Woman thinks men can’t be stay at home husbands and are meant to work

BlockBadger · 2022-07-11T20:35:26+00:00

Good job, stay classy and kind

Algoresball · 2022-07-12T00:32:04+00:00

And of course she plays the “toxic masculinity” card after you absolutely schooled her

Dalebreh · 2022-07-11T20:10:51+00:00

r/MurderedByWords 🔥😎

CawlinAlcarz · 2022-07-11T21:31:12+00:00

When MRAs talk about solipsistic women, this woman is an excellent example of it.

KazukiYahashi · 2022-07-11T22:02:07+00:00

Great to see that they just couldn’t care less about men’s happiness and, by extension, true equality..

caem123 · 2022-07-12T00:25:53+00:00

The reddit relationship forum often has women complaining that their man is behaving like a stay-at-home spouse.

Reaper621 · 2022-07-11T22:53:35+00:00

She did though... She said the image was accurate, indicating she believes men don't deserve happiness.

TheCrazedCat · 2022-07-11T23:11:01+00:00

Raised in a Colombian household Ik how to clean, like thoroughly. I was raised to be a maid by accident LOL but I like it.

I would definitely be a stay at home husband as I already know how to cook and clean

lllooolllp · 2022-07-12T02:01:14+00:00

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Puzzleheaded-Heat174 · 2022-07-12T02:06:54+00:00

This type of post would get the poster cancelled if they argued women should only work in the kitchen when it's the other way around nobody really cares

Huffers1010 · 2022-07-11T21:53:43+00:00

While I can't disagree with the general direction you're going in here, this sort of response is why it's not a very good idea to speak in general about a political movement when you're talking to just one member of it. Better to ascribe the statements you're quoting to people who've actually said them. Barely affects your argument in this case.

For what it's worth, if we had kids, I'd be the stay at home husband as my wife makes way more money than me, though I think we'd both probably like to spend some time with said hypothetical offspring!

_mindmedic_ · 2022-07-12T01:39:34+00:00

She's a feminist yet doesn't know what toxic masculinity is. I'm gonna tell you something you might find shocking: people are retarded. You my friend, just had an encounter with someone who has a 4 inch dent in their forehead.

art_eseus · 2022-07-12T06:19:28+00:00

It's people like this that make feminists and woman in general look horrible. Why the fuck would someone say 'you should provide for woman because your stronger'. Really Linda? I'm sure I could probably gain more muscle mass than you but that doesn't necessarily help me as an accountant. This is just dumb. I as a woman am thoroughly embarrassed

intactUS_throwaway · 2022-07-11T22:39:50+00:00

As if maintaining the home isn't work.

That shit is fucking hard, and that's just the normal, routine tasks done every day. That's ignoring the things only done a few times a week or so.

auMatech · 2022-07-12T02:03:57+00:00

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denvercaniac · 2022-07-12T07:23:12+00:00

I'm getting really fed up with the arrogant, perhaps willfully stupid feminists on reddit.

The_Peacock_King · 2022-07-12T18:06:12+00:00

Feminists can no longer define what a woman even is, and with that being the reality. I find it ironic they tell us to man up, and ignore the inequalities we men face. When we bring up double standards, and hardships we face, it's man up. Be abstinent, don't date that person, you shouldn't have gotten her pregnant, ETC.

Go to any feminist sub on Reddit, create a post and ask them should woman be held accountable for paternity fraud, and you'll see feminist for what they truly are. Narcissistic women, who don't want to be held accountable for their bad decisions.

Wood-lily · 2022-07-11T23:27:04+00:00

What year is she living in, 1955?

BluBeech · 2022-07-12T04:43:14+00:00

I love your response. I agree too that kindness is convincing and open discussion is always nice.

Morden013 · 2022-07-12T04:49:07+00:00

A well articulated reply, Sir.

Zombieland20 · 2022-07-12T05:45:16+00:00

I am actually a stay at home husband, I partake in the heavy lifting of my massive wiener every day. Ergo, I am a man.

foreverclassichunter · 2022-07-12T06:13:33+00:00

Delete her comments? She should delete her account. And no you don't deserve happiness you deserve more than just happiness

bigtittttygothgf · 2022-07-12T06:49:03+00:00

Kill her with fucking kindness ma❤️something she doesn't seem to possess.

Vivid_Lab_8985 · 2022-07-12T10:14:55+00:00

Men not being stay at home husbands works, but you need to give men authority in that case. You can't have a half assed equation like that. The system these women want is such a dumb scam.

YungMulahBBY · 2022-07-12T10:34:47+00:00

Women are hellbent on breaking gender norms but they aren't going to accept a stay at home husband. Lmao! Feminism at its finest.

2022-07-12T10:41:21+00:00

lol my ex never needed permission to go out. they would though constantly act as though i needed that from them

beleidigtewurst · 2022-07-12T10:58:30+00:00

People who are surprised probably didn't see shit posted in /r/femaledatingadvice

HeadNeedleworker1120 · 2022-07-12T11:20:51+00:00

I’m a stay at home dad (although not through choice, had a manual job and really fucked up my arm) I’ve gotta admit I’ve never been happier.

I do the majority of the housework, and if I’m honest it’s a lot more relaxed.

If the wife and kids start to treat the house like a hotel, il ask em to gather round, explain my grievances, and hopefully we’re all on the same team again. If that doesn’t work on the kids then forced labour is enacted and the kids do what I’ve asked them to do.

If the wife treats me as a subordinate (now not very often this happens, it’s normally after a particularly stressful couple of weeks at work or something along those lines) I normally bang my heels together and scream at the top of my lungs “jawohl, mein fuhrer” and she normally gets the point.

Anyone can be a stay at home parent as long as they have the right mindset.

Slap-A-Chav · 2022-07-12T11:31:20+00:00

Funny how they can switch from “independent boss b17ch” to “not strong enough to do any work, therefore must be taken care of by a man” at the drop of a hat. That magical feminist switch is wonderful, I want one.

NeoNotNeo · 2022-07-12T11:52:55+00:00

Keep the slaves slavey

Razorbladekandyfan · 2022-07-12T11:55:32+00:00

Could you link to the original thread.

Brandwein · 2022-07-12T12:48:49+00:00

Men don't owe you work and security.

Intimesofold · 2022-07-12T13:23:55+00:00

There’s so much about the way some women act under the umbrella of modern day feminism that is a total contradiction. Didn’t think she was a feminist at first because there’s normally a supposed attempt to distance society from gender roles…”toxic masculinity” gives the game away though.

EvenStevenKeel · 2022-07-12T18:22:04+00:00

If I thought she would even answer it, it would be funny to ask if she thought being a stay at home parent was hard work.

Men should do hard work, right?

This gal is resorting to name calling like toxic masc rather than have an intelligent convo. Sad!

2022-07-12T18:59:46+00:00

I think there's a dignity to strength and work.

Anih1list · 2022-07-12T03:32:56+00:00

One thing I always forget is the people least educated on feminist terminology are feminists themselves. This cunt seems to think “toxic masculinity is when I don’t like men,” when in fact her biologically essentialist viewpoint ITSELF enforces toxic masculinity. The WHOLE POINT is that men being expected to do manual labor without complaint is a toxic expectation.

PettyCrocker_ · 2022-07-11T23:23:03+00:00

You know we don't all feel like this right? I hope you don't but I understand if you do.

NotaGameofMonopoly · 2022-07-12T00:30:37+00:00

You're arguing with a 16 day old account whose 1st post was on MensRights - while there are undoubtedly people out there like this, I'm certain you're being trolled here.

Boeijen666 · 2022-07-12T03:39:36+00:00

You're trying to be rational with the unhinged. Youve already lost

rooiraaf · 2022-07-12T07:00:12+00:00

Why are you wasting your time with these people, some stranger over the internet you'll never meet?

nameisahmad · 2022-07-12T15:57:34+00:00

I cant imagine being a stay at home dad, She has a point, we have purpose, to provide and take care of family. All this testosterone should be used in good. They are more suitable to stay at home and take care of children. Nurturing. Muslims have been doing that for the last 1400 years and theyre happy.

Wilddog73 · 2022-07-12T11:00:00+00:00

Where'd you post?

Applehurst14 · 2022-07-12T11:44:12+00:00

As a religious conservative man I do think that men should work.

But women have work to. Managing the home and education of the children is very important to our future.

The public school system is an absolute failure at creating thinking people that use logic and reasoning.

It has become a place of emotion and ideology.

Banake · 2022-07-13T14:09:11+00:00

And then they complain that there is a wage gap.

Title	Woman thinks men can’t be stay at home husbands and are meant to work
Author	lllooolllp
Upvotes	530
Comments	133
Date	July 11, 2022 7:57 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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