Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found out

seduction-ModTeam · 2025-05-04T08:57:59+00:00

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charlottechewie · 2025-05-02T02:24:09+00:00

Take them both out to dinner as friends as an apology. Having close girlfriends is a must.

FrogsAesthetics · 2025-05-02T02:30:48+00:00

Start a group chat with both of them in it and continue where you left off

Jironasaurus · 2025-05-02T02:50:54+00:00

Stop copying and pasting your texts.

ImpossibleBritches · 2025-05-02T02:24:55+00:00

Recover from what?

I mean, what exact injury has been incurred upon you?

DopeAFjknotreally · 2025-05-02T02:43:07+00:00

Propose a threesome

Jokes aside, just laugh it off. And maybe veer a little bit away from copy/paste texting

jamesfalken · 2025-05-02T03:20:02+00:00

Proceed as normal. I had this happened (banged one first) and then when they found out they were both talking to me I YOLO'd it and invited them both over and we ended up having a threesome.

Cornichonsale · 2025-05-02T02:56:17+00:00

Women ruminate a lot and they have hive mind mentality also.

Glacier_Sama · 2025-05-02T08:46:50+00:00

Just keep talking to them both like nothing happened and fuck them both

southparkslope · 2025-05-02T03:03:53+00:00

How are you feeling about it?

tajbinjohn · 2025-05-02T06:03:28+00:00

Be the 3rd friend

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-05-03T02:17:40+00:00

If they have a fun vibe, become friends with both. Don't worry about dating. If you've never had decent platonic female friendships you can be in for a real treat and learn a lot. I really miss the days of having a few female friends who would randomly call and we'd talk about each other's dates and it was good times. No kissing or sex, just actual friendships.

ArgentoVeta · 2025-05-03T03:43:44+00:00

Pray the Player’s Prayer

JackSquirts · 2025-05-03T03:52:42+00:00

Not give a fuck and continue to send them copy/pastes, but swap names, change minor things, and demand a double date with both of them.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2025-05-03T04:15:54+00:00

I did that once.

I did not recover, lol

DrQuincyStorch · 2025-05-02T18:00:43+00:00

If they're into you, they'll let you smash. It happened to me, with 3 girls in college. I first did it with one and treated her really nice, and the other two just naturally followed.

No-Wolverine7793 · 2025-05-02T03:14:51+00:00

Take them both out and test the waters

G0dZylla · 2025-05-02T07:22:24+00:00

the biggest error you made was not even textng 2 bestfriends but using COPY PASTE it's a terrible strategy, you text based on what you know of her , the only context where copy paste is decent is during cold approach brcause there it's about being automatic like shooting a basketball in a hoop you don't need feelings overriding you, you just need to be automaticul

Individual_Yard846 · 2025-05-02T09:20:13+00:00

just came here to 😂😭

Milmoney43 · 2025-05-02T23:01:14+00:00

Lol Who gives a fuck ? I used to do it all the time because I didn’t care what they thought

DeepHouseDJ007 · 2025-05-02T08:59:34+00:00

Wow you’re about as smooth as a kick in the teeth.

Puzzleheaded-Lab-165 · 2025-05-03T10:32:44+00:00

What is wrong with that? I am sure women have dated two men at the same time. The one who is upset tell her you were just trying to pick the best women.

Title	Started texting 2 girls who are best friends and they immediately found out
Author	Milmoney43
Upvotes	91
Comments	73
Date	May 2, 2025 2:14 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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