Men are simpler to please than women, BUT...

wtknight · 2024-06-06T23:39:42+00:00

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HomeworkFew2187 · 2024-06-06T21:55:23+00:00

depends on the man. You confuse desperation + loneliness + lack of sexual control. To be easier to please. When simply most average men offer little, expect much but don't want to be alone or do self reflection.

Gravel_Roads · 2024-06-06T22:21:52+00:00

Men are not easy to please. It’s this kind of thinking that results in men being willing to accept “a relationship, ANY relationship”, because they THINK as long as their “balls are empty and stomach full”, they could interchangeably take literally any woman and be married happily to her for life.

In reality, men have just as many complicated needs and desires as women. Just look at half the posts on this sub, hamstering endlessly about things they’re AFRAID of happening, like the woman’s previous partner being better than him, or a woman not wanting sex as eagerly as she did with a partner. They complain about the way women dress and talk and how much make up they prefer women to wear. They don’t like the topics women talk about, what women do with their free time, and they have STRONG opinions about not having to be entertaining or fun to “please” their partners unless they can get sex for it.

If a woman dedicated her life to “pleasing men”, she would wear herself ragged and fail, because men would both want her to have sex with as many of them as possible, while also not having sex with anyone other than them, individually.

The only relationships where both the man AND the woman are actually happy are when both members of that relationship like each other as people, treat each other well and support one another’s hobbies and visions.

Those couples do exist! But the people online complaining about how unfair it is that they have to have “personality” and “be good company” to get sex are not the men having them. (There are femcel equivalents, as well, who are so unpleasant that men don’t want them either.)

AcephalicDude · 2024-06-06T21:56:06+00:00

I feel like this is very vague. What exactly are we talking about here?

LaPrimaVera · 2024-06-06T22:28:53+00:00

men are far easier

I mean if you take the average probably, only really because the average man doesn't have standards or self respect anymore.

women still don't seem to get it right often

If she isn't pleasing you she isn't into you. Women will go to the ends of the earth for a man they deem worthy. She's not doing this, next her and find someone else. Can't find someone else, make yourself better until you can.

Sharp_Engineering379 · 2024-06-06T22:03:03+00:00

3 is the closest, since adults are expected to cooperate and share the burden of running a home and raising a family. Adults should also expect something close to equality in bed.

Most men believe in the myth of The Magic Basket. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SqQgDwA0BNU

It's hard to maintain respect and attraction for such helpless and selfish creatures.

I'm not looking to start a flame war or anything disrespectful

You should expect in-kind responses.

apresonly · 2024-06-06T21:57:39+00:00

men are hard to please as they prefer variety to monogamy so out of the gate they are unhappy being in a relationship at all.

januaryphilosopher · 2024-06-06T21:53:43+00:00

If it's hard to get right, it's likely that it's harder than you think. Most people think that they're really straightforward, but that's often not the case in reality.

HTML_Novice · 2024-06-06T21:54:26+00:00

Women don’t need to care about what men want, because men line out the door no matter what.

Men however do need to know and care what women want because otherwise they won’t get a girl into them long enough to have sex at all.

So it’s a combo of not caring enough to figure out what he wants, and not caring enough to try because he’s easily replicable

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EulenWatcher · 2024-06-06T22:44:14+00:00

It largely depends on a couple.

Sure, some women are just bad partners. Full stop. They either don't love their boyfriends/husbands or they're bad company altogether, but they're hard to be around and there's nothing to do around it.

Some women don't really know their partners and that's not really gendered. We often express our love in a way we want to be loved and it takes some self-reflection and good communication to try to communicate your love in a way preferable to your partner.

Some women's needs haven't been met for a long time. They might be good partners in the past, but they've grown tired from giving and not getting what they want in return, so they stopped caring.

Some women are way too neurotic and they don't know how to deal with besides just nagging everyone around them for a good reason or not. That's a question of mental health and learning to let go.

Some men just want to be left in piece, but they don't do their part of the deal. Them lacking makes it hard for a whole unit/family and women either have to constantly nag them to do their part or they have to do everything on their own and neither option leads to successful relationships.

doggiedoc2004 · 2024-06-06T23:03:18+00:00

Can we universally agree to that? I do not agree with that statement. There are very very few absolutes in life.

And yes, most relationships, except between parent and child and other direct familial relationships have an element of tit for tat.

berichorbeburied · 2024-06-06T22:13:05+00:00

2. 3. Combined.

Consider this.

Women want men taller than them OR the sane height generally.

The implications of this apply to all other similiar phenomenon.

A woman who wants a taller man needs a man who wants a shorter woman.

A woman who wants a tall man won’t be able to be with a man who wants a taller woman.

The implication is a woman wants a man better than her or the same as her.

So for that to work she needs a man who want a woman beneath/worse than him or the same as him.

This explains practically everything.

Why women have a lot of checklists that amount to everything.

While men’s are few.

Why women date across and up

And men date across and down.

Etc etc.

So the reason it’s simpler for men essentially is they are mostly dating down.

When you date down you are already accepting flaws as a premise. Because it’s beneath you already.

When you date up you are already pursuing perfection as a premise. Because you want someone better than you.

This correlates with your post of why your asking why women are more complicated or harder to please than men

FirmQuarter6623 · 2024-06-06T22:54:08+00:00

Today society doesn't have any standarts for women, so we back to stone age exchange - pussy for goods, except, back then, men had their ways dealing with non-cooperative women.

A woman gets lazy when a man doesn't have any leverage in a relationship. She can do whatever she wants. Why would she care when she thinks she's a price and hold all the power? She climbs on the man's neck and rides the moron like a donkey.

Title	Men are simpler to please than women, BUT...
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Date	June 6, 2024 9:48 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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