My Experience has taught me: Warning Signs/Time Wasters

redpillbanana · 2014-02-18T13:16:07+00:00

Never date a waitress - Forget it. They have no time. They are always working. They are always sweaty, and tired and just useless with planning. They work unsociable hours. They are difficult to lock down but happy to meet you at 11pm at night just to say hello (no bang on horizon as they are too tired). Better to just not waste youre time there.

Agreed. Plus, they get hit on nonstop - raises their entitlement level through the roof.

Don't be shocked that shes fucked about - 90% of hot girls have slept with over 10 guys nowadays.

A hot woman getting a guy to sleep with her is as challenging as eating a donut. I've eaten lots of donuts.

SgtSplacker · 2014-02-18T15:48:58+00:00

You're only creepy if she doesn't like you. Trying not to be creepy is like trying not to be human.

roue_ · 2014-02-18T14:26:12+00:00

Another two.

If she says the bullshit "I'm sorry, I'm busy on that day" and doesn't offer a replacement time. Delete her number and move on.
If she's on her phone while you are talking to her. Call her out on it and if she does it again . Just leave. She doesn't respect you and you probably fucked up somewhere.

tronicdata · 2014-02-18T13:54:26+00:00

Even if she's "shy" fucking talk to her on the phone - Be a man. Seriously be a fucking man. "Oh I'm shy, I hate phonecalls" call her, clear youre throat sound sexy. They love having a sexy man to talk to whos gna take them out and fuck them. Don't pussyfoot. Call that bitch.

In my experience, they will just not answer. Most people don't seem to answer the phone from anyone they don't know anymore. And don't even think about leaving a voicemail.

SmokeU · 2014-02-18T16:41:22+00:00

Waitress' make excellent plates. You don't ever have to worry about making plans with them on the weekend or them getting upset that you don't make plans with them on the weekend. And they will always be aggressively dick hungry on that ransom weekday night they get off. You can be that beast to feed them.

fluviant · 2014-02-18T15:39:40+00:00

Number 10 is a great piece of advice that slipped from my mind until recently whilst experiencing some harsh LMR. Nothing will kill your (the average TRPer, that is) ego more than going home and realizing you didn't make a move. You realize this chick you tried to get with sees you as a pussy. One of the best ways to get over rejection for newcomers here is being able to say to yourself, "I tried. I didn't orbit. I went for what I wanted." Women will respect a man who goes for what he wants over a man who pussyfoots around and expects her to initiate the sex.

nicethingyoucanthave · 2014-02-18T12:39:53+00:00

If she's shorter then you she wants you to fuck her hard

Shorter, longer, they all do.

She flakes on you 3 times - I give a girl 3 strikes. She flakes on you 3 times, youre out. Spread this out. Don't be too available. If she fails to meet you on 3 seperate occasions, then youre an ice cream with a flake. You don't need that shit.

Fuck man. One flake and she's out. You're way too generous here.

I agree with the rest, good stuff.

MockingDead · 2014-02-18T15:27:07+00:00

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rp-oldgame · 2014-02-18T15:42:34+00:00

They're all good, but number 10 is spot on for a number of reasons. One, is that the woman either loves the attention, or loves the drama and indignation. Either way, it makes her day so it's win-win for you right off the bat.

Secondly, you might wind up fucking her. Maybe not that night, maybe not that week, but if it's someone in your circle of friends that you see from time to time, she already knows you're aggressive and whenever she wants to get laid, all she has to do is be in your vicinity and give you a signal or two and the next thing she knows, stuff just happened!

Thirdly, whether she likes your hitting on her or not, she's probably going to complain (brag) about your forwardness and how much of a cad you are. Especially if you offer no apologies for your behavior. Once enough women are complaining about you being such an incorrigible flirt, you're going to start finding other women gravitating to you because they want a piece of the action too.

The only other thing I have to add is in reference to point number 1. Having worked as a waiter, I can tell you that the waitress you're trying to date is probably already fucking a waiter, bartender, or cook, and her schedule is probably already full of "hanging out" and partying with the other people she works with.

Oh, and yeah, number 2. They ALL want to be fucked hard.

JP_Whoregan · 2014-02-18T22:41:05+00:00

Gotta disagree with #6. No coming to my house until its an LTR. Because if you are just keeping her as a plate, and you decide to next her for some reason, she now has your address and can just randomly show up unannounced if her hamster wills her to do so. I even had this policy before TRP.

theonlymikeonreddit · 2014-02-18T15:36:48+00:00

10 isn't bad is it? I am in the mid 30's myself at the age of 26. I don't even ask about partner numbers.

Cyralea · 2014-02-18T15:41:46+00:00

Great post, but just a side note: "your" is possessive, "you're" is a contraction of "you are".

Twisted_Jesus · 2014-02-18T16:32:09+00:00

Number 8. I have had a friend try to do this before. What the fuck is that about? I haven't hung out with him in 2 years and I'm glad I cut him out but seriously what the fuck was he thinking?

emptyform · 2014-02-18T15:42:13+00:00

Almost any phone call is too try-hard if you're under 35 unless you're already in an LTR with them.

nicethingyoucanthave · 2014-02-18T16:59:59+00:00

talk to her on the phone

How much agreement is there on this point? I hate talking on the phone. There's that annoying cellphone delay. Text me and I'll meet up with you and chat in person, but I hate phones.

BIG_Daddy_Government · 2014-02-18T23:29:30+00:00

i don't know about you. My time is important, 1 flake = auto delete number.

InferiousX · 2014-02-18T15:26:40+00:00

I give two tries on hanging out with me. Then I forget about it. If she's someone I really want to hook up with, I may follow up 30-90 days later to see if perhaps it was a logistics issue.

I also have a pretty liberal and varying levels of the definition of flake. If I say, "Let's do something Wednesday" and she's like "Sure!" then just never answers her texts that day, I count that as a flake but a more minor one that I can justify a second shot. If we actually had a plan to meet up somewhere and she's a no show/no call that's an insta-drop and she probably won't get a follow up unless there's a real good reason.

Interesting note on the waitress. I've found that's where most of my difficulty in closing them down is that they are always busy or too tired once they're done working. I've dated pretty attractive cocktail waitresses and strippers so I'm done doing anything with girls in the "look at how hot I am" service industry but would still fuck one here and there.

And on number 8 (the other male friends sharking me) I haven't seen as much of that. But anymore, I'm also choosy as to who I hang around with even if it's dudes.

What I have run into a lot of previously, is my male friends going from admiration to jealousy and condemnation because I was pulling 10x the women they were. And some of them ended up hating me for it. Needless to say, I'm not friends with any of those people anymore.

Sturmgeist781 · 2014-02-18T20:22:27+00:00

You're = You are. Your = Your car.

loggah_head · 2014-02-19T05:00:08+00:00

sharked?

AndronicusSchloig · 2014-02-18T18:21:58+00:00

90% of hot girls have slept with over 10 guys nowadays.

Over TEN? That's an extremely naive number unless you're dating junior high chicks.

I think with women 25-26 the number is probably closer to 50-70. If they've been dating for 10 years, that's less than one a month.

GayLubeOil · 2014-02-19T03:32:28+00:00

I approve of all of these. Especially number 2.

Kimjungillestt · 2014-02-19T04:05:22+00:00

Brilliant. Number 8 is absolutely true. I noticed since reading the red pill and spinning some plates that my friends seem to dig and somewhat go after the same girls as well.

MahlerNinth · 2014-02-18T18:18:03+00:00

Waitresses are terrible relationship material, but great plates. Though they usually come with a fair bit of mileage.

vengefully_yours · 2014-02-18T18:24:29+00:00

Taller or shorter, they all get dominated and fucked like a self lubing fleshlight.

Flake twice and I am done.

She can comment on another guy, I'm confident in my ability and my status, besides if she wants to try and find something better, there's the door bitch. I don't fight for them, hell I share some with friends. Go ahead try to shark a confident alpha, see where it gets you.

The rest is OK, especially the long game and just ignore them. If they don't contact you again, so fucking what, if they do fuck them until they can't walk.

lazypengu1n · 2014-02-18T18:34:39+00:00

"Fuck it. Live life."

is my new motto

Title	My Experience has taught me: Warning Signs/Time Wasters
Author	musicvita25
Upvotes	210
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Date	February 18, 2014 11:09 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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