My cold approach is very novice, but my date game is solid. I’m great at building rapport with a girl on a date, doing the push pull, making her attracted and escalating.
I matched with this girl on hinge and we went on a date. Super hot, looks like a model. I thought she was a catfish at first. First date goes well, we make out a lot but nothing crazy. She tells me “I usually try not to like a guy on the first date but I’m afraid I really like you.” She won’t let me leave until we schedule a second date.
Second date comes and goes well until we’re sitting in my car and she asks me when I’m going to be her boyfriend. I laugh thinking she’s joking. She’s serious. I tell her I’m not looking for a relationship right now bc I just got out of an LTR a few months ago. She then asks me if I’m going to be dating other girls. I tell her yes. She’s very upset by this and tells me that she would never do that to someone she likes bc she’s too loyal or whatever.
I’m a very friendly and nice guy. I’m not an asshole. I am good at flirting on dates and do some push / pull and make her qualify. But I’m afraid I’m being too nice.
How can I avoid this in the future? Is she just crazy, or am I doing something wrong?
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