Realizing how much you put someone before your future

2021-03-07T06:21:26+00:00

This is so incredibly sad because it's completley true. Its so hard to see when you're in the thick of it just how much you're sacrificing for other people and not taking care of yourself.

Caedere01 · 2021-03-07T06:54:45+00:00

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Fetia_ · 2021-03-07T16:10:12+00:00

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Hampered-Siren · 2021-03-07T18:08:03+00:00

Now, imagine you have a paper to write and your HVM says, "You go start on your paper, and I will make you breakfast".

Goals!

TheFinalGirl_21 · 2021-03-07T06:21:54+00:00

This is how most cishet relationships work, though. It’s all a house of cards.

GodILoveTheEnglish · 2021-03-07T08:19:31+00:00

This poor, poor Pickmeisha. I hope she finds better

TERFSareawesome · 2021-03-07T17:10:03+00:00

Wow this hits so close to home... she really sums it up for us codependents. Although I think I do this even more in friendships and family relationships than romantic relationships. But this is so spot on

Cat_With_The_Fur · 2021-03-07T10:10:45+00:00

I was waiting for a plot twist where she gave those pancakes to the dog or something. Boo.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-03-07T05:55:18+00:00

zorua · 2021-03-07T17:51:51+00:00

This is something i would've done for my ex yikes.... i always put him over myself.

VanityDecay666 · 2021-03-07T16:26:38+00:00

My life :')

_laufaeson · 2021-03-07T09:26:55+00:00

OMG it’s me 😖

coldfoot23 · 2021-03-07T08:15:50+00:00

??? Hello??

Mind-Objective · 2021-03-08T02:21:39+00:00

Gross, reminds me of how I cooked my ex breakfast every time he stayed over and was willing to help him with his resume/job search. He had the audacity to later said I never love him.

Never again. My boundaries and what it takes to be with me has increased ten folds since then.

Yellowsunflowerlover · 2021-03-08T19:58:55+00:00

Ugh this used to be me.

Title	Realizing how much you put someone before your future
Author	Fetia_
Upvotes	430
Comments	33
Date	March 7, 2021 4:49 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/lzjf8w/realizing_how_much_you_put_someone_before_your/
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