I'm surprised that this isn't talked about more. But having wingwomen is so effective it should be considered cheating.

1. How do you get one?

This goes without saying, but you need friends. ESPECIALLY female friends. If you don't have them, then I'm sorry because dating shouldn't even be on your mind. Dudes who go with their bros to the club thinking they will land a girl have lost the plot entirely. Even if you are attractive, it is very hard to get a girl to like you enough to sleep with you. And that's where the wingwoman comes in.

Points for you to consider:

  1. She must be REALLY close to you. She should understand your personality and preferences really well. A lot of wingwomen make mistakes here. I've seen cases where wingwomen will try to hook you up with some of her ugly friends because they don't understand what you are looking for. That's why communication is key. If you are interested in a specific person that's even BETTER.
  2. She must be somewhat attractive/well put together. If you want to land a chick that's a 7. Your wingwoman needs to be a 7 and up. Also, it's important to be realistic with your expectations. If you are a 3 it's going to be near impossible to land a 9.
  3. It's better to have more wingwomen. AKA more female friends. The MORE options, the better.

2. Why are they so effective?

Reasoning:

  1. They are much more confident in talking to women than you will ever be. It's easy for women to socialize with other women because they have more in common. It's also easy for them to tell if a girl is interested in you because they speak the same language (womanese).
  2. Having a wingwoman allows you easy access into areas where there are more women. Clubs, Pubs, Socials, etc.
  3. They instill trust in the woman's mind. If she knows that you have female friends, it makes them feel like you are good with women and that they enjoy your presence. By having your wingwoman at your side, you INSTANTLY become a lot more approachable, because the message being conveyed to everyone is “if she is with him, he must be alright.”
  4. Humans, especially women have something called "preselection." If they see that women are interested in you, they will find you a lot more interesting. Whenever we see an unattractive guy with a hot girl… we wonder, “How did he get her?” We conclude he must have REALLY good game. Girls are the same way. Girls assume a guy wanted by other girls must have good game.

3. What should your wingwoman do?

Now most female friends aren't experienced wingwomen. So, it's important that she understands the assignment pretty well. It's not all that hard to follow so hear me out.

Points for your wingwoman to follow:

  1. Establish contact with the interest and have a simple conversation. Talk him up before introducing him.
  2. Introduce him and show some sort of flirtatious friendly affection to your male friend so the interest starts to find him attractive/interesting. It's even better if there are other wingwomen on the side to help you out.
  3. Act like you want him, but without making the other woman seem like you have him locked down.
  4. Once the intros are over you have to LEAVE. Exit the scene and have fun somewhere else. Don't linger on too long it will make things look awkward.

Bonus Points:

  1. UNDERSTAND your role. You are a wingwoman, not a dating advisor. Don't give random advice to your male friend. Women understand women, while men understand men. This is common sense.
  2. Be productive and cooperative. Don't just stand there and tell your friend that he has to talk to the interest without your initial involvement.
  3. Please be sober.
  4. Don't take the spotlight. The spotlight is on the man here.

Yup, that's it.