Is daygame/cold approach the best use of your time?

Mysterious_Pickle_78 · 2024-05-18T04:42:19+00:00

doomscrolling on insta, chatting with friend groups on insta, watching some TV series

or

walking in outside air, refining your socializing skills.

You need to make a choice.

bannedcanceled · 2024-05-18T02:03:12+00:00

Going to the gym and working is the best use of your time. The chicks will come

TripleDigitNomad · 2024-05-18T10:37:28+00:00

Unpopular opinion: the best uses of your time are maximizing your attractiveness by hitting the gym and optimizing your online profiles (IG & OLD) so that you get new dating options passively.

Daygame is great, but being able to connect with multiple women from the comfort of your couch is even better.

dobbs1997 · 2024-05-18T05:30:57+00:00

Meeting women face to face anywhere out in the world is a perfectly fine use of my time, but it may be because I view it differently than you do..you view it as a means to an end..for years i’ve viewed it openly meaning I see that activity as something that helps me evolve in many ways & not just landing me dates and sex, that’s comes with it but it’s just a love of the game that keeps me out there hollering at these broads…No statistics needed, just do the shit and enjoy the process.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-05-18T03:29:44+00:00

I don't go out with the intention of hitting on women. My life is too busy.

When I do approach women, it's normally how you described it. It'll happen when I'm out and about and running errands, or I meet someone in the poly/kink community and it'll happen organically.

No-Preference8767 · 2024-05-18T04:03:06+00:00

If you sleep with half your dates ( assuming your goal is to have sex ) then a 2.5% closing ratio is pretty normal.

You have to remember that's only 40 girls. It can take 8 hours to talk to 40 girls but you can find better spots and take less time the more you do it. You'll also find more optimal spots and get better at filtering out people who aren't interested the more you do it

epimpstyle · 2024-05-18T11:52:19+00:00

Success means going on a date

I thought success meant taking them to the hotel or to my place.

phone/IG don't mean anything

If you spend maybe 30 minutes - 1 hour with her, her phone/IG means to set up a date. If you just ask for her phone number after 2-3 minutes of conversation, of course, it is nothing and I can estimate that the flake rate is over 90%.

5% is just too low of a return for me

Getting 6 numbers out of 49 in the lottery is 1 chance out of 13,983,816 possibilities, and people still play hoping to win. The 5% chance is gold! Approach only 3-4 girls a day and by the end of the month you will have at least 5 girls, but this means spam approach.

The method I always suggest is to talk to a girl for a longer time, because if she laughs, feels comfortable with you, there is no reason for her not to want to meet you again - you compensate your average looks with a funny/interesting/cool personality. This way you are not talking about a 5% success rate, but actually about 30-40%.

AnAIAteMyBaby · 2024-05-18T09:41:47+00:00

5% is a decent success rate, that's 1 in 20 approaches. You can easily do 20 approaches in a few hours (a good percentage of those approaches are super quick as the girl won't even stop or will leave straight away etc).

If you live in a high traffic area like a city you can easily see 20 very attractive women in an afternoon session. A few hours investment to get a date with a very attractive woman is a good use of your time.

tacoman0077 · 2024-05-18T15:36:41+00:00

Yes 100%

Dry_Manufacturer3846 · 2024-05-18T18:56:42+00:00

Day game doesn’t necessarily mean take 3 to 4 hours of your day to go out and approach women. You can go about your day and still approach girls. That’s still day game for me.

InsaneCar · 2024-05-18T06:01:56+00:00

It depends on your objectives and where you're at in life. It's like saying going to the gym 6 days a week is a waste of time. Do you need it, not necessarily, are there benefits to doing it, yes. It depends on your situation and objectives.

Chicagoj1563 · 2024-05-18T15:40:30+00:00

Daygame should be extra sets. It should be a skill you want to develop because there will be times in your life you see a hot girl walking by and you want to have skill to do the approach. But, to depend on nothing but daygame is not probably a good use of your time. Think of the skill more than the results.

Add night game to the mix so you are amping up the number of people and women you are meeting. Same thing, think of the skill to attract/seduce more than the results. Results still matter. But, it can't be the only reason you are doing this.

Also, you can really amp up your numbers in night game and improve your skills since it includes groups of people. Also think about the rewards to have a full social life by doing this. Game is fun. It's not just about an end result. If you are only results oriented, then you are probably doing game the wrong way.

Then think about making connections with people and building a social circle as you go out and meet people. You will see the same people in night game, connect with people though social media, etc... Mix it all together to improve yourself and have an active social life. You won't have any problems dating attractive women if you live the lifestyle and continue to improve.

Don't think of daygame in a vacuum. And if all you want to do is get the girl, you probably won't last. There is too much time invested in doing it for that outcome. You should learn to love the process and see the rewards of building social skills, meeting new people, and trying to attract women on the regular.

trifling-pickle · 2024-05-18T19:25:55+00:00

Just go about your day as normal and hit on girls when you see them. Doesn’t have to be a chore.

ROBYoutube · 2024-05-18T02:26:13+00:00

No. It's a fucking terrible use of time. You are training yourself to not feel embarrassed when you transgress social norms and ignore the feelings of women. Those are really, really, really fucking bad habits to learn.

spacemangoes · 2024-05-18T11:11:07+00:00

5% success rate puts you in the top tier if you ask any old day gamers. You can easily push it to 10% with some practice. But, if whatever you are doing is working for you now, I would say no need to change it. Use Your time to do something else soldier

Title	Is daygame/cold approach the best use of your time?
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Date	May 18, 2024 1:20 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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