i don't understand why women sleeps around and see it as recreational

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-09-01T10:39:45+00:00

No rants

Feisty-Saturn · 2022-09-01T05:25:47+00:00

Men would do the same if they could and you recognize that from your first paragraph. So what don’t you understand?

Some women don’t view it as meaningful. I don’t even sleep around and I don’t view sex as anything sentimental.

Also even if a man was to care enough to ask a woman her count (something that a lot of men don’t do) what is stopping her from lying? Nothing.

2022-09-01T05:49:22+00:00

Lots of men entertain women with a high body count. Not everyone views sex as meaningful. If one wants a low n count partner, nothing wrong with that. High n count women/men aren't for you.

Ludens0 · 2022-09-01T06:23:18+00:00

Pleasure do not have to be meaningful.

"This peace of cake has so deep meaning for me"

sarkington · 2022-09-01T06:03:22+00:00

Gander, goose

ohdiddly · 2022-09-01T06:40:34+00:00

Because sex is fun lol

don't you want sex to be meaningful?

Orgasms are meaningful to me

young women who participate in this behavior will pay the consequences laters. no sane man will entertain a women with a high body count. that is just NOT wife materials

That isn't true whatsoever.

januaryphilosopher · 2022-09-01T05:36:36+00:00

Some people prefer meaningful sex, and others don't assign much meaning to it on its own, and that's okay. People just want different things and have different preferences and values. Some women have sex with lots of different people, but most don't like hookups. Most women who've hooked up a lot pair up eventually, usually to men who've also hooked up a lot. They're maybe not what you or I would prefer in a wife but other people have different tastes.

svt765 · 2022-09-01T07:02:25+00:00

Where do you guys find/see all these high n-count women? I'm in my early twenties and have yet to meet a woman that would have sex for a free meal or some other similarly ridiculous reason. Literally every young woman I am/was friends with/know through friends is either in a LTR or single, none of them would have sex for a stupid meal or "just because", only one had 2 hookups, didn't like it and is now in relationship.

I mean my social circle is definitely not big enough for it to be statistically relevant but on average men do have more sex so where does this notion come from, that every young woman does nothing but fuck? I feel like you're obsessed with a few women who do act this way and slowly started to think "all women are like this".

Power_8374 · 2022-09-01T09:44:14+00:00

This guy is going to have an easy time finding Wife Material at some point in the future

RealNiceLady · 2022-09-01T05:43:58+00:00

don't understand why women sleeps around and see it as recreational

Maybe it's fun.

But, we know men generally have more difficulties attaining sex just statically.

I don't think so.

januaryphilosopher · 2022-09-01T05:36:48+00:00

Some people prefer meaningful sex, and others don't assign much meaning to it on its own, and that's okay. People just want different things and have different preferences and values. Some women have sex with lots of different people, but most don't like hookups. Most women who've hooked up a lot pair up eventually, usually to men who've also hooked up a lot. They're maybe not what you or I would prefer in a wife but other people have different tastes.

Lysa_Bell · 2022-09-01T06:39:22+00:00

The difference between casual sex and meaningful sex is the person you have it with. Casual sex is just a fun activity you can do with anyone you fancy and that is attractive enough to you. That's what men do with the pump and dump.

Meaningful sex is the sex in a committed relationship. You have feelings for that partner, it feels different, because you trust and continue to build a sex life and a life together.

Nobody IRL cares about n-count. It's just the boogeyman on Reddit, men like to use to try to scare women with. They don't want women to do what they can't do.

TermAggravating8043 · 2022-09-01T07:08:18+00:00

These women aren’t complaining about that. These women are quite happy with their lifestyle, it suits them, and the bottom line here is we know your all just jealous

Like the phase “not all men” not all women are doing this too. It’s both men and women that prefer a more casual approach to sex, just like that woman sleeping around for a free meal that dude is also looking for sex from his customers.

Stop slut-shaming, men have been doing it for thousands of years, now the playing fields are a bit more even, get over it

riverden · 2022-09-01T05:46:39+00:00

This subjected is such a heated topic in reddit in general so I don't think you will get a meaningful conversation in here unfortunately. But I do think we hold similar views on sex and relationships though 😊

BensonInFL · 2022-09-01T06:56:28+00:00

>i don't understand why women sleeps around and see it as recreational

Because they've been taught by feminism/society/culture that they can and should be just like men. Most of the women that go through this phase stop, and realize that they are not like men. Its not something they are particularly proud of, and talk and brag about later in life... like guys do.

>they sleep with friends of friends, go out to nightclubs and cheat ... it is insane.

No, actually its great. Lots more available girls in the pool... and its much easier to sleep with girls that don't view sex as anything special

>no sane man will entertain a women with a high body count. that is just NOT wife materials.

First of all, no sane woman is going to tell you she slept with 50 guys when she wants to marry you. Second, as a guy, you shouldn't be so fragile and worried about her past. Third, it can be a benefit, if she's experienced, she probably knows how to please you better, and will be more open to fetishes... at least that has been my experience :)

-B

2022-09-01T09:54:12+00:00

If you believe none of those women wanted a relationship from any of those men, then I'm a Nigerian prince. Grown ups admit it when they stuff up.

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Valuable-Marzipan761 · 2022-09-01T08:47:01+00:00

Most don't but the ones that do do so because they find sex enjoyable or just want validation.

Pilling_it · 2022-09-01T10:44:23+00:00

just to not be sexist, same applies for men. But, we know men generally have more difficulties attaining sex just statically.

You kind of answered your own question. When it's something you can do anytime at any point, you're less likely to focus on it. Reason why men with options don't care about rejection (also getting used to it, but it's another discussion).

don't you want sex to be meaningful?

Well, some don't. For one, I consider that whatever the label you give to the person you're doing it with, it should be fun and leave you emotionally satisfied. ONS are tasteless to me, but there's plenty of reasons that make it so others would enjoy it, and it's not my business or place to judge. It just means I probably wouldn't be interested in said people.

no sane man will entertain a women with a high body count. that is just NOT wife materials. it is no wonder these women complain "where are all the good men at"

Being real for three seconds because these talking points are a wall for an actual discussion, it's more about what habits this kind of behavior create, that would make them not suitable for ltrs. And more than the actual number, it's the context that's important for me.

Say if a woman had for a span of three years slept with a different man every month, regardless of reasons, the action would speak for itself as what it would create. Maybe she was going through a rough page or whatever, but it creates an habit of jumping from a guy to another for some reason.

Now, I'm not hypocritical, and women who are a good match for me are the ones of similar sociosexuality. It's not just the body count, it's how many times you fucked a given guy, over how long and how many at the same time. But yeah, regardless of labels, if sex itself was completely meaningless, it's not matching with me, and thus we won't be a good match.

Title	i don't understand why women sleeps around and see it as recreational
Author	Registeelurgirl
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Comments	39
Date	September 1, 2022 5:22 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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