My wife has contacted an ex gf from 7 years ago who had a trove of saved argument texts. Some are pretty rough. She's now using these texts to "prove" I'm not a good father. Is she just grasping? I knew about these texts years ago but I've moved on.... literally years have gone by. But now I'm scared, my lawyer is saying they could impact my case and I should maybe get a psych evaluation.

I know my ex, despite her wanting to stay together, all those years ago, there's a reason we're not together. She originally sent this trove to friends and family, but I kept moving forward and time healed wounds. Now it's back again during this difficult time and all I can think is not only will my past screw my chances of custody but also get to my current employer. I have these horrible thoughts of just losing everything over something so long ago. Should I panic or am I overthinking?