CMV: Girls who do hookups are better than girls who wanna go on a real dates

Lovers691 · 2023-11-18T20:46:29+00:00

Girl who’s hooking up with you is more likely to be pickier and you’re prob the only guy meeting her this week and if the night goes good 90% chance you’re both gonna keep hooking up and seeing each other

In terms of looks sure but even if it was true for other stuff, why wouldn't the woman be hooking up with other guys? Also isn't her being pickier bad?

Cat_Lover259 · 2023-11-19T04:59:01+00:00

Hooking up is gross. It messed up dating for everyone. I feel bad for single people who actually want to date and not fuck every random stranger they meet.

Economy-House171 · 2023-11-18T20:58:31+00:00

This can't be real 💀

Dstar538888 · 2023-11-18T21:31:35+00:00

I’m highly confused how you dudes on here chastise women for not being virgins, but then also complain when she doesn’t want to have sex with you immediately 🌝

wtknight · 2023-11-18T22:40:00+00:00

Girl who’s hooking up with you is more likely to be pickier and you’re prob the only guy meeting her this week

Yeah, but she might have met plenty of other men in past weeks. Her pickiness this week is hardly an indicator of loyalty.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-18T20:45:30+00:00

I personally disagree. I’m picky as shit and dating to marry. Finding a long term partner requires way more selection and vetting. Finding a hookup seems way easier and would take way less time

Financial_Leave4411 · 2023-11-18T21:30:39+00:00

“…not looking for a wife…”

That’s the reason right there that you view women who hook up more positively. It’s not that women who hook up are more picky it’s that you are trying to justify liking them more in your mind.

SlowEffective8146 · 2023-11-19T15:27:06+00:00

What is this low-effort post?

Girl gives up her only bargaining chip early = better

girl who doesn't = less picky somehow?

januaryphilosopher · 2023-11-18T21:14:54+00:00

If you just want to hook up you have no real commitment to even attempting to see the other person again and probably won't. If you're going on dates you're likely to actually care about potentially starting a relationship with the other person. You invest a lot more time, money and effort into a date so are more likely to be discerning, especially because you're hoping a relationship will come of it. It'd certainly take up more time, money and effort than most people are willing to spend having multiple dates a week, but multiple hookups a week is a lot more doable as there's less needed. Although you say you just want to hook up which would make all of this irrelevant...although what's the point in making a post if all you're saying is people who want to hook up are better to hook up with?

Safinated · 2023-11-18T21:26:30+00:00

That’s only if you can get girls who want hookups

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Love-Is-Selfish · 2023-11-19T04:33:20+00:00

Hookups are gross for guys and girls interested in pursuing love and sex for pleasure with someone they love, which is better than hookups for living.

Girl who’s going on a dinner date with you is less picky at this point because she wants to filter out after the first date if she sees any ick or red flag etc or maybe she’s just bored whatever . You’re prob 5th guy meeting her this week. She’s not gonna meet all 5 of you next week so there’s like 20% MAXIMUM chance you’ll see her again

You’re not comparing the chances of a “good” hookup and a good date.

I personally never ask a girl her body count or about her exes etc so I guess you can say Idc about body count + not looking for a wife so I prefer a girl who’s down to hookup

Girls who hookup are better for hookups. Ok.

Hefty_Bit_2137 · 2023-11-19T14:32:59+00:00

What if you get to 2nd or 3rd base and she doesn’t want to go all the way? What if she’s not into hooking up with people she doesn’t know that well?

reddit_is_geh · 2023-11-25T01:09:42+00:00

You have a really exagerated view. Most women going on dates, aren't seeing multiple men. Sex in the City isn't a reflection of reality. Sure, some girls do, especially the really hot ones. But most don't.

Further, the girls hooking up with me on the first date are trash. Why the hell would I go back for something so easy? Low value product gets treated like a low value product. Easy to attain things are inherently less valuable.

Title	CMV: Girls who do hookups are better than girls who wanna go on a real dates
Author	Fun_Resource7033
Upvotes	0
Comments	67
Date	November 18, 2023 8:39 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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