually prefer day game daytime cold approaching. Way less competition. That being said at night everyone is horny so my success rate is probably still a little higher.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 01:57 AM
2

Your messaging style must be bad. If there's texting related stuff in the sidebar read it, otherwise look up Black Dragon Blog and other websites for advice.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 01:57 AM
21

I even tried holding her mouth shut with my hands 😂
/r/askTRP09/09/20 01:56 AM
9

Next.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 01:55 AM
1

No, if your LTR is genuinely happy and fulfilling. I have never had success in that department so I just do FWBs and ONS. I'm 21.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 01:06 AM
1

Yeah I understand. The only reason I'm hesitant about switching is that the user base gets so much smaller. Like I personally already find Bumble to be a big downgrade compared to Tinder. Granted I haven't tried any of the other ones you listed. I did download Hot or Not a few months ago and man 75% of the girls on their were so sketch, the UI/UX is ass and I couldn't for the hell of me find out how to delete my account until like a week later. I guess it also depends on what you're looking for.…
/r/askTRP08/09/20 11:07 PM
2

Why are you getting tired of them?
/r/askTRP08/09/20 10:49 PM
5

No. The guys who play with their bands in run-down clubs and live out of their vans are getting laid more than most here. And certainly have been with way more women than a Jeff Bezos or Elon Musk. Of course money can help you become more attractive, but in no way is it an end-all-be-all.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 07:46 PM
0

Sorta similar except with a girl I went on a date with. She was so into me and had an amazing body. I was socially autistic and somehow fucked the date up. Girls, man, they know how to make us miss 'em.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 03:38 AM
3

Congrats!
/r/askTRP04/09/20 10:38 PM
1

Maybe someone more familiar with steroids can provide better insight, but as someone who was natural bodybuilding until a couple months ago, no. If you can look lean (10% BF or under) and have some muscle, you're good. Heck, fat guys with enough status or a personality get laid. If you want to achieve your own fitness goals, then consider whether steroids fall in that plan. Don't potentially compromise your health for pussy.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 10:01 PM
2

I agree mate, though I'd say that's the issue with close to all girls these days. There's always that risk of false rape allegations. Ultimately unless you're celibate, you've got to feel out each situation (is she leaning in? is she okay when I feel her up?, etc.) and proceed until there's a 'no'. OP asked which girls give the best sex, and I answered (didn't explicitly recommend it).
/r/askTRP04/09/20 08:51 PM
39

Honestly depending on the relationship (FWB or ONS) and how much I was into them, I'd jokingly call them out on it. Otherwise cut the convo short and proceed to the bedroom or whatever. Hope for your sake you're not planning to be serious with this sorta girl, I wouldn't be able to tolerate someone with no personality.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 08:42 PM
1

I mean, there are girls are out there that don't care about your bank account. Girls will respond to how you make them feel. If you can provide her adventures when you're together, set boundaries and take the lead, she'll love you. Or as much as girls can really love guys. They'll probably buy you stuff then. There will always be someone who likes you for you, though hopefully she's better than a 2/10 whale, or whatever your minimum standards are lol. As for the love unconditionally thing, yeah,…
/r/askTRP04/09/20 08:34 PM
2

Ask questions. But be honest with yourself -- how good are you with people in general? Some people have such low social IQ & emotional intelligence that they'll try to talk about politics on a date.. which ofc you shouldn't do. Incorporate humour (I tend to use a lot of sarcasm, YMMV). And do a physically active date so conversation doesn't have to be the sole focus.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 07:25 PM
2

She was pretty clear with you, I don't know what else you're looking for. If you've been with enough women and read the sidebar, I think you should have a good grasp of things you do wrong in general. You don't ask them, because they usually won't tell the truth.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 07:23 PM
7

Set your next meet up. She should reach out first if it was any good.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 07:20 PM
–

We do. Why do you think we don't?
/r/askTRP04/09/20 07:20 PM
3

Yes exactly. This is why it's a great sign if you get shit tested (@ all the guys who always complain about them). 1) she's considering you to actually shit test you and 2) she's a challenge. If she didn't shit test she'd be too easy and who really wants to be with women like that...
/r/askTRP04/09/20 05:19 PM
1

Looks are really not that important. That being said, it doesn't hurt to maximize your own. Have some muscle and get to a lower body fat. Nice hair, clean face (Accutane if you have acne). Good wardrobe. That's really all you can do.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 06:00 AM
2

Artsy girls, one with tattoos or piercings. Honestly, super liberal ones, too (just make sure to always get consent!).
/r/askTRP04/09/20 05:58 AM
2

Yes. The feeling of rejection is much better than regret. Especially when you see her with another guy or you realize you're a virgin at 40.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 05:57 AM
1

If you have the opportunity to, I'd take a gap year. Get stronger and wiser, travel if you can. Freshman year should be in person and you're gonna miss out a lot by not having it on campus. As for the regrets, bud what's done is done. I'm 21 and felt the same way -- could've easily hooked up with 10+ girls in highschool but had no clue what I was doing. The good news? You're 17. You have sooo much time. I had my first kiss at 18, had sex for the first time at 20 and now my count is around 10. Fo…
/r/askTRP04/09/20 05:53 AM
1

Is this pertaining to women or people in general?
/r/askTRP04/09/20 05:03 AM
2

Yeah don't beat yourself up. It's definitely better to know where you went wrong and learn rather than be kept in the dark. I also don't want to say there is something inherently bad about long term relationships -- if you seek them and really care about those attributes in girls, then by all means that's your go. But the awkward confusion and friendship/relationship distinctions definitely need to be improved upon.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:55 PM
2

I think matches are one thing, but meeting up really shows where you are. If you're matching with 8+'s and meeting up with a few here and there, definitely top 10% of guys. Matching and meeting up with 6-8's, probably top 20-30% of guys. Anything lower I would neither know about nor care about.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:50 PM
22

You don't, because you can't. What you should do is make friends with him and his crew. Especially if you guys end up rushing a fraternity. Being in with the alpha group will still give you access to lots of the top parties and girls. You don't need to be and most likely will not be top dog, and that's okay.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:48 PM
2

Before you bash me with the usual "oh you beta male". I had a girl which I considered a friend. She is a 6-7 and majors cs in the best tech school of our country can speak 3 languages etc. etc. and the main reason I see her as a friend is that she's my childhood friend from elementary and a fun person to be around. I don't really like using these terms, though for the purpose of this post I will. This already is 'beta'. We don't care about all of this and unless you plan to marry, you shouldn't …
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:46 PM
1

A&A or push/pull.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 10:00 PM
1

Not really. If you practice it enough and believe in it, it becomes second nature. Only something devastating (failing an exam, something bad happening at home) would probably break my frame at this point. -College student
/r/askTRP24/08/20 08:01 AM
1

Your question? Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 08:00 AM
6

Consumerism, materialism, education system, religion (to some extent), and maybe other things that have been told to us are lies. This... was the not the main idea of TRP I got after reading the sidebar. What made you think this way?
/r/askTRP24/08/20 07:55 AM
0

why would you pull out... just finish inside
/r/askTRP24/08/20 01:40 AM
1

All the girls are either fat or ugly, in Canada. I'm pretty sure it's the same in the USA. Holy shit, what is with the toxic attitude in this sub. Is this recent or something? Why are people spewing drivel that's completely false?
/r/askTRP06/07/20 12:59 AM
5

This is the age where girls can be sluts and not be judged for it, take advantage Nah, we still judge 'em for it.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 10:18 PM
0

+1. You can move there and you won't even have to pay your first rent installment before you die of COVID! #Winning
/r/askTRP05/07/20 10:12 PM
-1

Notice how I never once said that one race was better than the other. Miscegenation is the technical term for interracial breeding. People will throw out unbridled and clearly fallacious jabs like "racial supremacy" to put words in your mouth. All I want, personally, is ethnic nationalism so we don't have a racial melting pot with no clearly defined races in 100 years. I also think that would solve many of our socioeconomic and political problems. Unfortunately, people push the ostensible chimer…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 09:59 PM
-1

A lot of European looking women. Thought whitey women are bad. Man, what a joke. Thanks for the laughs today bud. 😂
/r/askTRP05/07/20 09:33 PM
-1

You done yet? I went out with a skinny yet curvy French girl and a 6' slender Norwegian girl, both of whom model, a few months ago. I could care less about the 'fatties' -- they're not who I'd ever settle for and all white girls aren't like that -- though you know that and are either deliberately benighted, morally depraved, or both. Go have all the Latino kids you want and be all ears for them when they want to discuss their identity issues (which are statistically higher among mixed race indiv…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:39 PM
1

It's my belief that you should read the sidebar here and maybe at most 1-2 other books to supplement. Many of them are rehashes of material here and eventually, there comes a point when you need to practice by approaching and not continuing to seclude yourself reading. Anyone who has stashes of 20+ self help / get laid books is either using their time extremely ineffectively or has serious issues.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:26 PM
-1

You're right, the US is already lost. Liberals in the 60s onwards made sure of that. Europe is really the last hope and stronghold at this point.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:20 PM
-2

You should tell the National Registrar to add the RP sidebar to their list of immemorial book collections then. Should stand up well against Faulkner and Vonnegut.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:17 PM
-2

Why don't you read books that will actually improve you intellectually?
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:10 PM
-1

At least I would never need to have the embarrassment of jumping the border to find a girl. That's one of the most pathetic things any guy could ever do.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 06:40 PM
3

Just get good grades and find a couple fun guys to go out with, not that you'll be doing that anytime soon anyway though. You don't need to waste time reading about or stockpiling alcohol.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 06:34 PM
-4

Encouraging miscegenation. Gross.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 06:25 PM
-9

if I had to have someone, it wouldn't be a city girl with purple hair and a nose ring, Didn't know all the girls in (insert city here) are like that. Do you realize how asinine your comment sounds? Edit: downvoted by 10 incels. Lol, this sub is getting more ridiculous by day. Enjoy chasing those unicorns in the apparent sea of SJWs.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:00 AM
1

Yeah, because it means you're settling. Why would you date someone like that when you could be with someone better?
/r/askTRP04/07/20 07:46 PM
1

Defending an 18 year old who can't match with girls on Tinder and has to dm them on Instagram. Not to mention has clearly not read the sidebar. Really? I'm not going to even bother replying here, you and him both have issues. All the best and have fun seducing more 4's and 5's.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 05:30 PM
1

Yeah, I'll pass. That drivel deserves no response anyway so he can consider himself lucky.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 05:27 PM
1

At least it wasn't removed because it's BS. You can now console precious OP.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 05:27 PM
2

It's respectable to be a creep and message girls who don't find him attractive? Please read the sidebar, you and OP.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 05:10 PM
1

Don't know why you're getting downvoted. Nothing what you wrote is 'white knighting' and yes, there is a double standard in play. Well done for keeping your composure and common sense!
/r/askTRP04/07/20 07:19 AM
1

Why would you ever ask that? Does the thought of other guys ramming that turn you on? That would be so off-putting to come straight from their mouth.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 07:18 AM
5

Wtf are you doing... basic tenet of Tinder/IG is to not DM girls you don't match with.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 06:08 AM
5

Most definitely. Only losers would date them.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 06:02 AM
2

Your father is going through a tough time and rather than talk to him and offer to help with counseling, etc., you want to send him a book. Yeah, that's what he needs lol. Jeez.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 01:18 AM
1

Yeah, I was pathetic with girls in high school as I told someone else. She broke up with another guy and briefly liked me, but I was too scared to make a move. Story's not BS but I appreciate your comment.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:16 AM
1

I don't know what fantasy you're talking about, as I said multiple times I'm not longer interested in this girl. Still, I appreciate your comment.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:15 AM
1

Yeah. She mentioned she 'doesn't know why I'm upset or why I dislike her' but she most likely does. Thanks.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 06:00 AM
1

That was why I got friendzoned 5-10 times in highschool.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 05:58 AM
1

Think it was because the long message she wrote made it sound like she was genuinely sad. I do think I'm going back to the people-pleaser I was in highschool, though. Thanks.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 05:34 AM
2

Because I was extremely pathetic with girls in highschool and feel like this silence on my part could be seen somehow as revenge for her not getting with me back in HS. Put another way, it was my fault for how we ended up and she doesn't deserve indefinite silence.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:22 AM
1

No worries, I appreciate the reply. Take care.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:21 AM
1

By 'this road' I assume you mean replying back saying sorry? And if you don't mind me asking, what happened to you in your case?
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:16 AM
1

I can see that, I just feel bad because at one time we were close (like I was going to ask her to prom). And her family is relatively influential..
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:16 AM
1

u/TRPCops please give this guy a vacation to see a psychologist.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 05:40 PM
0

Do you spin plates? Then you're a hoe, too. What is the problem here?
/r/askTRP23/05/20 06:19 AM
1

Attracted to? Not really. But girls I'd date and be proud to bring out? Definitely gotten a lot pickier.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 02:01 AM
2

We're not arguing that music can't have an impact on you. It certainly can. Our point was that if music lyrics are causing you the anger/disgust that OP is experiencing, you most likely have some past negative memories or internal demons that should be released thru a session with a psychologist. Damning yourself to never listen to "blue pill" music (which probably constitutes over 90% of today's music, so good luck finding RP music) is most definitely not normal.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 01:01 AM
-12

Why are you going after Asians and blacks? Just date white man.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 09:39 PM
0

Bro either he's a troll or terrible with girls. "6'4 and good looking" yet can't even score dates with white girls. Looks really don't matter much.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 09:38 PM
-6

What race are you?
/r/askTRP22/05/20 09:36 PM
2

Not really, given that most men on radio are writing these types of songs, too. Female artists aren't trying to "get you" somehow, and if something as simple as a good tune influences you that much you might have to seek out therapy.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 05:16 PM
6

I know I'll probably get downvotes by saying this, but personally I really don't like when guys on this sub call women (much less their girlfriends) 'bitches' -- that's something immature fifteen year olds do, not men. Nothing against you personally, I've seen it a lot here. Going by the texts, you seem very robotic and/or apathetic, like you're constantly trying to apply dread, which is just kind of weird given you're in a supposed relationship, and she sounds really fucking clingy.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:57 AM
12

Wow, both you and her have problems, I'm surprised this "relationship" even lasted.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:44 AM
1

Why do you think dating apps are bs? I know they won’t last forever but a couple weeks and they’re gone... is it me? Is it them? Is it competition? Idk yo It's you. You're worse than the competition so they move on.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 03:59 AM
2

Why do you want to get injured?
/r/askTRP09/05/20 09:18 PM
1

However some things I have learnt are that she got pregnant 5 years ago with a guy who was already in a relationship Stopped reading here. Please familiarize yourself with the sidebar.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:19 PM
1

Meaning you could've fucked a 9 you have oneitis for (hence this post) but didn't. u/TRPCops, please give this guy a vacation to read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 06:43 PM
1

You are right! Not sure what's with the downvotes. I'd stay far away from anyone who invades my privacy like OP did to her.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 04:56 AM
3

I guess you're right in that you don't understand it. This was never an LTR to her, '5 years' never crossed her mind. It did for OP because she was his only option -- meanwhile, she was branch swinging and meeting up with other guys while stringing him along for his $ and validation. She probably doesn't even feel that bad right now.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 04:54 AM
0

You will never be high enough SMV to have 8+'s go after you (which I'm assuming are the type of girls you're trying to attract). Ask girls out and use game, but a) don't fixate yourself on one particular girl unless you're in an LTR and b) put girls behind your career, important extracurriculars, etc..
/r/askTRP08/05/20 04:04 AM
1

That's a good thing. The less men that know about this, the less the competition.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 04:03 AM
1

What's going on is that you're finding a lot of women more responsible and mature than you. Unless you're shitty at texting, which you shouldn't be since you're flaired, they're obviously not wanting to meet up because... you know, we're just in the middle of a fucking pandemic.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 04:02 AM
-1

Uh... okay. I don't know why you think any of us care tbh. This isn't even a question and you should be banned. Furthermore, girls will be loyal if you deserve it. Obviously you weren't a great option and she branch swung. Blame yourself, not her.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:59 AM
1

Everyone is Asian there. There are no blacks, hispanics, or natives, and few whites.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:20 AM
1

How can a mentally ill methhead be hot? Personally I could never find a girl who a) does hardcore drugs and b) is bipolar attractive.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 04:07 AM
11

But they're truthful dicks. For the most part. Their are some true idiots here who are incels veiled by macho, demeaning language in all their comments.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 04:06 AM
0

Your question?
/r/askTRP04/05/20 04:05 AM
2

Yeah I get you. A similar thing happened to me when I was younger. Lifting weights and martial arts may definitely help you become more a) physically imposing at the very least and b) improve your ability to set boundaries. Just don't feel like you need to have the mat/weight room personality wherever you go.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 08:58 PM
0

I appreciate the advice. You can check my post history -- I've easily contributed more quality material to this sub than everyone in this comment thread combined.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 08:51 PM
2

Wrestling >>> Also just saying, there's nothing wrong with being a "nice guy" / you don't need martial arts to not make you one. You can be nice as long as you make sure people respect your boundaries and you know how to flirt with women. I'd much rather be friends with a nice guy than someone who's deliberately trying to be an asshole all the time.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 08:19 PM
2

So you get downvoted but I got downvoted when I posted a countering opinion a few days ago. This sub I swear.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 07:33 PM
2

Should've kept cuddling and tried to escalate again. I sent her a text saying "we need to talk". Wtf? You guys aren't in a relationship or anything. Now she's going to think you're clingy because you should be with other girls.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 06:06 AM
3

You guys charge girls? Where I go they get in free.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:07 AM
1

Hm that's sorta unusual. Cool.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 08:52 PM
2

Like of course you can if the moment presents itself, I just don't think a lot of guys kiss a girl the very first time they've met. My point was that upon meeting if you ask her out and she says, you can be sure that she likes you and you can go for it when you link up.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 08:52 PM
1

Fuck-close.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 07:11 PM
2

You should aim for a minimum of a kiss by the end of the first date. All but 2 of the girls I've hooked up with have been f-closes on the first date. YMMV.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 06:56 PM
0

If a girl agrees to go out, you already know she's into you. There's no need to test before hand with a kiss, though that never hurts ofc.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 06:56 PM
1

Yes, I don't fucking love it, either.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 06:55 PM
2

Because usually, the better the girl, the more extensive the shit tests. A 9 won't just give herself to any guy, you know? That's why it feels good when you snag a top tier girl -- it's because you succeeded passing her shit tests, unlike many other guys. If you don't want to bother with shit tests, you're limiting your dating options to girls who give their pussies to five guys a week. Your choice, man.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 06:14 PM
-2

says this subreddit has wannabe tough guys calls others 'retard'
/r/askTRP02/05/20 05:15 PM
1

I could easily go out. I've just chosen not to.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:59 AM
0

I've met up with loads of girls this past year. You have no idea who I am so don't say what I feel or don't feel. Anyhow, cheers man.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:59 AM
2

Feel better about yourself after calling me that?
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:58 AM
0

I agree with you; we've passed the point of containing the virus because not enough people were disciplined and our governments handled this extremely poorly. Herd mentality, along with many seniors' deaths, will be the way to go. Stay safe, cheers.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:57 AM
0

I guess I'm not understanding the "no liberty" part. Is being asked to social distance for a couple of months really infringing on people's liberty that much? Is it so difficult to endure? And you're right, I did use feelings and not fact. So, where are the facts showing that we do not need to quarantine and everyone can resume their ways of going out?
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:56 AM
1

What an honour. Send me my trophy when your Tinder slut finishes sucking your dick, thanks bro :)
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:54 AM
1

To each their own. I prefer Models, 48 Laws and Art of Seduction to name a few.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:52 AM
1

To each their own. I prefer Models, 48 Laws and Art of Seduction to name a few.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:52 AM
0

👌
/r/askTRP01/05/20 11:45 PM
-3

Lol I'm serious, the writing style was so annoying. Felt like gouging my eyes out every twenty minutes.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 11:36 PM
-4

I would advise you not adopting things you read from the Book of Pook, or look elsewhere for advice. One of the most poorly written and unhelpful self-improvement books I have ever read in my life.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 10:34 PM
1

Good man!
/r/askTRP01/05/20 10:33 PM
0

Also important you stay safe and keep your wife safe since she's pregnant. All the best to you and your family 👍
/r/askTRP01/05/20 10:32 PM
1

I'm not American. And yes a lot of things boil down to race.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 10:31 PM
-1

Sweden has a higher amount of deaths per capita than the United States. TIL. Thought the US had it the worst. Thanks. I think we will eventually have to go the route you're suggesting because the period of containing the virus has all but closed.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 09:07 PM
0

Thanks for the link, I'll give it a read. Old people have their own hours to shop, at least where I'm living. The point is to separate them from the general masses as much as possible. Believe me dude, I could care less about what other girls or guys think of me. The point of flattening the curve is to have everyone on board. I'm glad to hear you're participating like me, but our efforts are really in vain if Joe down the road goes out every day, gets the virus and comes into contact with our ne…
/r/askTRP01/05/20 09:05 PM
1

I really don't care if it's fake news or not. I'm willing to not be sexually active for a few months if it means not coming into close contact with strangers and ensuring my 90 year old grandmother is safe. Some things are more important to me than my dick.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 09:02 PM
1

He got it right. Uh... and has an STD. I think there are better ways of being sexually active, no?
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:58 PM
1

The nice thing about Sweden is despite your country's unfortunate recent intake of immigrants, the population's demographics are still somewhat homogenous. Comparatively, the US is ethnically diverse, and as we all know blacks are dying at higher rates than whites. Add in an awful healthcare system and higher rates of obesity, and the Covid situation is much more severe in the US.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:54 PM
1

I feel you man. I pretty regularly see Asian guys who are 6'2+ with short parents and meanwhile despite having a 6'3 dad I'm stuck around 6'. Like shit, what the fuck are these kids being fed.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:42 PM
-1

Why don't you add South Dakota to your state list? Oh wait, even though they had an outbreak with 2k+ cases we don't need to worry since it's a state with a low population. Everyone here living in South Dakota: carry on with your lives! Anyhow dude, we'll agree to disagree. I think the measures should be, on varying degrees, everywhere -- whether you're in NYC or podunk Kansas. But to each their own. I'll pray for your and your family's safety. Cheers.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:34 PM
-5

Yeah, that is what I think. We've seen how many people have died from this and how easy it is to spread (eg. the fucking idiot college kids in Florida). All it takes is one case and somebody not following quarantine rules, and the thing can grow like a wildfire. I've talked to multiple girls on Tinder who have said they're staying home for the time being so any girl who is down to fuck right now would be trashy IMO. Then again she'd be fucking thirsty nutjobs so it'd be no loss for me-- the only…
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:14 PM
0

No problem and all the best. Wish some of the "men" on this sub were as mature as your 16 year old self. The funny thing is most of them couldn't probably get laid pre-Covid and think they're hot shit for going out now. Pathetic if you ask me.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:08 PM
-1

Not saying you did this, but what happens if she was asymptomatic and a few days after meeting her, you met up with your grandma, or an elderly friend? You may have just infected them, along with a string of others. The fact that the growth rate of this thing was exponential and it's so easy to catch is what made me worry about people going out. We all saw what happened with those fucking college kids in Florida.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:03 PM
-4

"Give me liberty or give me death" I agree with that quote. Not during a pandemic though. I thought people could tough it out for a few more months, but guess many people today lack discipline or empathy.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:02 PM
-4

I'm a cuck for thinking about my safety and my families' before muh dik. Thanks man 👍
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:01 PM
3

The good thing about the quarantine is that you can easily separate the trashy from the non-trashy. You can see which girls have morals and will stay home, and which ones have no sense of what's happening, are selfish assholes and want to get pounded by multiple guys a week. Your choice as to who you associate with and how you're perceived by your family and community. Good luck, champ!
/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:41 PM
2

That's why you always complement reading with practicing. Think of it like being an athlete -- as a football player you watch tape, learn routes, etc. and then go out that same day and practice drills. You will likely have to wait a number of months, maybe a year plus, before people will be somewhat comfortable going out like pre-Covid times.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:39 PM
-3

Yeah, I am pretty upset about this. They obviously think that going out & having 30 seconds of fun and risking their/others' safety is more important than protecting the welfare of their families and communities. I'm trying to understand that logic, but maybe it's just a waste of time. Thanks.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:36 PM
2

Pretty irresponsible both on your and her part mate, ngl. Sacrificing for a few months is what'll help make the quarantine end sooner.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:19 PM
2

Why are you going on dates during the quarantine?
/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:17 PM
0

Apart from being a pussy, you're also a selfish asshole. You do realize we are in a pandemic and are supposed to be quarantining (ie not meeting up with strangers)?
/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:00 PM
1

30+ count in one year.. wtf were you thinking? Go into porn if you want to fuck that often.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 05:09 PM
1

Blue.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 03:22 AM
1

Once you move on from the anger phase and feel like you don't need to ask questions / review the sidebar, sure.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 09:34 PM
0

He's not meeting other alphas because he's not an alpha lol. Alphas form friendships naturally, they don't go on reddit looking where to find them.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 09:14 PM
0

Who? Popeman? Itiswritten already has a flair.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 09:13 PM
-1

Why?
/r/askTRP30/04/20 06:05 PM
7

You're probably just being overly abrasive and coming off as a dick. The alpha guys I knew in HS, the guys who don't wtf reddit is, the "naturals".. they were some of the most popular guys in the grade. Definitely no lack of male friends.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 06:04 PM
7

That's not your mom's fault, that's your dad's for letting it get to that state. For the time being I'm happy being single, and likely will have the same feelings for a number of years. However, I may eventually marry a woman who's opposite my mom in many ways. That is one thing I've learnt from her -- types of girls I like.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 05:11 AM
6

Lol!
/r/MGTOW30/04/20 03:57 AM
0

I hope this was before the quarantine and is not currently happening.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 03:55 AM
1

Haha oh that's what you meant. Gotcha.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:44 AM
3

What's so wild about his past? He was a loser who smoked at his house the whole day. Wild to me is someone who actually does interesting, albeit crazy shit.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:36 AM
13

Yeah, that's why even though I've had virgins into me I haven't done much with them. The sex would be mediocre and you'd have to deal with clinginess after. Just go for the 95% of girls who have had sex. Any girl who has already smashed is not innocent.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:12 AM
0

Umm he's never been married and regularly dates women in their early to mid 20s. Source? Because the only woman recently he's gone public with was a grandmother.
/r/MGTOW30/04/20 12:29 AM
1

You are right and should not be downvoted!
/r/MGTOW30/04/20 12:29 AM
1

No he wouldn't. Where are Leo DiCaprio's sexual assault charges? And he's dated only girls under 25.
/r/MGTOW30/04/20 12:28 AM
1

I don't understand your comment. Are you blaming women for the hoverhand?
/r/MGTOW30/04/20 12:27 AM
-3

The guy's been depressed close to his whole life and took a grandmother-looking woman out at the LACMA Gala. You also don't get accused of sexual assault because of touching a woman during a photo. This post is a complete joke.
/r/MGTOW30/04/20 12:21 AM
0

You don't sway when someone tries to make you insecure about your opinions/actions. "Stand up for what you believe in" as it's commonly known.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:34 PM
3

Do you do that? I have a couple friends who DJ / make their own music and I've always thought it'd be neat to get into that recreationally but idk where to start.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:07 PM
1

No I do not agree. Loads of ugly guys have gotten with girls I've liked.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 10:01 PM
5

Can go to a party and pull a chick pretty regularly. Yeah, that's somewhat me, too. Lost my v-card last year, back in the fall I'd be excited to get a makeout at parties, now that's pretty much a given every time I'm at the club or party, I instead aim for the f-close.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 09:36 PM
1

It's easier if you live in residence, I approached lots of girls sitting by themselves at the dining hall. You can also just ask girls out before/after class. Heck, I've even asked a girl out at the school gym before. Of course there's parties, too, assuming you're involving with campus life. Lots of opportunities.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 09:35 PM
4

Yeah as a fellow guy in college, cold approaching is the most exciting part of the chase and most guys don't have the guts to do it. You can also easily ask out the hottest girls because let's face it, unless you're the life of the frat party or nightclub you're not going to be getting with them at those places.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 09:34 PM
0

20, started trp at 19.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 07:59 PM
1

"Only see each other" my ass. Why do so many guys trust everything girls say. And just because you say you have a high count doesn't mean you're much better than the 18 year olds you're making fun of on this sub. What you've demonstrated through this post is that you don't grasp key concepts of TRP, so in fact the advice for you like that for the 18 y/o is to read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 07:53 PM
2

If you have a dick, you're good enough.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 06:27 AM
1

What?
/r/askTRP28/04/20 01:29 AM
3

Idk, I wouldn't really use the word 'charismatic' to describe someone who's soft spoken. Charismatic to me is usually an outgoing person who can really draw people into what he/she says. Soft-spoken seems mostly negative to me unless you're smart.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:56 PM
1

If she has the confidence to make the first move, imagine how many other guys she's done that to. Idk about you, but I'd want to hook up with the hot but shy girl who's known to be difficult to get with, not the neighbourhood slut. Edit: after some thought, the only other girl who would approach you first is someone who is lower than you SMV-wise and knows you're a good catch for her. So in both cases, I'd stay away personally.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 06:43 PM
1

Yeah, this was an issue for me, too. More so nervous than feeling cringe. I try to remember that if a girl has chosen to spend one on one time with you, she is always DTF and her attraction will fade minute by minute if you don't make a move. So you really just have to force yourself. I think if you do it consistently enough it'll become a lot more natural.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 06:42 PM
3

Most likely too late, probably got fucked by another guy.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 06:22 AM
1

Good on you for not going, we are in a quarantine right now. Head up, champ!
/r/askTRP27/04/20 06:21 AM
3

Lol.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 06:17 AM
1

It's ironic because of how delusional you were to make this post.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 05:30 AM
2

Well put. Being the anti-establishment candidate is 'in' these days (source: narrowly lost a school election against a guy who played this role and slandered my campaign).
/r/askTRP27/04/20 04:09 AM
5

Remain cool, calm and collected on video. Humour never hurts. Appeal to emotions. And get lots of your friends on facebook, instagram (both the bros and those in higher positions in this organization), etc. to vouch for you and support you. Publicity is key. Good luck!
/r/askTRP27/04/20 02:30 AM
9

Like seriously, why do guys bother with nudes? If you're going to get off virtually, why would you want to see your HB5 girlfriend naked when you can just watch porn? It's effort for close to nothing.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 12:46 AM
0

How do you have a 1 point flair and you're asking this?
/r/askTRP26/04/20 10:21 PM
1

If you're doing North America check out Quebec (Quebec City especially). Lots of hot girls there who aren't the fake, plastic surgery, 15k followers Instagram girls in LA.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 09:20 PM
2

Agree that it works better on women. I do think men, even with many options, can falter if a girl does dread on them.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 09:18 PM
1

Agreed, it's remarkable how unattractive they are compared to the beauties in Scandinavia. Still, this isn't a question so your post will be removed.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 07:15 PM
-2

"only be a month long" mate that's quite a long time, much more than a weekend getaway. You also shouldn't be vacationing anywhere other than your home during the quarantine.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 07:13 PM
36

Not only do you ask for nudes but you're in a LDR. Mate, please read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 07:10 PM
2

Why do you need friends telling you that shit? Get the girl who has sucked your dick to joke about those guys.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 07:25 AM
1

There's very little point, unless they can introduce you to their hot friends. This has seemed to work for a guy friend of mine so maybe having a few isn't a terrible idea.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 07:24 AM
-1

It certainly does.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 05:44 AM
1

Yeah, this happened to me, too. It hurts and I feel you. Make the most of it, do well in school and you always have the option of transferring. Still, this is not a question so please post elsewhere or repost it as a question.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 01:45 AM
1

Lol, cucked. Thanks for the good laugh mate, cheers :)
/r/askTRP25/04/20 11:32 PM
1

princess ?
/r/askTRP25/04/20 09:39 PM
5

I've never been the guy who is the life of the party even though I've always wanted to be. I'm usually pretty calm and collected, and when I'm talking to others I try and sprinkle my words with wit/sarcasm. I think that helps give off a more lighthearted vibe.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 07:33 PM
7

I'd do cold approach and activities around the city that spark your interest. Bars/clubs on Friday and Saturdays. Should be more than enough women for you.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 07:55 AM
1

I've heard Elliot Hulse has gone off the rails the last couple of years.. what do you like about him?
/r/askTRP24/04/20 05:30 PM
1

Henry Cavill Joel Kellett
/r/askTRP24/04/20 08:41 AM
3

Because unless you have an emotional connection with a FWB, hook ups and ONS get boring and tiring.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 06:24 AM
12

Yeah because you get a noob boost the first couple of days. This is basic Tinder FAQ.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 04:20 AM
0

Bro you don't even know me, don't tell me what my taste in women is or isn't. I haven't said one bad thing about you, so I don't know why you seem to have some sort of personal vendetta against me.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 01:25 AM
1

Lol.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 12:26 AM
0

Why would you lift with other guys? So you can chat about weed during breaks? Just lift on your own. You're also going to injure yourself going 5x a week, especially when it sounds like you're not in shape right now. Lastly there isn't a ratio or rule-book to follow. You can be aloof when you feel like it and loving when she deserves it. Life isn't a video game where you need to follow certain strategies.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 12:26 AM
-1

Ivana is disgusting. Melania is better but her eyes are like slits. And you can see literal comments from Trump about Ivanka himself: In the almost 20 years since, Mr Trump has called his eldest daughter “voluptuous”. He’s said it’s OK to describe her as “a piece of ass”, though she is a senior executive in his business empire. And he’s said that, if she wasn’t his daughter, “perhaps [he’d] be dating her”. As for your last comment, lol okay? We're all beta otherwise we wouldn't be on this sub. N…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 12:22 AM
2

Sorry for your loss. They are really special, aren't they.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:33 PM
-3

He was so alpha that he had a crush on his daughter and married a gross woman? Lol.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:14 PM
-1

Nice burner, Donald.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:13 PM
1

holy fuck please stop talking. ? Who are you talking to?
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:13 PM
1

He let himself go. Then again, he was never that attractive to begin with.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 06:21 PM
1

Eh, we're all narcissistic in our own ways. As long as she's tolerable, smart and attractive, I don't really care. I'm also in my early 20s so relationships don't mean too much to me rn, could definitely change when I'm older.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 06:20 PM
1

If I had to choose I'd probably take the latter, though ideally I'd find a 9 who has positive personality traits. I frankly wouldn't be proud to be seen in public with any girl less than an 8.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 08:53 AM
8

It means your SMV is way higher than hers. It's bad for you because you're settling with someone who is likely pretty unattractive. Do better.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:50 AM
1

I highly doubt he's a threat if I'm gonna be honest. None of the "chads" in high school or college got shit on in my experience. None of them got called a bitch. They were only referred to as the 'fuckboys' with envy because they were banging all the hot girls and couldn't care less what people thought of them. Considering OP is unaware of why this stuff is happening to him and he's posting in this community, it is very likely he is a virgin, and most certainly not a threat.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 06:11 AM
1

Ignore or Agree and Amplify.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 06:08 AM
2

No it doesn't and it shouldn't [in your situation]. You'll never be able to settle down if you're 100% "alpha" or "red pill" or whatever the fuck that is. Slow down mate. Life's not a race and girls shouldn't be a number you're adding to a tally. None of us really care what your n-count is. I'd rather fuck 10 HB8+s than 100 whales.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 06:07 AM
1

Not a question, please post to r / TheRedPill.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 06:04 AM
0

No one cares. Reported for not asking a question, read the sidebar during your ban period. Cheers.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 06:02 AM
10

Push and pull. Being seen with other attractive girls.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 06:01 AM
5

Why are you posting that shit online? You're only playing yourself and your ego.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 06:00 AM
0

Your question? Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 05:59 AM
1

Not really. You're just thinking they're lower quality because the hottest women present more shit tests than those from 50 years ago and the HB5s-7s are riding the CC. Maybe all the 'onlyfans' bullshit is happening in the US, too; up in Canada I hardly see any HB8 and above college girls with that.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:22 PM
1

There is no such thing as exclusivity.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 10:38 PM
1

First bitch lucky enough to fuck me wants to know why I waited so long? I tell her because I intimidate women so much with my frame it’s hard for me to ever get any action. Lol I like your confidence but unless you're religious I'd recommend having it happen sooner rather than later. IMO you'd just look like a fool saying that in your 30s or 40s.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 06:57 AM
4

Hey man, PM me if you wanna talk more. I'm 21 and only lost my virginity last year, too. My count is now close to 10. Best advice would be to get off the app and cold approach. Like you I'd consider myself good looking and while a few of my lays have been off Tinder it's still so much easier to meet and ask out girls in person (post-Covid ofc). Idk if it's in your future but I'd also recommend transferring to a 4-year university because parties & meeting people is so much easier on a campus. Don…
/r/askTRP20/04/20 06:56 AM
3

I don't think it ever goes away for anyone. You can fuck 10 girls but if there's one that suddenly branch swings away, it's only instinctual to think about her more and consider the 'what did I do wrong'.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 11:00 PM
1

No worries, I couldn't even tell you weren't a native speaker.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 10:59 PM
0

So you didn't hook up with anyone then. Hooking up means sex. And yeah, it does if they figure it out, so just don't give it away.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 07:40 PM
3

You can't increase your height barring surgery, don't waste your time.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:22 AM
9

You can't increase your height barring surgery, don't waste your time.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:22 AM
3

Could be for you idk. From personal experiences every single girl on my n-count has never left me on read; they text and they even initiate.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:16 PM
7

? Lol ok. I wasn't trying to make fun of you so sorry it came out that way. It sounded like you weren't interested in girls so that's why I asked.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:15 PM
4

Are you asexual or gay?
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:16 PM
18

So many issues with this: -6/7 dates and you haven't even kissed? And I consider it a fail when I don't get an f-close on the 1st date. Move on already. -Left on read multiple times. Girls don't do that with guys they're into. -Wanting to hang out during a pandemic after you were both sick. Stupid, irresponsible and selfish. Quit it dude, read the sidebar and try again with other girls in the fall.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 04:53 AM
1

https://www.healthline.com/health/does-weed-kill-brain-cells#age-of-use Includes study done and a clarification for the age 25.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 10:56 PM
3

So my little sis is bi and her “girlfriend” is staying in quarantine with us. I say that in quotes since my sister is pretty mentally unstable and always saying she’s doing some weird shit, but apparently they’re actually dating. Anyways, her girl was showing tons of IOIs ever since we met. We were fooling around in the hot tub when my sis wasn’t there and one thing led to another. For some reason this girl decided to tell my sister all about it and she’s been acting psycho ever since. Normally …
/r/askTRP17/04/20 10:54 PM
13

Eye for an eye? Really? Don't stoop to her level. You shat where you ate and you caused someone you're quarantining with to go crazy. Congrats, you played yourself. Hope the 30 seconds of fun was worth it.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 10:54 PM
0

It's too late, your brain is already fucked up. Key development is from teenage years until 25. The benefit compared to cost for you now is slim. Friends are good for mental health so I would just keep them.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 06:30 AM
0

Not sure what you find amusing.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 06:39 PM
4

Talking to them like regular people or your boys is a one way ticket to the friend zone What's worked for me is talking to them like your 10 year old sister, or a random kid. Read that from somewhere and when I think about that I can really be IDGAF, use sarcasm/witty humour and be relaxed. Probably why all the players I knew in HS had sisters.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 07:22 AM
1

People try too hard. A girl is just another nobody. Everyone needs to loosen up.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 07:21 AM
1

You do realize you sound incredibly juvenile and selfish, right?
/r/askTRP16/04/20 05:32 AM
3

You shouldn't even be doing that, unless it's a LTR / you're living together. People not taking this seriously and not staying away from others is what will cause the social distancing measures to be enforced even longer.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 05:18 AM
1

Too many big words for me :/
/r/askTRP16/04/20 05:14 AM
1

Yeah, I appreciate them because they've given great advice and helped build this community, but tbh I've found that true with even the Mods. We're all on this together, no need to have an arrogant tone when trying to help others.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 05:13 AM
0

Tossing around pejoratives like it's no big deal. "Yeah, that bitch just flaked on me. She's probably a slut anyway." Like dude, a) we're not 12 years old, it's not cool and honestly just disrespectful and b) it's your fault that happened. Own up to it.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 05:12 AM
4

Just focus on graduating university with a good degree & GPA, and live life. Go to parties, tailgate at football games (post-covid). College will be over soon.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 05:10 AM
1

Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 08:52 PM
1

Very good advice, thanks for knocking some sense into me. That fantasy still creeps in when I see an especially stunning girl.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 03:54 AM
1

Yeah, I'm 21 so in college. My mom cares a lot about me but we've had our differences the last few years and the girls I tend to go after are almost polar opposite from her, both in looks and personality. I see what you're saying. If I'm gonna bring out a girl it's when I wanna do something and I'm inviting them along, but at this age girls might not be too into dates either so it's kinda tricky. I'd just love to be able to have a plus one at social events, or someone interesting I can hang out …
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:53 AM
2

Of course I want to fuck her, but the girls I ask out (at least HB8s) on actual dates I wouldn't mind having an LTR with, assuming their personality is fine, which I usually gauge during my cold approach before the date. I set up my dates so they are close to my dorm, yes. And I try to vet the girls so they're at least not a total thot, though AWALT. It only seems to me though that if I do fuck this HB8 I've vetted on a first date, she's too easy because she's probably done that with other guys.…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 01:27 AM
1

It's on them to convince me to enter LTR. Yes, I think that's the best way to look at it.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 01:24 AM
4

Why do you all want to form a LTR so badly? Personally I just feel unfulfilled from continuous ONS and FWBs. It's tiring to go out every Friday, especially in the midst of a time-consuming degree. You're right though that I should hook up first, then amp that to a LTR if I wanted. Or whatever you are expecting to get out of it. Maybe I'm being naive, but I'm hoping to have a deeper connection (both during and away from sex). Right now I'm hooking up just to get my nut lol.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 01:24 AM
7

21.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:41 PM
0

blue pill beta males. Except the part where OP's friend is fucking a girl rn and OP isn't. Lol.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:19 PM
1

You're overthinking this. No one will change during the quarantine because no one can either lift or practice approaching/going on dates rn.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:47 PM
1

Do you fuck or no? Because if you do they like you, otherwise you're socially autistic.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:46 PM
7

You can just tell after a while. It's like a sixth sense. Commonly good eye contact, lots of smiling/laughing, staying to talk with you instead of going somewhere else, comfortable with physical touching, etc.. Just ask her out and you'll get your answer.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 08:10 AM
1

It's just something we have to accept even if it hurts. Read the love article by Tomassi -- he says that the way we want women to love us (like a mother basically) can never be the same as they way they perceive their love for us.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:04 AM
1

Lol, cucked
/r/askTRP13/04/20 11:09 PM
1

MGTOW tends to represent MGTOW MGTOW (not on Reddit) tends to represent. FTFY.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 11:08 PM
2

How is that surprising? We'd do the same. AMALT.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 11:06 PM
13

I’m a tall, confident, dominant guy. Jeez that's cringe. If you know you are, there's no reason to have to get validation from guys here.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:48 AM
1

Why are you spending money?
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:46 AM
1

Not sure why you were so heavily downvoted. No one owns any girl. I hate guys that get uptight about a friend who wants to date their ex. Move on ffs, will you.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 06:44 PM
2

I hope they're at least good looking.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 02:04 AM
1

Southern Cal? And yeah that makes sense, can't you still game college girls though.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 08:07 PM
1

I know a girl average by la standards dating a pro athlete on an major 4 la sports team. She actually strings him along. That's his fault, not hers. I'm pretty good looking, not a 10/10 model or anything though, and got with lots of girls at my college close to LA last year.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 07:51 PM
1

Yep.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 06:35 PM
1

So, where was the part about it being funny?
/r/askTRP11/04/20 06:35 PM
4

but i do wanna lead her on and use her as an emotional punching bag I couldn't give less of a fuck if she dies the very next day. That's evil and not what TRP is about. Either plate with no emotions, have an LTR with her or leave. Don't use people like that. Besides, women don't make for good emotional tampons, your best bros and the therapist do.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 06:50 AM
1

I've never been in an LTR so can't say I've been cheated on, but I've had girls sucking my dick one night and then a week later, cuffed / hooking up with another guy. Given that sucks, I'm sure being cheated on feels at least twice as bad.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 06:49 AM
1

Lol!
/r/askTRP11/04/20 06:46 AM
3

At best a 5 for me. Thick (ironic since she has a fitness act) and no tits, don't even think I could cum tbh. And she has 18k fucking followers... why do guys simp like this lol.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 06:45 AM
1

I was in a college town about an hour from LA last year and it was great. Went to LA for a couple weekends and lots of smoking hot girls to talk to on Tinder. I wasn't of age but now that I am I'm sure it'll be sick the next time I go back. Would love to live there when I'm older.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 06:44 AM
1

So you lost because your plate left and she won because she's going to fuck another guy tonight. "Put her in her place"... lol gtfo.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:25 PM
5

I don't understand how men can be as cucked as this. And this is probably a good 75% of our current male population.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:24 PM
4

Love for who they are vs how they make them feel.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 03:01 AM
1

And I thought I was harsh with '3' lol. Good luck with that unless a) they're under 18 or b) under a 6.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 10:08 PM
1

On ur profile or her profile? Something like a story is fine since it's casual but I would reserve an actual post for an LTR. I would even say that posting a late night story of both of you cuddling or some shit like that is better and more mysterious.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 06:51 AM
1

Maybe bc of the large minority population in urban Pa? Idk otherwise. Pulling for ya though man, hope you stay true to your race. There are still lots of good white women out there.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 05:11 AM
1

I'm in college, mine would be 3.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 05:06 AM
1

Where do you live?
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:41 AM
1

Some of them yeah and I wouldn't bother with them if they want to be race traitors. The majority of white women want to be and will settle down with white guys.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:38 AM
2

Should've A&A.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:37 AM
1

Bruh, idk if you're trolling but I'd kill to be white. White women are the most beautiful on the planet. If you're white, why would you not want to date white.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:37 AM
1

I really hope you just date white from now on.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:25 AM
1

Couldn't agree more, and I'm not even fully white. It's sad to see.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:25 AM
4

Face means a lot on dating apps. Solution? Approach in real life. It's more fun, builds your character and you have less competition since most guys don't have the guts to do it. Win/win/win.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 03:07 AM
1

I hope you're right!
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:45 AM
1

If you enjoy yourself, she'll have fun.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 11:56 PM
1

Yes. The biggest inferiority complex I've ever had is re: my race. I'm mixed, around the same age as you. I wish I was white, and so do 99% of minorities.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 11:27 PM
4

Earliest September.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:59 PM
2

Are you saying men don't get turned on by musicians?
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:59 PM
-2

Why reply back then?
/r/askTRP08/04/20 08:04 AM
3

Does this guy look horrible? Does this guy look horrible? You do realize those pics are heavily edited / Photoshopped? And you're calling out someone for not having a PubMed link? Lol the irony.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 05:30 AM
-5

Is coronavirus funny to you?
/r/askTRP08/04/20 05:09 AM
1

Something similar happened to me, except I had a condom but didn't really want to have sex because she was on her period. She blew me and ghosted me. I think it's because we both didn't put out.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:10 AM
1

Be good looking.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:07 AM
9

C'mon bro, if a girl doesn't post photos with guys they must be single and maybe even a virgin :D /s
/r/askTRP04/04/20 02:05 AM
1

they are incredibly boring And you are who exactly...? because they don’t have nothing to offer except sex You've somehow completely misunderstood the point of RP despite supposedly reading hours of its material. Congratulations! You can go celebrate by fucking off with an escort.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 11:19 PM
0

I picked up 2 plates in the last week that were very attractive but they just don’t do it for me.. In the midst of the quarantine?
/r/askTRP01/04/20 08:42 PM
4

I have the same problem with a girl I matched with, we already did a facetime video call (might wanna try that) but I think it's better to go no contact until this thing's over.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 07:43 PM
8

If you're just looking for hookups you're all good to go. I've had shirtless pics and done well. I would get some better photos though, ones not so posed with the mirror selfies because personally I find that pretty cringe. You doing something outdoors candidly with your shirt off is a wayy better look.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 11:27 AM
4

Second, you are blinded by media if you believe in the seriousness of COVID. Lookout, we got a badass over here!
/r/askTRP01/04/20 04:39 AM
1

This is moot because you will be staying inside during the quarantine, right? And further, threesomes are almost never planned, they happen spontaneously. So the likelihood of this happening for you is less than 10%.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 04:39 AM
8

You're definitely good looking, lot more than most guys here would prob give credit for, but the way you talked I expected you to be a Sean O'Pry lookalike lol. Props for actually replying back though.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:41 AM
5

You know, I totally wish I had an older sister. Learning all this growing up in my teens would've been so eye-opening and helpful.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:40 AM
1

So you're a model, then. Link us to pics from your most recent shoot.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:39 AM
1

Really pathetic. Especially the chain smoker who posted that blackpill-is-the-way-to-go video on YouTube. Don't even know if he's dead by now.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 09:24 PM
1

I'm around that height and I think we should be between 160-180 lbs roughly.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 07:19 PM
10

When I was better looking than the guys who kept getting with girls I liked in high school. I knew it was a "me" problem. If you can't pull a girl, that's on you, not her.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 07:18 PM
1

No.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 07:17 PM
0

I thought red pill prioritized YOUR OWN BEING before females. No, your best bet for that is the MGTOW sub. Straight males' best being always includes females.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 02:34 AM
1

Your question? Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:50 PM
1

I blocked a girl last week and regret it. I think you will too. It makes us look weak and seem really petty. We're better than that.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:51 PM
2

Thanks man. Never knew everyone on here would be so against it, the way I see it it was a great way to improve my game and keep flirting with girls during this quarantine.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:43 PM
1

Understood, but I can't leave the house right now because of the quarantine so what am I supposed to do?
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:39 PM
1

Yeah, see the problem is I can't leave the house because of the quarantine. Otherwise of course I would go out for drinks with her.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:38 PM
1

I can't, if I'm legit attracted to a girl I'll forget about her flaws and beat myself up for days when it doesn't work out :/
/r/askTRP30/03/20 07:08 AM
1

I guess so, I mean tbh I have nothing to do except schoolwork so I figured why not spend a while getting to know her. Think I'll just lay low and ask her out in person once this stupid quarantine is over Cheers
/r/askTRP30/03/20 07:06 AM
1

Believe me I've done it maybe 5 times my entire life. Figured I had nothing better to do since I'm stuck at home so I went with it.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 07:00 AM
0

Well we were doing an activity she suggested while we were talking but I get what you're saying. She was with roommates so obviously there'll be more interesting stuff after a while than with me. What should've I said instead when she asked to facetime? "No, but let's chat in three months when the quarantine's over"?
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:59 AM
1

Cheers man.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:58 AM
1

Haha.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:58 AM
1

I thought negative canthal tilt is seen as pretty attractive. Especially if you have a smize, slitty eye look.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:24 AM
2

How does it make me weak lol? It's a no cost date and I bet not a lot of guys would have the balls to do it, win-win to me
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:23 AM
3

What's wrong with Tinder? Had a fun facetime with an attractive girl yesterday because of it.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:12 AM
1

How do you know she was a virgin?
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:11 AM
2

No I ended up doing it for 3-4 months, I meant that after the 2 week period I began to feel shitty. I like the idea of nofap, but I also thinking jacking off in moderation (once a week for eg) without porn is completely fine.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 04:32 AM
1

Porn is other people having sex and you fapping to them What if it's two lesbians or a girl's solo performance? I think those are better.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 03:58 AM
1

Forced myself because I knew it would impact my willingness to approach girls IRL. Went cold turkey and that was that. After 2 weeks dry nofap became overrated IMO and actually started to hurt me (lost my libido for a while for some reason).
/r/askTRP30/03/20 03:57 AM
0

+1. Not afraid to admit that apart from my college online classes, I have not improved one bit this quarantine. It's made me very frustrated and anxious.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 03:47 AM
1

Fap away for the next few months, unless you're living with a SO none of us are getting pussy.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 01:32 AM
1

Nice.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 11:09 PM
2

Why does it matter? No one is leaving their house right now because of the quarantine.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:40 PM
0

True.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 09:10 PM
-1

Depends if you're short or tall at that point. Close to no one will say it out loud, but any guy who's under like 5'7 and all jacked up looks pretty funny most of the time.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 08:45 PM
0

he’ll be too old to connect a deep level with students. I wouldn't go that far -- I mean, I and others I know took gap years and have had perfectly fine social lives. Especially with the accessibility of transferring, etc. these days, it's normal (and sometimes looked upon well) to start off school at 19 or 20. But living off campus and eventually dropping out are the real killers for sure.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 08:28 PM
3

Why do you care about 4-6's anyway.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 07:41 PM
5

Yeah, it's "lit", even for the thousands of people around the world dying every day and the grieving families. Not to mention the lack of freedom for likely months because of our incompetent governments. This thing fucking sucks.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 07:35 PM
1

Agreed. Maybe I was too hard on him in my initial comment, but my opinion would be to do whatever he can to get back into college and at least get a bachelor's degree.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 07:18 PM
0

Damn, I would kill to go to Arizona State. Imagine getting an engineering degree there and going to all the parties and football games. What an opportunity. You fucked up, I have no advice for you.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 05:53 PM
1

I know you're joking, but yeah, when I think of alpha, the first thing I think of is someone going out by themselves and inadvertently infecting their loved ones.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 05:33 PM
1

Lol I got your comment removed though XD
/r/askTRP29/03/20 04:22 AM
1

There's no point, once she sees it it's over. The dynamic will never be the same. Best to move on and spin more plates to gain more experience.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 03:30 AM
5

I know you're only 21 but there's more important things in this world than pussy. Stay the fuck home and do your part in mitigating the effects of this pandemic. Exactly.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:41 AM
3

If you want to, meet the ones that are still willing to meet You do realize we're supposed to be quarantining, right? Edit: whoever downvoted me, fuck you. Coronavirus is no joke and it's certainly less important than getting pussy.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:41 AM
-3

Just use porn the next couple months. Or try and get nudes, seems like too much work in general to me though. No one is, or at least should not be, going out.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:41 AM
1

A better alternative to porn.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 11:13 PM
1

Never had one. Wish I did, but I seem to fuck up dates when I actually care about the girl. Never forget AWALT...
/r/askTRP28/03/20 11:09 PM
1

Oh house parties idk unless you have cool friends who can hook u up. And if that's the case you might want to reel in the cockiness a little.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 11:08 PM
2

Actually considering we're supposed to be quarantining right now, you're right. I think this guy should try and meet up with her again, but I think he's going about it the wrong way, though.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:44 PM
2

This was me up until a year ago. My best guesses: You don't go out enough / ask out enough girls. College, right? Frat parties should basically guarantee you a lay or at least a make out once a week. Too much of a nice guy persona. You said it yourself, you're only cocky around those you know. Girls get a "he's a nice BF" type feel around you, not "he's the guy I wanna hook up with right now" type feel. Re: your last point. If you're attractive and have enough confidence (which 99% of guys don't…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:42 PM
0

I think it has for everyone. I've had multiple Tinder matches but no one down to meet up. I get it. Let's just stay safe and follow quarantine for a couple months, there's no need to be that desperate and selfish rn.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:40 PM
1

If a girl EVER brings up the age gap I would just consider it a shit test and ignore it, or A&A.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:38 PM
0

So your solution is oneitis?? Better than no pussy. Why is everyone being so hard on this guy?
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:37 PM
1

She agreed to meet me on monday and says she will explain to me in person that shes looking for a serious relationship and why the age difference will be awkward for her family and that she prefers younger boys. Not sure if you just added this in but you have two options: Don't want to put in the effort (which is fine) -- say no need to and go your own ways. Look for more girls, preferably 20 and up. Say sure, invite her over, try to cuddle while making small talk / ignoring her shit tests and g…
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:40 PM
1

Like tell her "sure, come over next ____ and you can help me shave" or something along those lines. You just want to find some way to bring her over. You've gotta act now or interest dips quick, especially when she has more time to think about this and ASD creeps in.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:33 PM
0

Disagree. You can tell her 'sure' and make that the next date activity. Tell her to wait a bit for 'complying' with her request, hook up and forget about it. IDGAF attitude, always. Repeat until FWB ensues.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:31 PM
1

Say sure, that's the next date activity. Why are you stalling ffs?
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:31 PM
1

What was the point of your comment? Stop trying to karma whore.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 10:21 PM
2

We have to preserve all races before (((it's too late))).
/r/askTRP24/03/20 04:57 AM
1

Eh, if I were brown I'd rather get high quality brown pussy than subpar to average white pussy..
/r/askTRP24/03/20 04:04 AM
1

Talk to the moderators if you have a problem, not me.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 03:32 AM
1

Why are you dating white girls, you race traitor? Are Indian girls not good enough for you?
/r/askTRP24/03/20 03:32 AM
2

Although every girl i’ve ever fucked has always just gone for sucking my dick without command, even the “virgins.” Same here.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 03:29 AM
0

I don't think you should have to ask though.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 03:29 AM
1

Hm that's weird, all but like 2 of the girls I've ever hooked up with have given me head without me even initiating.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 03:28 AM
2

aposematism Interesting, thanks.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 03:27 AM
5

Anything past college (22).
/r/askTRP23/03/20 06:51 AM
1

Just date in your race and you won't have problems.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 06:17 AM
7

Lol, that means your ELO score is low, aka you're ugly. You played yourself!
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:18 AM
2

In terms of athletes, Kobe Bryant always comes to mind first for me. He's motivational in a way Hurts and 99% of other athletes aren't.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:16 AM
-1

Your question? Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:15 AM
1

Probably the former but I think it would be more a mix of the two.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:08 PM
1

A lot of guys here still have, and will always have, oneitis. I think it's nearly impossibly to absolve oneself of that.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:53 PM
1

Your question? Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:52 PM
1

"wannabe flu". You realize it's more dangerous than a regular flu, right? Like several orders of magnitude more?
/r/askTRP18/03/20 09:17 PM
1

r / thingsthatneverhappened
/r/askTRP18/03/20 08:18 PM
1

Why are you posting that shit anyway? Why do you need the validation?
/r/askTRP18/03/20 08:17 PM
2

Sex with high quality girls or just sex in general?
/r/askTRP17/03/20 05:10 PM
1

No. These days guys will fuck close to anything that moves. That's in part why girls' standards are high and they're more polyamorous compared to previous generations.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 10:46 PM
1

Great post, thanks for taking the time to write it up.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 10:44 PM
2

I've been texting a few but haven't secured anything yet.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 09:09 PM
1

Just netflix and chill.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 04:16 AM
2

Haha I'll let others answer you. Even though I feel like I'd play it cool and have an AWALT mentality, the truth is that oneitis is a problem for me and I could see a girl cheating on me impacting me severely.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 03:57 AM
17

Spin plates.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 03:42 AM
10

This is not a direct solution, but what has helped me have an IDGAF attitude is imagining the pain of regret. I force myself to approach and escalate because whenever I haven't done so quick enough, it either resulted in: a) the girl moving on or b) another guy getting with her, both of which make me feel terrible. The feeling of a quick rejection? Not nearly as bad.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 10:11 PM
-1

Your question? Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 02:36 PM
1

How was it?
/r/askTRP12/03/20 01:25 PM
2

1) You're golden. 2) You're golden. Have fun bro!
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:57 AM
1

Nah, not really. Tinder is solely for fucking. A cold approach in the daytime? Sure, k-close at the bare minimum for a first date. From past experience, if I don't at least kiss on any first date, it's over.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 05:06 AM
10

Think about it from your end. Would you rather be treated distantly by a girl and led on for weeks or months, or just told straight up "hey, I'm not into you [anymore]" and know for a fact you can move onto someone else? Very few people have the guts to be this direct (a definite flaw of mine that I'm trying to work on), so if you can do it kudos to you. I think women would appreciate it for sure.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 05:03 AM
1

City in Canada.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 01:38 PM
42

-Bad first impression (weak eye contact, handshake, mumbling, etc.) -Beta talk (sorry for stopping you, you look so pretty, etc.) -Letting things drag on and not asking for the number early
/r/askTRP10/03/20 04:04 AM
1

Sounds good, good luck and let us know how it goes!
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:55 AM
1

Well first I'd introduce myself and do some small talk. Honestly I'd do something outside as a first date (walk around campus, go do something fun nearby) and let it lead back to your place. Asking them straight away is a bit too pushy and their ASD will come up. This applies to sober daygame. If you're at a party ofc you'd just bring them straight back.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:21 AM
1

Only dangerous if they have a boyfriend in the vicinity. Otherwise, approach and escalate.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:20 AM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:19 AM
1

I have literally walked over to girls, smiled, said a word or two and kissed them within less than a minute. Still takes confidence; unless I'm drunk I have a hard time letting that loose at clubs. I'm much better at frats and daygame for some reason.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:28 AM
1

I would say best place for a good looking guy would be bars and clubs As a good looking guy, Tinder is the easiest. You need game and confidence at bars and clubs -- have had guys shorter and uglier than me get with girls I wanted...
/r/askTRP09/03/20 03:05 AM
1

"I have a bunch of female friends (some of which my ltr knows, so there is some passive dread going) MAY be potential plates" (post from two months ago). And you're in a year long LTR? Reported for trolling. Good riddance and enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:02 PM
0

Lol, why are you sad about a HB 6.5-7 (so in reality she's an HB5)?
/r/askTRP08/03/20 08:02 PM
0

You're 21 and you missed your best years? FOH and stop whining. Reported.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 05:17 PM
0

Had to be said. I also don't understand why they have to go for seemingly only white girls at these places -- are women of their own ethnicity not good enough for them? -- but that's for a separate thread.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 02:33 AM
1

No they're not. If anything, many Indian men here are disgustingly aggressive. At the club yesterday close to all the Indian (and POC) men were groping any woman they could get their hands on. A white girl who started dancing with me had to push away this 5'3 greaser who was trying to grind on her. They're repulsive and have no sense of consent or boundaries. They've really ruined most of the clubbing experiences I've had with my friends here, and I guess they're oblivious that a lot of the girl…
/r/askTRP07/03/20 05:57 PM
3

Wow, that is so pathetic.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 05:19 AM
14

Cold, sober approach -- 1 time maybe every 2 weeks for an 8+. Even high status guys these days are mostly pussies when it comes to sober cold approach. In the club, that's a whole different story. Guys can hit on 10+ girls a night and a HB8 will have 20+ guys hitting on her. It's actually easier for me to daytime approach than do it in a club because there's way less competition.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 11:02 PM
2

How long did you last? I would've came in a couple minutes haha.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 11:00 PM
1

No, that's only for losers. If you're in college find a girl there. You're still young. If you leave college a virgin you've got serious issues.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 10:59 PM
1

Lol.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 07:29 PM
5

Usually I try and get their insta/number first time we meet, then arrange something from there. I guess you can hang outside (walk around campus, do something fun nearby) for like an hour and then head back to your dorm. I wouldn't do anything sitting like coffee or food. I've spoken under 50 words to girls before, gotten them over and fucked them on the first "date". College girls just wanna fuck so cut the BS and give them a fun time.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 02:19 AM
3

"Let's grab coffee". Wtf are you doing man... from one guy in college to another, netflix and chill. Ain't no-one got time for chitchat at a coffee shop.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 02:03 AM
97

No shit Sherlock... that's why we're here. No one here had an "alpha" father figure growing up. The sidebar is that way ->
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:48 PM
1

It's funny because you never have, nor will ever, use that sort of opener.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 01:12 AM
1

don't won't? What?
/r/askTRP11/02/20 03:34 AM
1

You're creepy.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:35 AM
1

Are you in college? Just hook up at parties and proceed.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 03:21 AM
0

AWALT ffs.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 03:35 AM
1

So, what's your question? Reported, enjoy your ban.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:45 AM
1

No.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 10:31 PM
1

College girls will be weirded out by this, has happened to me before. I'd advise to just have a strong social media presence.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 02:26 AM
1

Okay.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 11:35 PM
1

How do you have more authority than me on this subject?
/r/askTRP28/01/20 03:31 AM
3

Not really. I've had lots of opportunities to pull at rush week parties.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 12:14 AM
1

Wanting to improve the way I'll look by going to the gym.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 03:38 AM
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