My gf and have been together for 7 months and we see each other for a week every one month. I am 5’9, I workout regularly, am a boxer, eat a healthy diet and work my ass off. I’m starting a business and I always get attention from women locally but try to remain loyal. I’m a health freak who sometimes doesn’t drink but when I see her I let things go a bit to have fun. This time I chose not to.

She’s thick and complains about being overweight but her body is amazing and she gets away with the weight gain because it’s mostly in her hips, thighs/ass and breasts.

Some positives because I sound like a bitch for complaining: she’s amazing and we try to communicate well and for the majority everything is good. I’ve met All her friends and family and I get along with everyone. She’s stated many times she wants to get married and start a family with me. She’s deleted men off IG if they say nasty shit. She calls me if something happens in public. This is all shit SHE chooses to do. I never asked for it. She’s very good with sex and we always fuck everyday when we see each other. She gave me her phone and Ig passwords. Her family is very into me.

I saw her last night for the first time in a few weeks and I missed her a lot. I picked up her and we drove to a nearby city and went to a bar with her friend from the city and her brother. Everything was going well. We took pictures of the skyline and such and then went to another bar. I was extremely thirsty / dehydrated as it is hot and I ended up getting water at the bar. I also wasn’t sure if I wanted to drink. This doesn’t usually happen.

She and her friend had already been drinking but weren’t drunk, maybe just a bit tipsy. Here’s how the interaction went at the bar:

Her friend to me : wait, you’re not drinking..? gives me weird look of disgust you’re very lame My gf: yeah he’s really lame(serious tone) with her back turned to me, idk why he doesn’t want to drink Me: yeah I just want water right now Gf: you’re being boring by not drinking with us Me: you’re being a brat Her friend:it’s ok dude I get it, I used to not drink at bars sometimes but now I’m an alcoholic (was being funny and I smiled and sipped more water)

We go to sit down and it’s just me and her for a few minutes while her friend is getting another drink Me; hey you didn’t have to tell me I’m lame because I don’t want to drink, you don’t need to be disrespectful in front of people. I wouldn’t say that to you especially not in front of others. Her: you are at a bar and you haven’t seen me in a long time, you’re supposed to drink at a bar and if you don’t then you’re lame Me: I’m sorry you feel this way, but just because you’re drinking doesn’t mean I have to.

We ended up just leaving this and going about the rest of the night as normal. She pissed me off completely and I really don’t understand why she had to talk to me like this. We got back to the hotel and talked and she said she was “joking about me being lame but she also meant it because it is lame not to drink at a bar.” And I just completely lost my mind and told her that she’s being immature and that she’s the one making this a big deal. She then said she’s not gonna apologize if that’s what I want but then later she says “ok whatever I’m sorry” and goes to sleep. She also said “if you think I did something wrong, then you should convince me. If you can’t convince me and I think what I did is fine, then I don’t care”

You can grill me and tell me I’m being childish about this or making too big of a deal. Heck, tell me I’m being a little bitch if you think so. I’m new to this red pill still and to this sub and honestly have no fucking clue what I’m doing. My feeling is if I let this go, she’s going to continue being disrespectful in the long term in public and that’s not something I want in a relationship. I don’t have a fear of letting her go, I just want to make sure this is not an example of me being a bitch ass dude.

I will drop her right now though if this is truly a sign of disrespect and I’m not deemed to be an overreacting idiot.