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Well written, but I disagree with this whole theory. A woman will put on the mask you speak of if she sees you as a blue pill beta provider. She'll be her honest, flirty, forward, dirty self if she sees you as a red pill alpha male. It's as simple as that, it doesn't depend on when sex happens. Whether or not she slow rolls the sex does depend on how she perceives you, but it also depends on what phase her dating life is in. There are multiple variables here: 1) She sees you as beta, she doesn't…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 04:50 AM
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You don't have to write anything long or extremely substantive in your profile. List your profession and hobbies to convey a sense of your economic security, and then add a one-line quip to convey a sense that you'll be fun to hang out with: "Lawyer, car nut, avid hiker. First date will be a 27 mile hike, non-negotiable." That's not even the best quip ever, but you'd get girls opening you: "Hi. I'm thinking of going to law school actually, lol." "Honestly a hike sounds nice, I haven't gone hikin…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 10:12 PM
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I've never had anyone ask for money after meeting, nor after sex. When this game works there is genuine chemistry in the usual way, and the enjoyment of the date itself is enough "payment" for the girl. It's a huge turn off for me if I can tell that a girl isn't authentically interested, and is just forcing herself to go through the motions for cash or other favors. If the girl was going to ask for money after meeting I would like to think that I would have been able to tell in advance and would…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 07:17 PM
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Fellow SA user here. I’m glad you found something that works for you, especially with a kid and after a divorce. However (and I mean this in a kind constructive way): You’re doing it wrong on SA. You’re being played by that whole system/culture, when you could be the one playing that whole system/culture. I’ve been on SA for a long while, so I’m speaking from personal experience. Don’t pay the girls anything. You sound like a solid dude. You should have more dignity than that. Even if you can co…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 08:56 AM
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I'm going to nitpick the wording of your title here. "Act single..." It's better to not even make it an act. Actually game other girls, actually sleep with other girls, actually spin plates the whole time (frequency depending on a mix of her behavior, your personal preferences, and your game ability). You need to be perpetually verifying for yourself that she's really your best option any given night/week/month. Don't promise her exclusively, but also don't be too direct about what you're doing.…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/19 07:42 PM
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Please take a knife, and go stab yourself in the eye.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 09:43 AM
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Ignore most of what most people have said. Most of the advice in this thread is hot flaming garbage. Girls are passive. Suggesting another time takes initiative. If she’s very feminine and submissive then suggesting another time might require more initiative than she can muster. This can be true even for women who put up an assertive exterior. The correct response is to assume she’s attracted and sort out the logistics with confidence. “Want to grab some ____ at _____ on _____.” “Oh, I’m busy th…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 06:56 AM
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Fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 06:49 PM
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You, sir, are full of shit. But this is an advanced topic. I forgive you. Your world will implode from cheating only if you’ve set up the kind of world where cheating is perceived as disastrous. Just don’t do that in the first place. Let’s take Jake for example. Jake spontaneously tells his wife “I love you” on a regular basis. Jake takes his wife out every weekend for a 1-on-1 date. Jake is visibly reserved, introverted, and meek when interacting with another woman in his wife’s presence. Jake …
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 06:05 AM
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Hahah, yes. Exactly this! When I was younger and BP I would engage with every little thing. If she said "Gee, I wish iiiii could go for a massage" I'd take her seriously and actually find a way to help her free up time for a massage. She'd go, but of course she'd find a way to complain about the experience somehow when she got back home. Maybe she'd convince herself that they overcharged her, or something like that. I'd take that seriously too. I'd call to try to fix it. Even if I got 100% of th…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/19 06:27 AM
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You have it spot on when it comes to night game and general social situations. However, it's worth pointing out that game is very different on a conventional "date." Consider the following opener: When you walk up to greet the girl give her a nice strong hug. Within the first 5 minutes of interaction be sure to touch her arm or shoulder in some casual way. Have confident body language, and lead her places. You decide what you two are doing. If you say "We're going over there for a drink," then i…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/19 05:42 AM
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That’s close to what I do, except I plan to try weaving in open polygamy. What GandG is getting at here is that it’s not natural for a man in an HSMV position to be monogamous, but the sex and consistency is a benefit unless you’re literally an apex Alpha, so he tries to make it last as long as feasible. He doesn’t say how his plates eventually break, but presumably they catch on to his game and bounce. My view is that once a woman’s shelf life starts to expire you can feel free to have a go at …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 05:02 AM
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I'm surprised by the responses here. I bail immediately if a girl rejects my first kiss attempt. Sometimes I'll stick around if I feel like finishing the meal/drink/whatever and ending it more gracefully/platonically, but the date part is over. What you did was correct. I would have not driven her home though. Of course she wanted you to stick around. Women thrive on attention and validation. Your continued presence is validation for her. "Wow, I rejected this guy and he stuck around anyway. I M…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 09:32 PM
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Sounds like you already know, sometimes something just gets in the way. Play the numbers and it'll happen again.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 09:16 PM
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It's not quite correct that men "don't want to be used for their money." We specifically put in time and effort to make money so that we can attract a good partner. Of course, we don't want a girl to "use us" financially. If we make a fortune for ourselves we want to be in control of that fortune, but we don't mind if a cute young girl latches onto us specifically because of our wealth (it's kind of what we're going for, on purpose). With youth it's not quite the same thing. I value youth in a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 08:51 PM
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Don't want to CYV, you're basically right. In an ideal world my wife/girlfriend wouldn't have to have a career. If I had enough money she could stay home and focus on taking care of the kids, keeping fit, and having her own social life (in that order). I don't really need a wife to cook for me, though I do need her to cook for the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 08:44 PM
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I suspect that a lot of this is because it's so hard to find Alpha male types to be friends with. Most men have no idea what it's like to have a genuine male friendship. Betas grow up in female lead households. They spend their time on intellectual or artistic hobbies. They never lift or learn to overcome adversity through stoicism. They approach conflicts and challenges emotionally. They're too caring and they cultivate their "maternal" side too much. When society looks at a Beta male it seems …
/r/askTRP26/04/19 08:35 PM
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You hit the nail on the head with the hobbies/shared interests thing. Even if you do technically share a hobby or interest with a woman, she won't approach it the same way you do. She'll lift, but she won't go all out like a male powerlifter does. She'll get into photography, but she won't spend 2 weeks living and breathing it every moment of every day. Women prefer moderation and safety, men prefer intensity and risk. There are certainly men and women who break these stereotypes, but it's a ver…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 08:12 PM
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+1, basically a TLDR on what I said.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 07:55 PM
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Reality Check: This girl isn't into you. It doesn't matter that she's swamped with finals. There's going to be some 2-3 hour period in the next few days when she's relaxing and not actually studying. She's choosing to spend that 2-3 hours on something other than you. If she was into you she'd think "OMG, I have 2-3 hours free. I have to go see Nick." It also doesn't matter that you'll be separated over summer break. When a girl is into you she'll come visit, sometimes without even asking (or bar…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 07:54 PM
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Model level looks while also being ripped in a lean & huge sort of way. High levels of confidence and charisma. They bang some uglies, but mostly they get good quality girls. They hit the night life too, but mostly to catch up with guy friends. They do most of the work on dating apps. A standard Friday/Saturday is a first date ending in a bang. They'll bang the girl 1-2 more times and then move on. They leave themselves a trail of casual hookup buddies that keep spinning for years.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:53 PM
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Not essential. The guys I know who bang the most chicks (30-50 per year) have zero social media presence too. If you spend all of your time lifting, making money, and getting laid then there isn’t much motivation to seek validation online.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 07:43 PM
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Also, I don't know if this is the case for you or not, but it's common for men to feel that giving her your attention and letting her indulge her feelings means that you're in a monogamous relationship, and have to stay faithful. That's not the case, it's just our fucked up cultural conditioning. You can be hanging out with a girl, sleeping with her, and spending quality time with her. She can have feelings for you while you're doing it. Nothing says you can't be gaming/banging other girls while…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 06:34 PM
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Assuming this is an average girl and not some sort of over the top bipolar mentally ill train wreck, nothing should be a mess. So what if she has feelings? So what if you have to see her again? Be collected and in control of your situation moment to moment, even when she's there, and regardless of what the status is with you two. ​ If you're trying to preemptively avert some "mess" then it seems like you don't have confidence in your ability to stay in control moment by moment, when the moments …
/r/askTRP25/04/19 06:26 PM
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Why do you care?
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:59 PM
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Notice how the opinion you’re expressing has -1 and 0 karma. You’re apparently missing something that the community sees. Yes, I’m incapable of intimate bonding then. I was capable of it in a BP mindset, now I’m not anymore. Betas bond with their oneitises. Once you truly drop the oneitis mindset you don’t really bond anymore. Relationships become functional and are mostly about sex and traditional gender roles, and not about bonding the feels. My friends would definitely take me to the hospital…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 03:17 PM
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Not even reading these anymore, bye now.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 03:06 PM
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Sounds like she’s either unattractive or socially dysfunctional. Probably both, especially if she’s mid 30’s or older.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 06:39 AM
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Looks like you don’t know where the shift key is either.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 06:36 AM
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What you have is a psychological adaptation that men develop when they have low sexual market value. It make sense for low SMV men to invest large amounts of time and energy into one woman, to impregnate her and raise the kids, because a low SMV male has very few breeding opportunities to being with. Your biology is urging you to make the best of what you have by seeking a relationship and cherishing it very highly. Don’t do it. Invest in yourself instead. Get your lifts up. Pretty much anyone c…
/r/askTRP23/04/19 05:40 AM
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Tinder is 100% for Alpha Fucks. The top 0.01% Alpha will win. He’ll have 3 Tinder bangs per week, and the rest of us will have none. Don’t brother with Tinder unless you’re rich, can bench 315, and look shredded with 0% excess body fat. You’ll get slightly better mileage on other dating apps that aren’t as hookup oriented. Or you can can go get rich and build up to a 315 bench. But until you get there, don’t bother with Tinder. Don’t worry about your face. Male attractiveness is multifaceted, an…
/r/askTRP23/04/19 05:32 AM
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Women will always have beta orbiters. Don’t worry about it. They’re beta, literally by definition. She gets a little extra validation and sense of security from having them fawn on her. The very thought of reciprocating in any way disgusts her. The thought of reciprocating sexually disgusts her even more. Don’t worry about it.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 05:26 AM
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This guy doesn’t seem worth arguing with. He has very poor reading comprehension and a tendency to drone off on tangents.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 05:06 AM
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I used to see it that way back in my BP days. Now I can’t get that sense of companionship from a woman anymore. That’s what Alpha male friends are for. When you’re hanging out with a good group of dudes you can: 1) Talk about hobby projects and business ventures you’re all doing. 2) Meaningfully discuss politics without the feels and feminism getting in the way. 3) Help reinforce each others’ male-centric life goals. 4) Swap note on picking up girls, and managing relationships. 5) Lift together,…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 05:04 AM
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I feel you here. My view on this isn't commonly talked about or promoted, but I think it's the correct one: Monogamy is genuinely and thoroughly fucked, for men. The ideal male goal state is having $100,000,000 in the bank with a harem 30 hot young wives and 200 children, who you can trivially support with your effectively infinite resources while you continue to be a badass and collect more women, resources, and power. Let's call this the UMGS, or "Ultimate Male Goal State". When I'm in an LTR …
/r/askTRP22/04/19 11:35 PM
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I see what you're asking here. Yes, it is needy and beta to say the word "No" and then wait for her to cave and validate your authority. What would you be expecting from the girl here? She's not going to just respect your "No" at face value. Romantic relationships don't work like employer-employee relationships. The correct move is to express your "No" through actions and concrete punishments. Withdraw you're attention. Don't text her back for a few days. Hop on a dating app and schedule a quick…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 11:01 PM
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Hard next. Downgrade her to fuck buddy and move on. No girl who considers you to be her ideal Alpha catch would behave like that. My current girlfriend goes out with friend groups which I'm not a part of, and don't care to be a part of. She'll keep me posted on her night out, and I'll respond by keeping her posted about what I'm up to. Her group will usually go out for dinner, and then some sort of activity like karaoke, or a play. Sometimes I'll get a text from her saying "Everyone wants to go …
/r/askTRP22/04/19 10:45 PM
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I pretty much gave up on caring about my family for exactly this reason. It's hard enough to turn a younger BP guy. By the time they're old it's pretty much impossible (barring some major life catastrophe like a divorce). Try amused mastery. When you get into an argument like that pretend you're dealing with a child who is throwing a tantrum. Be cool, collected, playful, and detached. You have nothing to gain by convincing a child to be on "you're side." You're already in control, you're already…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 10:23 PM
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You're punching above your weight if you sense that you have to put non-trivial effort into catching a girl. If you're a 6 and she's a 7 then you're just wasting your time. Yes, if you tried really hard and gamed 40 different 7's, as a 6, then you'd have some success. However, it's easier to just hit the gym and focus on your money situation instead. Improve as a man and you'll become an 8 yourself. Then gaming 7's will be easy enough that you don't have to come to places like these asking quest…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 10:17 PM
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Exactly this for me as well. ​ When I'm single I do well enough that I don't have that beta fear of being alone and involuntarily celibate. I can get dates and some casual lays when I put the effort in. Lately though, it's just not worth it. Swiping on dating apps takes time. Dates #1-3 before the lay take time, and money. I'm not a top 0.01% dude, and I have to put the effort in to get results. I work a full time job, try to see friends regularly, keep a strict gym schedule, and stay on top of …
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 01:37 AM
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1) What a useless response 2) What a useless response 3) What a useless response
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 10:47 PM
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“Mystery” is a famous PUA guy. “The Mystery Method” is a book he wrote on how to do PUA game. It’s pretty solid. Definitely helped me get some lays. I’d recommend it, Amazon has a good digital copy.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 09:52 PM
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One good trick is to remember that you’ve gotten laid in the past, so you can be pretty sure you’ll get laid again in the future. Just stop caring so much about when.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 04:46 PM
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Yes, always. It helps you keep your LTR on her toes and behaving well. Women are always testing boundaries and doing dumb shit. One day she’ll be in a mood and will blatantly disrespect you without any legitimate reason. Or she’ll start talking about cutting off her hair, or dying it some weird fucking color, or getting a big ugly tattoo, and she won’t care what your thoughts are on the matter, even though you’re the one that has to look at her all day every day. Having other plates spinning mak…
/r/askTRP17/02/19 05:07 AM
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The correct answer is to say “Who knows. I could be cheating right now, but if I was I sure wouldn’t be telling you about it.”
/r/askTRP17/02/19 04:47 AM
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Seconded, all this is exactly right.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 04:46 AM
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Yes, women regularly insult guys they’re attracted to. It’s called a shit test. She wants to see if you’re confident enough in yourself to ignore her comment and be unshaken. Sounds like you failed the shit test and let her shake you. If you can’t even stand up to a little girl, how are you going to react when some more dominant more confident guy starts giving you shit? That’s what she’s subconsciously thinking. Women are attracted to stoic, strong, confident men who can’t be broken down or chi…
/r/askTRP17/02/19 04:45 AM
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Thanks, I’ll take that as a compliment. That’s the intended effect.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 08:28 PM
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It is indeed difficult to find Alpha male friends. My strategy is to go to night life venues or bars, and to make connections with guys who are chill, in shape, quietly confident, and can get female attention but don’t really seem to be looking for it. Things to avoid: Extreme dark triad guys. The guy who is on a coke trip and is aggressively bullying everyone will usually have some female attention, but he’s not great friend material. Guys who have zero female attention. He might seem like a go…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 08:25 PM
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At first it was pretty hard for me to suppress the urge to say “No baby, you’re the only one, I haven’t been sleeping with any other girls.” You certainly can’t be honest if you are cheating either. It’s a no-go to tell your LTR “Yes, I fucked someone else two nights ago. Her name is Stacey and she’s 22. We did it at her place at 7pm after drinks. Hope that’s OK.” Then it finally hit me that the correct behavior isn’t honesty. The correct behavior is to give a vague non-answer and playfully mess…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 04:57 PM
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Yes, actually having the haram is better, and makes the the dread games come naturally. If you don’t have a haram yet then fake it ‘till you make it.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 04:35 PM
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And yes, these strategies are indeed “evil.” But this is how you fight hypergamy, and if hypergamy isn’t evil then I don’t know what is. Fight fire with fire. You’re not making her insecure about her safety in the relationship. You’re making her insecure about her judgment of your SMV. She’s not flipping out and going crazy with panic about if you’ll abandon her or not, she’s flipping out and going crazy about trying to pinpoint your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 09:05 AM
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The hotel room thing isn’t just a ploy. You do actually go to the bar, hit on other girls, socialize, stay out late, and then go pass out alone at 3am. You’re temporarily de-investing in her and having a “you night,” because she disrespected you and doesn’t deserve an “us night.” Maybe you do actually find a higher quality girl when you’re out, and then your LTR has to genuinely fight an up hill battle to get your attention back. You leave because a “you night” is genuinely better for your life …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 08:47 AM
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For starters, she knows I’ll leave if I find out. She respects the boundaries I set for her, because she respects me generally. If you do all this right you get absolute 100% submission from the woman. She’ll be texting you randomly with nudes saying that she wants to be your house wife sex slave, chained up with a collar on and getting her brains fucked out 24/7 when she’s not too busy cooking for you. (Have have this offer multiple times, genuinely, and not just as a temporary bedroom fantasy)…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 08:43 AM
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Yes, it does look a little "suspicious" when you invite a girl back to a hotel room for a "movie." For some reason it's perceived as more nefarious than inviting her back to your place, probably just because movies often show cheating as happening in hotel rooms (because where else?). You just have to stick to your guns, lead the interaction, keep a straight face, and not backpedal. If she seems weirded out by the idea of going back to a room I'll just turn it on her: Her: "I dunno if I want to …
/r/askTRP26/01/19 07:46 AM
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I've done this, definitely stay with the parents for the money. It actually improved my ability to get laid, not the opposite. Being more financially secure meant that I could take girls on more extravagant first/second dates and not care about the money. For example, start your date at some activity venue. Invite your friend group to play pool at a local pool hall. Tell your date to meet you there. Pay for her drinks, and for her pool time. (You'll get bonus social proof for starting the date i…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 03:55 AM
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“Funnily enough, the more powerful a man gets, the more attractive he gets.” The phrase “funnily enough” is just flowery, cliche, crap verbiage that doesn’t need to be there. The sentence would be more clear and crisp without it. Should we continue critiquing each others’ posts on minute insignificant details, in ways that detract from the main post? You next asshole. I could do this all day.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 06:24 AM
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Agreed. I’ve been with girls who were in the middle of a sex binge and fucked on the first date. I’ve been with girls who were just getting out of sex binges and wanted a few dates before the lay. It all depends on where the girl is. I always shift my game when the girl gives me IWTGTKYF though. (“I want to get to know you first”). This is doubly important if she explicitly mentions being “done with casual sex.” I go very unresponsive over SMS and don’t initiate any contact. It’s all on her at t…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 06:10 AM
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True facts. In incel communities you’ll see people posting photos of skinny guys with objective ugly facial features, and they’ll all say “This guy is fucked, he’s genetic garbage, no woman will ever love him.” They don’t get how little your facial features matter if you’re a good package overall. If you have some money, can squat 315, and can hold frame, then some reasonably attractive woman somewhere will fuck you no matter how ugly your face is. All of the factors there are fully under your c…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 05:36 AM
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Stop caring. Focus on your self improvement. Lift, work on your career, game lots of new women. Don’t care about any one girl any more than you’d care about a “life” in a video game. “Oops, I died. Oh well, moving on.” Respawn, try again.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 05:35 PM
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How about: G - O F - U - C - K Y - O - U - R - S - E - L - F
/r/TheRedPill14/01/19 09:48 PM
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My first order litmus test of Alpha has always been “how many women want to fuck you at any given time, or would want to fuck you if you took the minimal initiative to terminate your monk mode and invite them out.” It’s far from perfect, but it’s a good starting point. It can give false positives, but not false negatives. If the answer is 0 you’re definitely not an Alpha.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/19 09:46 PM
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It’s different because you would actually live with all those women, have children with them, and share a life with them. I enjoy living with a (good) woman because she adds some value to my home life. She cooks, cleans, goes food shopping, decorates, does the laundry, runs errands, etc... The mundane daily work that goes into maintaining a home goes more smoothly when you have multiple people working at it together. When I’m solo I tend to focus on work, gym, and my social life. The quality of …
/r/TheRedPill14/01/19 09:34 PM
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If you’re on dating apps then open with some clever comment and then ask her out immediately. You: “When you say ‘Japan > USA’ in your profile, do you mean that Japan is better than the USA? Because I disagree.” Her: “Hahah, no. I wouldn’t quite say that. I mean, I meant to say I grew up there but I came here a few years ago.” You: “Cool. Well we should go get some sushi sometime. Preferably here in the USA though, maybe Japan on the second date.” Her: “Hahah, sure! Yes, USA for now, lol.” You: …
/r/askTRP05/01/19 08:40 AM
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It’s a shit test
/r/askTRP05/01/19 08:13 AM
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Lift, make some money, work on your game. A year ago I was thin, broke, and throughly BP. After a bad breakup I did the RP thing for a year and it just works. I bang 19-20 year olds regularly now, and I’m 30. It just takes time, don’t give up. Lift.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 08:12 AM
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Ghosting is fine, there’s nothing wrong with it. It’s a natural byproduct of having a large number of options. If you’re texting with 27 potential partners at once then you literally do not have the time to respond to everyone. You have school, work, friends, and your whole life to deal with. You’re only going to have the emotional energy to respond to 2-3 of them on a given day. You’re only human. Ghosting is something unattractive optionless guys bitch about because they’re never a girl’s top …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 04:03 AM
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This looks fine. As always the stands advice applies: Ignore her, go lift. And stop with the emoji’s.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 03:30 PM
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The analogy doesn’t apply when the genders are flipped. Of course you don’t want your BF hanging out with some other chick. Dudes will fuck anything that moves. On the flip side, women are more choosy with who they fuck. I don’t mind my gf hanging out with significantly less attractive guys because women just don’t sleep around indiscriminately like guys do.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/18 02:34 PM
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Read the Mystery Method
/r/askTRP19/11/18 01:01 PM
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Yeah, I agree. I worded things poorly when I said to “forbid” those behaviors. This clarification hits the nail on the head. Also, just to reinforce my main point: You’re 190lb of lean muscle. Her orbiter is 230lb of squishy belly fat. He lends her board games. He gives her free headshots with his professional camera. He bitches to her when some chick rejects him. He texts her with needy bullshit at 1:30am and she complains out loud, “Jesus, this guy is so annoying.” She’ll never ever fuck him, …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/18 12:18 AM
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Lol bud, I stopped reading your response at “bud.”
/r/TheRedPill19/11/18 12:01 AM
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Breaking up with her for lying is fine, but you fucked up with how you dealt with the orbiter over the course of the relationship. Women will always have beta orbiters. Attractive women will have even more beta orbiters. You’ll never have a relationship where you don’t have to deal with beta orbiters, so just get over it and get used to it. If the dude is a 5 and she’s an 8 then just let her manage him and do whatever the fuck she wants. Women have a deep psychological need to stay connected to …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/18 02:58 PM
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While you certainly can do that sometimes, it’s impossible to get consistent results like that. Mystery makes an analogy to chess. You technically can get your opponent into a checkmate within a few moves, but that’s not usually how it goes. You generally have to play a full game of chess to win. The full game of chess is ~7 hours. A lot of times this will just be due to logistics. She’s turned on but she’s too drunk, or she’s with a friend and doesn’t want to bail on her friend. Or maybe you ha…
/r/askTRP18/11/18 01:48 PM
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Lol, this is hilarious. No, TRP is not about codependency. It’s about getting out of the state of optionlessness, and into abundance. The average 26 year old dude will go out on weekends for the nightlife thing. He’ll and try to flirt with girls and he’ll get rejected literally 99 out of 100 times. He’ll go on Tinder and spend 3 months swiping only to match with one moderately passible chubby girl. So yeah, when that one girl FINALLY comes along he’ll take her even if the relationship dynamic is…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 12:07 AM
1

Nah, don’t ghost. This is just a normal breakage pattern with male bonding sometimes. It’s normal for friends to buy each other drinks or go back and forth lending each other a dollar or two for random shit when hanging out. If someone doesn’t reciprocate they’re probably just in a rut in life and can’t afford to pay you back. It’s not a great move on their part, but it doesn’t deserve excommunication. Call it a loss and hope they pay you back in other forms of favors and friendship, or when the…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 11:47 PM
2

Yeah, don’t apologize and just let it blow over. The correct answer would have been: “Oh, yeah, they’re tiny. Why exactly are you dating me again?” Then smirk. Agree and Amplify.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 11:43 PM
1

Lack of regular sex maybe?
/r/askTRP10/11/18 11:40 PM
3

I’m a 29 year old guy, and I’m very keenly aware of this dynamic when dating. Women seem pretty oblivious to how offensive this habit of theirs is to the men they settle for, and how detrimental it is to their own long term security and happiness. I was on a date with a 27 year old recently. She was a hottie, but her age was starting to show. She ask me what I was looking for. I gave some joking non-answer. The she started talking about how she was in a phase of her life where she wanted a stabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 09:45 PM
3

To flesh out new ideas, for constructive debates, and to help people since TRP helped me so much. All three are apparently difficult because when you post your experiences people just accuse you of lying. And no, it’s still up.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 02:03 PM
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The post describes an increasingly common scenario in which, as a result of social pressure and his own conscious acknowledgement of his desire to get laid, a man attempts to escalate with a woman, despite the fact that she's not actually arousing enough and his attraction to her is not genuine. OP of that post here. That hits the nail on the head. That’s a solid way to concisely rephrase the whole idea. I can’t even count the number of times I’ve logically convinced myself that I should be esca…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 02:12 AM
3

Glad you’re doing so well. There’s no excuse for shitty writing. If you can’t write well under the circumstances then wait until later when you can. It sounds like you have a patience problem if you’re OK with just spewing garbage onto the internet while driving. Also, keep your eyes on the road, Jesus.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 04:06 AM
2

High quality stuff. We should put it in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 02:33 AM
1

I did 5,000/day when I first started working out. Cashews, protein shakes, and a shit ton of milk. Take lactase supplements. Remember that even if you don’t want to eat another bite, you can convince yourself to put the food in your mouth. Worry about the swallowing later when you get there.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 02:32 AM
0

It’s important to not use double question marks at random, to not put random spaces before question marks, and to know when to use “your” versus “you’re.” You don’t seem very high value based on your writing style.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 02:29 AM
3

Move on.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 02:00 AM
11

Back in my day we didn’t have emojis or gifs. I recommend ASCII art. ( . Y . ) ===> (‘)
/r/askTRP07/11/18 01:33 AM
3

Solid post man. Very true on both counts.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 01:20 AM
2

Ah, yeah. That’s it then. It usually takes ~7 hours of hanging out to get a girl to sleep with you. That could be all at once, or over multiple dates. If it hasn’t been 7 hours yet keep trying. It’s totally possible to do it in under 7, but if it hasn’t been 7 yet then don’t be surprised. She’s not “in the wrong” for not putting out before 7 hours. That last thing she said does actually sound like a shit test. A decent answer would be: “Yeah actually. Every minute chatting with you is just tortu…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 12:49 AM
1

Actually, somehow I didn’t see that last reply of hers when reading your post. It was the morning commute, I was still waking up. How much “quality time” have you spent with this girl? Have you gone on real dates? Have you hung out for real? Or has it just brief flirting when you see her around at random? How many hours have you hung out? Net?
/r/askTRP07/11/18 12:18 AM
1

Sounds like a fail. She never will. Next.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 11:11 PM
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Lol, you gave her your number? Did she not want to give you hers?
/r/askTRP06/11/18 09:00 PM
1

These aren’t really fights. You poke the guy with the sick and then tell him it’s not his turn to shoot, then you shoot. You just ask him to move if you have to take a piss. When he says no you just open the door to the bathroom while shoving him away, and then you walk in. Etc... If it’s a scrawnier guy who already knows he’s being inappropriate then the chances of actually getting into a fight are basically zero. The legit fights I’ve seen break out are always between dudes who are equally phy…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 06:57 PM
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Yep, these are all personal experiences except for the actual catcall one. I’ve never had a guy catcall a girl I was with while I was there, but that’s how I imagine I’d handle it.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 06:35 PM
1

No need to get mad. You can do this strategy while keeping your cool. It works better if you stay calm the entire time and just coldly carry out the actions.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 06:30 PM
1

Yeah, sure, I’m very insecure. I think this is what feminists would call “toxic masculinity.” We all know that displays of strength and dominance are just toxic forms of insecurity and inner weakness. I just wear my masculinity as a mask to hide my inner beta, really. Real men always walk away from insults and confrontations. Weakness is strength. Not fighting is winning. Vote Democrat.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 06:17 PM
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Yep, this. Seconded.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:57 PM
0

Sure, yeah. Let’s go with that.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:31 PM
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I’ve gotten moderately physical lots of times and it’s never escalated like that. You’re fear/anxiety mongering like a little girl. Usually you can tell if the person is mentally unhinged, or the type of person who would be carrying a knife, or the kind of abject BP beta who would go cry to the police with an assault charge. You’re playing pool and some dude insists on shooting again even though he just made a foul. Shove him with your cue as he tries to shoot and tell him to fuck off. It’s your…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:22 PM
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That wasn’t a shit test, it was a genuine rejection delivered playfully. A shit test would have been: 1) “I dunno, I shouldn’t.” 2) “Don’t you already have a girlfriend or something?” 3) “Hahah, are you used to girls just coming over whenever you ask?” A shit test expresses some ambiguity or uncertainty, or it screams out for a flirtatious answer. 1) “K” or “Do what you want” (then stop responding). 2) “Oh yeah, three girlfriends actually. They won’t mind.” 3) “Yeah. I usually have them bring a …
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:06 PM
1

If he’s bigger than you then sure. If you’re bigger than him I’d go shove him in the chest and say “Go ahead, say that again.” If he says it again shove him in the chest again, and keep giving him shit. If he doesn’t say it again then say “Say it again asshole,”’and shove him in the chest again and keep giving him shit. Repeat until he apologizes.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:09 PM
-1

And you do have a problem with hypergamy? Honestly, I used to as well, but now after a lot of TRP dating experience hypergamy seems normal to me. It’s just how women are. They’re shitty at being providers, for both themselves and others. They’re biologically and emotionally built to have babies and then spend their time raising those babies. Since they’re so helpless (or were helpless in the ancient past when life was harsher) it makes sense that they’ve evolved to pair with only the strongest a…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:03 PM
1

Sounds right
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:21 PM
0

A lot of guys are confused about what ASD is. When a girl has real ASD she looks like a kid who you put a marshmallow in front of, and then told that he’d get a big surprise if he could go 60 minutes without eating it. The kid will be salivating at the marshmallow, but also considering the mystery prize he’d get for waiting. You’ll be able to see the kid’s inner struggle, it’ll be palpable. When a girl has real ASD pushing her over the edge is trivial. They make it easy for you by blatantly show…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:19 PM
1

Well you have to start with one before you can upgrade to two, unless you can set up two dates simultaneously and have them both go well enough to continue. When I started spinning plates I picked up a few girls who I’d see only very occasionally for sex. Maybe once every 4-5 weeks. When I started dating girls who I saw as long term prospects it really took the edge off. If something tanked on a date I could just go “Oh well, I guess I’ll hit up one of my casual plates instead.” Two-at-time is i…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 01:55 PM
1

Next her. Never accept anything other than enthusiastic interest. The race thing was maybe just a fuck up, but bashing feminism on a date is fine. I do it on purpose sometimes just to weed out the bitchy feminist chicks. At least in the US, there are plenty of traditional girls floating around who are just as disgusted with feminism as you are. Occasionally if a girl is a feminist or a batshit crazy religious nut job I’ll go along with her views and just deflect if the subjects come up. I’ll get…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 01:43 PM
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The key thing to realize is that our biological circuitry for pretty much everything evolved in a drastically different pre-modern environment. We crave sugar because energy dense foods were hard to come by in the ancient past. Now we have sugar coming out the ass, so we have to suppress our sugar cravings and forcibly impose dietary restrictions on ourselves. Our natural sugar cravings used to help keep us alive, now they make us sick. We synthesize vitamin D from sunlight in our skin cells. Th…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 01:24 PM
2

Just Seeking, not sure why I generalized it. I suppose I was trying to keep it a secret because of how well it works. I don’t want other dudes flooding the SMP on there. $90 isn’t a steep investment for me. I have a high income. If you don’t have a high income then it’s not a game you can pull off. You have to be able to pay for fun nights out and honestly not care about the money. If they get any sense that you feel entitled to sex because you spent a significant amount on entertaining them the…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:31 AM
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I have hot 20-22 year old plates from sugar daddy websites. I don’t pay them anything. They’re easy to pick up because most men on those sites who have to pay for sex are extremely unattractive and/or have mental problems. When the girls see a normal looking attractive dude on there they pounce. The amount of likes and attention I get on those sites is crazy compared to normal dating apps. Take them out and buy them dinner. Make out with them at some point on the date and then take them home to …
/r/askTRP05/11/18 12:59 AM
1

You likewise have no idea how weird it is when you share stories and advice that have actually been working for you and then people just straight up go “lol, didn’t happen, liar liar,” and give you shit about your strategies. What even is this community? You’re right that defensiveness isn’t the most graceful reaction. I’m just venting frustration after putting effort into writing these and then having the comment section flooded with garbage nonsense from internet randoms. I’m just going to sto…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 10:54 PM
3

The only experience I have formally studying grammar was learning Latin in college. Honestly, picking up a 101 level Latin book isn’t a bad idea. It’s a complicated language. Learning it teaches you a lot about linguistic grammatical structures, and those lessons carry over into English. It’s easier to think about grammar when learning a new language because you’re forced to think about it more, unlike with English where you already have an intuitive sense of things and can get away with turning…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 10:04 PM
3

“Yeah man I'm an engineering student so my writing might be sloppy. It’s been like 3 years since I took a english class. I also threw this post together pretty quick.” Capitalize I’s Separate complete ideas with a period, not “because.” “Its” is possessive. “It’s” can be used as a contraction for “it has been.” “This post,” not “that post.” We’re here now and taking about, it’s right there. If you’re standing next to a friend talking about him to another friend you say “Look at this guy right he…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 07:26 PM
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Work on your writing. Capitalize your I’s, use more punctuation, don’t write in run on sentences, organize your ideas better. Do this all even if she and your peers don’t. I’m intending to be a pest here. This can make a difference in your text game on dating apps. You’ll come off as having a higher IQ if you write with good form, and IQ is one (of many) factors in your SMV. Women like high IQ men (not necessarily nerds) because they tend to be more financially successful.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 07:14 PM
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Neither. Nothing that requires gel or styling. Just keep it short and clean. Let it sit on it’s own. https://goo.gl/images/v1Ab9o
/r/askTRP03/11/18 07:10 PM
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Heavy deadlifts have always instantly cured my depression when it resurfaces. Also banging 20 year olds. But if none of those are available, then heavy deadlifts.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 04:21 PM
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Yep, you hit the nail on the head here. Good analysis. That’s exactly what’s happening.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 04:19 PM
1

Doesn’t feel like her frame when she’s on top of me saying “I want you so bad right now” and then sending me pages of texts and nudes after.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 04:17 PM
2

I said to adjust the strategy to your own incomes. If you make $50,000 then buy her a $7 beer.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 04:16 PM
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And what makes you the prize? What are you bringing to the table other than your own ego that makes you worth chasing? Being a potential future provider is an SMV boost. It’s something you bring to the table and makes you worth chasing. If you have so much money in the bank that you could burn $200 and not care then there’s nothing wrong with spending it to have a fun night out with her. It shows her that your relationship with money is “I have enough of it that $200 is insignificant.” This will…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 04:15 PM
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Heavy Deadlifts
/r/askTRP03/11/18 03:54 PM
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Guarantee you I am. I do this with new girls every weekend lately, lol.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 03:13 AM
1

lol, short but sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 02:31 AM
1

Be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 02:17 AM
1

“Life is shitty and I’m helpless to exercise any power over my circumstances.” Classic female victim whoring. Fuck you. Work out and stay fit. Eat sanely. You can maintain a fit trim body even into your 40’s and 50’s. Be submissive to the men you’re romantically involved with. Cook. Clean. Be the housewife. Don’t bitch and nag. Don’t turn into a bitter shrew as your relationship progresses and you start taking him for granted. Be sexually generous. If you see a man you like, even in your 30’s or…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 02:02 AM
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Lol, start a conversation with some passive aggressive shit like “Pass. Sorry.” and then gaslight the other person when they get defensive. “No need to get defensive.” You sound like a girl dude, stop that.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 01:39 AM
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Good luck with 9’s who don’t have mental problems.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 12:27 AM
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You’re so clever, gee. I’m so impressed.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 10:48 PM
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I’m sure you do well with that. Honestly, I’m not even being sarcastic. That’s fine if she has nobody else in her life offering her anything more exciting. You’d do even better offering more though, unless you really care that much about the money, or just don’t have it.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 10:34 PM
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Still incoherent. Enjoy your -5 karma.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 10:31 PM
1

Alright, you win this one. I didn’t know that. I did see it puttering around +1-3 at times, but you’re right, if that’s the case then it’s almost certainly negative and not 0. Though a lot of detracting comments are also getting downvoted into the negatives, so I don’t really know know what’s going on here.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 09:55 PM
0

Your English is literally incoherent.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 08:16 PM
1

Yeah, that’s reasonable advice. If the dinner is tanking split the bill and leave. Try not to have it tank though.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 08:07 PM
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Yep, exactly. There is definitely a lot of nuance to this strategy and it’s hard to pull of correctly unless it’s 100% genuine and congruent. It’s more of an advanced strategy because unlike “hold frame,” suggesting “pay for the date” has a lot of extra complexity. You can’t take it at face value, and the advice isn’t compressible into a tiny little maxim. Well... maybe it is. “Be actually rich, pay for the date.”
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 08:06 PM
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“If you can't afford 20 bucks worth of vodka, your shit's not together enough to have an active dating life anyway.” Finally someone sane on this thread. Yes, exactly this. We have some differences, but I generally agree with everything you said. Same strategy with a different tint. Upvoted.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 08:01 PM
1

Not even reading this. Just downvoting. Bye.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 07:56 PM
5

There is a problem. You’re in a dangerous position. If she’s hot and physically fit, and has a reasonable personality, then she could be doing better than you. If she’s with you regardless then it’s because she sees a large amount of Alpha potential in your future. She’s betting that your potential for success will actualize into real success, so she’s trying to lock you down early. Then if you pull it off she’ll go “Haha bitches, I got to him early, he’s mine now!” But if your shit doesn’t pan …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 07:52 PM
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Well yeah, obviously don’t do this with useless thots. Figure out how to get attention from higher quality women, then do this. That physically perfect, submissive, high IQ 23 year old HB9 will find rich dudes who give her the #3 thing. The dudes are out there, and that’s your competition. If you want the hot girls you have to be muscular. If you want the hot HIGH QUALITY girls you have to be both muscular and rich.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 07:42 PM
1

Most? It’s literally half. Can you not do math? It keeps fluctuating at 0. Half didn’t like it, not “most.” 20 + (-20) = 0 Half, not “most.” I just called my old 3rd grade teacher to confirm and everything. Half.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 07:35 PM
1

I have had these experiences, yes. Stop being a nitpicky little girl. The exact dollar amounts don’t really matter so much as the general vibe. I’m not lying about my income. I’m highly educated and have the student loan debt to show for it. If you’re with a girl who has no job and is trying to be an actress and you make $200,000/yr then you can give her a #3. My #1’s were instances where the girl paid for some of the date but I paid for way more despite the fact that the date was going badly. I…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 07:32 PM
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I said I exaggerated in the #1, #2, #3 stories for the sake of making a point. I never had it quite as extremely bad as #1 either. I work a boring high paying day job and do actually make $200,000/year. I live in NYC where these incomes are normal. I’m frugal and I don’t lead a generally opulent lifestyle with eating out and living in fancy neighborhoods like most well off New Yorkers, so I don’t get eaten alive by the cost of living. Dates in #3 mode are doable for me, and I’ve had the most suc…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 07:14 PM
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I was once a broke thin soy boy in hard core beta mode, who still lived with his parents deep into his 20’s. I wasn’t too far from being a incel. Now I lift and I make $200,000/year. The decade spent in beta mode studying and never getting laid at least paid off financially. All three are experiences I’ve actually had, your Majesty. I’ve seen the worst of near-incel beta life, the best of the Alpha the fucks life where you fuck three new girls in one weekend, and then everything in between durin…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 07:04 PM
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I addressed that by stressing that you use the provider tricks as gravy on top of existing desire. #3, not #1. Did you even read my post?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 06:55 PM
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Lol, you know you struck a nerve when you’re post is at the top of the controversial filter and has 0 karma because 20 + (-20) = 0.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 06:46 PM
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Nothing about your story even remotely resembles my scenario #3 other than the superficial fact that the men are well of. #3 dude lifts and is muscular, has real game, and is spinning plates. Your dude sounds like a thin (or fat) low-T beta cuck who can sometimes be a situational Alpha because of his money. #3 is the SMV pinnacle for man in his stride. Your dude sounds like a raging beta who isn’t in control of his social life and is overcompensating with his money. The sex #3 dude gets is enthu…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 06:39 PM
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Always pay. Providership is a primal thing women expect. Imagine you’re in 7,000BC. Some chick gives you IOI’s and you fuck her. The next day you bring some meat back to camp from the hunt. You wave your girl over to hang. She asks you for some meat you go “lol, I worked hard to kill this boar. You can kill one yourself and get your own meat.” The girl would rightfully be like “Umm... what the FUCK dude?! I’m hungry!” This is essentially what a women’s hindbrain feels like when you expect her to…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 06:32 PM
1

Yep, for sure. Be in Alpha fucks mode like you said, but then simultaneously play the role of the financially dominant provider (but if she sees that as beta just laugh it off and emphasize your Alpha fucks side for the next few minutes, as you suggested). That’ll make her identify you as that elusive chimera of Alpha fucks and beta bux that’s she’s never seen in the same man in her entire dating life. If you do the mixed mode correctly it’s the kind of thing that’ll unhinge even an HB9. HB6-7’s…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 06:25 PM
1

Yes, I know exactly what you mean. It’s all about your inner monologue and your frame. Are you thinking to yourself “Look at me standing here like an asshole. I feel like a servant. I’ll probably buy this chick drinks and then she’ll reject a kiss later. This sucks, I haven’t gotten laid for months.” Or are your thinking “I already started with the kino and got IOI’s when we hugged hello outside the bar. I’m going to show this chick a good time and then fuck her 3 hours from now, just like the o…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 05:55 PM
-15

These weren’t day dreams. Accounting for some exaggerations and colorful storytelling for effect, all three are experiences I’ve actually had throughout the evolution of my career and my dating life. I highly recommend mode #3, adjusted for income.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 05:43 PM
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You’re analogy has some merit, but it’s not the same thing. I’m familiar with the sugar daddy world. Women demand huge allowances as a condition for going on a first date in the first place. They spend the money on lavish clothing and jewelry. They go on fancy vacations but withhold sex if they feel like it. The men are not usually very attractive or romantically competent. The women are just selling their youth and will get dumped as soon as their beauty expires. Paying for dates is not being a…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 05:41 PM
0

You just get laid a fuck ton more when you adopt TRP views on women, and TRP strategies for interacting with women based on those views. You’ll go from having banged only two HB6’s in your whole life, to sudden banging 5 new girls in a month, two of whom are HB9’s. If you have a sufficiently big social circle then you should know a dude or two who has fucked a lot of women. And I mean a LOOOOOT of women. There’s that one guy who banged 7 new girls 7 days in a row. There’s the ripped 43 year old …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 12:11 AM
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Social Proof & Performance Burden He’s a prominent person at the event. People must like and trust this guy. The weight of having to pick good music is on his shoulders, and he’s doing a good job under pressure. He must be good at doing stuff under pressure in general. Women factor a lot more into their attraction equation than just looks (that’s not an excuse not to lift though, they factor in muscularity a fuck ton too; they’re hard to please in general).
/r/askTRP31/10/18 11:51 PM
0

“Oh yeah, like 4-5 per day actually. I find it physically exhausting at this point.”
/r/askTRP31/10/18 06:05 PM
6

Remember to play off of her cues when it comes to defining what “friendship” means. As a dude when you get LJBF you have to be aware that 29/30 times this will mean “Casual acquaintances who never talk and see each other maybe 2 times per year, probably only when running into each other by accident.” Feel free to accept her LJBF. “Sure, friends it is. Why not.” Always look to her to set the terms of the friendship though, through her actions and not her words. If she puts in an effort to keep a …
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:58 PM
1

Movie, American Beauty.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:47 PM
2

Think back to the last 5 girls you slept with. Add up their HB 1-9 ratings and divide by 4. Then multiply by 1.23, we call this is the Grimwald coefficient. Next subtract 1, divide by 4, raise 2 to the power of the result, and add 3. This is the Beckner procedure. If the result is 10 or below then that’s your SMV. If your result is above 10 then go buy a magic 8 ball and ask it what to do next. Historically speaking I’ve found this to be the most accurate procedure.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:30 PM
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Think back to the last 5 girls you slept with. Add up their HB 1-9 ratings and divide by 4. Then multiply by 1.23, we call this is the Grimwald coefficient. Next subtract 1, divide by 4, raise 2 to the power of the result, and add 3. This is the Beckner procedure. If the result is 10 of below then that’s your SMV. If your result is above 10 then go buy a magic 8 ball and ask it what to do next. Historically speaking I’ve found this to be the most accurate procedure.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:30 PM
3

It varies by the girl. There’s one primary trap that you have to watch out for here. Betas are perpetually in LTR mode. They’ll fall for the girl hard after the first date and text her right after, or the next morning, suggesting a second date. If the girl is sufficiently into the beta and is looking to settle down then then she’ll reciprocate, respond immediately, and enthusiastically schedule a second date. Things will get really deep really fast and they’ll quickly negotiate monogamy and slip…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:19 PM
3

Those dudes are Alpha as fuck man. They manned up and LTR’d their older girlfriends for who they were on the inside, even when they could still be getting mountains of 22 year old pussy. Only a Real Man (TM) would be so brave. Meanwhile, look at this asshole, 51 year old actor Vincent Cassel. He just married a a 21 year old. Such insecure masculinity, ugh. It’s so disturbing.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 02:45 PM
1

This is the correct response. Agree and amplify. “Looks like I must have. Who is this again?”
/r/askTRP31/10/18 02:34 PM
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If you cheat on literally day #1 in an attempt to dull the “inevitable” breakup pain then it doesn’t sound like you plan for it to be LONG TERM to being with. Not an LTR. Sounds like she’s just your highest priority plate. I’d also accept STR, or “Short Term Relationship.” I know dudes who do STR’s in serial on purpose. They enjoy the start of the relationship during the honeymoon phase and then proceed with zero tolerance for any stupid female bullshit. When the stupid female bullshit inevitabl…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 07:13 AM
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Watch this: Louie C.K. rape joke It’s pathetic because he’s obviously an abject, overweight, out of shape beta with no confidence and no genuine dominance whatsoever. He thinks it’s a joke, but women really do enjoy being “raped” (emphasis on the scare quotes). LMR keeps coming up and being discussed in our society for a reason. It speaks to a deeper, darker, and nearly universal part of female sexuality. If you’re a hot dominant Alpha then this is all just child’s play. You blow past LMR with f…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 06:46 AM
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A lot of men are confused about what LMR is, and how to properly handle it without venturing into rape territory. I’ll start by giving you an example from gaming a first date into bed, and then I’ll compare this to LMR: You’re on a first date. You have dinner and then venue switch to a bar. At one point during the conversation you talk about your favorite movie. You’re far from both of your homes, so you decide to make a move and say “Hey, we should go grab a hotel room nearby and watch that mov…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 06:12 AM
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Lift. Squats and deadlifts with full weight. Bench, OHP, and rows with light physical therapy-range weights. Consult a doctor first.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 04:34 AM
3

Def gay.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 04:31 AM
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Lol, humble bragging. Glad you’re so awesome dude, enjoy your downvote.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 04:29 AM
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Hamsters are the real Alpha pet. I have 37.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 04:24 AM
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Sounds like you’re just spinning plates and lying. Doesn’t sound like an LTR.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 04:23 AM
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Keep at it. Wait to have more girls younger than you as you age. It’ll get easier. 18 year olds are going to be into older dudes. They won’t be looking at freshmen. You’re more likely to just get very discouraged. It might be a better idea to figure out how to find new batches of freshmen girls to game. Join some activity clubs in your extended county area, like rock climbing or hiking or something. Something where there will be new girls not form your school. If you had a steady supply of new g…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:32 AM
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Don’t waste your time. Lift instead.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:14 AM
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Oh, boo hoo, 30 minutes, cry me a river. That’s a totally normal travel time for a date. It can take that long to get from one part of NYC to another, and that’s within the same city. I see where you’re coming from in your main point though. Yes, if you approach dating like that then it’ll be boring. The trick is to have interesting plans for the night that you’d enjoy just for your own sake, and then have her come along for the ride. My own version of this is my usual weekend bar hopping routin…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 06:27 PM
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Yes, they do. Men have provider instincts that they’ll act on even in the complete absence of any external reward. It gives them a tiny hit of good feels, which in the complete absence of any other female attention is at least something and not nothing. In the age of the internet and cheap camera equipment average chicks are learning to capitalize on this more and more, as a side hustle. You don’t have to be a professional porn star like in the 70’s to financially benefit from your sexuality on …
/r/askTRP30/10/18 05:34 PM
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Sexually successful Alphas fuck so many women that settling down makes no sense at all. They can rack up N-counts into the multiple 100’s over a lifetime. No woman will ever make you want to stop fucking the other 7 hotties you constantly have on rotation. Men have an expiration date too though. It’s not 30, but it’s somewhere. 50? 60? 70? 80? It makes sense to settle down only once you really have to. If you’re extremely solid with your fitness and your finances then you can still wife up a hot…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 05:19 PM
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23 isn’t that old to be a virgin, especially if you’re not lifting and not really trying. If you’re not lifting and not really trying then your only shot with women will be for some passable HB6 to come along who is just as horny and lonely as you are. You’ll both go “Fuck it, fine, you’ll do” and slip quickly into an LTR. That random HB6 could come along at 18, or 21, or 27. Who the fuck knows. It’s just chance. This is how most men end up finding their girlfriends or wives. If you see guys aro…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 04:22 PM
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I find cold approaching during the day pretty impossible. I think it’s because women sense immediately that the only reason you’re talking to them is because you want to get laid. I imagine it’s nearly impossible to pull off unless you’re really that ripped and they’re just immediately DTF because your hyper masculine Alpha presence. I also just feel pretty beta if I walk up to girls one after another trying to get laid. It makes you seem/feel so thirsty. This as opposed to, let’s say, being in …
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:57 AM
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Find a bar that has a pool table. Become a regular and hang out for hours on end shooting pool. Women will filter in and out throughout the session, assuming there are women your age in the area to being with. Darts is another option, if the bar doesn’t have pool. I find darts harder to play for long sessions, but that could be because my bar’s dart equipment is total shit. They’re all crooked and sometimes literally missing the wings. Maybe buy your own darts and bring them, and get really good…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:44 AM
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100% it is has. Bleeding heart liberal before TRP, now a centrist. I’d say that in general I stopped wanting to coddle people, or see people coddled. After my BP break up I coddled some people in my life and it didn’t go well. Then a friend chose not to coddle me during a hard time. He knew it’d force me to figure out my own shit, and it did. I stopped coddling women in romantic situations, and that’s working out a whole lot better too. Example: Abortion is fine, but men should have the right to…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:56 AM
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I beg to differ fine sir! Scroll down in this thread for my much longer comment.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 12:25 AM
1

After having been red pilled I plan to run my next cohabitation as a TPE sex kink. TPE is short for “Total Power Exchange.” Believe it or not a lot of women are turned on by this sort of thing. As the name implies, TPE’s have very strict rules: 1) She doesn’t speak unless spoken to. She can ask for speaking liberties, but they won’t always be granted. She’ll generally get speaking liberties when spending casual time together eating, watching a movie, or socializing in groups. 2) She’s given a st…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 12:22 AM
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A few tips: 1) Try different types of condoms. It’s common for condoms to slip off or break if they don’t fit right. If you suspect you might have a bigger than average dick then try Trojan Magnums. Lots of young guys who need magnums don’t realize it until they have a bunch of shitty experiences with normal condoms first. 2) Don’t lose frame when you’re having condom issues. It’s inevitable, it’s normal. Don’t act sad or discouraged. It’ll just throw her off kilter too and ruin the mood. When y…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:17 PM
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Yeah, indeed. “Ignore her” here means don’t show large proactive levels of interest. Definitely don’t literally ignore texts though.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 06:47 PM
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Couldn’t have said it better myself. Don’t text. Lift, ignore her.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 04:19 AM
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Ten 1’s is better, I’d say. Or twenty 0.5’s.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 11:43 PM
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Find bars with pool tables. Playing pool gives you a good reason to just hang around and have social interactions organically.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 11:42 PM
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Do you have a meal plan and a good cafeteria? You should have access to unlimited good high protein food in a college cafeteria. Chicken, fish, meatballs, etc...
/r/askTRP26/10/18 05:37 PM
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Lifting is not lowering your SMV, your game is just not calibrated for this new environment yet. No, these girls are not genuinely expressing a distaste for muscular men. Yes, these are all shit tests. You’re just failing them super hard right now. You can’t really be blamed for fucking up here. You’re still young and you’re running into the big society-wide meta shit test that is feminism as a whole. It’s the biggest shit test of all, almost nobody passes. People will make fun of you for being …
/r/askTRP26/10/18 08:41 AM
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On a more serious note, being a virgin at 20 as a guy isn’t totally abnormal, especially in the sexually confused upside down clown world that is modern America. You’ll get there. Don’t get lazy though. Do you lift?
/r/askTRP26/10/18 06:45 AM
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*bows*
/r/askTRP26/10/18 06:42 AM
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Five times per hour, including while sleeping.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 06:24 AM
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She’s playing you. She’s a bartender, it’s literally her job to play you. Bartenders flirt with men and give them glimpses of emotional/sexual stimulation so that they’ll come to the bar and drink. Don’t be delusional, move on. I have all my local bar tenders on Facebook and Instagram too. There are dudes who are jacked enough and hot enough to bang bartenders, but they’re usually spinning 12 plates at once and have 1,500 Tinder matches. If you’re on AskTRP you are not that dude. Move on.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 06:23 AM
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I don’t have this problem (yet), but do you lift? The bald look is usually fine. This guy definitely gets laid: http://imagecdn.bodybuilding.com/profile-photo/600553/f1ff1c38bd63475e8f89e0c0f8ed3f1d.jpg
/r/askTRP26/10/18 06:16 AM
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No broken home. It’s just that there are a lot of absurd histrionics that go on in BP land when women run things in the family. Some empty nester house wife will put a month of effort into throwing a blow out Christmas. The event won’t really be about Christmas, it’ll be more like validation porn for the house wife. If the daughter’s boyfriend can’t make it for some reason this will be a code red nuclear disaster. The family might shun him for life for snubbing them and not coming, even if the r…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 06:01 AM
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Wow, visceral. Yes, exactly all that.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 05:33 AM
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Weird sexual shit does not go well in LTRs, EVER. It’s better to get your rocks off doing this stuff while you’re spinning plates and just fucking around. Fuck 80 women and then settle down with an LTR when you’re ready and that one rare girl finally passes all of your scrupulous vetting. Then be relatively normal and monogamous with her. The only kink that does go well in LTRs dom/sub BDSM stuff, where the man is stereotypically dominant and the woman is stereotypically submissive. Handcuffs, r…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 05:15 AM
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Focus on new women. You need to have a steady stream of new women to game every weekend. If you don’t, find one. If you have one, then why fight old uphill battles?
/r/askTRP26/10/18 04:59 AM
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Too busy counting up my +5 karma on this comment exchange, compared to your 0.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 04:55 AM
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Best thing a women can say to you. A girl said that to me at a bar once and then started making out with me. Another one said it when I invited her into the cab with me to go back to my place. She was contemplating going home and doing the ASD thing. But then she said “I hate you” and got in the cab. We made out in the cab and fucked back at my place. It’s the same thing as when you totally demolish your buddy in a video game or something. He might say “Dude, I hate you so much right now. You di…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 04:54 AM
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Go lift. Gym. StrongLifts 5x5. Google it. Lifting will fix all of your problems. Be sure to eat lots of protein.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 04:46 AM
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Both. Neither. Both AND neither.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 04:34 AM
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Playful witty banter. Cocky funny. Tease her. Make her laugh. Don’t take it seriously. Same rule for all ages. Unfortunately, men tend to default to having “serious adult interactions” with women. If you’re 27 and you meet another 27 year old you can easily slip into one of many comfortable tropes. “So what do you do for a living?” “Want to go a very standard unimaginative dinner date?” “So, what do you think about that latest news story?” It’s POSSIBLE to interact with an age-match woman like t…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 04:33 AM
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That’d be awful. Never get into an LTR where you’re not the financially dominant partner. Rollo advises that you have the house/apartment solely in your name, for example. And that you should be able to afford to pay for it solo. I still date girls who make as much money as I do, but the prospect of an LTR with them just feels gross to me. My dating life tends to be more enjoyable when the girl is making way less than me. She can latch on to me and enjoy my comparatively comfortable life with me…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 04:04 AM
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Yeah. Static content is the best. Why even have a forum where you can post your own take on things and stimulate an interactive discussion that dredges up new ideas and gives people a chance to interact. Let’s just close this all down and re-read the exact same static content from the sidebar every day. Solid.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 03:54 AM
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Exactly. What a wonderful little anecdote. Blue Pill guys have too much sympathy for female tears. They think “Gee, I’d have to feel pretty awful to cry like that. This must be really important to her if she’s crying like that.” They assume that she’s an adult displaying a genuine stress reaction to a situation that legitimately needs to be ameliorated. She’s not. She’s just a little child crying because she didn’t get the candy she wanted. Only you can determine for yourself if the tears are le…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 03:51 AM
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True on many points, yep. Women are still children at heart though, probably in any culture.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 02:43 AM
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Nah. You’ve clearly just never been saturated in an East Coast liberal feminist suburban community before. This shit is real, and it’s very common in some parts of the world.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 02:32 AM
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How old are you? What’s the oldest woman you’ve dated, and what’s the deepest you’ve gotten into an LTR? Are you a natural born Alpha, or have you ever been in a blue pill LTR? Where did you grow up? Was it suburbia in a liberal East Coast state? Maybe we just come from different cultures. This shit is all pretty standard for highly educated late 20’s HB6’s in liberal feminist suburban East Coast metropolitan areas. It’s pretty much the epicenter for the extreme BP gender dystopia that the manos…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 02:25 AM
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“Treat her like you would treat a child” and “Expect of her no more than you’d expect of a child” is actionable advice. Though I guess I’m assuming you already have experience dealing with children. I also did give more detailed advice toward the bottom. Respond with “No worries,” and ignore her. Don’t let her have a say in the household finances, etc... Did you not read those bits?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 02:19 AM
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I tend toward AWALT here, though with some women it can be deceptive. You can have an LTR with a girl for years on end and she’ll seem very financially responsible. Always keeps a weekly/monthly budget in a spreadsheet. Saves effectively. Etc... But then all of a sudden blammo, you have a weird year where she decides to “loan” her broke hippy sister $8,000 to start some retarded vegan cat food company, and breaks down in tears when you try to say no to her $20,000 wedding plans. A woman’s capaci…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 01:51 AM
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That’s fine. That’s why I added “non-functional” and “excessive.” I’m sure you don’t get moody if you have to go without a fancy meal for a few days, and I doubt that you’d flip shit at your partner if she let the house slip below A-grade showroom quality for a day or two. Women take this stuff to a whole extra level, and they ascribe unhealthy levels of seriousness to it. I’m sure the amount of effort you put into it is within basic reason, and I’d hope you wouldn’t tank an otherwise good relat…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 11:03 PM
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That’s true. We shed the whiny sniveling victim-centric childhood behaviors. We retain and amplify the masculine and potentially productive ones.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 10:46 PM
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So long as you’re making entry level six figures you’ll get the SMV boost from being well off. Like $120,000/yr, or something like that. In the long term though, it’s not great to be stuck somewhere where your salary will be fixed and you can’t advance. You can make $120,000 at a small 10 person software company, for example, but you’ll never rise through the ranks to leadership positions to make $500,000+ because there just aren’t any ranks to rise through. On the other hand, being at a large m…
/r/askTRP25/10/18 10:43 PM
1

Lawyer sounds totally solid. I just didn’t feel like listing all the typically profitable professions. Maybe try to study for the LSAT in advance, or at least look at the material and get a feel for what subjects it covers.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 10:36 PM
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Jesus dude, you’re a beast. You’re 15 you say? I’m inclined not to believe your numbers, but I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt and take you at your word. If these are your numbers, and you’re cut as opposed to fat-but-strong, then you’ll do fine with women as time progresses, even without trying. 15 is pretty young. You can’t really expect to get laid much at 15. Women tend to prefer men who are older and more mature. At 15 you don’t have very many sexually active younger women to chose fro…
/r/askTRP25/10/18 10:29 PM
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Not true. These scenarios aren’t hypothetical. They’re taken from my own life, the lives of the many couples I’ve know closely over the years, and the lives of many women I’ve known intimately or had close friendships with. Men tend not to cry when things don’t go their way. Men tend to keep plans even if they’re not ecstatic about them, because they’re less solipsistic and have a stronger sense of external obligation. Men can indeed tank their finances trying to make money in the stock market, …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 10:09 PM
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Agreed. I'm 29 and I got red pilled about 8 months ago. I spent 8 years in two blue pill relationships with HB6's, back to back. I basically lost my 20's. I started lifting less than a year ago. I already have solid results. I was very thin before TRP, so all of my gains are good lean muscle. I never had to cut. I had a phase where I did 5,000 calories per day, tracked with MyFitnessPal, so my newbie gains came on really fast. I wear form fitting clothes now, which I fill out pretty well. Both m…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 06:43 PM
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Jesus Christ, you’re so fucking dumb. Take your downvotes here as an indication of something.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 04:07 PM
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Wish I could upvote you more than once for this post.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 06:14 AM
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You’re very off base here. It’s very common for women to be so passive that they do literally nothing to help you advance the interaction. They show no proactive interest at all. The only IOI’s you get from them are passive. She maintains eye contact. She sticks around you when you’re there. If you touch her casually she doesn’t recoil. If you tried to kiss her it wouldn’t be totally unreasonable for her to say “Sorry, I thought this was just platonic.” A outside observe might reasonably say “Ye…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 06:13 AM
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The other day someone posted a thread called “When she’s into you YOU’LL KNOW.” I posted the following in reply. I’m copy-pasting it wholesale because it’s so relevant: [SNIP] This is generally true. A solid prospect you meet at a bar will often kino you back heavily and then respond to a text later with great enthusiasm. But there are definitely other girls that it’s not so clear with. They’re passive and they just go with the flow. They don’t IOI you heavily, but they’re down to hang and they …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 06:06 AM
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What are your weights on the 5 big lifts? It’s true that social proof and status are real things, but young girls will often go for the raw physical Alpha even regardless of other factors. If you’re jacked you’ll get laid, guaranteed.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 12:45 AM
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Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Lift. Li…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 12:42 AM
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I stopped reading when I saw the uncapitalized i’s. Stay in school, you don’t seem like the kind of person who would thrive on their own financially without the degree.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 10:56 PM
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Are you sleeping with her already? I sure as hell hope so. If not you’re 100% in beta orbiter mode.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 10:55 PM
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Yeah, I know what you mean. A lot of it for me also is random spikes of motivation where I go “Hey! I’m gonna do this today.” But then the rest of the days I sink back into a less productive attitude. Lifting helps a lot. If I lift my mood and motivations are a lot better overall.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 09:02 PM
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Fair enough. In that case that makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 07:14 PM
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Sounds like you’re putting zero effort into that basket and walking away for no reason other than shyness and fear of being assertive.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 06:54 PM
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I was exactly where you were just a few months ago. I’m a year out of a 4.5 year relationship. We were engaged and planning on having kids. Everything with new girls for the first 8 months after the break up felt hollow and empty in comparison. You’re still not over her, not really. You might not be thinking about her proactively, but your brain is still in a mode where it expects and wants that deeper connection that you had grown so accustomed to. The trick to find that deeper connection with …
/r/askTRP23/10/18 06:24 AM
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What an exceptionally douchie reply. Enjoy your oneitis cycles. Looks like they’ve done you solid so far in life.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 06:03 AM
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This is generally true. A solid prospect you meet at a bar will often kino you back heavily and then respond to a text later with great enthusiasm. But there are definitely other girls that it’s not so clear with. They’re passive and they just go with the flow. They don’t IOI you heavily, but they’re down to hang and they don’t flake. They accept your kino, but they don’t ever touch you back. You always text them, they never text you. When you do text them it’s not hard to schedule a hookup. The…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 05:54 AM
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Yes it. It’s a male sexual strategy. The self help stuff is nice for its own sake too, but it’s geared toward the sort of self help that helps make yourself into a man that women find attractive. That’s fine if you want to stabilize your finances first. Sounds like the right thing to do.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 05:41 AM
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Alright. Like you said, enjoy not having sex with random Tinder girls. I’ll be having sex with 2-3 of them between now and Sunday.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 05:22 AM
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You must be pretty broke if any of these dollar amounts mean anything significant to you.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 03:29 AM
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This is decent advice. I do pretty much exactly this when setting up first dates. Me: “We should hang out sometime.” Her: “Sure!” Me: “Cool. Let’s do <place> at <time>” If she’s busy she’ll say “Oh, I’m not free at <time>, but how about <other time>?” If the time and place doesn’t work for her she’ll let you know, obviously. It’s better to elicit information about her schedule by picking a random time and having it not work. Explicitly asking when she’s free does indeed come off as weak. The sam…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/18 02:13 PM
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That's impressive. The squats were indeed a form problem for me, but the bicep injury was an overworking problem. I was doing skull crushers every workout to get my bench weight up, and benching increasingly heavy. I usually bench every other workout (so every four days). One week I decided to bench two workouts in a row, and that injured my bicep. It was already tired from the regular skull crushers and the very recent heavy bench the workout prior.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/18 04:01 AM
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When trying to land first dates I always have backup plans that are better than the date itself. Girls flake or reject you often enough (on first dates) that caring about the outcome is just too much of an emotional rollercoaster. If you ask women out regularly and get affected by the rejections or flakes then you start going insane. Up, down, up, down, up, down, up, down. It's not emotionally sustainable. When you get rejected you should just say "OK, that's fine, I'd rather go hang out with my…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/18 03:57 AM
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Yep, this. I went too heavy on 5x5 when I was first starting. Fucked up my knees with bad squat form. Fucked up my right bicep from benching too heavy too often, in combination with skull crushers. You feel powerful when you start getting to the heavy weights, but you really have to have perfect form and take your rest days seriously, or you will definitely hurt yourself. Heavy is probably fine if you have a trainer or experienced workout buddy with you on a regular basis. But if you're just win…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/18 02:27 AM
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All flakes are not created equal. The correct response would be “That sucks, feel better.” Then don’t contact her at all for 2-3 weeks. Swing back around with a text waaaaay later and she’ll probably be down to hang out again. Women can be flaky even if they’re sufficiently into you to hang and have sex. The best case is that she’s head over heels for you and doesn’t flake, but it’s common to have girls who really do want to see you, and do want to bang you, but who will flake if that particular…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 06:11 PM
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Agree and amplify isn’t cute when the subject is this fucked up, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 10:25 PM
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Seriously? You're banning words with a straight face on? Do you not see how twisted and Orwellian this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 04:54 PM
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If you’re going to go for a hug then make sure you get it. Don’t break frame. Don’t ask her “Not a hugger?” Instead say something “Oh, come on, no way I’m letting you leave without a hug” and then just hug her. It won’t simmer in awkwardness if you take charge and lead the interaction. That being said, kissing/hugging goodbye/hello often comes off as needy, especially in early stage relationships, or in casual non-LTR relationships with plates and fuck buddies. I’ll go for the hug sometimes if I…
/r/askTRP14/10/18 02:35 AM
2

I meant which “numbers” exactly? Quantity of matches? Attractiveness of matches? I took pro photos about a year ago. The photographer had an artistic vision for the shoot which made them come out with a “Blue Pill Nice Guy” vibe. I got matches from a lot of fatties. I had a few matches on CMB which lead to two real dates, but the girls were very up tight and serious. Both were around 25. No sex, no second dates. During that time I picked up two plates with night game instead. The pro photos were…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/18 01:36 AM
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What numbers are you asking about?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/18 12:55 AM
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Like your dad said, don’t worry about it. I was a virgin until 21 because I was pouring myself into studying and not having any social life. Now at 30 I have a six figure income because of the work I put in earlier in life, and I’m doing great with dating as a result. You have to do the learning young while you still have the freedom to.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/18 07:16 PM
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That’s solid advice from a father. Good dad.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/18 07:07 PM
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Yeah, interview mode is a death sentence. Silence is OK. Usually the person who breaks the silence says something goofy, so don't be the one to break the silence. She won't forgive you for saying something goofy, because you're the man. But you'll forgive her for saying something goofy, because she's hot, so who cares. You risk a lot breaking the silence. She risks very little. Let her do it. She always will. If a silence goes on for way too long then just stare at her with a curious facial expr…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 02:46 AM
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I personally have no idea. I’d like advice here too. I find that my success rate plummets proportionally to the girl’s age. I’m 29 and I’m banging at hot 20 year old right now. I also do well with 22-24 year olds. But if I go out with a 29-32 year old I just crash and burn. My success with 26-27 year olds comes and goes. Women seem markedly harder to game as they age. I can’t even imagine what it’s like when they get deep into their 30’s. The only 30+ women I’ve had success with were crazy rangi…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 02:39 AM
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Alright, well I have two hot dates this weekend from apps. I hope you do well with whatever your strategy is. I mean, I honestly do. If whatever you’re doing is working then props, that’s solid. Personally I do OK with night game, but I can’t get a steady stream of two or more dates per week just by doing live stuff. If you ever feel like you need a boost in your dating life and are willing to venture into a new and unfamiliar approach then maybe come back to this post later. It’s really easy mo…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/18 02:18 AM
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Ahhhhhhhhhh! This is so bad. Stop doing these immediately. I did the something like this when I was first starting. I got up to 225lb and few failed reps with shitty form fucked my knees up for over a year. I want you to do two form exercises with the help of a friend. No weight, not even the bar. Start by standing up straight. Have your friend kneel down on the ground in front of you and put his hands on your knees. Now try two types of squats. 1) While squatting, use your knees to push your fr…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 02:00 AM
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Fuck you racist piece of shit.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 12:26 AM
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No response, just upvoting.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 12:21 AM
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Half the TRP community seems blind on this subject. Everyone thinks it’s over the top, but lifting is over the top too. Look how complicated and dense the StrongLifts page on deadlifting is: https://stronglifts.com/deadlift/ That’s just one page. Blue Pill dudes will tell you you’re over the top when they see you pouring over lifting guides, snacking on cashews and protein shakes continuously at work, and spending hours in the gym every week. You get made fun of. But then you feel and look amazi…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 10:13 PM
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I feel sorry for the women who sleep with you. You’re so... nice.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 04:32 PM
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Take your negative karma as a sign that you should reevaluate your views on this one. Lots of people are disagreeing with you, they have reasons.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:59 PM
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Yeah, don’t spend two hours every other day at the gym either. That’s insane. Didn’t you know girl’s aren’t really into vain muscular guys who try that hard? Just be yourself. Honestly it’s just like with lifting. If you enjoy lifting then going to the gym is fun. Likewise if you enjoy photography then this isn’t “depressing” and it’s not “soooo much effort.” The underlying principle is that girls are into guys who are authentically into doing cool difficult things. Lifting, photography, startin…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:36 PM
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Yeah, it’s usually your fault, either due to something you did, or due to being too low value. If you had more money, were more entertaining, were more muscular, had more game, and didn’t show weakness or break frame, then she’d still be around. Sometimes you’re just out of your league and there’s nothing you could reasonably be expected to do to save it. All you can do is inch your SMV up day by day to make it less likely she’ll bail.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 07:47 AM
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She’s not really an LTR if she forgot plans and it makes you this worried. Something smells fishy here.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 07:03 AM
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I pull 8’s and 9’s on apps. Read my advice here: Tinder Game With Amateur Photography If you want to get 9’s on apps you have to play to what they’re looking for, and the only way to do that is through your photos. Your profile has to show off wealth, looks, and status. Look a this dude for example, millionaire playboy Dan Blizerian. You can fake it to some degree. You just have to represent wealth, looks, and status to get the date. You don’t actually have to have them to the extreme degrees th…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:52 AM
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Find hobbies that will involve having arguments with people. Any competitive sport, or playing pool casually-competitively at bars. When a dispute arises practice not backing down.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:35 AM
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You sound like a sperg. Don’t write so formally, you’re not a bearded 1700’s intellectual. Don’t write long winded posts extolling your own virtues. It looks weak and insecure. If you have a real question just get to the punch line.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 05:33 AM
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Jesus, never. If she’s coming at you with a knife or something then defend yourself, sure. But otherwise, never. I guess I would also hit a stranger back if she came out of nowhere on the subway and slapped me, because there’d be a default assumption that she’s literally insane and could be dangerous. But a woman you know? Never. When a woman “hits” you the hit itself is just a formality she’s using to convey a message. It’s actually kid of adorable. She wouldn’t be strong enough to hurt you eve…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:26 AM
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Some people don't know how to interact with children either. You: "So what do you want to be when you grow up?" Kid: "An astronaut!" You: "Oh, that's so great!" Kid: "OK, yeah. I'm thrilled. Can you fuck off now? I'm 7, I don't really know what my career is going to be. New subject please." You'd do better if you just made a funny face and then booped them on the arm. The same dude who would ask a little kid about what he wants to be when he grows up is the dude who will ask his date what she do…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:16 AM
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Three days in advance is fine. Do a confirmation text the day of. If they’re flaking it’s because they’re not interested. Could be that she wasn’t really interested in the first place. Sometimes they just have so many options that they’ll say “Eh, fuck it. I want to stay in and binge Netflix today. I’ll have 200 more matches tomorrow and I’ll pick a new dude for next week.” As a guy who is starting to have more and more options, I feel this temptation myself sometimes. You get some validation fr…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 04:46 AM
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Reschedules are fine if they’re legit and low effort. Some percentage of dates will get sick or have something legitimately important come up, it’s a statistical certainty. It’s probably not you unless you encounter it very frequently.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 04:40 AM
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It’s a sign that we’re in 2018 and living in a misandrist dystopia. Try posting “all women are trash” online somewhere mainstream. See how well that goes over.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 04:34 AM
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Yeah, it’s not unheard of for gyms to have such pussy gear that they won’t even have one squat rack. Most gyms will have at least one squat rack though. The ones that don’t are usually themed all pink and targeted at girls. Anything targeted even remotely at men will have a squat rack. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 04:08 AM
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Yeah, Mehdi is a badass. The amount of information he provides on his site is just as epic as his lifting skill. Don’t take his weights as an example. Start light. Squat only just the bar. Do 5 reps with just the bar. Add on 5lb, do 5 more reps with the bar +5lb. Add on 5 more, do 5 more reps with the bar +10lb. Eventually you’ll fail to get the 5th rep because it’ll be too heavy. Take off a tiny bit of weight, and that’ll be your 5x5 weight. From there add +5lb every workout.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 03:57 AM
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The social experience of going to the gym is valuable. You see other people doing stuff and it’s motivating. Especially for a beginner. Lifting at home is more for when you’re on a roll and want to go into hyper efficient mode. Not commute to the gym, not spend time changing, etc... Or if you have family that lifts too. It’s a not a terrible idea though. Good for extreme introverts. Don’t step too far backward in a cheap home squat rack though, you’ll miss the safeties.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 03:50 AM
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Prone bone + reaching under to rub clit + have her in handcuffs
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:33 AM
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Here, let me down vote this for you even more.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:31 AM
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I used to, not anymore. Now I just cringe.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:26 AM
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Yup, you must have fucked up somewhere. I remember when I first started spinning plates and I had my first experience dropping a really good one. She was a 22 year old 9 with a perfect tight little body and a high IQ. The sex was amazing. When she didn't want to see me anymore other people in my life said "She doesn't deserve you," or "I guess it just wasn't meant to be." How the hell is "She doesn't deserve you" supposed to help me correct for the future? How do I take "I guess it just wan't me…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 02:52 AM
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Thank you, exactly. It baffles me how people don't see the parallel to lifting here. Lots of Red Pill guys get into lifting because they realize, deep down, that they'll never get laid if they don't get muscular. But then lifting ends up turning into this life-absorbing art form once you really get into it. And then people forget their original motivations and turn into shrill critics who yell at newbies saying "Nah bro, fuck them chicks, lift for YOU." These people should know full well that a …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 02:36 AM
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You need to follow the principle of progressive overload. Start light with each lift and add +2.5lb to each side of the bar every workout (for +5lb total). Your body slowly adapts to the increasing weight, and after a few months you can go from squatting 60lb to 180lb. Throwing on a 90lb vest at random and staying at that same weight isn't going to trigger any gradual, safe, sane adaptive muscle development. At any given time 90lb will either be too heavy for you, or too light for you. It'll be …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 02:15 AM
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This is total self-coddling bullshit, and the supplement stuff here is some legit new agey woo woo nonsense. I live in a ritzy area, and there are quality gyms for just $30/month. There are even some shittier ones around for just $10/month. Fitness products are often made affordable and targeted at poor people. It sounds like you're already planning to spend money anyway. Spend it on a real fucking gym and get yourself into a squat rack. Read this page on Strong Lifts 5x5. Learn to do Squats Dea…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 01:52 AM
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While this is true, it's good habit to practice just never having the words "I'm sorry" come out of your mouth, ever. There are also gray areas in the middle where it's not obvious supplication, but it's not also not completely trivial. It can be better to say "Shit, oops" or "Damn, let's just clean that right up." If you get into the habit of saying "Sorry, sorry, sorry" for a million different minor things, that can be just as bad.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 01:31 AM
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Rolling over laughing right now. This is a great little rhyming truth. I love it.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 01:28 AM
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I'm not even going to respond to these points. You're just spewing mindless drivel. Bye.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:14 PM
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You're so full of shit. Online dating is a crutch, doesn't actually improve your smv or your game. It's dating, of course it improves your game. Anything that gives you an opportunity to practice kino and sexually escalate improves your game. What the fuck are you even talking about. You're just fooling yourself if you don't think this is anything more than a buffer for rejection. Fuck you, I night game successfully most weekends. I just can't go out more than once or twice per week. Sometimes I…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 02:51 PM
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Yep. Non-needy, non-thirsty. The unfortunate thing about this sort of advice is that most people take it as a strategy to employ in order to get the girl, when really it’s advice about the mindset to adopt. Don’t act non-thirsty, be non-thirsty. Don’t come off as non-needy, be non-needy. You can try to mime the correct behaviors without them being congruent with your emotions, but it’s hard to keep up. The veneer you put on is likely to crack. You’ll do or something dumb eventually, or you’ll ti…
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:50 AM
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Yeah, these girls I’m dating off Tinder are the worst thottiest thots that ever did thot. They’re not capable of holding a good conversation. They’re on their phones the whole time. They suck in bed. They’re annoying and needy. Why do I even do it? Why do I even bother writing out these guides? You clearly have it down, my eyes have been opened. Everyone listen to Auxfite now. I’ll go cry in a corner.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 02:00 AM
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That and everything else, literally.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 01:57 AM
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That’s a good point about girls. I should do that. Don’t underestimate people here. This is a community where men are encouraged to strive for six figure incomes, do complicated weight lifting workouts, keep healthy and consistent high calorie diets against the grain of their natural hunger cues, and get their game sharp enough to sleep with dozens of new women every year. Look at the information overload on the strong lifts page for squats alone: https://stronglifts.com/squat/ Anyone who does T…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 12:35 AM
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Just in case I was ambiguous, don’t not respond to her text. Definitely do respond. Short answers that show you got it. Don’t engage much. Don’t try to make moves to see her. You have better things to do than give her attention. Either she’ll position herself to see you again, or if enough time passes you can text her. But only text her if your thought process is “It’s been a while, wow. I wonder if this girl is even still alive?” If you text her thinking “I want this girl” she’ll know, and that…
/r/askTRP10/10/18 12:01 AM
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Yep, true facts. Get hobbies and life first. Then photograph your actual life, or staged shots that could legitimately be from your actual life.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 11:54 PM
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Lift, ignore her. Seriously, my record is ignoring a girl for five weeks totally out the blue, and she was still down to keep being a plate after. The more you ignore them the more they’ll stay in your orbit. Giving them attention or trying to “make moves” drives them away. The goal is to have very many plates. You interact with each one infrequently but get laid regularly because there are so many. You also keep picking up more as fast as you can. It’s hard if you don’t have enough of them yet,…
/r/askTRP09/10/18 11:41 PM
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Just stare at them slyly.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 11:38 PM
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You get up at 11am on a Saturday. Yawn “What am I gonna do with the day? Oh, maybe I’ll go take some photos.” You step outside and go. I don’t want to hear “Oh, sure man. But how about tomorrow or next week? I’m busy today.” I certainly don’t want to hear “Oh, I’m booked until the 19th. Also, it’ll be $200.” I also don’t want to hear “Seriously? We did this 4 times already. Aren’t you done?” I don’t want to subject my friends to walking around with me as I experiment aimlessly with different ide…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 11:27 PM
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There are locations and businesses/institutions where I’ve taken self portraits of myself. You can sneak a simple tripod in, but bringing in a lamp or complicated lighting set up would cause a disruption and not generally be kosher. Even using a flash over an extended period of time is not kosher. Also, if you’re using natural light then sometimes it just gets late and the lighting quality degrades, but you want to keep going anyway because making a second trip isn’t worth it. Like I said, shoot…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 11:19 PM
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Basic freedom to develop your SMV without having to rely on other people. You’re able to go day game alone, or night game alone. You’re able to lift alone. You’re able to start a business alone in your free time to up your income. You should also be able to improve your dating profile alone. It makes it easier to act at the whims of your ideas and motivations without having the extra logistic hurdle of interacting with someone else. How is none of this patently obvious?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 10:52 PM
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Yeah, I saw that. “So... you think your boyfriend, who you have consensual sex with, is drugging you so he can do things to you that you already let him do consensually?” I guess maybe having sexual power over an incapacitated person can be a sexual kink, but non-nefarious medical problems seem more likely.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 10:45 PM
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That advice is fine. That's all you need to know to set up a tripod and shoot something that doesn't obviously belong in the trash bin. And again, the idea is that you want to be able to do this solo without help from anybody. You want to be able to take the energy you have for improving your SMV and do something with it on a whim without having to rely on other people. Is nobody around? Do it solo with a tripod. Is your shot going to be very complicated and take many hours to set up? Do it solo…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 09:42 PM
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This post was intended for people who are already lifting, are past their newbie gains, and need something new to put their energy into. Putting some initial energy into taking good photos is just like getting your newbie gains lifting. You put in a little bit of serious effort and see huge results almost immediately. Once you've gotten your newbie gains on Tinder with some solid photos you can try to go intermediate and advanced. Try to be this guy, for example.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 09:32 PM
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It's not simplified. That is the norm (for me anyway). If that's not the norm for you it's because your photos suck, your text game sucks, or you don't have the underlying SMV. When you have a badass looking profile and women want you they just walk right into it. Essentially 100% of girls who respond to an opener will eventually go on a date with me. When I don't get a reply to an opener I assume it's because she just has too many matches to respond to. I don't follow up on most of my matches e…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 09:09 PM
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<Shrug>. I put one weekend into learning it and another few days into taking the photos. I'm swimming in it now. Matches just passively come throughout he week. One initial investment of time and money and then it's a free ride into the indefinite future.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 08:57 PM
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You must really suck at Tinder. No hours of swiping. If you have a good profile girls will swipe on you instead. Or do one 30 minute session of swiping with their "boost" feature and you're solid for the rest of the week. Coffee Meets Bagel is also very low effort. They give you 20 matches per day to say YES/NO to, and that's it. It takes less than a minute per day. None of them are much fatter, only 1/10 flake, and 4/5 lead to sex on the first or second date. No hours of messaging. Open with on…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 08:53 PM
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Anyway just because you are not shooting raw doesn't make a picture bad, sure using raw and editing can make it better, but don't rely on post-production. And don't tell others that JPEG is shit, its not and you are misinforming people. I know my target audience here. As a complete novice it helped me that I could heavily edit the RAWs after the fact to make up for shitty decisions while shooting. It's advice I got from novice photography articles. I know how much better 12 or 14 bits per channe…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 08:39 PM
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Yeah, real sex is more satisfying. So is taking good quality creative photos and learning a new skill. My post was written with a focus on the dating benefits because this is a sexual strategy forum and not an art forum. I thought that would be uncontroversial, but apparently not.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 08:19 PM
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Same could be said of lifting.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 08:18 PM
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Shutter Priority. It's probably "S" for you.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 08:17 PM
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I was surprised by how many people responded by complaining that you should be out gaming in person instead, and that this advice is all useless. You obviously do both, and apps are indeed way more efficient. I decided to get on the apps after months of doing night game. I'd pick up girls at bars and noticed that I could get the lay on either the first or second date. I figured that the limiting factor in my sex life was just the number of girls I could meet in a given week. Apps seemed good lik…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 08:16 PM
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I spent a single weekend taking photos of random stuff around the house to get competent enough to learn what all the terms meant, and what all the settings do to the final result. I'm sure I'm still a laughable novice compared to a professional, but the photos I have now are orders of magnitude better than anything I could have taken before that one weekend of studying. It's not that hard. Going from zero knowledge to hobby-level knowledge in any field is pretty easy.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 08:07 PM
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Yeah, high five bro. Photography.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 08:03 PM
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Lol, fine. You know what I meant to say though. Your time was spent less efficiently when you first started, even if you now technically stay for longer. If you had tried to do your current long routine when you first started you probably would have been there for 10 full hours.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 08:01 PM
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A quick cost benefit analysis highlights that it's more economical, both financially and timewise (which as the saying goes, is money) to hire an up and coming photographer than to spend all day taking photographs, sorting through them afterwards and investing in equipment. That's great, so never do anything interesting or creative. Just pay people do it for you for the end result. A quick cost benefit analysis also highlight's that's it cheaper and faster to stay home and jerk to porn than it i…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 07:58 PM
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A good photographer doesn’t take that much work This is true. This is advice is targeted at novices, who can expect to take longer to get a decent result. Don't you remember how long your gym sessions took when you were first starting and barely knew how to squat or deadlift?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 07:54 PM
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I haven't found the dates to be fakes, flakes, or validation seekers. I'm not looking for LTR material here, I'm looking for plates for casual fun. This is supplemental to going out and approaching in person.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 07:51 PM
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Same could be said about lifting.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 07:48 PM
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You get more dates and more matches than if you don't put the effort in. This is not debatable. This is a forum for male sexual strategy. We share stories about text message back-and-forths on Tinder all the time. This is just as relevant.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 07:39 PM
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Yup. All those hours of swiping Get good photos and get on the paid versions of the dating apps. Girls will swipe on you instead and you'll have a passive stream of easy dates and easy sex.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 07:37 PM
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That's a reasonable strategy. I like taking them myself because I'm always having ideas for new ones and I don't like coordinating with a photographer every time. Once you invest a tiny bit of money in the equipment, and time learning, it's free and low-effort for the rest of your life. Plus, your friends will benefit from your new hobby as well.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 07:35 PM
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Yep, exactly. Online dating is primarily a game of constructing an attractive image of yourself through your photos. Women do this already by default, it’s a compulsion for them. Men don’t, and that’s why the complain that they get zero matches. Men have to be told to do it. It’s the opposite of lifting. Men naturally enjoy lifting because it’s an extreme physical struggle. Women don’t enjoy it as much by default, and have to be told to do it.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 07:30 PM
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This is exactly why you have to take outrageous measures like described here to make yourself stand out. I had literally zero matches with average random photos taken by friends and during social occasions, despite being in shape. With these stylized high-effort artistic ones I have more conversation threads going than I can even respond to.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 07:26 PM
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I suggested a $120 used one. I got mine for free when someone was tossing an old one. Where did you see me suggesting spending thousands? Feel free to quote the line.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 07:20 PM
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Obviously there should be intrinsic motivation just like with lifting. I wrote the post to focus on the extrinsic motivations because this is a sexual strategy forum, and not an art forum. Personally I had my interest in photography piqued I’ve done 3D modeling artwork, which follows a lot of the same principles. Tinder photos were just the first practical thing that made sense to tackle after I picked up a camera for the first time. As with lifting, it’s fine to suggest getting into it for girl…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 07:18 PM
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Yeah, of course. This is for once you’ve gotten your lifting down and already have enough game to escalate successfully on dates. If you already have those then this post will help you get a steady stream of dates every weekend. Supplement with day/night game regularly.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 07:09 PM
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One weekend, not six months. You sound like that blue bill guy yelling at me for spending 2 hours at the gym every other day. “Jesus fucking Christ, just be confident and be yourself. It’s not that hard. Who cares about looks, don’t be vain.”
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 06:53 PM
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Yeah, exactly. I thought it would come across that a lot of the motivation here comes from just wanting to find a new legit hobby (that would also happen to help you in your dating life). This is exactly the same thing as lifting. Some red pulled guy friend hears that you’re having girl troubles. He suggests you lift. You get into it for the dating reasons but then it takes on a life of its own. If it fails to take on a life of its own then you’ll never have the motivation to do it seriously eno…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 06:40 PM
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I did fine with shallow depth of field after a weekend spent photographing random shit around the house for practice.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 06:19 PM
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You’d get more if you put effort it to. Attractive girls with good quality photos get literally 1,000 matches per week, or more. Men can achieve the same.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 06:15 PM
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Yeah, agreed on a lot of points. You have to have the underlying SMV or it won’t work. Taking good photos is a matter of conveying your actual SMV through photography. If you’re ripped and have a cool hobby then posing doing your hobby says “I’m ripped and I’m good at things.” If you have money then taking a picture in a nice suit at a fancy bar will convey that subconsciously to the viewer. It works orders of magnitude better than trying to verbally humblebrag about your job status in your prof…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 06:10 PM
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Always do a laptop if you have one. Way better than a TV.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 05:04 PM
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I haven’t found this to be true. If extra time and energy invested in a given photo doesn’t correlate to more attention on dating apps then you’re doing it wrong.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 04:41 PM
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This is an artistic pursuit in its own right. Taking cool photos is a fun project even just for its own sake. It’s a bonus that having ones that are creative, high quality, and unique will show off the artistic side of your personality, and will make attractive and interesting. You’ll get a lot of “OMG, did you do take those yourself?” But, sure, yeah, you can do OK half assing it to. Feel free to keep your deadlifts at just 225 too. Why bother putting in the effort if doing less will give you p…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 04:13 PM
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Unsharp mask and finer spot corrections don’t like JPEG compression artifacts. RAW stores more than just 8 bits per pixel per color channel, so exposure and color correction tools have real continuous luminance data to work with.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 04:09 PM
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Yeah, don’t bother spending hundreds of hours in the gym to improve your SMV either. What a waste of time.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 04:06 PM
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For sure. The auto focus usually takes a moment to adjust too, so that gives you a tiny bit more extra time. It’s also not hard to hide the remote in your palm, they’re usually tiny.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 03:16 PM
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Yeah. I think the main reason, if not excuse, is that people just don’t know how. You don’t want to ask a friend to spend hours with you taking photos because that’s weird. You don’t know about the tripod+remote trick so you don’t do it yourself. You can’t afford a photographer. You end up taking some shitty mirror selfies or using a grainy photo a friend took when you were out wasted at 3am. It’s just like trying to go to the gym but not knowing what a squat or deadlift is. You might have the m…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 03:08 PM
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Home gym, hands down. I live in the suburbs but date in the city. My standard move on a first or second date is to invite the girl to a nearby hotel room to watch a movie. All there is is a large bed and a laptop. Escalates to sex every time. Just be sure to have some chairs around so she can sit somewhere if you’re not being intimate in that very moment. If you’re bringing a girl home and she’s not comfortable being in your bed then she’s just friend zoning you anyway. If anything, having the e…
/r/askTRP09/10/18 03:01 PM
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Don’t be afraid to use hotels. Just don’t make it seem like you’re going there for sex. Get the HotelTonight app for a discount. Read my comment here for ideas: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9m9k7f/comment/e7d1mmv Be in a mindset where you legitimately just want a private space to hang out with her more intimately, and be OK with it not escalating to sex for whatever reason. Not that you won’t try to go for sex, but if cuddling and watching a movie is not also a satisfactory outcome t…
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:54 PM
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I’ll give you part of that. You’re right that there are betas who can get laid. The other half of the Alpha equation is being a man who other (also mostly Alpha) men want to follow, be, or emulate. Lay count is still mandatory though, but not sufficient.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:44 PM
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Indeed, yeah. I think even professional photographers don’t necessarily shy away from Av and Tv mode. Paparazzi use straight up Auto. You can definitely get good results without going manual.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 02:37 PM
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Normally I wouldn’t spoil it for you, but it starts out pretending to be a horror movie and then turns into a goofy zany shit show parody that you’ll both laugh at. It’s still a “horror movie” in a sense, so you’ll get to keep frame by making her watch it and not giving into her movie choices. But she’ll tolerate it and be pleasantly surprised.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:09 PM
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Have you seen Cabin in The Woods?
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:02 PM
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Tell her you have a different Horror Movie for her. She’ll resist, but hold frame and make her watch it. “This one is different, I promise. You’ll like it.” Show her Cabin in The Woods.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:00 PM
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Read The Mystery Method
/r/askTRP09/10/18 01:58 PM
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Lift
/r/askTRP09/10/18 01:57 PM
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You’re being racist, fuck you.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 01:19 PM
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Incorrect. Women decide who is and isn’t Alpha. They vote with their vaginas. If you think that the millions are better than the pussy in some way then that’s fine, but this isn’t how TRP defines the term Alpha. TRP is a sexual strategy first and foremost. The other stuff about positive masculinity is an integral but nonetheless secondary aspect. Any attempt to measure Alpha with anything other than lay count smells like an ego preservation attempt.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 07:38 AM
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Can an admin please take this down? It’s low quality and belongs in AskTRP anyway. Weird shitty posts are not what this community needs in it’s “New” section at a time of quarantine.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 06:28 AM
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Yeah, it’s funny how both his cousin and his friend are keeping him at a distance. He’s just so darn intimidating. Or here’s another idea. By Occam’s razor, maybe he’s a just nerdy sperg boy who has no real social skills, finds solace in Yu-Gi-Oh cards, and has a hearty doze of angry entitled narcissism in his personality. This guy’s personality stinks of incel to me. But by his own admission he’s already getting all of the hawt girlz. So who am I to judge.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 06:25 AM
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I’m butthurt 2.7 butts worth. How about you?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 06:14 AM
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I think we have a sperg on our hands.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 06:11 AM
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Yeah man, I can’t handle it. Those truths hurt so bad. I just saw you delete your copy of this post from the AskMen sub, where you had negative -18 karma in the comments. How about you do the same here. Move it to AskTrp so we can yell at you for being cringey in a more appropriate venue. Or just wipe this post from the internet entirely and go play some children’s trading card games instead. I hear girls are hot for that these days.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 06:01 AM
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What the fuck is this post. You definitely are narcissistic. Go humblebrag elsewhere. Maybe take it to some female friends, because this post straight up girly gossipy bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 05:44 AM
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It’s pretty cut and dry what’s happening here. You’re falling prey to beta make psychology. It’s crucial to realize that there are two fundamentally different male psychologies when it comes to mating: Alpha male psychology and beta male psychology. Which mode your brain is in at any given time depends on your circumstances. Alpha Male Psychology In ancient times these were the pharaohs, sultans, war lords, and lesser nobility. They had the equivalent of $300,000,000 in 4,000BC money, and they h…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 09:47 PM
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Never directly address an issue with a woman like that. You can’t just straight up ask her why she wasn’t down. Did you think she’d tell you why so that it could then fix whatever the problem was? Women don’t function like that. Men like to try solving these problems as if they were logical puzzles, but genuine sexual desire can’t be negotiated logically like that. All you accomplished was coming off like a thirsty beta and torpedoing your chances. The Desire Dynamic The kissing during the movie…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:56 PM
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Never waste too much time or energy on women past their prime. If they’re hot and they want to screw then fine. Never pursue them with any real effort. Never consider them for an LTR.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:14 PM
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You’re an unnecessary whataboutism man.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/18 07:33 AM
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What the fuck is this post. Don’t give her the money and just move on. Ignore her texts or just block her. Please downvote OP into oblivion here. On a related note, women are total cunts about money in general. Pay for everything with your plates and don’t expect anything back. It puts you in the dominant position and it helps make you the unambiguous authority in your decision making when hanging out with them, assuming the decisions involve spending money (casually or otherwise). When you pay …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/18 07:31 AM
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Yep. I’ve been there too. I had a lease with an ex once. We had been together for 4.5 years, so it seemed like a lifelong bond. She decided to bail. Getting out of that living situation was an unmitigated nightmare. Next time it’ll just be. “Ok, leave then. There’s the door.”
/r/askTRP08/10/18 03:02 AM
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Her: “Hey, want to hang out?” You: “Depends, are you going to give me my shit back and/or replay me?” Her: “<hamstered bullshit excuses>” You: <no response, complete indefinite silence, even if that means never talking to her again> If you ever feel disrespected then any further interaction with you whatsoever is contingent on that being immediately rectified. Don’t go down long rabbit hole conversations or text message threads, just shut her out completely unless she rectifies it within literal…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 01:22 AM
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Don’t even think twice about it. You shouldn’t be doing PDA with your plates anyway, or at least I don’t, so it shouldn’t matter. If it did end up pissing one or both of them off then whatever, you can always get more. Or just ignore any freak outs they try to manufacture with unapologetic total silence and go lift. They’ll probably come back anyway. Try to get to a point where you can get 2-3 non-flaky dates every week on Tinder/CMB/Bumble/Whatever. Once you’re there you’ll stop giving a shit a…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 01:15 AM
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This is a prime example of why Rollo suggests always signing the lease under your name only, and always paying the full rent yourself (or being sure you amply could if she bailed). You shouldn’t be living together. She should be living in your place, under your protection, and in your frame. If you break up the landlord will usually be nice enough to find a new tenant so long as you continue paying the rent until that happens. If it’s a normal apartment with nothing weird or un-rentable about it…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 12:31 AM
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Yeah, I know what you mean. I had a close guy friend for years who is very Alpha. I didn’t hang with him much for years on end. My girlfriend at the time steered me away from him, because “toxic masculinity.” Nonetheless she’d always complain to herself about how attractive she found him, always adding “but I’d never date a guy like that.” After she split with me he got me into lifting and gave me tons of good advice about some post-breakup flings that I was managing poorly. Now I’m spinning pla…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 12:10 AM
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Make sure to talk about movies sometime on the first or second date. Tell her about your favorite one. Then eventually invite her over to watch it. Make sure it’s something relatively gender neutral. Not Die Hard, not My Little Pony. Something in between. I highly recommend American Beauty. It has a lot of the sort of drama girls soak right up. There’s homosexuality, hot bitchy cheerleader popular girls, marital conflict, stalkers, teen relationships, weed, etc... but it’s not a chick flick. It’…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 11:25 PM
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Yeah, seriouslyy, laarn to double chack things you put out into teh world. That it was OK before hitting submitt is not an excus.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:56 PM
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This relationship sounds blue pill as fuck. Ditch her. Normally I’d say put your foot down. Or agree, amplify, and essentially ignore. But in this case just dump her. She’s 33 and you’re 27. You should still be banging 19 year olds and spinning plates, who could potentially give you 13 full years of their youth if you LTR them. And anyway you should not be settling down until you’re 35, and especially not with this girl 5 years older than you. Get out while you still have some of your 20’s left.…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:51 PM
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As many as it takes.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:42 PM
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In that case, practice proof reading.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:41 PM
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Get used to it. Enjoy them as casual fuck buddies. Don’t look for girls who are LTR material until you’re at least 35. EDIT: Lol, account deleted. WTF is that.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:38 PM
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Learn, to, use, commas. Really though, improvements to writing style and grammar contribute to your online image, including with women.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:34 PM
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Be more entertaining in your texts. You’re basically just begging her for her attention here. You have to provide value in the form entertainment to get her to bite. Sometimes logistics just take time to get straight with a girl, but you have to keep it light hearted and funny the whole time so they don’t see repeated attempts at contact as needy. A better opener would have been: “Hey, so have you died from the lack of cuddles yet? That’ll give her a chance to respond playfully. “Yeah actually, …
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:20 PM
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Because reasons
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:14 PM
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After while you realize that all the arguments are just repeats of each other, and you genuinely lose interest in having them. Usually when you’re most vocal about something it’s when you’re new to a subject and still trying to convince yourself of your own argument, just as much as you’re trying to convince the other person. Eventually you notice that that pattern of behavior makes you look like an ass, so you stifle the desire to debate just to save face. If you want to debate something just f…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:13 PM
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If you’re struggling to add weight order change plates from rogue: Rogue Change Plates Get the full set, two of each. They’re as small as 0.25lb, so you can add as little as 0.5lb total on exercises like the OHP, where it’s hard to increase the weight too quickly. Personally I also increase my row at a snail’s pace. 1lb per workout. It’s an assistance exercise compared to the other lifts anyway, and people don’t really list their row weight as a bragging right. However, it’s really easy to cheat…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:40 PM
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The first time I tracked my calories I thought I ate a shit ton that day, and it only ended up being 1,800. I was stunned. Really packing in the calories usually requires injecting snacks and extra protein shakes into your diet. Carry around a pound of cashews or raisins and just pound them throughout the day. It’s a good trick if you have long commutes or walks during your day. You can keep munching away while on the train or walking. A pound of cashews has 2,500 calories. Protein shakes help t…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:06 PM
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Both. Focus on self improvement and the women will come as a side effect. Focus on getting women and you’ll fail and also not self improve.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:58 PM
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This some snowflake BP shit right here, thinking that having quirky surprising opinions will differentiate you from the crowd and make you valuable. This is exactly the mindset that makes BP dudes think that being nice and being a male feminist when all the other guys are being jerks will differentiate them and get them laid. Get out of here with this shit.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:55 PM
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Keep going for strength. The idea behind 5x5 is that you add weight every workout until you can’t anymore. For example, it’s common for newbies to keep adding weight to their shoulder press up to 90lb. Then they hit a wall at 90lb where they can’t get through all 5 reps for all 5 sets anymore. Going up to 92lb is a no go. At that point it’s the end of their newbie phase for shoulder presses, and they have to switch to some other program like linear periodization, or be forever stuck at 90lb. Now…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:40 PM
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Be muscular. Don’t back down in arguments or disputes, not even casual ones. Always be the dominant person in any interaction, especially with women. Don’t be afraid to get physical in a confrontation with a stranger. Make money and be able to provide resources. Have strong confident body language. Dress like an adult man and not a teenage boy. Grow out a beard, if you can. Be competitive. Want to win a things. Be sexually aggressive and assertive. Escalate when you’re interested in a woman. Cho…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:17 PM
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Generally speaking a man means it when he says “Through thick and thin, ‘till death do us part.” If they fall on hard times he’ll protect her. If she gets sick, he’ll stay. If everyone says he should break up with her he’ll tell them to fuck off. If she gets fat he might cheat, but he’ll feel guilty about it and he certainly won’t leave her. Women are not as loyal. If he gets sick she’ll bail. If he stops making money she’ll bail. If her family and friends urge her to break up with him, she will…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:38 AM
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People are giving you really shitty advice here, on all fronts. First of all, going for a kiss by saying "I want to kiss you" is 100% fine. The key thing is that you have to already know that she wants you to kiss her. If you say "I want to kiss you" with good timing then the girl will literally say "Oh, thank god. I want to kiss you too," and then you'll kiss. However, if you're saying it as a question in order to probe for her reaction then that's awful. Never do that. It can be slightly smoot…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:10 AM
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What should i do to assist me in this? Deadlifts.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:42 AM
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Hotel rooms. I live in the suburbs but date in the city, so my standard move is to pull the girl back to a nice hotel room. If you're on the broker side and can't do hotel rooms on a whim then check the prices in advance and save up a hotel room fund. I recommend an app like HotelTonight. They have a feature where they pick a hotel for you, give you a deep discount, and give you 15 minutes to say Yes or No. You only get one such offer per night, but it's always fine. Obviously, never say to your…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:41 AM
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#1 mistake is not lifting.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:24 AM
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Yeah, interview mode is a death sentence. As one other responder said, silence is OK. Usually the person who breaks the silence says something goofy, so don't be the one to break the silence. She won't forgive you for saying something goofy, because you're the man. But you'll forgive her for saying something goofy, because she's hot, so who cares. You risk a lot breaking the silence. She risks very little. Let her do it. She always will. If a silence goes on for way too long then just stare at h…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:20 AM
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Also, up your Tinder game. Get good photos if you don't already have them. Coffee Meets Bagel is especially easy with good photos.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:05 AM
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Yup. Chest groping is totally normal for me on a first date after a first kiss (provided it’s more like passionate making out, and not just a quick peck). That makes sense that worked in school. It was probably exhilarating for her. Your mileage may vary as an adult, I wouldn’t recommend having it as part of your standard game moves unless you have a good lawyer.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:03 AM
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I'm in NYC as well. It is indeed brutal. I went up to game in White Plains once, and it was easy mode. I can't even imagine what it would be like in bumfuck Arkansans. Ultimately it just sets a higher standard, and it'll take you longer to get there. "You make six figures? So does my dog, lol." "Mmm, you're cute. I love your biceps. Wait... there's a cuter guy over there at the other end of the bar, byeeee!" Be the richest most ripped motherfucker in the room. If you're not up to par yet then go…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:59 AM
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Oneitis, move on. You admitted it yourself: "I really do like her." You shouldn't be in the mental state of "really liking her" until you've been fucking her for weeks and are considering her for an LTR. You're wasting your time and emotional energy here. This isn't healthy for you psychologically, sexually, or in any other way. Move on. The appropriate failure pattern for these things is that you game a girl for a few MINUTES and then ask her "Wanna go grab drinks sometime?" and if you get anyt…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:48 AM
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Wish I could give you infinite amounts of karma for this one. +1.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:41 AM
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Ignore her and focus on you. Text back before going to bed at a bare minimum. Even if she's asleep already she'll see it when she wakes up.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:38 AM
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Major red flag. She's not an LTR prospect. Don't get into sexual situation with her that involve booze or weed. If she's a prude in bed and constantly complains or over-communicates about each sex act then just move on after you get the lay.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:34 AM
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I don't know why people are downvoting on the above guy's post. He's just repeating pretty standard manospere perspectives on rape hysteria, and this is /r/asktrp. Upvote this dude, he deserves the karma.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:32 AM
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Yeah, this sounds like more like a legit reschedule. The one weird thing, like you said, is "who doesn't know next weeks schedule already?" Sometimes people just have a hard time making plans when they're overloaded with stress. When you're sick and overworked it's hard to even imagine a time in the future that you'll be feeling well and free. Though it could be a sign of a slight lack of interest. I'm not sure. Try not to invest too much emotionally over texting before actually meeting. It make…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:24 AM
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Hahah. I’ve been there bro.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:04 AM
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Sidebar. Read therationalmale.com
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:03 AM
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You got needy and scared her away. If you tell her to be there at 10:30 then just expect her at 10:30. Don't text her at 10:15 asking what's up. Don't text her if she's a no-show either. If she's more than 20 minutes late just bail and go do something else. If she brings it up later and apologies just say "no worries." and then punish her by ignoring her. When she said she had a headache and couldn't come you should have just sent the single letter "K" and then done something else. And then igno…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:00 AM
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It’s not a gamble. You have 0% chance here. You’re walking up to a total stranger and asking her to fuck you. Never in the history of the world has this ever worked on a girl unless she has mental illness or just happens to be masturbating at the exact moment you ask her. Move on.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:57 AM
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Lol dude. One random like does not mean she wants to fuck you. Also, girls talk about sex 24/7, and share sexual memes and gifs in their girl-only chat groups. The fact that she liked on one of your sexual posts didn't mean shit. It was probably her sixth like on a sexual post that very same day.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:53 AM
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I was on a first date the other day that was solid all around. I opened with a strong hug when we met. After dinner we were walking to a cocktail lounge and I would touch her shoulder or arm whenever we laughed about something. If she told me about something that she had accomplished I'd say "That's awesome, look at you go," and I'd touch her on her on the back as I said it. When we got to the cocktail lounge she was telling me about how she had strong legs from being an athlete in high school, …
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:45 AM
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Personally I don't do clubs. When I go out solo I go to bars around my city that have pool tables. I hang out, drink, and play pool. Sometimes I bar hop, other times I'll stay at a single bar all night. If I start at 6pm and stay out until closing at 4am it can be 10 full hours of playing pool and drinking. A lot of people filter in and out during that time, girls included. Game opportunities abound. It also looks less awkward being alone when you're there to play pool. It's OK to be out alone p…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:10 AM
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Yeah, I agree. It could have been better written. One of the things that almost turned me off from TRP when I first got here was the borderline illiterate vibe of the writing. Even GayLubeOil (praise be his name) has pretty shitty command of punctuation and grammar sometimes. I almost left just due to the writing quality when I first arrived. "How can people who write this poorly possibly be getting anything right?". Then the sidebar lead me to therationalmale.com, where Rollo is very eloquent. …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/18 05:43 AM
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In person your game probably sucks. Keep approaching and learning. Get some PUA books like The Mystery Method as food for thought, and to get a list of gimmicks to try. Game should’t be the practice of applying gimmicks, but PUA gimmicks are a good place to start for practice. They’re infinitely better than “just be yourself” if yourself has shitty game. Online it must be that your photos suck. If you DM me and share them I can give you photography tips from a red pill perspective. It can’t poss…
/r/askTRP06/10/18 09:24 PM
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Honestly she probably hasn't. When they do studies of sexual activity in colleges they consistently find that students in the math department have the least amount of sex. That shouldn't be surprising. These are people who are very socially isolated and socialize basically never.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 12:44 AM
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They're usually not hollow. They just express their disinterest by acting aloof and empty. If they're attracted but hesitant they'll likewise act aloof and empty. Once you have them in bed and they open up to you they're normal, intelligent, engaging people. It's just harder to get a young girl talking because she always has her bitch shield up, or half up, or 1/3 of the way up. You also have to learn to relate to them more than they relate to you. You have more life experience than they do. The…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:30 AM
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Jesus fucking christ, what the fuck is wrong with you people. Of course you want to date 18-21 year olds. You should want to date 16 or 17 year olds if it were legal. Vincent Cassel just married a 20 year old at age 51. Marlon Brando had a fling with a 15 year old when he was 30. I'm 29 and I'm plating 20 year olds now. When I used to be blue pilled I used to say shit like "I wouldn't even know what to do with a 19 year old." Dudes who say that are always saying it as if it's the girl's fault fo…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:18 AM
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Guilt. It's easier spinning plates who are party girls, or who are younger and still have most of their 20's ahead of them. This is the first one I've had where I know she's going to get attached. I can already see her crying when it doesn't work out. And since she's already 26 I feel more like I'll be legitimately wasting her time.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 04:17 AM
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Sure, yeah, I totally have oneitis for this girl. I almost replied to her follow up text by saying "Sorry, I don't think this was a good connection for me," and I'm only just barely interested enough in a second date to see her again. Oneitis, yep.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:18 AM
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Great post. I highly agree. This is the attitude I have now with three different plates, and it's wonderful. If a plate snaps at me habitually or tries to go into bitchy controlling shrew mode then I'll drop her. But if being around her is fun then I don't try to fix her or groom her for an LTR. My thought pattern is usually like this: Oh, you had cake for dinner and you're drinking soda. Fine, I'll keep you around while you're still young and naturally thin, but as soon as you start getting fat…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 01:01 AM
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The fact that you don't think it was about me is itself the problem.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 07:26 PM
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Idk, they must have NEVER succeeded with a woman. The feeling when your partner is REALLY into you, like they just fucking CRAVE you. It's a good feeling. My longterm relationships when I was blue pilled always lacked that genuine desire from the woman. I'd struggle to get the girl's begrudging acceptance. I'd get it and a mediocre relationship would follow, with tepid sex and her being a controlling nagging shrew. Then I got red pilled after a bad break up. I started lifting and developed some …
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 06:34 PM
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Hey man, fuck you. I've put a shit ton of effort into posting useful comments. Look through my post history. My account is not new. Yet the "New User Filter" still stops me from posting FR's and other content here in the main TRP sub. You can't bitch about people not participating when you have draconian and opaque barriers to participation.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 05:12 PM
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If you're walking down the street and you want to turn then you touch her back to indicate the turn to her. If there's a crowd coming and you want her to go in front of you for a second to let them pass then you grab her by the shoulder and move her to where you want her. You manager her like a herder. Not being constantly attached at the hands also let's you do other types of kino while you walk. If something funny comes up and you both start laughing you can touch her while you both laugh. If …
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 06:03 PM
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Just a reminder of a great related Rational Male post: The Crying Game
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 04:27 PM
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I agree that trp.red is a confusing disaster. They're hearts are clearly in the right place, and they have the best content creators and mods from /r/TheRedPill and the rest of the manosphere, but the UI/UX is awful. The fastest way to a successful new community hub will probably be to just hire a professional UI/UX person.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 02:58 AM
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Yeah, fit girls are the best. Not bulky, just fit. https://pbs.twimg.com/media/ChEnecZUUAISkqO.jpg
/r/TheRedPill30/09/18 07:41 PM
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Your kiss gambit sucked. The proper emotional context for a first kiss is: She has gina tingles. You can tell she has gina tingles. You just kiss her. It sounds like you were killing it up until you pulled that 1-to-10 spontaneity question. It's clear from your description that the emotional context of your kiss attempt was one in which you wanted to kiss her and she was caught off guard. So, not gina tingles. If your interactions with a girl are going well there will come a point where she's (l…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 08:45 AM
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My thoughts exactly. This post is shitty advice. If you want abundance then lift, dress better, and go practice your game as often as possible. I do math, physics, and software engineering. I have life goals in those fields, and money goals. But I didn't get my plates by sitting home and solving a math problem or working on a business. I got them by spending a year lifting, dressing better, and doing nothing but going out every weekend.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 05:20 PM
7

You sound like a piece of a shit. You don't spin plates when you're in an LTR. I guess if you want to really not give a fuck and spin plates anyway that's fine, but you're fucked in the head if you think it's on her to openly bear the stress of that when shit hits the fan.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 12:28 AM
6

Anyone who says money isn't important probably just doesn't have any. It's the same thing as with pussy. Guys who can't get laid will look at guys who can and say "Yeah, they get a lot of pussy, but does that really make them happy?" And then they'll hamster up some bullshit definition of "true happiness" and classify players as "Not truly happy." Guys who don't have money will look at guys who do and say "Yeah, but does that really make them more alpha?" and then they'll hamster up some bullshi…
/r/askTRP09/09/18 12:22 AM
5

True facts. But OP, don't let this comment get you started thinking "Oh, so cardio is beneficial, I'll just stick to swimming then." Go fucking lift.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 12:08 AM
5

Yes, much.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 12:02 AM
8

If you only have time for one, lift. Cardio won't get you big.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 12:02 AM
22

Totally fine. That's hilarious. She must have some pretty hard core social dysfunctions if she's meeting someone from a dating app and not even admitting that it's a date. That's not a shit test, she's just fucked in the head. It's pretty normal to escalate effortlessly to (at least) kissing on a first date, but here's this girl not even admitting your first date is even a date. All women are crazy, but they're not all THAT crazy. Move on until you find girls who are also looking for romantic in…
/r/askTRP09/09/18 12:01 AM
9

You're not going to get ripped swimming, go lift.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 11:54 PM
3

Don't not do things just to not appear needy, girls pick up on that it and looks weird. If you legitimately have something to do that's fine, but if not then go with the flow. Don't play text games or try to be witty or funny over texting. It just comes off as awkward and indecisive. Text only for logistics: "Hey. Hope the art show was good. We should hang out sometime. How about <activity> at <place> at <time>."
/r/askTRP08/09/18 09:27 PM
3

Open with a witty or playful comment about something in her profile. Exchange maybe 2-3 lines of text and then say "We should hang sometime. How about <location> at <date and time>." Get her number only for getting in touch at the time of the date. She has 2,000 other matces, even if she's not that attractive. She doesn't give a shit about you and has no incentive to wait or pine after one particular dude, or suffer any anticipation. Be decisive and immediate to increase your success rate. At th…
/r/askTRP08/09/18 09:00 PM
1

Something is really wrong if your squat is still at just 145lb after that many months. If you're doing 5x5 then you should be adding 5lb to your squat every workout. The smallest weights in the gym are usually the 2.5lb minis, so throw an extra pair of those onto the bar every workout to get your +5lb. If your gym doesn't have 2.5lb's then go buy some: https://www.roguefitness.com/ Another good reason to buy your own 2.5lb's is if your gym only has one pair and you always have to wait forever fo…
/r/askTRP08/09/18 07:38 PM
1

It's not that long of a grind. A few months to a year on 5x5 with a good diet and you'll be enough above average for girls to really notice you. That's like one college course. Just keep at it.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 11:54 PM
4

Sounds like you're not good enough yet. Consider yourself fortune that you know the path forward and are already on it. That puts you ahead of most guys who are just sitting on the couch Friday night eating ice cream and jerking to porn. You're young and you have a lot of time to get there. Just don't quit. StrongLifts 5xt5 is a solid program for beginners. Get your squat up. You should be able to squat roughly 25% more than you bench. Having a bigger upper body relative to your legs might be ha…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 11:48 PM
0

My advice is to be not like that. Whatever you're doing and feeling, do the opposite thing. Also lift, deadlifts fix pretty much everything.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 09:43 PM
0

I'm not sure. I can suggest advice for normal scenarios that I'm familiar with, but I'm not sure what the right move is when someone says nothing but "K" to obviously positive signals from the girl. It's a weird situation. You're on your own.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 09:40 PM
1

Yeah, you didn't play that great. Were you feeling buthurt? Having a girl cancel but suggest seeing you again another time is a primo spot to be in, you should have been happy. It means she likes you and isn't just flaking. "K" in response to that was weird. You should have have said "No worries. Let's day at instead if you're free."
/r/askTRP07/09/18 09:28 PM
-1

Are you the gray or the blue?
/r/askTRP07/09/18 09:23 PM
35

Yeah, if she's weird about sex just bail. It's not a shit test, those girls are just fucked in the head. She's 27 and she spent the first 10 years of her sex life fucking broke drug dealer bad boys, but now she wants a nice stable guy with money to commit to her, so she's going to play the good girl routine and make me wait. No thanks, I'm out. Too many fun carefree 20 year olds out there. She subscribes to some extreme form of her religion. I'm out. She's been hurt in the past and is afraid to …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 09:05 PM
2

Getting lost a 30 minute conversation to nowhere is a common failure pattern. Make some excuse and say you have to leave. Better yet, actually have something better to do than talking to her, like lifting, making money, or hanging out with guy friends. Before you leave ask her for her number or set up a time to see her again. Don't get lost in 30 minutes conversations to nowhere, suggest meeting again and cut them short.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:56 PM
0

NYC is awesome. Come to NY. I'll show you all the spots.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:43 PM
2

That's the norm unless you're rich, built, and hyper alpha. Get used to most girls flaking. Play the numbers.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:42 PM
0

Is she giving lots of attention and positive signals? If yes I'd say go. If she feels very "meh" about your relationship to her I'd say don't go. If you're going to be in a position of trying to qualify for her then that's bad. If you've already qualified and she's noticeably into you then go for it.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:32 PM
5

That sounds fine. Don't put too much thought into it though. My strategy is to plant a handful of seeds exactly like that every week, and then wait to see which 1 of the 7 actually texts me back in a week to hang. Lots of them just flake or vanish. Don't get hung up on it if she doesn't follow through. It's a numbers game. Start doing exactly what you did there with lots of girls and you'll start having more successes, just statistically speaking.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:27 PM
0

This isn't a Red Pill subject, wrong subreddit.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 06:11 PM
2

This post doesn't belong here. You're not asking advice or genuine clarification, you're just looking for an echo chamber.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 06:08 PM
64

Don't be afraid of the 5 days if something goes wrong. Remember that women take their emotional cues from you, and not the other way around. If you try to escalate, fail, and then feel weird and insecure about it for 5 days then she'll pick up on your insecurity and feel weird too. If you try to escalate, fail, and then act super chill and you honestly don't give a fuck then she'll feel normal and chill too. You have nothing to risk with those 5 days unless you yourself would feel weird, and tha…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 06:06 PM
2

That's called internet LMR right there. It's how he'll finally know for sure she likes him. It's what the girl always says right before agreeing to a date.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:51 PM
1

I'd consider her a dropped plate and move on. Game other girls. I know you probably really like her, but remember that if you found a solid girl once you can find one again. Don't try to salvage it. She might pop up again in the future, but I'd go with permanent zero-contact unless she proactively reaches out.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:37 PM
2

Yep, that's the same thing I said when I fucked up in the same way. Men are often happy to just jump straight into a relationship. You can feel like you're a year in and it's only been two weeks, and that's fine with you. Girls are less into that. And moreover, getting too comfortable too soon makes you tend to fuck up and do beta shit. If you want her to stick around and you see her as long term potential then let it simmer. Keep other plates around so you can be dating/banging someone else whi…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:26 PM
3

I've had stuff like this happen. Some girls have a pathological thing they do where they dive in super fast and then suddenly stop caring, just as fast. Love is like a drug for them. They get a huge hit and then come down from it and want a break. You should have left sooner and not taken the dive with her. Dish out your attention more sparingly. She'll value you in a more deep and stable way if she has to work for it. I have one girl I'm seeing who is self-aware about that dynamic. She never st…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:08 PM
3

I would also make sure to go to every photo and comment "OMG Gurl! Ur so cute! xoxoxox" She'll notice you for sure. She might even message you.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:54 PM
4

There are probably two things going on here. The first one is that you're not used to having a lot of casual sex, so you're not familiar enough with the situation to know how to jump on it and escalate. That'll improve as you practice. The next time you find yourself in that situation you'll be more aware of what's going on because you'll have your past failures in mind. The second thing is more subtle. It's pretty normal to not enjoy what you didn't work for. An HB8 can walk into a bar and just…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:53 PM
1

Alright, good luck man. Shoot us a message here when you're in bed next to her.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:20 PM
13

Read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/929gf2/the_importance_of_solitude_and_a_detox_from_women/ And then read my comment here: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/929gf2/the_importance_of_solitude_and_a_detox_from_women/e5jdfs3
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:19 PM
3

You clearly have some social dysfunctions that you're too afraid to come to terms with. They're evident even in this comment thread, and they'll surely be evident to women you interact with. Deal with your shit man, denial is not a great strategy.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:15 PM
1

Women should be throwing themselves at you whenever you leave the house then. Why are you wasting time with lost causes on Facebook like this? Either you have some seriously awful social skills or you live in the middle of nowhere where there are no women. Either problem is fixable.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:07 PM
1

Are you lifting? Go lift.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:56 PM
2

And she never will be. Move on.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:55 PM
3

Dude, seriously, stop it. She's not "responding positivly," she's playing you for validation and attention. I get the sense you've literally never had a girl legitimately into you, and that you don't know what it feels like. If she was actually responding positivly you'd feel great right now. She'd be texting you, giving you compliments, and wanting to hang out with you. You would not be here having these pathetic arguments with internet strangers. She's girl-gaming you for validation and attent…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:46 PM
2

Yes, don't try. You're wasting you time and emotional energy with her. Spend it elsewhere. Go lift instead, or figure out how to make more money. Or go game new girls who you have brtter chances with. Me and everyone else here can guarantee you'll never bang this girl.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:40 PM
5

Yep, exactly. I'm open to having an LTR with a girl if she doesn't have any red flags, but they all seem to have red flags, so I'll probably be in not-caring-and-just-having-fun mode indefinitely.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:58 PM
1

Your next move is going out and gaming three new girls this weekend, and forgetting about this one.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:52 PM
1

Lost cause. This one isn't worth the time you took to write the post. Get over it, move on.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:44 PM
2

I've had bad experiences where I'll sleep with the girl on a first date and then things won't pan out. She'll either be uninterested in a second date, or the second date will happen and go awful. It's probably because I fucked up somewhere along the way, but I'm starting to suspect that sex on a first date is not a good move if you want the girl to stick around. Girls feel guilty about giving it up too fast, and they like having a bit more time to let their emotions for you simmer and then solid…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:39 PM
1

Asking her to hang is fine, but it doesn't sound like you're doing anything here that's going to make her super attracted to you. She's far, she probably barely remembers you, she has her own life going on, you didn't have a chance to make a recent impression in person, etc... Your chances here are pretty low. Expect rejection and flakiness, and be ready to move on.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:23 PM
10

This is good advice. I have a point to add. It might sound like a point of contention, but it's not. You can only choose to go into a phase of solitude in this particular way if you're already sufficiently alpha and have your girl game down. You can't consciously go into solitude if you don't have girls to turn away from in the first place, that's just called being an incel. When an optionless blue pill beta gets out of a relationship he'll often go into a frenzy trying to find a new one. He'll …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 04:00 AM
2

Have professional photos. Dress well, look rich. Lift, look ripped and huge. Have a few solo photos and a few photos with friends/girls for social proof.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:54 AM
36

"Hey girl. You're a cutie. So how many dicks have you taken on tinder so far? I'm on 7 myself."
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:50 AM
2

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-cqqBD4xb_vU/Uvz2DB7oXpI/AAAAAAAAL1A/EUaN2nOqPko/s1600/chef_bot___does_not_compute__by_giframa-d555wi8.gif
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:16 AM
8

Yep, ghosting is the way to go, especially with the real hotties. They'll usually pop up again. It's a shitty lesson to learn. You bang a hottie super fast and then get all excited. You show even a shred of that excitement and she bails. The next hottie you bang you won't show the excitement again. You'll probably be too jaded from the last time to even feel it again in the first place. After a while girls just become a commodity to you and they flow through your hands like sand. They slip throu…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:58 AM
6

You're overthinking this. If you're even thinking about this on this level then you're probably still hung up on her. Nexting means "move on and stop thinking or caring about her as a potential romantic partner."
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:49 AM
1

Next. If she says she's busy and doesn't suggest an alternative it means she's not interested. Don't reply, just next. If you want to fuck with her you can say something like "Don't be sorry, your loss." But don't expect it to turn things around.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:34 AM
3

It sounds like he built the rapport already in person. Building rapport for 3-10 lines is an online thing. If you do the 3-10 lines in person then text for just logistics. If she doesn't bite, like here, then she was probably just making polite conversation in person and wasn't actually into it.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:31 AM
2

You must have fucked up somewhere. The cure for ONEitis there is having other HB8 plates to switch to, or being able to find new one easily. It sounds like you've been playing it on easy mode with fatties, and just bluffing at being Alpha. Real hotties will shit test you like crazy and call your bluff.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:28 AM
8

Yeah man, get used to feeling sick when that happens. Get used to it super good, it'll happen a lot. Attractive women have options. I've been on dates with HB9's where they spent huge hunks of time bitching about their loser beta orbiters while they managed their 37 different text message streams on their phones. From her perspective you were just another random guy. She'll bail on you and not care, because if you get offended and move on there will be 4 more new randos that pop up just on Monda…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:22 AM
10

No girl is not free for 10 full days. If she says she's not free until 10 days from now she sees you as a beta option. If she sees you as an Alpha worth pursuing she'll find some time to grab a drink with you very imminently. And yes, if she seems to just be interested in getting to you via texting she's trying to keep you in her attention web as a beta. You'll spend 10 days getting to know her over text and then the night before your date you'll get a text with some bullshit like "Hey, my hamst…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:07 AM
37

Seconded, lol. You have to realize that at a certain point in courting a girl you have to switch from "gaming" to just being a normal genuine person. If she senses that you're trying to run game scripts on her like a robot she's going get confused and just think you're weird. Switch to genuine-mode earlier.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 01:33 AM
1

What a weird post. Work on being less nerdy and OCD.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 01:27 AM
10

Sounds like you're texting to much overall. Text game isn't really game. Once you've got a number go straight for the date: You: "Hey, it's John from the store. We should hang out sometime. Are you free this weekend?" Her: "Sure, Saturday would work." You: "Cool, let's go grab some drinks at <insert pub here> at 7pm." Her: "Sounds good. See you there! :)" That's pretty much it dude. If you're texting more than that you're leaving room for yourself to seem needy, indecisive, cheesy, and like one …
/r/askTRP07/09/18 01:24 AM
1

Yeah, to get into an alpha-fucks status be an alpha. To not get into one in the first place don't be a beta. Focus on other non-girl parts of your life and learn to be more alpha in general. Go through girls more quickly for the purpose of trying shit out, making mistakes, learning, and moving on. Don't get hung up on trying to switch from beta to alpha status with a specific girl, it's not really a thing that happens. Find a new one who is a blank slate for you to make a fresh alpha impression …
/r/askTRP07/09/18 12:45 AM
3

If a girl's execute for not fucking you or not seeing you is legitimate she'll go out of her way to reassure you. Not Legit: "I'm busy this weekend, sorry." (she's probably fucking someone else that weekend). Legit: "I'm busy this weekend. But I loved hanging out with you! How about next Friday instead?" Not Legit: "I'm on my period, sorry" (she remains cold and distant). Legit: "I'm on my period, let's just stay in and watch movies today" (and then she rubs your chest and kisses you).
/r/askTRP07/09/18 12:40 AM
5

If I'm having a good time with a girl and she recoils from a kiss attempt then I'll just keep the date going provided that the conversation is interesting enough for its own sake. But the ball is in her court at that point. She has to show me some massive attraction signals or I won't be texting her back for a repeat. I had a girl recoil from a kiss attempt once when I was over at her apartment. We kept hanging out and drinking some wine. I was done trying after her recoil, but sex came up as a …
/r/askTRP07/09/18 12:31 AM
3

I used to fuck up a lot after first dates with texting. Women get a lot of needy texts from beta orbiters, so they read basically any texting as needy and beta. If you text her too soon, and with any positive emotions, then all she's going to see is: He's texting me really soon, he's thinking about me. He's texting me a positive emotion, he really likes me. He must be head over heels in love with me, I must be his only option. Beta, beta, beta. Now I go out of my way to ignore girls after first …
/r/askTRP07/09/18 12:13 AM
7

Go get it somewhere else then. Consider her a dropped plate unless she spontaneously comes back and changes her behavior. Your dynamic with a girl is healthy only when her resistance is playful and you both know sex is a foregone conclusion. She'll say "I usually don't have sex with guys this soon," but she'll say it playfully. You'll sense from her eye contact and body language that what she's actually saying is "I usually don't have sex with guys this soon, BUT I'M ABOUT TO WITH YOU." All you …
/r/askTRP06/09/18 11:48 PM
3

The next time she slams her door into your hand slam yours back a few times into hers, but playfully. Don't be afraid to hit her hand if it's there. Obviously don't do it with full force. Smirk and laugh at her like you're putting her down for being so thoughtless. You're pointing out her bad behavior, but in a playful and carefree way. That's the only way to do it. That being said, you'll probably fuck this up if you actually try it. The action on your part has to be motivated by a genuine dont…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 11:25 PM
6

Nothing, move on to the next one. You fucked up. Uphill battles aren't worth fighting. You wouldn't have bothered to even post this question if you had 5 other dates lined up for the weekend. Don't focus on any one girl, focus on building abundance.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 11:13 PM
3

I'm 29 and I'm plating a 20 year old. Just ignore it and laugh it off. There's no logic to this shaming convention, nor even a coherent philosophy. You can't argue against its tenants, because there aren't any. It's just fear and jealousy. Men are jealous. You know they'll be going home later that night to jerk off to porn where the girls are 18-21. You know they'd go for it if they could press a button and make a horny 18 year old appear and want to fuck them. Women are terrified to admit that …
/r/askTRP06/09/18 11:02 PM
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