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What to do when she asks "Are you hitting on me?"

Tenmagnet

April 11, 2018

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Title	What to do when she asks "Are you hitting on me?"
Author	Tenmagnet
Upvotes	26
Comments	24
Date	April 11, 2018 1:34 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8bh3cn/what_to_do_when_she_asks_are_you_hitting_on_me/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/what-to-do-when-she-asks-are-you-hitting-on-me.1444655 https://theredarchive.com/post/1444655

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I actually don't like this answer at all, 'only if it's working'

Basically tells her yes but in a soft I'm scared to actually admit way.

Im with the train of thought, every girl knows why you approached them, so a girl asking you if you're hitting on her, is really just stating the obvious.

Better answers are...

Yes, but I'm not so sure about you yet

No, let's just stay friends and go from there

No, I'm not ready for a relationship thanks, you're not one of these clingy girls are you?

Yes, but be forewarned I'm in already in a polygamous marriage

Im not saying this is the best approach, I tailor it to my game which is more funny, keep it light type of game. All these answers are funny, keep it light, and keep her from thinking she's the catch and not me

Always go in knowing you're the catch

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Well I have a question for a fairly similar situation. I was trying to find a way to break the ice with this 10 and well I found that last year she broke up with her bf of 5 years. Anyways fast forward to a few months ago and well she asked me what area I lived in... moved in the area (yes I m a idiot for not asking her out but as I mentioned once to you, I m mostly working in me I.e. losing weight mostly and getting back in to the game) and in Feb she told me some dude asked her out, so i kinda ignored her for a bit and today I went by to see her, cuz we work together. She asked me if Sunday I had time to go visit a new condo in the area and I basically said no...I m not dating her or sleeping with her... so I I wont bend over for over for her so I went by today to see her to discuss this apt she visited. And she showed me pics she took.... and well she went one pic too far and it was a full nude of her... so obviously i teased her saying she was yummy and that usually girls take me out for dinner first (i was so amazed by the pic i didnt know what to say) teased her some more then her boss walked in so I went to my desk and said on fb, please next time take me for dinner first! And she said yeah dumplings! So i replied dumplings next Friday it is! She hasn't read it or answered it.... and I dont know if I went too far or if I should say anything else.... we work at the same company but not together so I can go weeks without seeing her... let me know what u think I should do from here on to take her out and build something organic with her... that could lead to LTR

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