How can i, a virgin man, find a virgin woman to have a relationship with?

JetpackKiwi · 2021-10-02T21:08:25+00:00

Have you tried the Virgin Islands?

XtraSaucyy · 2021-10-02T21:33:16+00:00

Honestly you have better luck finding a girl who would accept you and take it slow with you and make you feel comfortable.

traybro · 2021-10-02T20:19:33+00:00

Church

QaWaR · 2021-10-02T22:23:26+00:00

Buy extra virgin olive oil and pour it over girls. If the skin absorbs it, she's a virgin.

5_7pickup · 2021-10-02T20:53:31+00:00

You gon be a virgin for a long time then.

gillmanblacklagooner · 2021-10-02T22:54:46+00:00

Please don’t put yourself in awful situations searching for virgin girls in college, church, whatever... people may think it’s really weird.

caveatemptor18 · 2021-10-02T22:07:36+00:00

Basic human decency is not “basic”; rather it is a rare find. And when you find it; treasure it.

deaxyslow · 2021-10-02T23:04:26+00:00

Just don’t be a virgin lmao

Acceptable_Hornet_31 · 2021-10-02T20:58:09+00:00

Going to be tough. Most will lie anyways. I'll also say that in the past, even when there was an opportunity, a girl that was a virgin never really seemed all that appealing to me.

McWhiters9511 · 2021-10-02T19:54:09+00:00

Won't know till you put it in. Even then you might not be able to tell. Most girls lose it in HS and middle school. Good luck. Lowering standards opens options.

mithrinwow · 2021-10-02T22:08:12+00:00

I've been to a number of Mennonite (not conservative) weddings in the US/East Coast and even they know how to party hard and have a good time.

Find a Southern Baptist and you'll probably get your virgin woman. 🤪

Zealousideal_Ask_714 · 2021-10-02T19:53:48+00:00

I mean no disrespect, but why a virgin specifically?

Bark4Soul · 2021-10-02T23:06:03+00:00

Join www.virgepurge.com where other like minded virgins are ready to lose their v-cards 😊

Brandonva804 · 2021-10-02T21:15:06+00:00

Lmao

Sufficient-Cry-9163 · 2021-10-02T23:02:43+00:00

Church.

cupjames · 2021-10-02T23:54:33+00:00

Bru jus date someone you have a genuine connection and chemistry with. Stop worrying about this, it’s somewhat of a superficial preference, imo.

ProdiLemaj · 2021-10-02T23:59:31+00:00

There really isn’t a good answer to that question bro. I would say the church, but most of the girls I know that go to church aren’t even virgins. The average age women lose their virginity is 17 years old. It’s easier for guys to be virgins longer than women as well because a decent looking woman could proposition virtually any guy and he’d be down, whereas guys have to go through a lot more hoops to sleep with women.

I mention all of this to say, you’re gonna be hard-pressed to find a girl that’s still a virgin at your age. I read a study that says of females age 20-24, only about 12.3% are virgins. And it’s only going to become rarer the older you and the girls in your dating pool get. There’s no way to identify if a woman’s a virgin, it’s not like there’s some kind of scanner that can detect such a thing. All you can do is just straight up ask them.

At the end of the day, if you happen to find a pretty girl who’s into you and treats you well, it’d be pretty stupid of you to dismiss her just because she isn’t a virgin. You’d be potentially missing out on a loving relationship because you’re searching for something that you have a very low chance of finding, and if you wait to long, you’ll end up a real-life 40 year old virgin.

garrettcw18 · 2021-10-03T00:25:24+00:00

The dating marketplace has changed so much. Your best bet is to try to find a girl with a low low body count, and then take things slow. I used to be like this when I was in high school, but there’s no point in limiting yourself. Dating is about getting experience. If you find a virgin great, but don’t bank on it. Just live

Acceptable_Hornet_31 · 2021-10-03T00:37:46+00:00

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recyclablebanthas · 2021-10-03T00:48:40+00:00

.....only want to date other virgins due to personal preference.

This is a massively restrictive limitation you've chosen.

Why?

This is relevant because the mindset behind this could actually prevent you from finding a relationship.

axe122 · 2021-10-02T22:35:33+00:00

Past 20 your gonna have to look for a seriously religious girl or a very innocent 18 year old who hasn’t had a boyfriend yet. Most women will not be virgins by 20.

Acceptable_Hornet_31 · 2021-10-02T21:59:04+00:00

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kazuechan · 2021-10-02T22:25:23+00:00

You can target younger naive girls. They’re usually like that because their parents coddle and shelter them. Good luck getting to the sex stage with their helicopter parents.

Next option is to date a religious woman. Good luck with her telling you she’s done everything under the sun except piv. They tend to go the anal and oral route. Or they make you wait until marriage only to never escape the feeling that god is watching her do the deed.

Last option is to date awkward girls. They’re virgins because they lack the social skills to create and maintain relationships. Although they tend to be selfless sweethearts, you’ll have to teach them how to navigate relationships and probably sex. They’re clueless.

90% of people have had sex by the time they’re 22. Good luck finding a virgin.

MindsTyrant · 2021-10-02T21:58:05+00:00

Bible Study.

totalwarwiser · 2021-10-02T22:50:26+00:00

Find a fat ugly woman. Try mcdonalds.

gigolobob · 2021-10-02T22:35:13+00:00

Check your local middle and high schools

Narcan9 · 2021-10-02T22:00:55+00:00

Muslim countries. Also, examine to make sure the hymen is intact.

Also, does anal sex count?

SilentJoe008 · 2021-10-02T20:05:38+00:00

Where u from

SomethingS0m3thing · 2021-10-02T20:12:05+00:00

Are you still in high school? If not chances of finding a virgin is much harder

Acceptable_Hornet_31 · 2021-10-02T20:51:01+00:00

Try more religious circles. There are still some hanging around in them but they're still pretty rare in the adult ages.

Ionut201 · 2021-10-02T21:29:39+00:00

Church

donttextspeaktome · 2021-10-02T22:02:17+00:00

Shy girls usually are virgins from my limited experience but it’s harder to get to know them. Church is the absolute best spot but good luck convincing them to sleep with you 😂

FIW, first times are usually not special and often disappointing for both men and women so I wish you the best of luck!

anoyingprophet · 2021-10-02T22:33:27+00:00

Christian mingle

tnpersona · 2021-10-02T22:51:20+00:00

It might sound funny but have you considered going to church?

AdZestyclose4502 · 2021-10-02T23:22:41+00:00

Good luck.

DD_Dietriech · 2021-10-02T23:43:26+00:00

If you're in the Western world. Move to Utah and become a Mormon.

Slabberdack · 2021-10-02T23:47:05+00:00

I was a virgin with no relationship experience until 20, so I'm sure they're out there, but honestly I was a clueless mess who has no clue how to go about things so I think someone with a little experience ce to help you out wouldn't be so bad. There are girls who like taking charge and teaching a guy a thing or two if they are inexperienced. Just remember the basics of consent since it can be something new you will have to learn. Just cause you are in a relationship doesn't mean they want sex all the time.

elkjin · 2021-10-03T01:40:58+00:00

Philippines

JazzleRazzle · 2021-10-03T06:29:27+00:00

The mall between the months of June and August after all the high schools let out lol.

There’s also hitting up Amish country if you’re desperate.

Title	How can i, a virgin man, find a virgin woman to have a relationship with?
Author	Acceptable_Hornet_31
Upvotes	17
Comments	146
Date	October 2, 2021 7:45 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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