Anyone here in their 30s or 40s?

Sufficient_Wear1786 · 2024-03-18T08:52:22+00:00

I don't limit my range. But lately chicks I've gone out with have been around 10yrs younger.

Older than me tend to argue more which is a turn off.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-03-18T11:58:19+00:00

37

I would not date most women my own age because there is no self accountability among many older millennial women. Everything is Chad's fault despite her choosing him, and I had enough of taking the backlash, everything from them is a test and a good dynamic is more than just passing tests.

I've been having a much better time dating 10 years younger or more. Alot of the younger women do not want to end up 30+ and not having a man and unlike women my age they are fully aware of the social programming and gradually accepting that masculinity is the opposite of toxic.

Annual_Asparagus_157 · 2024-03-18T06:16:39+00:00

Really depends on your goals.

If you ultimately want to end up in a relationship, I’d stick to the age of 27 or younger. Most women tend to have a biological clock, meaning that if you end up in a relationship, your gf probably would want to have kids around or before age 31-32. You’d at least have a couple years to figure out if it would work or not.

If you just want to hook up, it really doesn’t matter.

boom-wham-slam · 2024-03-18T13:04:33+00:00

I go for the innocent homebody type for dating age 18 to 22. And I go for anyone that looks hot for hookups... but I actually prefer models, adult actresses and strippers for fwbs. So any chance I have to meet those girls I definitely go for it.

Definitely Madonna/whore complex lol.

purana · 2024-03-18T14:04:43+00:00

43 and date women in their early to mid-20s. I really want more kids so I'm looking younger. My last three girlfriends have been gen z.

Chicagoj1563 · 2024-03-18T14:59:59+00:00

There are guys in their 50s pulling young 20 somethings in case you were wondering. They are out there, but their game is rock solid as well.

SilverSight · 2024-03-18T19:51:35+00:00

I like women similar aged to me. Dated a girl 10 years younger and there’s a disconnect there that I just don’t like. Often girls that are younger haven’t solidified their personalities yet and I’m not a dad or babysitter.

ChicoBrillo · 2024-03-18T14:07:31+00:00

33, youngest I'll go is like 25. Any younger and I feel like I'm chaperoning a teenager. I also taught highschool for a bit so dating young gives me major ick.

I love being older, don't miss my 20s at all. My game has changed so much now too. I feel like I've become such a minimalist, I really don't try that hard or even speak that much.

Also I don't feel a need to go out a lot or drink a lot. It's been great

I_talk · 2024-03-18T16:47:02+00:00

Yep. Close to 40 now. 18 is the bottom age, 30 is the top but I try to stay in the lower middle of that.

AnAIAteMyBaby · 2024-03-18T21:07:48+00:00

I'm in my late 40s, I still can't get my head around why but women in their 20s still like me a lot. Mainly date women in their 20s.

potatoeswithfries · 2024-03-18T09:37:04+00:00

I'm 37. I used to approach almost anyone, as long as they're good looking I'd go for it, but I haven't cold approached in a while, because I have two girlfriends and one FWB-type of thing going on now, so I don't really need to (at least that's my excuse lmao). Biggest age difference I have experience with: 14 years, but I don't limit myself much nowadays, a consenting adult is a consenting adult and there's no point in overthinking this. With that said, I'll admit I always felt some hesitation before approaching girls that looked "too young", whatever that means, even though experience taught me that 1) she might look 17, but actually be 23, and 2) even if she's actually a teenager, nothing bad happens when I approach her, I can then just wish her a nice day and leave.

midnight_toker22 · 2024-03-18T15:15:59+00:00

I’m in my 30’s. Happily married, so not doing approaches or looking for advice anymore. Occasionally I’ll chime in with some of my own advice or perspectives, just doing what I can to help out young guys still in the game.

JustNefariousness625 · 2024-03-18T09:32:51+00:00

Early 30s and I hit all 3 just to keep my experiences relevant. That’s younger my 24 yo girl. The same age girl and my older one who’s 40. Surprisingly or maybe unsurprisingly the 40 year old is the least problematic her kids are grown and she just wants to have fun at this point. I wouldn’t personally go below 24 or over 60 but you never know lol

Known-Damage-7879 · 2024-03-18T22:58:55+00:00

Im 32. I’m not into casual dating and just went on a fourth date with a woman. I’m more interested in a long term relationship. I don’t think age itself helped me any, but I think I’m a much better partner now and have gained a lot of skill in dating and talking to women.

The biggest thing I’ve learned is to be much more present now. If I like a woman than I will text her a lot instead of playing it cool. I used to follow the advice to only use texting to set up dates but I don’t think most women like that. It comes off as uninterested, and women like a guy who is into them and pursues them a lot.

beowulf47 · 2024-03-19T03:33:06+00:00

Mid 30s. Recently dated a 21 year old from my gym. 24/25-26 seems be the range I most end up with. Don’t really date older than 28 (one 32 year old in the past 4 years IIRC)

S0GGYS4L4DS · 2024-03-19T05:39:45+00:00

ShowerMotor · 2024-03-19T07:55:02+00:00

what does it matter? to each its own. To me having that connection intellectually is key, so I don't date very young women. But I also dont find women my age attractive, so I go around 6-7 years younger on average, that is to me the sweet spot.

Grand-Violinist-8073 · 2024-03-19T09:08:19+00:00

42 here. Single for 5 months. Been out with 7 different women, hooked up with 5. Currently seeing 3 women. Been in the “talking” stage with around 10 lol. All of those were from dating apps that never panned out to actually meeting up. Age range has been from 26 to 45. Life’s been good :)

MentalCelOmega · 2024-03-19T19:03:29+00:00

I'm in my 30s. My experience with dating is nonexistent. I do not approach as I know better.

GluteusMaximus1905 · 2024-03-20T16:54:15+00:00

old guy copium galore in here lmfao

no idea where y'all find these hot, young 20s women ready to date 40+ year olds. I'm a college guy with a broad social network, literally noone I know or dated has ever expressed interest in dating anyone above the age of 30. Research also shows most women date older, but within their age range.

buncha bullshit in here

2legit2quit0071 · 2024-03-18T06:19:25+00:00

yes. my experience is non existent at this point. i am 36. i approach 0 women and thus, my ego remains in tact on some level.

SalesAficionado · 2024-03-18T18:24:37+00:00

I’m in my 30s. I only date Latinas. And not Latinas who grew up in the US. I’m talking Latinas who grew up in Latin America. My girlfriend now grew up there.

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-18T18:58:15+00:00

I'm 42, married, don't approach other than for innocent flirting. I find mostly women in their mid 20s who are very obvious about checking me out.

PhatAssBlaster4000 · 2024-03-18T23:02:34+00:00

Gimme your credit card info

ROBYoutube · 2024-03-18T06:19:17+00:00

Personally everything in my life is already set up. The way I live life normally means new people always enter my life so I don't need to approach women. I just ask some of the women out if I vibe with them and am dating.

That age range limit is a very weird question. If you're in your 30s and 40s and you don't know what's appropriate for you, oh dear.

Basically, the hard part is done. This is the time in life where you reap what you have sewn. Hope you did a lot of rad and forward thinking shit in your 20s.

Title	Anyone here in their 30s or 40s?
Author	949orange
Upvotes	43
Comments	53
Date	March 18, 2024 6:02 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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