To preface this...

I've been dating a girl on and off for over a year. We are great together. But I know we'll never be a long term thing as we're from different socio-economic backgrounds. Having said that, we are extremely attracted to each other and having just as much sex as we started a year back.

However, lately we have began to indulge in Kinks and risque behaviour. This may turn some people off, and I thought it would myself. But it hasn't. What sort of concerns me is how much she seems to be enjoying it and whether other men in my situation would get annoyed, jealous or concerned about the behaviour.

In summary, lately we have been engaging in risky sex where we have the potential to be caught. Very risky. She has two male housemates currently, and we have had sex on the stairs of the house with the lights on (no locks are on the doors of the housemates so if they had of decided to leave the room, we would have been caught), in the garden at night with potential of being seen by neighbours (fully naked)

Recently, when we had a few drinks and we're in the mood, we were kissing and I suggested that I have sex with her in her room mates bed. Anyway, one thing led to another and it would involved a lot of sex on his bed, and dirty talk where I told her to dirty his sheets with her sex and not wash them(which she seemed very into in the moment we were doing it)

I'm not going to lie. This was extremely arousing doing something we weren't supposed to be doing. And seeing her break her own rules and be nasty.

Fast forward to last week, and her housemate is leaving the home at 7am, and we had sex with the door smudged open, where he could easily have peered through. I reminded her the door was open during sex, with her being fully naked on top of me, and she replied "I don't give a fuck"...it almost seemed like she wanted to get caught. Again, I found it very arousing and sexy

Part of me now thinks, if she's getting off so much of this kind of sex, and potentially wants to be seen during the act of having sex, how far would she take this when I'm not there? Would she expose herself "accidentally" around her house to this roommate for excitement. Is she turned on by her housemate.

She has two housemates and each time we've done the 'sex in another bee's she was suggesting the better looking housemate who was young (21) - she is mid thirties as am I.

In some ways I don't care, I'm just interested to hear other people's perspective....and yes, I know what we are doing is wrong and unhygienic, but i dont really care. We're having amazing sex with one another.