Don't Laugh

RedErin · 2011-04-14T21:53:51+00:00

If you not laughing, you're not having fun.

Vurv · 2011-04-14T23:11:07+00:00

I think the whole not laughing/not smiling thing really depends on your personality and persona you want to portray. Remember, not all girls are the same and they like different things.

Yes, not smiling or laughing tends to portray a more traditional Man archetype (think James Bond). This is what a lot of women like. But you should honestly just do what feels right to you. If you're laughing and giggling at everything though, you should probably try to reign it in a bit.

subheight640 · 2011-04-15T00:06:37+00:00

I read from a book about body language is that laughter can be a form of submission and nervousness.

For example, in the movies, when some white collar straight is about to get killed by the mobsters, he's always nervously laughing.

We laugh when we are confused. We laugh when we don't know what to do. We laugh when we are not in control

Obviously this is not the only reason people laugh, but it's one you should be aware of.

Seductking · 2011-04-15T03:09:23+00:00

Don't laugh in order to make her laugh.

Don't laugh unconsciously, or consciously, to break tension. If you tell a joke and it falls flat, don't start to laugh in an attempt to get her to laugh. Although laughter is "contagious", it will just make you look weak and insecure.

cbraga · 2011-04-15T04:11:22+00:00

David Deangelo says exactly that. And that making other people laugh while not laughing yourself is an extremely dominant behaviour.

2011-04-15T00:27:12+00:00

always smile though :)

RcskaSedd · 2011-04-15T01:43:54+00:00

I think their are appropriate times to laugh. I didn't explain this on my previous comment about how laughing makes you more attractive. I tried doing poker faces to women (usually because i forget to smile.) they don't really give me IOIs. maybe not laughing when HB is trying to be funny you should go poker face on her. (I'm going to test this) Usually i laugh at my own jokes, I've notice women stair me down like they want a piece of me. If you check my comments from a previous thread, i talked about how laughing helps you. so you should check that out.

Another thing if you make a girl laugh (don't entertain her, entertain yourself) a lot on the first date, she is most likely to go on a second date with you.

edit, I totally agree with Vurv. It also depends on your personality and the HB.

DesignMyself · 2011-04-15T06:33:55+00:00

I know I laugh a lil' too much. I think having a big free laugh at truly funny things is great. Laughing at her is good too. Small nervous laughs in reaction to almost everything doesn't seem to help.

vylasaven · 2011-04-15T15:28:42+00:00

I think the key here is that if one person is making other people laugh, that person has power, is at the center of attention, and is essentially playing the people around him like an instrument. And that kind of social status is pretty damned powerful, particularly when that person appears to be in complete control of the situation without even trying.

HyeR · 2011-04-15T16:49:59+00:00

Yea I think OP is right on one level. I was with this girl the other day and I said something sarcastic or made some joke and immediately after I laughed to make sure she knew it was a joke, she scrunched her face up and seemed to not like it.

sockthepuppetry · 2011-04-15T19:40:04+00:00

Laughter at someone else's joke when it's not that funny = LIKE ME LIKE ME LIKE ME.

I used to be the biggest submissive laugher. Now, I let be.

FLPUA · 2011-04-17T07:15:36+00:00

I can't help it. I'm just too fucking funny.

Dojavido · 2011-04-14T21:36:01+00:00

Thanks, I like this and have thought about it before; I think it makes women think you're immature if you laugh too much.

seydar · 2011-04-15T03:02:06+00:00

A guy who is funny is making the jokes. If he laughs then he is laughing at his own joke.

Title	Don't Laugh
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Upvotes	33
Comments	34
Date	April 14, 2011 9:06 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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