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Women can play into the cycle of perpetuating male violence through the entire "protector" stereotype as well. I've known many women who expected and trained their boyfriends/husbands to be attack dogs, and to lash out at other men over the smallest things. Whether it was a "look" from across the street, or just another man disagreeing with, or calling out the woman for poor behavior in a social situation. They would call upon their boyfriend to initiate physical violence to solve non-violent, or non-existent problems.
I'm not saying that women are a statistically large part of the problem. But attitudes like that, perpetuated by many women, are a piece of the puzzle. You can't expect men to be non-violent, and then teach men that our purpose is to violently protect and compete for women. To be on our toes and on the defense constantly. We don't live in the stone ages anymore. The only time to resort to violence is when someone is physically threatening or attacking your partner.
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It might be interesting to ask this in a sub of actual experts on this - psychologists or such.
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