Women will scream from the top of their lungs about their varied tastes in men and how their man is naive and innocent, and doesn't even have Instagram.

Some even say their boyfriend is "average guy". Average guy? Really??? Give him makeup and outfit and proper lightening and camera angles, and he can play a role in Hollywood lol!

A bunch of my female friends told me several things about their boyfriends:

a) He rarely goes out and plays games on the computer.

b) He doesn't even have Instagram.

c) He deleted dating apps when we found each other.

But crazy enough, she says, "My boyfriend has many friends, he's the life of the party when he chooses to go out, he's socially good."

They went on a group "Are we dating the same guy?" It was crazy; they were sharing their boyfriend with other women.

What's even more crazy: the guys who have maximum success on dating apps are all married guys. Who else is able to come down to date with an ironed shirt, and perfectly calm with no sign of desperation? Yes, a married man!

Dressing sense came to that guy because his wife manages his wardrobe; she's the one who tells him which matching socks to wear.

Lots of women I went out with from OLD accused me of being married after a few first dates. I kept guessing why that might be happening until I got drunk with my female friends who started telling me that whatever guy they find from dating apps, they later find out he's married after being attached.

Women's taste does not vary widely as they claim. It's the same 6-8 guys who dominate the whole college.

The same is true for parties; there are a handful of men who attend most parties, and women who hang out with them think they are the "exclusive" girlfriend.

After she gets attached to him by sleeping with him dozens of times, she realizes the guy is married and starts thinking "all men are like this."

Among all your matches (for women):

50% will be married (reverse lookup them on Google, you'll find it)

40% committed (but not married) to a woman they know since highschool or college

10% single but having psychological issue which makes them unstable for relationship.

There's a subreddit dedicated to r/theotherwoman

Nerds need to comeup with a community service which photo matches a man and puts the inquirer (woman) in contact with other women who are sharing the same man.

When nerds make this service, two things will happen

a) women realize the man they are dating is a cheater and fraud

b) she continues seeing him and rationalizes it as love

But eitherway, I think onus is on the men to show women and out these men who lie to many women. It's important they get caught. They are the ones because of who the trust in men is eroding very fast.

Vast majority of men are not tricking/fooling women, it's the minority who play women like cards.