I'm planning on getting back into the dating scene soon, and I plan to have more dates that are in my town, as opposed to the city 30 min away from me. In the past, when guys would drive to my suburb town for a date, they would ask which restaurant I wanted to go to, since they assume that I had more knowledge of what places are good. Which is technically true, since lots of restaurants that have good online reviews don't actually have good food. How do I direct the text conversations to promote more planning behavior on their part? It's like the default is that I do the planning/suggestions since the date's on my turf.