If you want the best girls, if you want interesting, funny, attractive girls, stop focusing on doing things to get the girl and start focusing on building a life that they want to be a part of. This goes for all people, not just women. If someone else see’s you are living it up, smiling, happy, and inspirational, they are no doubt going to envy you. No girl will envy a job, or your money, or your clothes. What she will envy is HOW YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE (don’t get me wrong, money/job can impact this greatly, but they are a means to an end - a happy, safe, comfortable, exciting life). And when a women envies a man’s life that means he has happiness to give her she doesn’t already have, which means there’s going to be attraction for the most part. Lots of it. I got laid all the time before I found my girlfriend and all it took was being genuinely interested in people, being a happy person, and having your own passions you care about and follow regardless of the woman in your life. (Also the confidence to be sexual when appropriate) When approaching women, ask yourself, "How am I going to add value to this person’s life?" Why would she want to be part of my life? How am I different from the last guy? If you don’t have REALLY good answers to these questions put your head down and start building a more attractive life. You will be happier in the end anyway.