women disrespect men quite a lot more than you think.

Basketballjuice · 2021-10-11T22:09:29+00:00

Literally was once having a conversation with a woman, she looked at a guy passing by us, and I asked her what she was doing (cause I was young and dumb), she just said "His face was pretty ugly so I was hoping he had some ass to make up for it. He didn't even have a nice ass".

Like jesus christ if I said that and someone overheard it I would be fucking crucified.

newyorkloser45 · 2021-10-11T21:24:02+00:00

Girls mock boys all the time, more than vice versa. They might not be the physically imposing type of bully but they sure the hell can be just as cruel.

I've seen quite a few anecdotes on here and elsewhere of girls breaking up with their bfs as soon as they show any sign of sadness or turmoil.

Also girls like to relentlessly mock guys they don't find attractive. I don't use social media but I'm pretty sure it's even worse on there where girls have infinite validation from everyone. Women don't like to hear men's problems or lend an ear, but the other way around, they want the whole world to read their list of grievances longer than the declaration of independence.

PicklesAreMyFriends · 2021-10-12T01:48:03+00:00

Yes, I've had circles of female friends, they will name and shame men with small penises every time, as well as any other private bedroom thing. People are shitty regardless of gender, but as a society we care more when women are on the receiving end.

Balefirez · 2021-10-12T03:41:20+00:00

That’s because it’s cultural now. It’s “ok” to shame, disrespect, and humiliate men. It was helped along with tv shows where the husband/father is portrayed as the bumbling idiot at best and the mother/wife is the long-suffering capable one. We hear that men need to show their feelings more and be more emotional. Then when we do, we’re mocked. It’s garbage.

sorebum405 · 2021-10-11T22:14:24+00:00

Yep,men are told to respect women and care about their feelings, but women are not told to do the same for men.

BowtiepastaMasta · 2021-10-12T00:57:31+00:00

It is so prevalent that a woman hits a man or mocks a man in the news, on a tv show, real life, that no one blinks an eye. Basically hiding in plain sight.

LoveHotelCondom · 2021-10-12T00:20:08+00:00

There's this thing that people never talk about in regards to women's conduct and behavior because even being the slightest bit critical of even a single woman's single action can get you labeled an incel.

I don't care, so here goes.

Women are unbelievably enabling of each other. Like, holy shit, people talk about bro culture, and men enabling other men's behavior, but dudes have nothing on how much women enable each other. Like, go to any online community with women, and you can see them high-fiving each other over rude, meanspirited, and often times downright criminal behavior.

Women make up such unbelievably fake stories online that it should send off anyone's bullshit detector, and this radicalizes other women who read those stories and take them at face value. Like, here are two random stories from TwoX:

I got suspended for breaking someone's nose in school. This boy in my class had been harassing me for months. He kept grabbing my ass or my boobs, kept calling me names or sending me inappropriate drawings during class.

I told my teachers and the principal, who basically told me that "boys will be boys" and that he was just messing around. I told my parents, who were annoyed but told me to ignore him and he would eventually stop it.

Didn't fucking happen. Nobody says "boys will be boys" to excuse sexual assault. No school in any developed country would have an entire faculty OK with a boy grabbing a girl's private parts. That's a legal nightmare the first time it happens, but saying it's fine over and over? Bullshit story. Women believing her. Women enabling the hatred of men for other women.

My cashier was young (19-22?) and female. The guy behind me was much older, like 70. After being rung up, I had to stop and tie my shoe when I overhead this exchange:

Old man: Wow, nice night. Look at that sunset.

Female cashier: It’s very nice. Have a good night.

OM: So do you live around here? What do you think of the guys running for mayor?

FC: I don’t really know about local politics. Have a good night!

OM: Oh, where do you live?

FC: You don’t need to ask me that.

by this point I had finished and stood up, looking directly at the cashier

OM: Why? I’m just making conversation.

FC: It’s not your business. You can go now.

OM: getting huffy That’s the problem with all of you kids, you feminists and everything! You get so fucking offended at somebody being POLITE -

FC: GOODBYE.

At this point I was getting ready to call the police, but another employee (male) came around the corner

Male employee: Yo, get out of here. You don’t talk to her like that. Get out.

OM: She doesn’t understand I wasn’t trying to be rude -

MC: GET. OUT. I am gonna call the cops.

OM: I am never shopping here again! You are the rudest -

MC: There’s a camera recording you so yeah, you’re not gonna shop here again.

The guy left, loudly swearing all the way to his car about young people, feminists, snowflakes, etc. The FC did call the cops and asked me to stay to give a report.

Didn't fucking happen. Holy shit, it just checks off every feminist fever dream box, and the only thing it's missing is a $100% bill and people clapping.

Then there was recently the story about a woman getting abandoned in a forest and having to "fight off raccoons with a stick on fire."

Every time women read these stories and believe them, they gradually grow more and more radicalized against men. They're so unbelievably fucking fake, but nobody cares because everyone who posts in these communities is misandrist looking for more evidence to fuel her worldview. It really makes you wonder what kind of shit groups of friends make up about men too.

Good_Stuff11 · 2021-10-12T02:27:49+00:00

This is even more relevant because of there point that feminists love to bring up: “why don’t guys open up more”

So if we’re assuming guys don’t open up about problems like they say and I do agree with that. How is it unfathomable to them that many many men thus are suffering in silence.

Moreover they can’t ever admit that women can cause men strife because that goes against the whole women are all good men are all bad agenda. It’s insufferable

LondonDude123 · 2021-10-11T23:11:28+00:00

quite a lot more than you think.

No no, we knew this.

"Women are wonderful" effect, combined with the new social idea of "Its okay to punch up with your insults"...

davebyday · 2021-10-12T08:31:25+00:00

When I was 17, I was with my girlfriend and her friend, lets call her H. We all smoked some weed. Outta nowhere, H asks if we wanna see something funny.

She then calls her current boyfriend and straight up breaks up with him. It was cold blooded and ruthless saying shit like "I'm not sure I really even like you, I don't think this is gonna work." and hangs up on this guy.

He calls back upset, crying, asking for a second chance, the whole time she is muting herself and fucking laughing hysterically at this "little whipped bitch."

Be careful out there guys, some real cruel and nasty people out there.

program_mer · 2021-10-12T06:17:46+00:00

women are more judgemental than men...

qqqqtrdr · 2021-10-11T21:50:06+00:00

Yes... A agree, many women get together and compare husbands as well... In many cases they talk about divorcing their husbands and teaching wives how to get as much money in divorce proceedings as possible... This drives many men to suicide since many men don't have a support group other than family.. Women in many cases have the bigger support group...

Laytheblameonluck · 2021-10-12T01:39:55+00:00

Of course.

Its called the "Women are wonderful effect":

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect

I found about 30% of women treat men badly when dating.

Complex-Stress373 · 2021-10-11T23:02:58+00:00

This is very true. In general they don;'t respect men that thing are not at their level (regarding to money, beauty, social position, or whatever), very crazy.

Also they have this culture of "being a bitch is super", so another reason to not give a fuck at all about them, eventually they are objects

Johnathan_wickerino · 2021-10-12T01:37:22+00:00

constantly sexualise random men

Had this happen to me when I was volunteering. A group of girls were pointing out that my shirt was too small for me and that I had good muscles in a really perverted way.

I mean I still took it as a compliment but it's still weird and it's true that they sexualize random men.(Had this happen to me on more than one occasion) I don't even know what they talk about behind my back that is bad but I don't think I want to know.

International_Risk82 · 2021-10-11T22:16:45+00:00

Thank you for this. The worst part is that it gets swept under the rug and dismissed as "girl talk" or harmless girl gossip.

Nihi1986 · 2021-10-12T01:48:03+00:00

This is due to a few factors: Women are now emulating men, and they perceive them as cocky arrogant assholes, that's what they want to become.

Women respect men but not in general. They respect specific men that they find strong, assertive, powerful, succesful, attractive... In other words, they genuinely hate 'losers' and ugly/average looking guys. They don't need those genes so they don't care about them.

Society and the media have been brainwashing them 24/7 with the idea that women are superior to men, and as superior gender they disrespect the inferior.

Despite all the attention, women are still low confidence (unbelievable but true) so they bully other people to feel better about themselves.

Women are vengeful, they'll mock their exes or tell terrible stories about them. This is something they do about females too, whoever she perceives as an enemy.

Propagandabot209 · 2021-10-12T08:51:43+00:00

This is no surprise to anyone. Ex actor here and changing/green rooms in theatres often have paper thin walls. In those spaces I have heard women unethically talk about the private lives/bodies/secrets/relationships/families of their partners and friends in completely scandalous terms FAR more than men. Locker room talk exists for sure but it is just nothing like as prevalent as people think. Women think we do it all the time because that's what they do. Projection, pure and simple.

Cookiecuttermaxy · 2021-10-12T07:57:35+00:00

Also

Female leaders can be just as narcissistic, controlling and power-hungry as their male counterparts. And they'll take advantage of the social value of pushing men around, just as much if not more than their male counterparts.

CrazedKnightCK · 2021-10-12T09:58:44+00:00

When it's women it's 😍🎆🎇EMPOWERING🎇🎆😍! Let's go sis, slay toxic masculinity by doing exactly the same thing we label toxic ! SLAYYYYYYYYYYYYY

This is obviously sarcasm inb4 I get downovoted.

xTheVyrusx · 2021-10-12T03:32:54+00:00

No matter your looks, social status, wealth, job…the list goes on it’s never enough. Once a woman has had her fill she wants to move on. If a man wants to move on? That’s a different story and the accusations come out from all sides trying to bury him in social shame.

808picklejuice · 2021-10-12T06:02:38+00:00

Oh I know. I regularly point out double standards all the time and people will say I hate women or something.

Comfortable_Pea5924 · 2021-10-12T11:26:33+00:00

My wife treats me like shit. At the same time she demands zero tolerance for herself. She flips then she flops to her convenience. I haven’t spoke ti her in 60 days. She makes boners curl up and invert. She wouldn’t bring me a glass of water when I had a difficult vasectomy.

DallasTruther · 2021-10-12T01:19:01+00:00

It's not just women; gay men do it too. I've caught my (Mexican) partner talking shit about me in Spanish, and know he's made fun of my mental issues with other male and female friends of ours.

He also knows that I have nowhere else to go (which a friend passed along to me), and whenever we have a major fight he tells me that I should just leave.

Not to discount that women are/can be hurtful, but I'm the "papi" in the relationship, and he's the "mami," (we refer to each other as such and play those...roles), but this can also be seen as a fem/masc issue as well as a male/female thing.

Zarfa · 2021-10-12T05:45:05+00:00

As someone who people forget isn’t gay, yeah I’ve seen this. Hanging out with women who are gossiping away and I have to bear witness to them slamming guys for being ugly when they themselves weren’t much to look at. They’d constantly talk about “how pretty” their girl friends were and shit talk their guy friends. Also making penis jokes which in hindsight I should have corrected but I was kinda just in awe how much was being said.

DocRocksPhDont · 2021-10-11T22:55:10+00:00

Girl talk= locker room talk. Bitches be bitches. Dicks be dicks. Assholism is not gender specific.

fcampos2015 · 2021-10-12T08:00:05+00:00

I think that some women are more competitive than man in the looks and beauty department.

I mean, when a men thinks that another guy is ugly, he can joke with it, even mock him, but it is not a way that makes most man give value to themselves.

Women pretty much compete in the looks with another women, and that makes then mock much more women and men for not being handsome.

Another thing is that most women are just kinda of influenced by the media and culture to see their feelings as the only thing that really matters.

Like, if you watch basically any content for women in the internet or cable tv, it's basically about how she can have this beautiful house, or that makeup, or movies and series that basically shows women like independent fierce women that has to deal with others "bullshit" (literally another's people feelings), or this women that is seen like a prize.

You can call out all that you want about male entertainment, how it can be aggressive or sexist and whatever, but most of what guys consume in the entertainment thing, is basically telling him that he should work with other people to beat some other "thing" (most sports) or showing how man can do things and doing it great (like most of reality shows of "stuff") or as a hero that sacrifices himself for something or has to survive some horrible thing (most of action or hero movies)

2021-10-12T09:57:42+00:00

Women that say men are bad are hypocrites

jamesdanton · 2021-10-12T09:58:58+00:00

Are you kidding? Of course.

It's amazing how much further away from sanity that society now sits than when I was a kid.

CaptTexas1836 · 2021-10-12T12:18:24+00:00

Especially considering that women are more likely(more often than not) to gain custody in divorce; is immediately given sympathy and remorse for crying, etc.

Ensifror · 2021-10-12T14:19:13+00:00

We have a giant societal blind spot to women because the decades of feminism painting a picture of unilateral abuse.

Threeundercard · 2021-10-12T21:33:23+00:00

That's because since childhood today's men were manipulated by femminist mothers to act like little girls and to worship only their mothers and other women

PhillipZimbargo · 2021-10-13T19:53:20+00:00

Men don’t ‘disrespect’ females. That’s a myth/lie. They should though.

Weary_Advertising_40 · 2021-10-12T06:25:12+00:00

I think it’s about just as much as I think it is.

Alexander_Anqvist · 2021-10-12T10:47:07+00:00

This is because verbal abuse is quite a bit more acceptable in our society, after all, physical abuse is sooo much worse, it leaves actual marks right?

It's proven beyond doubt that verbal abuse gives the same chemical release in the brain that physical abuse does. For both parties.

Happiness and feelings of power in the abuser, endorphins. Anxiety, cortisol, adrenaline and the other bunch of pain enhancing chemicals, in the abused.

So for mental health It's worse than physical abuse because everybody secretly agrees that you can say what you want to anyone you want as long as you dont physically harm them. So if you're verbally abused, you just have no one to turn to. There's jo justification possible.

zerozerotsuu · 2021-10-12T12:31:57+00:00

Has the way your older friends treat you changed with your transition? Do you think they respect you personally less than earlier, or more than other male friends?

YoDaddy1069 · 2021-10-12T03:51:04+00:00

Thanks, this is something that most men already know, but it feels good when someone actually admits that this is what really happens. It feels good when this is actually acknowledged because when women deny this, it drives us bonkers

BlackVendaeta · 2021-10-12T01:27:42+00:00

I feel like honestly it's pretty even in numbers. It's just people are always gonna hear it from one side more than the other depending on their gender, who they know, where they live, etc.

EmptinessWithin · 2021-10-12T02:51:17+00:00

People talk a lot about how men disrespect women but women do the exact same thing and no one speaks about it.

Feminists do. And it's a projection.

KeithOlbrmnRapesKids · 2021-10-12T03:07:22+00:00

Fuck women. If it wasn't for that lukewarm hole between their legs men wouldn't give a fuck about them.

Xielle · 2021-10-12T04:17:27+00:00

Yep. One of my exes in particular was like this. “You look cute when you’re crying” wtf does that even mean.

Silver-Discipline550 · 2021-10-12T11:22:34+00:00

I agree, I have a lot of female friends that I always hear about men, how ugly / hot he is, his broad / narrow shoulders and so on, like it's the most important thing to them, their lives revolve around men, and to those they find unattractive say very very bad things.

Also, I agree that men have been taught to treat women differently by putting them on a pedestal. And that's such bullshit because if you don't treat women like normal human beings they really think they're special and they'll continue to feel entitled to do such things.

AlphaGoldfish_05 · 2021-10-12T12:47:59+00:00

My mom made a comment a number of days ago about how “social media damages girls more than boys because girls care a good deal more about their body image” because it was big on the news. I wanted to tell her how many times boys are made fun of on social media (by teenage girls especially) but I decided not to since it would get me nowhere.

Beckamabobby · 2021-10-12T15:42:16+00:00

(Apologies in advance if this is transphobic)

I feel that trans people are probably the best sources for the gender debate, as they have experienced both sides, and are the most reliable.

hottake_toothache · 2021-10-12T16:46:28+00:00

Yep.

mug-buliku · 2021-10-13T09:43:10+00:00

People talk a lot about how men disrespect women but women do the exact same thing... .

That's because this behavior is not specific to one gender, nor is it more likely to manifest in one gender than in another.

tragedyfish · 2021-10-12T02:57:01+00:00

It's as simple as this: Some people, male or female, are assholes. Some people, male or female, are good folk.

It's up to you to sort out who is whom.

theuberkevlar · 2021-10-12T04:44:08+00:00

Yueh but becuz tuh Power Dynambic it meens thab men are caus ofn all problemmb anb wommmin ard absolvzedd of aNy respronsribirity. /s

woodenmask · 2021-10-12T01:25:43+00:00

You are a girl bro

fzr600dave · 2021-10-12T11:33:25+00:00

I'm calling bullshit your first ever post was, im a man not trans man, any body who will take this incel crap

Title	women disrespect men quite a lot more than you think.
Author	day5tar
Upvotes	1218
Comments	115
Date	October 11, 2021 9:09 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/q65vni/women_disrespect_men_quite_a_lot_more_than_you/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/women-disrespect-men-quite-a-lot-more-than-you.1080033 https://theredarchive.com/post/1080033

Comments