What advice would you give to young men?

onlywill121 · 2024-01-20T01:10:19+00:00

Never apologise for being who you are if people don’t like you that’s fine.

John_Bones23 · 2024-01-20T06:59:11+00:00

Watch out for sexual abuse it happens just as much to men as it does to women

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2024-01-20T04:35:52+00:00

Forget women, focus on living your best life.

Dashing2025 · 2024-01-20T03:05:48+00:00

. Prioritize making money but don't get too sucked into corporate culture

. Know how to be selfish without being cruel

. Know how to differentiate between a good woman and a bad one

. To be moral is to be moderate

cuppa_tea_4_me · 2024-01-20T02:24:35+00:00

Do not have a partner who intends to be a stay at home mom. Oh I forgot. Do not f*ck crazy.

Words to live by.

volleyballbeach · 2024-01-20T01:33:51+00:00

Do something hard every day.

Don’t be too hard on yourself. It’s okay if you fail at said hard thing.

Few-Procedure-268 · 2024-01-20T02:08:11+00:00

We need more men in early childhood education, nursing, and counseling. Consider these fields because you can make a direct impact in people's lives and be a role model for the next generation of boys.

DeepfriedWings · 2024-01-20T00:58:31+00:00

Hug your dad.

Not everyone has a father or a good relationship with theirs. But I did. I hugged my dad when I graduated high school, and then once more almost 10 years later when he was on his death bed. My one regret is I wish I had more hugs during the time between.

disayle32 · 2024-01-20T05:25:16+00:00

Don't be a simp. Always split the bill on the first date. If you have sons, don't mutilate them.

HeftyPreference5928 · 2024-01-20T03:15:10+00:00

Seize the moment and always do what you say you're going to do

TryThisDickdotCom · 2024-01-20T03:50:22+00:00

Girls your age aren't interested in you. Learn the sacred art of cougar hunting.

Truthgotu · 2024-01-20T12:58:17+00:00

Feminine toxicity exists and they have mastered deflection. Find a woman or man who loves you. Don't allow women to shame your body. If you are hairy be who you are and being a man is embracing your masculinity & being the tender-loving man who you are meant to be. This society wants weak men, let's not give them what they want.

Perfect_Sir4820 · 2024-01-20T05:03:04+00:00

Marriage is a tool of the matriarchy.

Chama-HUH · 2024-01-20T04:52:10+00:00

University or college are not bad choices, stay in school; this may seem like generic advice but a lot of young men are being influenced by hustlers like Andrew tate. We live in different times now don’t be scared to pursue a field which may not seem to be “masculine” and never stop learning.

rippierippo · 2024-01-20T05:02:06+00:00

My only advice to my younger self is to earn big and invest all the money. Be frugal.

denisc9918 · 2024-01-20T00:42:22+00:00

Get out of the west before you're trapped.

ChelseaGreenNeedsBBC · 2024-01-20T01:23:33+00:00

Masturbating is perfectly normal and healthy.

stumje · 2024-01-20T06:01:51+00:00

Only marry if it feels in alignment with what you truly want and desire not because what your friends, family, society and even partner want from you.

John_Bones23 · 2024-01-20T07:02:16+00:00

TRUST YOUR GUT ALWAYS

Don’t forget to talk things over with yourself not just those who you trust

williywilliy · 2024-01-20T03:32:39+00:00

Thanks for the encouragement!!...This last relapse and surgery made it all so real and took the seriousness of it to a whole new level! I always thought " it would never happen to me!"...now I don't want it to happen to anyone else either!! Worst time of my life going through that surgery, not even going to lie!

SeniorBootLance · 2024-01-20T13:21:15+00:00

Learn the differences in behavior between female and male narcissism, anti social personality disorder, etc all cluster B personality disorders and manipulative personality disorders and avoid them. Never go somewhere private with these types of people, especially including the feminine ones because they can easily swindle you out of your resources.

pepskino · 2024-01-20T14:11:10+00:00

Save for retirement now got that advice at 19 an older guy at my job forced me to put 50$ a week into a 401 k I’m almost 50 now best move I’ve ever made

Diesel_Drinker1891 · 2024-01-20T06:48:22+00:00

Don't base your success in life with how many women you sleep with.

Huntress_Nyx · 2024-01-20T00:59:31+00:00

•Life is hard, it'll get harder. It'll also have its nice moments though.

•Make sure you have healthy ways of dealing with your emotions, and have trusted people to talk to. Bottling them up and isolating yourself because of dumb societal norms is unhealthy and will decrease your lifespan and mess you up.

•When you have sex with someone, always make sure to wear a condom, and also make sure that both of you use as much protection as possible. Sleeping around without taking caution is very risky.

•Judge people by their behaviour, history and values. Not gender or interests/hobbies.

Anti-Scam-Activist · 2024-01-20T01:36:54+00:00

This is exactly what I tell myself 20 years ago, if I had a time machine.

1) Don't waste your money, time and energy in University or College it will not get you the money or career to have a good life but in debt and working dead end jobs without the time and money to pursue your goals.

2) Use all your Free Time Wisely while you have the time and energy when you're young, to make all the money you can.

3) Learn EVERYTHING about How to Make Money, How to Invest, How to Live Cheap, How to Multiply Your Money, Make your Money Work for You, Start Up Business that Pays you Passively.

4) IGNORE ALL GIRLS, Avoid All Relationships, at best you will lose out on Millions of Income focusing on a girl who is costing you more and more time and investment with no return.

"Men who chase women run out of money, Men who chase money never run out of women."

5) Network your Skills, Knowledge, and Partnership to Men who have the resources to help you succeed and make friends with only people that prove themselves as helpful and more or equally giving. CUT OFF ANYONE WHO IS A LEECH OR DRAIN ON YOU.

6) Learn a New Language that is a country you can invest and is a good place to raise a family and is in an emerging market with traditional values and good exporter and quality of life such as Uruguay or Philippines.

7) If you meet a girl you are attracted to, Don't Give Her Any of Your Time or Investment If Not Earned, Treat her Like a "Pariah" or a "Theif" if you want her to chase, invest, respect and love you.

"Remember the longer you hold out as a Man building your Value the Better Quality Woman you will have in your Life."

8) Never Give Up any of your Hard Work and Assets or Trust anyone with Keys to them either.

There is no Need to Trust Anyone with your Life and Wealth when you can get it all For Free of the Promise of Sharing it or Just Rent Something with a Large Price Tag or Marked as Priceless, because there is always a deal to be made with something or someone else.

9) You Can Get Every Joy in Life Easier, Cheaper and Safer if you hire them under contract like a Surrogate to have children, then signing a Marriage Contract That Gives Everything you Have and Earn with the CHACE of Children, but might not be yours or if they are yours good Chace you can't keep them and will be taken away from you. In a divorce, you have no control over as you have no rights to them.

10) YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE, SO... Every Mistake you make Today will Cost you Years of a Happy Carefree Retirement in your Future.

Plan For Your Future Today, Before It's Too Late!

Merc_305 · 2024-01-20T08:27:52+00:00

Learn, workout (even if it's only a 5kg dumbbell), focus on job, be self-sufficient

Mindless-Spare-2454 · 2024-01-20T13:28:52+00:00

Forget all notions that you’re seeing on social media, majority of people women & men, are permanently single.

Read, travel, make friends, enjoy new experiences. Dont ever change for someone, you do not need to. Work hard and retire early.

CenterLeftRepublican · 2024-01-20T15:08:14+00:00

Choose your wife carefully. Don't get divorced.

The second won't be an issue if you follow the first.

Have kids as your forefathers have done in the thousands of years until now. Don't be a party to the extinction of your culture.

ConsiderationSea1347 · 2024-01-20T15:48:28+00:00

It is okay to cry. It is okay not to cry. Stop letting people tell you that you are less of a man for either.

SirVegeta69 · 2024-01-20T02:33:46+00:00

Stop chasing women until you have established yourself. Work on yourself and wait till you're older and so are the women. Both you and her will be more mature.

darthnugget · 2024-01-20T06:14:08+00:00

Same my uncle gave me… if it flys, floats, or fucks it’s cheaper to rent.

Valus22 · 2024-01-20T06:40:11+00:00

Unless you have a solid plan for how you’re going to make money without a degree, GO TO COLLEGE. I know STEM gets pushed alot but it really is the way. Find a STEM career that you enjoy, it doesn’t have to be your absolute passion in life but it will be able to fund your passions, traveling, and general quality of life. I’m 27 and still have 2 yrs of engineering school left and kick myself for not starting earlier. I spent my early adulthood addicted to drugs and constantly being broke as fuck and it sucked ass. Student loans are worth it for a stem career.

ZestyFreshh · 2024-01-20T00:57:00+00:00

I would say don’t let the internet radicalize you against marriage, women, society, and living your life.

There are too many great things to let scare tactics and victimhood scare you from living a normal life.

victorsredditkonto · 2024-01-20T10:16:43+00:00

Some terrible advice in here

williywilliy · 2024-01-20T02:25:05+00:00

Don't drink alcohol

WeeklyGreen8522 · 2024-01-20T10:26:40+00:00

Disregard females, acquire currency.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-01-20T12:29:49+00:00

Money.

Muscles.

Status.

Interesting life.

kingslayer990 · 2024-01-20T12:59:14+00:00

Don't marry

CellPale8629 · 2024-01-20T07:25:45+00:00

Take the blackpill, women don't mean anything, you don't need one to be happy

mhk23 · 2024-01-20T06:20:32+00:00

Read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. It will change your paradigm completely.

TiddybraXton333 · 2024-01-20T08:56:22+00:00

Don’t get married , wear a condom always, invest your money in shit that will pop off in the future. (Douglas, Raytheon)

Ebisure · 2024-01-20T05:07:50+00:00

Money is everything

DeeLowZee · 2024-01-20T22:29:22+00:00

Build yourself up and then use your passport to find a traditional wife overseas. Do not take modern Western women seriously. Recreational use only

MatildeLover128 · 2024-01-20T07:19:48+00:00

Always trust your gut.

Talky51 · 2024-01-20T08:22:43+00:00

People really want to help, but they cant hold your hand. If youre still in your teens, contact successful people you aspire to be like and ask for guidance, ask for direction. Pick a career path, whatever your interest/hobby is, find someone that works in that industry and ask them what it would take for you to be employed with them, and then work your balls off to get there. If you can't decide on something, join the military and choose a job role that will give you some good options on retiring/leaving. The partying/FOMO period of late teens earlier twenties is a really big and really easy trap to fall into, sure have some fun but you'll find a lot more satisfaction in building stability.

Zestyclose_Skin7982 · 2024-01-20T12:26:11+00:00

theres no need to feel down, i said

MrInbetweenn01 · 2024-01-20T12:57:07+00:00

Don't think that the decisions you make in your teens and 20s does not have a life long impact just because you are young and have plenty of time.

There is enough information out there on the chances of a woman ending a marriage is around the 90% mark for university educated women and it is only getting worse.This may sound harsh but any young man that contemplates getting married and that they are immune from this statistic is bordering on a moron.

Women give the most in a relationship before marriage where as men give everything once they are married and have a family so remember the girlfriend next to you is behaving the best you will ever see. If she is annoying as hell now then abandon ship.

Do not sell property once you own it.

ithinkmynameismoose · 2024-01-20T12:57:53+00:00

Ignore the noise out there. Focus on yourself and continually work on improving yourself.

TeddyMGTOW · 2024-01-20T14:42:28+00:00

You need to "control" the birth control. Right now there's only two options rubber (condoms) and knife (vasectomy).

Timely-Sheepherder-1 · 2024-01-20T15:17:04+00:00

Pick a good partner. Never settle find someone who you are equally yoked with. Sign private agreements before getting married and having kids but ideally do not get Married.

theyknewit2 · 2024-01-20T17:19:12+00:00

Believe that you are wrong it’s essential to learning how to make new ideas. Dreams are the thoughts that just haven’t happened yet.

vector5633 · 2024-01-20T18:19:11+00:00

A very simple piece of advice. NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, EVER GET MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

pennywise1235 · 2024-01-20T18:28:00+00:00

Get laid all you want, but don’t give up your self or your life for anyone, especially a piece of tail.

Agile_Potato9088 · 2024-01-20T18:40:07+00:00

Be happy being Single, it's the safest thing to be until Laws protect Men better.

FeanorOath · 2024-01-20T22:42:46+00:00

Concentrate on yourself and your future. Don't get married

UnconventionalXY · 2024-01-21T04:40:44+00:00

Don't follow tradition blindly and challenge the old "one perfect woman and live happily ever after" mode of life where all your eggs are in one potentially unstable and vindictive basket and at risk. Explore the fundamental things you want out of life and whether they can be more readily and safely provided independently from a greater distribution of sources.

Investigate your own erotic potential (which is considerably more than most men experience) versus putting your own pleasure in the hands of another who can hold you hostage to it for their own agenda.

There's more than one way to skin a cat and the superficially easiest is not necessarily the best due to hidden costs that only appear later.

Bokoman91 · 2024-01-21T08:46:32+00:00

toss gender roles into garbage

Truthgotu · 2024-01-21T16:04:30+00:00

Don't allow people, especially women to body shame you. Women are the cruelest people just observe how they treat each other. Prenups if decide to get married.

XBlackAppleX · 2024-01-22T13:25:32+00:00

Don't pay everything for women or trust every women. Most are abusive. Have your own opinion and don't rely on men or women with that. Good words, good deeds

Taohumor · 2024-01-23T06:49:19+00:00

You're enough, trust yourself

Phoj7 · 2024-01-24T00:56:51+00:00

Absolutely never compromise yourself for a woman.

Title	What advice would you give to young men?
Author	DeepfriedWings
Upvotes	87
Comments	124
Date	January 20, 2024 12:29 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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