That didn't go the way you planned did it?

undegenerate · 2020-09-01T17:32:12+00:00

You can see everything in the bottom screenshot why take 2 lol

Michi712 · 2020-09-01T18:49:01+00:00

At that comment, even if I didn’t remember it happening, it would’ve been so simple to just apologize.

‘I honestly cannot remember it happening but I am so sorry I did that. It was wrong then and it’s something I’m completely against now that I am more aware.’

Plain and simple. Could have had a new ally there.

---L-- · 2020-09-01T18:51:20+00:00

I still go to school with girls that used to fake flirt with me to make me uncomfortable purely for their entertainment, regardless of whether I asked them to leave me alone, with the genders reversed I know that they would go through hell justifying their behavior to parents and teachers but as it is I doubt they even remember doing it

GayyFieri · 2020-09-01T17:54:15+00:00

My ex used to brag about how when she was a child she would flirt with grown men to get them to buy her candy. She would hang out in front of the gas station like a prostitute and whore herself for candy.

cherriesandghostmeat · 2020-09-01T17:39:47+00:00

My boyfriend has been sexually harassed and even assaulted by women more times in his life than I’ve been even catcalled by men.

arcamenoch · 2020-09-01T18:26:36+00:00

Shit like this is real, man. When I was about 14 there was a (rather loose) girl that tried to latch herself onto another scared virgin. She had decided to sneak up on me at the bus stop one morning, bearhugged me (she was twice my size), and forced a massive hickey on my neck. Got pulled out of every class that day because it was 'disruptive to the class' for all my classmates to point it out, not to mention when I got home my mom beat my ass. Nobody believed that I didn't want it to happen, because 'all young boys can think about is sex'.

To this day, verbally communicating with my wife aabout things of a sexual nature is difficult.

legitimatechicken · 2020-09-01T17:53:36+00:00

Yeah it happened a lot to me as a kid. One of my step dads would point out how flat my ass was and would point out how nice my sister's ass was in comparison. Keep in mind I am 10 and she is maybe 15. Since then our asses have totally reversed and now I have more of an ass but it could always be bigger. There are many many more way more inapropriate things but that was just one of them that I look back on and think man my mom straight up heard this guy say this shit to her kids why the hell was she alright with that?

Strypes4686 · 2020-09-01T19:12:42+00:00

I had a stalker when I Was in 3rd grade. It went on until the middle of 7th when her family moved. I Hope she forgot about me.

JesseGolo · 2020-09-01T22:24:22+00:00

Grade four a girl ran up to me and kicked me in the junk, she was wearing wodden clogs. While I'm writhing in pain she bends down kisses my cheek and says "I like you." the whole time I'm wondering why did you kick me in my baby nuts then?

gonzothegreat13 · 2020-09-01T19:10:17+00:00

I'm a dude but I got my ass slapped at a summer camp by an 18 yo girl when I was middle school age. So that be my story that I would comment.

Bustin-cheeks · 2020-09-01T17:03:19+00:00

Must of these kinds of women suffer from guilt of being the very thing they claim to dispise.

randomlad93 · 2020-09-01T19:33:14+00:00

I used to work in a motorbike store that although not near a school would get a lot of kids (12-16) at around 4pm when schools closed, mainly to look at stuff etc and just gawk at the bikes.

The things I've heard old men say freaks me out.

Also worked in a bar Had a glass collector who was 15 yes illegal but the bar did loads wrong that's hardly the worst I stopped so many hands grabbing her ass by dudes who didn't even care she was underage it's unreal like bro she's 15 "and"

AlwaysWorried27 · 2020-09-01T21:31:04+00:00

Ohhhh burrrrrn! I get what she means though, hell I was 5 and had my brothers 14 year old friend trying to stick his tongue in my mouth. I have to assume she is referring to stuff like that BUT what she did to that boy wasnt ok either.

MarquisOfHell · 2020-09-01T19:33:59+00:00

Coming from Scotland I feel sorry for any small boy that has to wear a kilt. Women are fucked up when it comes to those things. That was my introduction to something not being right.

gofortheko · 2020-09-01T22:06:36+00:00

1/4 girls will be sexually molested, 1/7 boys will. Humans like diddling children for some fucked up reason.

MiloFrank · 2020-09-02T02:25:46+00:00

I was curious, so I showed my wife the first frame. She answered 9, while she was at a carnival. I then read the comment and remembered an instance when I was 4 when I was held down and forced to be kissed by a girl. Her 2 friends held me down and she kissed me.

Makes me think we suck as a species in teaching our children to respect genders.

gaudreauslashed · 2020-09-02T06:40:28+00:00

I was playing duck duck goose at a religious camp. It was the turn of our counsellor. I was 14 and she was a couple years older. Not sure because we never knew each other. So everyone in the circle closes our eyes.

She starts making her way around saying duck, duck, duck, and for the goose instead of tapping me on the head, she kissed me on the cheek.

It was a total surprise and I thought it was awesome.

To this day I still consider it the highlight of that camp, but if the genders were reversed I can’t help but think it’d be a bigger risk. Does it show a privilege women enjoy over men? No idea

ThrowawayGhostGuy1 · 2020-09-01T19:39:21+00:00

We have to stop excusing predatory behavior by saying “girls will be girls.”

DrunkenGojira · 2020-09-01T17:45:53+00:00

I’ve had this done to me my whole life as a male by yet I’m not making a scene about it. She needs that special attention

purelyforsport · 2020-09-01T17:05:53+00:00

OOF.

stuntxrain · 2020-09-01T17:27:08+00:00

P A I N

TaTaTikTok · 2020-09-01T20:43:20+00:00

Nobody talks about how so much of that "not quite right" is literally just PERCEIVED and isn't even real.

Like that lady that was posted on here yesterday at Wal-Mart that tried to publicly shame a guy for "touching her" when it was actually a door.

How many times have you heard "I have a boyfriend" when you had absolutely no intention of hitting on a girl?

There are real predators out there, and I'm sure every woman has experienced some form of legitimate concern about a dude.

But most of what they experience - they just experienced in their head.

rethebear · 2020-09-01T22:15:46+00:00

A neighbor who was 14 was babysitting me & my siblings when I was like 7 or something. He sat on the couch and stroked my leg commenting on how soft and smooth they were. I jumped up and said that I needed to check on my younger siblings outside to get away from him.

Xx69bootyslayer69xX · 2020-09-01T17:27:55+00:00

Nice lol

pale_28 · 2020-09-01T17:55:59+00:00

That tweet is still sadly true

Swimmingdrop144 · 2020-09-01T22:11:52+00:00

This is a wierd hill to die on mate

imbillypardy · 2020-09-01T23:27:10+00:00

Yeah, this isn’t exactly a smoking gun for the cause there chief

notarealfetus · 2020-09-02T01:59:13+00:00

I mean, in this case both were kids. Main problem here is again making it a gendered and male vs female issue. I was about 8 the first time a girl 7 years older than me was very inappropriate and from 13 inappropriate comments from female friends of my parents and some of my friends mums were common, even a teacher once. I wasn't even attractive so not sure what vibe I was putting out.

Thinking about it now I can think "fuck i'd of loved to of fucked them, a man's dream" or whatever because I imagine my horny ass adult brain in my younger self but truth is at the time it made me super uncomfortable. Inappropriate things by other kids did not as it's not the same context.

flwrgrlconnie · 2020-09-02T02:02:32+00:00

In a way she's right when I started growing boobs grown men used to follow me to school I used to run I was in 4rth grade

PopeMolestusXXX · 2020-09-02T03:09:30+00:00

I always thought girls are just better at social intelligence than boys. So they notice stuff boys miss.

JeNightWolf · 2020-09-01T18:40:03+00:00

My SO told me she was 10-11 by some girl telling her she belonged on her knees when I asked her. Kinda fucked up but I was even younger than that when I was sexualized as a guy (6-7 that I can remember of) by some lady at a pool. There's definitely a problem here.

n2R3aJVUhTt6zFgk · 2020-09-01T20:39:20+00:00

#MeToo doesn't allow "I don't remember" as an excuse, remember?

PessimisticPotato12 · 2020-09-01T20:48:56+00:00

The message is obviously a real thing, that guys can experience this shit too, but this is quite the shit example. This is not at all a "damn you sure got her". They were children in the "ew Sarah has cooties" age. A little girl forcefully hugging a boy she likes? On a post referencing child sexual harassment/abuse from an adult? Come on now

AgentSears · 2020-09-01T21:11:29+00:00

The times I've had that happen, sometimes I even liked the girl but at that age was just too scared to even say it to them, then it just awked me out even more.

2020-09-02T04:28:47+00:00

Ha. That's nothing. My older sisters told me that would never play with me again if I didn't except Jesus into my heart. I was 5.

Sagelegend · 2020-09-02T06:39:10+00:00

It happened to me in primary school, and later in early high school.

Both times I knew it was wrong, but I knew if I fought back, I’d be the one getting in trouble. The first time I told my parents and the teachers and they just laughed it off.

crispy-potatoes · 2020-09-06T05:08:23+00:00

She knows she did it

2020-09-01T18:07:40+00:00

Well well well, how the turns table

Oswarez · 2020-09-01T22:28:28+00:00

The statement is about grown ass men saying or doing inappropriate things to children, not kids acting stupid to other kids.

IGargleGarlic · 2020-09-02T02:47:04+00:00

They were kids... kids are dumb and do stupid shit constantly. I think it's a little different than a kid being sexualized by an adult.

ChrisW828 · 2020-09-01T17:59:33+00:00

Love this sub, but don't think this qualifies because while I agree men are victims, too, that doesn't change facts for women. This sub, to me, is laughing at women expecting special treatment. Wanting anyone to be free from sexual assault of any degree isn't special treatment.

My first time I was 10-11 and it was a male doctor.

amnbz · 2020-09-01T20:05:29+00:00

The audacity of this bitch

chasedup · 2020-09-01T18:28:40+00:00

Hold back, suppressive fire

jrcprl · 2020-09-01T19:01:39+00:00

This is like r/croppingishard on coke

Class_in_a_Rat · 2020-09-01T20:24:07+00:00

So the gist of it is that almost everybody is a terrible person, especially kids. Also, not gonna lie, my girl and I were talking about this the other day and middle school aged boys are rapey as fuck.

dukunt · 2020-09-01T21:39:38+00:00

She remembers.

buckeye111 · 2020-09-02T01:06:25+00:00

When I was in 4th grade a 5th grade girl held me down at recess and kissed me. It was not cool.

SethlordX7 · 2020-09-01T19:15:26+00:00

The difference being that these 2 were both children while the original post is about sexual objectification by and inappropriately older person, hence the term 'man' being used. I'm not condoning what Red did but this is some legit whataboutism. It also misses the point entirely because this is about how nearly every single woman will experience these issues on a semi-regular basis, not about an individual incident.

HydraBoiYT · 2020-09-01T20:28:37+00:00

Yikes

teruma · 2020-09-02T02:29:37+00:00

awful everything

LeviGabeman666 · 2020-09-02T03:23:03+00:00

Your valid argument has been dismissed

Fire_Alone1 · 2020-09-02T04:05:32+00:00

Ekspoosd

KingOfBabTouma · 2020-09-02T15:43:06+00:00

This is a terrible example.

Kiflaam · 2020-09-03T03:35:10+00:00

is this.... is this what you guys like here?

2020-09-03T06:34:32+00:00

KAXX. Evil.

CptBeetle · 2020-09-03T12:27:17+00:00

She was talking about what adults say to kids, not how kids behave together.

Abhiee_7 · 2020-09-04T05:13:11+00:00

Woahhhhhh

RadiantEnvironment96 · 2020-09-04T22:23:01+00:00

Self owned. Fucking useless cunt

_mymindismine_ · 2020-09-06T09:01:28+00:00

This is about grown men sexualizing/harassing young girls. I'd get comments about my chest and get creeped on by 40+ men (and in one instance a 30-35yo woman) when I was 13. That's just sick.

Yes it would have been nice of her to apologize, however I can understand why she was just stunned at his incapacity to understand her point.

Should kids make other kids uncomfortable? No, of course not. Should adults make kids uncomfortable? Absolutely fucking not! Those things are not mutually exclusive. This comment section is completely ignoring the horrifying issue: predatory adults, mostly men in this woman's experience, sexualizing and touching kids.

I cannot comprehend the mental gymnastics required for you to see the story of a child being annoying to another child being more important than fucking pedophilia. Anyone who tolerates pedophilia, especially for the sake of 'sticking it to the evil women!!!1!' who've been affected by being treated like a piece of meat as a 13yo, is just fucked in the head.

freelovew1 · 2020-09-08T23:11:30+00:00

I was 6, molested as a child.

Now mid 30s, and even though I look like Shrek-it-Ralph, still constantly accosted by women (I actually like it now though, guess it's the attention). I work maintenance, and have had women climb on me and grab my dick while working on plumbing, frequently come to door half/fully naked and flirting with me, and on one occasion had a couple girls schedule a time for me to come, and when I came in were going to town on each other with a strap on and invited me to join. Unfortunately I don't shit where I eat, so always turn them down, though it is hard (pun intended).

that_one_shark · 2020-09-09T14:40:12+00:00

I was 13, im a guy, long live the Internet!

biggin133 · 2020-09-10T05:45:55+00:00

I had part of my dick cut off without my consent pretty quick after birth

Dayana11412 · 2020-09-14T07:22:25+00:00

As a little girl no males did anything to me but i molested 2 of my younger male cousins. I was under 10 and they were like 7-9. It was just being handsy while wrestling or pulling thier pants down. They mightve hated it idk.

When i was 8 my best friend convinced me to get naked and play king and queen in her bunk bed. She french kissed me while laying naked on top of me and i could have gotten over it but then she decided to tell all the girls at school the next day. I was mortified. I found a new best friend after that and never went back to herhouse. Also after that incidentmy elementary school had an abnormally largenumber of girls kissing. Id hear about them going to the mall with thier parents and kissing in the bathroom and caught a couple kissing in the firls bathroom at school and it was definitely all her fault.

Also i didnt have any chance of being molested or raped by men because my mom was super overprotective and wouldnt leave me alone with them most times and also sort of brainwashed me into being weary of men. She always questioned me 10 times afterwards if i was with a man alone about whether i was touched and that i could tell her if it happened. I wasnt touched. There was just one african dude who was friends with my mom that creepedme out because he smiled too much and i only realized when i wentto highschool that i had developed the irrational idea that men who smile alot are rapists/child molesters because my french teacher smiled alot and id get creeped out for no reason. I had to makemyself get over it. Also my french teacher was super hot too. I should have been crushing on him but was creeped out instead 😔

Jaybo4000 · 2020-09-19T14:58:36+00:00

If that isnt what the statement means then the statement is false.

Nymhbus · 2020-11-04T07:59:16+00:00

It's exactly what the above image meant, but these "women" just wanna cherry pick circumstances to strengthen their own case, and look away at any thing that harms it. How are they not embarrassed?

-satori · 2020-11-12T05:23:08+00:00

Username checks out

baga_chips · 2020-09-01T22:02:54+00:00

Believe victims! Unless they're men

Young-Roshi · 2020-09-01T23:47:23+00:00

"no no no, wait. I'M the victim here!"

zerostar5 · 2020-09-02T00:18:30+00:00

Yeah, these are the same thing.

Hoodratshit1212 · 2020-09-02T03:53:07+00:00

This is not a pussy pass denial. Are you serious? She’s talking about little girls who get creeped on by adult men. He’s talking about the actions of two little kids. You can’t hold what children do against them, they are dumb little kids. You can certainly hold an adult accountable for creeping on little girls though. What she’s talking about ( grown adult men hitting on/ being creepy with little girls who are still in their childhood years) is an actual, fucked up, common problem with our society. What he is talking about (a little girl grabbing another little boy and not letting go til they said ‘I like you’) definitely isn’t. Children acting like children with other children isn’t even remotely the “like” adult men hitting on little girls and underage teens.

Even if you didn’t realize that, I still don’t know what the pussy pass would have been and how it was denied here. Whataboutism is not a form of PPD lol it’s barely an argument at all, even when the response actually does compare to the original statement, which in this case it does not lol .

redacted187 · 2020-09-02T10:04:28+00:00

Is this post a joke? How is two kids talking about "liking" each other in ANY way related to sexual harassment and objectification of children???

Lelepepe456 · 2020-09-01T21:56:46+00:00

Yo I’m a freshman boy and middle school with a kinda big butt and I get my ass slapped so much. Mostly women.

NeverNeverLandIsNow · 2020-09-01T22:27:32+00:00

but if a man says something happened to them when children it will be ignored or they will get called pussy or incel or something.

MudHolland · 2020-09-02T09:18:50+00:00

"Why won't anyone see me as a victim!? How am I supposed to see my weaknesses as a result of anyone's doing but my own!?"

vuxogif · 2020-09-01T17:59:57+00:00

Between kids that age its more bullying than sexual harassment. USUALLY, kids won't know what sexual harassment is when they are at the age of cornering another in a tree to say they like them etc. Still wrong regardless.

TmfGD · 2020-09-01T18:59:49+00:00

This seriously might be the worst Reddit post I’ve ever seen. I cannot believe this kind of garbage has 1.5k upvotes what the actual fuck?

PenisThePotatoMan · 2020-09-01T22:45:50+00:00

its kind of funny when dumb shits post about harrasments they alsways point it towards it girls like it only happens to them and when somone points out they harrased guys they either get angry and spit out bullshit or delete the post while going on about like a 12 year old who just broke up with their first boy/girl friend who they got with for one day

_Loup_Garou_ · 2020-09-01T22:46:24+00:00

Somebody is desperate for upvotes.

That’s quite a stretch to say that this is suitable for this sub...

Ike_Thorn · 2020-09-01T23:47:16+00:00

That “but okay” pisses me off every time, “but okay” my ass, if u wanna say “but okay”, u shouldn’t have said the thing before in the first place

This_is_magnetic · 2020-09-02T02:36:05+00:00

This is a miss. She’s talking about something almost exclusive to females.

Being bullied in elementary school wasn’t limited to boys.

Generation-X-Cellent · 2020-09-02T05:01:38+00:00

It's ok when I do it!

GuizarC · 2020-09-02T09:24:39+00:00

What’s the word for this? Is it deflecting?

whorememberspogs · 2020-09-01T21:16:25+00:00

Males are just as sexualised as females stop it lol.

Dunno why we listen to this bs

mrducci · 2020-09-01T23:46:07+00:00

That's totally the same as an adult forcing themselves on a child, you dolt. As if we don't already understand, as a society, that children often mimic abusers behavior on other children.

The person trying to invalidate her claim is an asshole, as well as anyone that would post this to try and discredit the victims of abuse.

You're gross.

Hoosteen_juju003 · 2020-09-02T00:27:38+00:00

I'm a man and posting this here is pretty trashy. He's talking about some little kid shit and she's talking about legitimate sexual molestation or harrassment. Don't be an asshole, women deal with way more shit than men realize. I normally agree with ppd but this is messed up.

2020-09-01T19:37:42+00:00

Hahahahah

FO3Winger · 2020-09-01T22:47:37+00:00

“...but okay.”

UnoriginalPenName · 2020-09-01T17:36:49+00:00

Not trying to white knight or anything but this seems rather innocent to me, unlike saying to a young girl she's attractive or something like this, which is what it looked like she was talking about

2020-09-01T18:57:27+00:00

I mean it didn’t doesn’t really matter because she was a kid too and kids do dumb things. What sub is this? Oh. WHAT A DUMB BITCH !

Title	That didn't go the way you planned did it?
Author	silvurbullet
Upvotes	11876
Comments	367
Date	September 1, 2020 4:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PussyPassDenied
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