Got a girls number at the covid vaccination clinic

2021-09-13T13:11:00+00:00

You had your shots then took a shot. Nice

Pabst34 · 2021-09-13T13:13:08+00:00

You make an important point that can't be stressed enough: Rather than having the attitude, "if I approach 1000 random strangers, I'll surely pull one of them", guys should instead exploit those rarer one on one situations that have intrinsically better odds.

Studies have shown that women respond more favorably when there's a life connection with the guy hitting on them. (graduates of the same school, job etc) Add now to the list: Vaccination Centers.

IntegratedExemplar · 2021-09-13T10:25:22+00:00

I like the way you asked her out, especially when you said "life is short". That's a really nice way of phrasing it.

RealHumanBeing2020 · 2021-09-13T13:26:18+00:00

This post further stresses the importance to me of how I really need to get better at talking to people whenever I’m out and about. I can’t tell you how many opportunities I’ve missed out on because I was too scared to speak to “strangers” when in public. Im going to do better!

mrrooftops · 2021-09-13T14:40:20+00:00

You'll both get a surprise when you take your masks off to drink...

dzoya1266 · 2021-09-13T13:21:34+00:00

Good job!

Cyberfaust11 · 2021-09-13T14:55:14+00:00

Those are just the remote-controlled robotics inside your body now, guiding your every move. Soon, you and her will join and make a fully robotic/human hybrid baby, thanks to the new blood coarsing through both your veins.

Hail the new world order... of seduction.

PaqS18 · 2021-09-13T12:43:01+00:00

Awesome dude

Starburst9507 · 2021-09-13T19:38:24+00:00

As a woman I’m way more comfortable dating people I’ve found some common ground with. I’m not the rule, I know women who are comfortable with cold approaches but I have a hard time receiving them myself. I’ll be friendly back but it’s hard for me to feel romantic interest until I know a person a little bit at least.

This story was lovely to read I hope y’all get that coffee date and it goes well 🥰

3SidedDie · 2021-09-13T14:07:30+00:00

Congrats on getting her number AND getting vaccinated

istira_balegina · 2021-09-13T22:07:25+00:00

Good job Michael Scott!

Bruucex · 2021-09-13T14:17:20+00:00

Nice one dude, hope you get laid with her :D

CanadianTurt1e · 2021-09-13T21:43:40+00:00

You have massive balls posting this on reddit. The amount of mentally insane people that would try shaming you for dare talking to someone at a vaccine clinic, RIP your dms. Mad respect to you for asking the girl out AND risking death threats by armchair warriors on reddit.

BigZmultiverse · 2021-09-13T17:48:26+00:00

!remindme 2 weeks

myra_nc · 2021-09-13T21:34:20+00:00

I would suggest not putting a lot of effort into the search. The harder you try, the greater the failure seems.

Live your life, as you have, and enjoy your journey. Be confident when you interact with others. You don't have to be suavely conversational or anything like that, just be comfortable in your own skin and your biggest and best relationships just happen. For me, they happen when I'm NOT LOOKING. The sole life exception to this advice is my current relationship of 4-5 months. I had been looking on ALL of the dating apps for months, then I closed all of the profiles down and posted a single post on a reddit sub and found her. We are hot and cold, but at this moment, we are hot. It's not the most compatible person I've ever been with, but she lights up my life and she is interesting and able enough to possibly be my next truly long term relationship. My only reservations are that when we hit turbulence, it's the worst I've had, ever. It could be said to be passion-fueled emotions.

I digress. Stop looking. Serendipity is key, buy you need to be approachable and conversant. I've read MANY posts in this sub where the OP comes off as combative and anti-social. Pushing away anyone with the differing point of view (the irony is thick, am I right?)

RsMasterChief · 2021-09-13T18:31:39+00:00

both of yall making every generation ashamed

ella-the-enchantress · 2021-09-13T16:34:24+00:00

I find it so much easier to communicate under circumstances like these. I'm a woman who likes women, so the main problem I come to is indicating whether they catch the gay vibes. I'm semi-fem and attracted to super-fem women.

I've gotten a number from a girl I accidentally bumped into in a gas station, spilling her drink, and them helped her to clean it up. It resulted in talking for nearly my entire lunch break. She turned out to be straight, but wanted to introduce me to and play hitch her friends. It was interesting to say the least.

jjwondor · 2021-09-13T17:38:31+00:00

I’m trying to get better at talking to women, but like someone said, having a reason to always makes it much easier for me!

And sitting in line with someone? So easy! It doesn’t even really matter how you phrase it, but having 5+ minutes where you’re going to be together allows you to not concern yourself with interrupting her. You both have to be there so why not chat!?

tl2t4n · 2021-09-13T19:06:27+00:00

i always try to talk to people when i can feel that i can make someone's day and mine better, good job 💪

studdmuffinn3 · 2021-09-13T19:51:22+00:00

As a stutterer with a mild to moderate to nonexistent stutter it’s my dream and nightmare to be able to do this.

dodged_that_one · 2021-09-13T19:53:49+00:00

From a psychological point of view, you completely nailed it with your timing and phrasing to maximise your chances.

Blackstar030405 · 2021-09-13T20:54:53+00:00

This is my exact thoughts, I only approach people (especially women) when I actually have a reason to approach rather than just blindly approaching with no clear topic of conversation to bring up. that way you don't have approach anxiety when talking to women.

MisterShogunate · 2021-09-13T21:03:33+00:00

Yup this is the realization for you. I had this realization several years ago when I was something in a similarly trivial situation. This made me realize the potential of just being able to meet women anywhere. I personally have my own strategy so that I can comfortably talk to new girls anywhere without feeling weird. No "dating coach" can teach you that. It's something you that work on yourself as a man to help you achieve dating abundance, it's just like working out and saving money. It's some form of social banking where you initiate and maintain useful social connections as you go through life.

Mischievous_Canary · 2021-09-13T22:03:09+00:00

That's it, no longer an anti vaxxer

Woujo · 2021-09-13T23:14:48+00:00

> I just flail when there's no obvious common ground - the standard cold approach.

The "common ground" is that there is something about her that you find interesting - her outfit, her vibe, her makeup, or something about the situation. Problem solved.

2021-09-14T00:04:39+00:00

Dude the whole idea of having a reason to talk to someone in the first place is so true. I have too much anxiety for a cold approach but if the ball is easy to get going I can take it very far.

Shakespeare-Bot · 2021-09-14T02:31:22+00:00

You're overthinking this one interaction. You need more to desensitize

Title	Got a girls number at the covid vaccination clinic
Author	faithinstrangers92
Upvotes	494
Comments	68
Date	September 13, 2021 10:17 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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