Women manipulate the guys they date to emotionally invest in them

leosandlattes · 2024-02-02T01:26:15+00:00

So if it’s possible for women to manipulate a man into being terrible, why doesn’t the next women just manipulate him again to be better for her? LMAO. Surely “unmanipulating” him is just manipulation in the opposite direction, hahahaha.

pessimisticwoman · 2024-02-01T23:26:55+00:00

The man that you’re with is always talking about his ex even though they’ve long broken up? lol. That man is still obsessed with his ex and is over compensating to mask his infatuation. The opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference.

The entire point of a relationship is to create an emotional connection. And how did she exactly “manipulate” him into “emotionally investing” in her?

Prudent-Conflict-557 · 2024-02-02T01:38:19+00:00

Your boyfriend talks shit about her cuz he’d still fuck her. Dudes who are over their exes don’t have bad things to say about them.. because they have nothing to say about them. Beware the guy who talks about his exes.

MongoBobalossus · 2024-02-01T23:27:28+00:00

Lol this is straight up nonsense, coming from someone who dated some awful women.

Safinated · 2024-02-01T23:28:29+00:00

I’m pretty sure the whole point of relationships is to be emotionally invested, so men shouldn’t have to be manipulated

theReaders · 2024-02-02T02:52:42+00:00

It’s despicable that your partner talks about his exact that way, if he has that much to say about his last relationship he should talk to a professional, not you. The fact you think he can’t change and you’re simply left with no choice but to embrace bad behaviour is awful.

solstice-sky · 2024-02-02T01:37:06+00:00

he always talks shit about her looks and personality lol

Your boyfriend sounds like a catch. /s

fnonpm · 2024-02-01T23:26:33+00:00

I only heard such horror story material from a hot girl who had terminal cancer and was kicking the can

Are you sure you aren't leaving the server soon op?

njayinthehouse · 2024-02-02T09:25:32+00:00

Is this subreddit filled with nothing but sweeping generalizations with no backing data? How skilled do you think an average woman is at manipulation? How pliable do you think an average guy is? Why the actual fuck do you think what you think?

GGMcThroway · 2024-02-01T23:23:55+00:00

It’s impossible to unmanipulate a guy, they take everything girls say at face value.

Hahahahahahahahahaha. No.

And they get pissed if you suggest they weren’t in control.

Yeah, because they could've beaten her to death any time they wanted to.

Fabulous_HonestTea · 2024-02-01T23:29:41+00:00

You’re the only woman the women here ever disagree with which is how I know you’re telling the truth.

wtknight · 2024-02-01T23:35:05+00:00

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darkwindhowls · 2024-02-02T01:55:19+00:00

Women manipulate and tell half-truths as reflex for all sorts of reasons. It's just what they do. Men lie too, but men and women lie for different reasons for different purposes.

And no, if men are courageous enough to see reality for what it is. being manipulated by women is ultimately what will make him far more effective in dealing with women.

The vast majority of men who protect women and take their side regarding many issues simply are afraid of female disapproval or have ego investment in appearing "on the side of women," or just not smart enough to understand reality.

It's very easy to test whether a woman is full of shit. It's very easy to mentally build an evidence based case for it, even. And you can run these tests fairly quickly. Unlike the judgments women make about men, these judgments are based on real behavior happening in real time clearly showcasing a moral violation, e.g. catching them (without alerting them to that fact) in a lie.

Geselshaft · 2024-02-02T01:41:03+00:00

That’s why you never emotionally invest in another person. Have some fun, go some places, experience some things, then cut and run.

Being emotionally invested completely benefits the other person and harms you.

Don’t don’t. Have some laughs and nothing more.

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januaryphilosopher · 2024-02-02T07:35:15+00:00

How are men being manipulated and why do you think you're special and different to all these women doing all this manipulating?

SamanthaNicola · 2024-02-02T08:22:46+00:00

I think this is all a very immature outlook, to be honest. Exs in my experience were only an issue when you're dating late teens in their early 20s. Once you get older, these things just aren't an issue and don't come up. Both genders can come out of bad relationships with issues. The problem is that they jump into another one before working through what happened.

Sillysheila · 2024-02-02T10:56:42+00:00

This is a weird take? Do you think men have absolutely no control over their actions and are peons? Men could choose to enter into relationships. Why are you acting like men are drones and have no responsibility over their actions?

To be perfectly honest a dude constantly talking shit about his ex and being really angry at her sounds like a gigantic red flag to me not a green flag.

Title	Women manipulate the guys they date to emotionally invest in them
Author	lacuti3
Upvotes	0
Comments	72
Date	February 1, 2024 11:19 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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