Embarrassing harsh rejections, post yours.

pick_up_penguin · 2013-07-29T05:46:38+00:00

I think the best way to go about this is turn it into a game with your friends/wingman.

Find out who gets the best rejection of the night and the next time you're out, everyone has to pitch in for the "winners" lunch or drinks.

Clever_Bot_replies · 2013-07-29T07:54:02+00:00

I have a dating profile. One of the images of me was taken at a driving range. A girl from several states away looked at it one day, so I looked at her profile out of curiosity. I noticed that she was sitting down in all of her pictures. In the final image I realized she was in a wheelchair. "Oh, now it makes sense!" I thought. Still, she lived too far away for me to have any real interest in.

A few days later I get this message from her:

Sorry pal, I'm not interested. I don't golf. Get over it.

TL;DR: A girl in a wheelchair preemptively rejected me from several states away because she doesn't like golf.

drsatan1 · 2013-07-29T08:26:59+00:00

I actually knew the girl, it kinda went like this.

"Hey aren't you XXX? We were in BXXX high school together."

"..."

"Wasn't your dad a teacher? Mr. XXXX?"

"..."

"Can I use your lighter?"

[She hands me her lighter. I light my smoke with it.]

"Thanks!"

"..."

It was really cold actually. Shows you rejection serves more of a purpose to the one chasing than to the one being chased.

Heizenbrg · 2013-07-29T04:26:47+00:00

I was told straight up that I was "ugly as fuck". Everybody else heard and that got me extremely humiliated. That was back in middle school, but perhaps that could be one of the countless causes of my mental issues.

MotionSL · 2013-07-29T10:34:33+00:00

saw a girl in the crowd of a small show, she was stunning. We made eye contact several times, so I planned to talk to her before the night ended. She was talking with her friends so I decided it's best to leave. I waited and she went to restroom, as she was coming back I saw her and said "What is your name?" She said (I forgot let's say Kristen)Kristen. me: "Sorry, as soon as I saw your face I had to get your name" K: It's ok, you're fine tapped shoulder and walks away

hearnow · 2013-07-29T10:13:02+00:00

A girl asked me, "Are you fucking autistic or something?"

otherworlds · 2013-07-29T10:40:05+00:00

Was at the bar, saw a girl who I thought was alone, went up to her and politely introduced myself and asked if I could buy her a drink. Immediately a pack of wild fat girls appears (her friends) and the leader turns around and goes "are you serious right now? Is this a dare or something?" The girl I was talking to just politely giggled. They all then walked away.

gozags4 · 2013-07-29T04:45:53+00:00

next time, tell her she was a lot cuter until she opened her mouth.

ArmoredAvenger · 2013-07-29T04:10:44+00:00

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Checkerszero · 2013-07-29T05:15:47+00:00

This wasn't so much a rejection, but more a backfire.

I'm at this party, and it's lacking girls I'd personally hook in with, but there's 2 I'd consider. I take interest in the hotter one (let's call her M) by facepainting her (it was a UV light/rave type houseparty with glow in the dark paint etc, woo introductory kino!) and her tubbier friend (let's call her T) is making it so abundantly clear she wants me, forcing it by "playfully" poking me with a paintbrush, over the top laughing, to the point where it's off-putting. I ignore T because I legitimately believe I can pull M, and my very inexperienced mate, who thinks he's a wiz because he's read Vin Di Carlo's Pandora's box (which is only worth a skim at best), has enough pride to go "I'll hook in with M if you hook in with T" and unfortunately I complied, being drunk enough at that point and wanting him to actually get some, and he has too much ego to go for T (she didn't look that bad, being honest just by looks both girls were above him, where as if I were dating the friend, T, I'd be labelled as "dating down"), so already he's trying for the big fish from square one.

He directly asks M coming from complete scarcity, making it out that just because she saw me and T making out, she's obliged, like it's some kind of deal they're making. He doesn't kino, he doesn't flirt, just plays a nice guy, eugh. She, of-course, backs away, so I pick her up and put her back in front of my mate, he can't think of what to say and backs out himself. Uses me as leverage and I gracefully step aside, and assist, and he just gives up. She wasn't freaking out either, he's just a sucker that can't push it to the limit.

I got more than he did I guess but that mate just infuriates me. He texted T the morning after apologizing profusely, but it doesn't end there. He works with M, and told them both that he only "pretended to try" to kiss her because I wanted to get in with T. So now, I look like this guy that needed his help, when he was the pussy that couldn't pull or save face for shit, so I guess I seem lower to them than him now, even though, until his plan, I was owning it. I can let them both assume his little story, because I'm not that attached to my image, but for fuck's sake he sure knows how to let down everybody. Never winging with him again.

2013-07-29T11:36:38+00:00

I saw a black girl in a snow white costume, I approached and said "Listen sorry but isn't snow white supposed to be... white?" and she stormed off.

I found it funny :/

2013-07-29T13:14:09+00:00

So...this got removed? Why? Or is this meta rejection?

VMikeL · 2013-07-29T04:12:31+00:00

She should have ordered cranberry juice.

shitsfuckedupalot · 2013-07-29T18:19:37+00:00

I've been told on a certain guy rating app that my face takes getting used to.

HolographicMetapod · 2013-07-29T06:00:57+00:00

I met this cute Asian girl at a club. She was on the dance floor, but looked super uncomfortable. I approached her and eventually got a good conversation going. She told me she was a tourist who was in town for the next couple weeks and gave me her number. Score... right?

Wrong. She invited me back to her hotel... only to tell me that we had to stay outside and play cards since her family was still inside the room.

I confronted her about everything. I asked her why she told me I was cute, why she gave me her number, why she let me take her out a couple times, and why she was so apprehensive about kissing me... and she simply quipped, "What, is my personality not good enough for you?!"

She went home, I found a hotter girl, the end.

2013-07-29T10:34:49+00:00

If she literally said fuck off I would have said, "Oh, so you like to fuck off the bed? Me too, hit me up sometime!" and winked at her. Then walked away.

Title	Embarrassing harsh rejections, post yours.
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Upvotes	48
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Date	July 29, 2013 3:41 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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