The specific timestamp of the feminist is here (really good rebuttals to the feminist are here and here). Not the first time for a feminist to twist efforts to raise awareness about male victims into it being bad for women. Her acting like men getting excited that we're finally getting attention on a large scale is a bad sign because "men never get excited about domestic violence unless is for misogynistic reasons" is an extremely uncharitable perspective to have on men and just highlights her misandry

There are a few people in the comments of the video saying similar things, usually to the tune of "yeah this is good for male victims, but what about women??"

"These statistics and situations invalidate women:"

...I think what she meant was men getting excited for the wrong reasons. People should be getting excited because this is a great step forward to punching back against the patriarchy and how it specifically affects men, however, a lot of times men (often men who have not actually lived through these experiences) will use statistics and situations like this in order to turn around and invalidate women's experiences. You see it all the time with the statistics that men are more likely to commit suicide and how that is often used to invalidate how women are suffering.

"I support male victims...yet people should always trust women:"

As someone who's worried about how this situation will be turned to further hurt women AND as someone who 100% has supported Johnny Depp from the beginning, I cannot stress this enough: We are not saying this case is a bad thing, it's a great thing even since it's giving voice to men victims of domestic abuse and showing society that a man - even as great as JD - can be considered a victim. We simply have a different perspective because as we scroll through social media we see that great number of male commentators are once again turning this into a gender war and saying this is proof you can't always trust women who say they have been abused. There's many men (and women) with hatred in their hearts connected to misogyny and no doubt not even a ounce of empathy towards victims in general, whether it be men or women, and jump at any opportunity to spread their hatred.

"People might use this to acknowledge other falsely accused men (which is bad):"

Problem is a lot of men although excited for the right reasons knowing this will benefit all abuse victims for the next hundreds of years, a lot of other men will use this against women and use it how some men say “think about the falsely accused men” when it comes to sexual assault. Men on the internet are typically known to say shit like this and that’s why she brought it up in the tiktok because the likelihood you’ll get a lot of them now bringing it up in every abuse case is high whether for a joke or not. So yea there are a lot of men who are going to be excited for the wrong reasons knowing they can hold this against women.

"You don't care about male victims, you just hate women and feminism:"

...men being interested in this case has absolutely nothing to do with actual male DV survivors. Men are excited about this case because they want to see Johnny win so they can have a token male DV case to throw in the face feminism and disregard violence against women. Final point, to say that Amber Heard damaged feminism--which is a generational response to continuous systemic oppression in society by men--is a ridiculous and sub-par argument to validate people's anti-feminist views. One woman being a POS doesn't disintegrate the generations of trauma each woman carries in her shoulders.

Funny how people didn't give a shit when men and especially male victims suffered for years under the narrative that domestic violence and rape are "gendered," that men are trash and women should always be believed. Whether it's a man abusing a woman or a woman abusing a man, some people will always prioritize women in any given situation

I am a man who was abused by women, and throughout my entire lifetime I dealt with people (individuals and society in general) marginalizing it. Saying "abuse by women isn't dangerous or traumatizing" and "guys aren't bothered or threatened by it." One predator was my mother so there was the additional element of "mothers always love their children and do what's best so you were probably perverting maternal affection and how dare you disrespect your own mother??"

I know a lot of other men following and sharing this case are men who are also survivors. Men abused by wives or gf's who never got support or justice. And yes, we're all excited that this case is getting so much attention because maybe it will lead to opening people's eyes to the fact that abuse is not "gendered violence." And lead to more awareness and justice for male victims

Yet of course some are trying to spin this as a misogynistic thing because "what if this makes people doubt women?" I hope it does, because I know so many men including myself who not only went through abuse by women but then had the additional insult of having people around us automatically take their side because they're women

Women should not automatically be believed over the man; a lot of us have had abusive women play the victim