If you dont want to be accused of thinking with your dick, be more mindful of your actions/attitude.

leosandlattes · 2025-02-17T02:12:38+00:00

Why does the early sex thing even matter? I also like early sex, I would never continue dating a man who wanted to wait. It’s not about him “caring about me,” it’s about whether we’re sexually compatible or not.

Wanting to be in a relationship intrinsically involves thinking about what’s sexually attractive or not, and how to get the opposite sex to want you. I would never interact with a man I wanted to be in a relationship with the same way I interact with a male coworker or friend.

Who cares if some guy is thinking with his dick, why would I even “accuse” some random man of being romantically/sexually interested in someone lol. It’s probably true and I should care exactly 0% about what he’s doing with his time.

Nidken · 2025-02-17T05:01:38+00:00

This is dumb. Attraction isn't supposed to be logical, its almost exclusively a biological mechanism to help humans pick a mate.

If a women doesn't invest in a man without reason that man has every right to disqualify her. Sex or sexual interest is the biological investment that men are looking for to prove attraction.

If a man doesn't invest in a woman without reason, that women has every right to disqualify him. Commitment or providing resources is the biological investment women are looking for to prove attraction.

Women can disqualify men who don't invest in them basically immediately. Paying for the first date is "a mans job" for that exact reason. You should start making daily posts about that instead.

CaptainBrunch5 · 2025-02-17T14:54:32+00:00

Another easy downvote.

nightcall379 · 2025-02-17T01:55:49+00:00

If you dont want to be accused of thinking with your dick, be more mindful of your actions/attitude.

This is one of those situations where guys should also be mindful of how they’re presenting themselves. You have to show there’s more in your head than you trying to get some head.

Stop acting as if any of that will turn a woman off

Women couldn't care less if a man has these flaws if he's a high value man

Literally self admitted "pea doughs", and "grapists" get tens of thousands of women if they're high value men

Stop with these idealizing descriptions of the female nature, no one's buying your lies

missmireya · 2025-02-17T01:36:17+00:00

“I do want a relationship….but she has to fuck me immediately otherwise it shows she doesnt care!”

Lets be real- 80% of the men here on PPD wouldn't know what to do if that actually happened.

Clean-Luck6428 · 2025-02-17T03:06:07+00:00

I honestly think the women who make men wait for sex so she can know “it’s for real” are just as deluded and honestly probably deserve the men who worry about the other men who have gotten the 🐱 sooner than they did.

They both suck. You will never find someone you’re sexually compatible with if you put sex on a pedestal either by hyperfixating on it by seeing how readily available it is as a marker of your worth or how much you make someone abstain from it as a marker of your worth. Two sides of the same insecure ass coin.

Send these these fucks on a cruise ship to a deserted island together so they can resolve their neuroses with each other

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Kaminaxgurren · 2025-02-17T05:52:44+00:00

I'm a little confused, could you clarify what about this one you consider to be that sort of thinking?

> Firmly believing your loneliness and depression can just be fixed by a woman…youre in a sexual relationship.

John_Oakman · 2025-02-17T09:50:51+00:00

... and that's how "nice guys" with long term ulterior motives are created, and everyone knows they're the most despicable creatures on this subreddit.

Jiburonotsu · 2025-02-17T12:08:23+00:00

This is stupid. Just become hot enough to where women want to fuck you without effort. Your personality should be the dead last thing a woman truly grasps about you. And it should definitely happen AFTER you've fucked her.

Catch is, it only happens if you're hot. So be hot. Or just die tbh.

Boniface222 · 2025-02-17T02:10:15+00:00

The thing with me is I'm a very solitary person in general. Most of my interests don't involve people. I don't generally care about being with anyone or having friends.

I do have a small social circle but that's enough for me. I'm not looking to socialize more.

I have health, hobbies, education, status, money, but sex is missing. I don't need people to fulfil anything else in my life. Everything else is doing quite well.

I wouldn't say I hyper focus on sex, but it's the last piece of the puzzle missing so it does stand out more than the things I already have.

I don't even care that much about the sex act itself directly, but I'm definitely not about to go dating looking for platonic asexual relationships wtf lol.

But yeah, I'm a red-blooded male. I eat meat and I think with my dick. What of it? lol

Former_Range_1730 · 2025-02-17T04:37:58+00:00

"“I do want a relationship….but she has to fuck me immediately otherwise it shows she doesnt care!”"

There's a balance. If it's been weeks and all that's happened is Brenda using him for husband energy, time, and his money, while he's getting not much in return, when Wendy shows up and has sex with him in the first 3 days because she really, really likes him, he's dumping Brenda.

No-Rough-7390 · 2025-02-17T02:47:35+00:00

Immense sexual desire is a feature of the best LTRs. Your desperate attempts to split the two thread after thread, day after day, doesn’t change that.

Cultural-Ad-8486 · 2025-02-17T06:14:01+00:00

Generally, hyperfocusing on the sexual aspects of socializing to the point of straight up ignoring the platonic/nonsexual aspects.

A hyperfocus on the platonic aspects of socialization, to the point of straight up ignoring the sexual aspects.

Relationships are not only a platonic aspect but also a sexual one, and I don’t understand why you stubbornly ignore this every time. Are you really asexual?

Of course balance is important and sex on the first date is not for everyone, that’s normal. But if you're going to drive a guy into a deadbedroom before the relationship even begins then... Just don't. Please

Lopsided_Leave9427 · 2025-02-17T17:00:15+00:00

I don’t care what women think of me. In a perfect world, I’d never have to interact with them.

I know I’m a good man with strong character and principles. I know that no woman is.

Superannuated_punk · 2025-02-17T09:50:51+00:00

My dick ain’t so dumb. It got me through uni.

Title	If you dont want to be accused of thinking with your dick, be more mindful of your actions/attitude.
Author	LillthOfBabylon
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Comments	56
Date	February 17, 2025 1:22 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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