Are we really just here to serve women?

Never_Pretending · 2025-07-10T19:55:32+00:00

The pussy industrial complex is no joke my guy

Tough-Shape-3621 · 2025-07-10T22:04:43+00:00

It's an uncomfortable truth but men have been taught by other men that they are to serve women, protect women, kill each other and fight over women.

No_Treacle_1461 · 2025-07-10T20:34:40+00:00

I certainly don't. Never have and never will.

Imoldok · 2025-07-10T20:14:35+00:00

He who gives away his power invites his own chains.

WhyDidntITextBack · 2025-07-10T20:15:59+00:00

Until mfs stop thinking with their dicks.

Unfortunately there will always be desperate ones among us that will devalue us all

CommercialMarkett · 2025-07-10T19:57:45+00:00

It'll stop when men teach their kids better. Rewrite school curriculum

danielm316 · 2025-07-10T20:07:32+00:00

When fembots arrive, we will be able to have sex and get affection just because. That day, the human race will change.

Rancor_Keeper · 2025-07-10T19:25:09+00:00

Well…. They’ve started wars over women, so……

StopSnowflakes · 2025-07-10T19:27:34+00:00

You exist to serve rich men + women of all tax brackets

ButternutCheesesteak · 2025-07-10T20:57:30+00:00

Evolution designed it this way, and it was designed this way for procreation. In the natural world, this works. It doesn't work in a man made world. Well, it did when we held more traditional values that placed each gender where they were most appropriate, but now women have to have everything men have too.

The problem in the West is that women are gaining male privilege while also retaining female privilege. Feminism isn't about equal rights, it's about creating a matriarchy where women are above men.

Unfortunately the West (particularly the democrats) love this.

World-Three · 2025-07-11T00:12:27+00:00

Its a social issue. The crazy things you hear women say like "manifesting a man" might sound crazy, but that's what they're collectively doing every moment of every day.

It sounds impossible because it is. The "averages," 1% men, tall 6 figure earning young generous and strong. He's got to be a resolute man with a grounded unwavering opinion... But also a feminist. He's got to care deeply for and protect every woman... Until I'm dating him because he's mine now. He's got to work an amazing job all day for his wife and children to live a fantastic life... But he better be home enough to make me happy or I'm leaving him. He's got to be a strong fighter, but the only thing I ever want him to fight for is me and my children.

It's just like the entry level jobs you see that require enough experience to be a career. Or the gig jobs that don't expect you to stay but they constantly change your schedule so you don't have the time to leave.

The only reason it's gotten to men serving women is because they got away with it in the same way employers get away with yelling at people to work harder while paying a static wage. It made sense before because everyone was under the impression that we were all playing for keeps. Both families were involved with marriages because both sides wanted it to work.

You see the stuff that's on Onlyfans, some of that content were things that girls used to casually do on camera if she thought you were chill. All this ASMR girlfriend experience crap was also something men got free if they had a cool Lady friend and wanted to take advantage of unlimited night and weekend minutes.

We just showed the world that the majority of us could be brought to pay for basic and progressing social interactivity with women and still feel like it was real. We buy girlfriends but most of us aren't dumb enough to buy friends. "If I have to pay you to hang out, you don't really want to hang out. " But that methodology seems lost when concerning women.

Former_Range_1730 · 2025-07-11T04:17:18+00:00

"Why does it feel like the main purpose of us is getting women acceptedness?"

I only care to interact with women who like men. So I couldn't care less about the rest of them. Why in the world would I want acceptance from a 2XChromo type of woman?

And for me, it's not really about acceptance. I just like it when women find me attractive, and let me know with that smile. Feels good. What's so wrong with that? I like female attention. Well, particularly from the women I like.

Tumor_with_eyes · 2025-07-10T20:40:44+00:00

Men want to get laid. Have kids.

That’s basically why men do A LOT of what they do.

Expensive-Plantain86 · 2025-07-10T20:56:01+00:00

Women aggressively claim that they “bring forth life.” Oh yeah? Try doing that without sperm.

Iriltlirl · 2025-07-11T22:52:22+00:00

American pop culture pushes this agenda, but I've never subscribed to it, and will turn off such drivel in any and every form.

UbiquitousWobbegong · 2025-07-10T20:18:04+00:00

Because we are biologically programmed by evolution to seek each other out and procreate. Most women feel the exact same way about men they are attracted to. The only problem is that women tend to want men out of their league, who will sleep with them but won't settle down with them. And because of that reality, these women also are functionally out of the average man's league, leaving most men and women unsatisfied and unhappy.

It's the natural state of a system that has been disrupted. The idea that men shouldn't desire, chase, or sacrifice for women is very unnatural. Maybe it's the logical move when you can't find a woman who will return that affection and sacrifice, but that doesn't make it easy to rewire your brain.

MannerNo7000 · 2025-07-10T19:20:02+00:00

Yes and other men.

Expensive-Plantain86 · 2025-07-10T23:53:28+00:00

Nothing is true, everything is shit test.

Most men, the 99% average fellas, got tricked with very complex, decades-long propaganda to give up all their power. Most of that power was hard-earned and built through responsibilities. They were taught they were the bad people, from their homes to schools to academia to anywhere.

Men did the majority of the work throughout history, including the establishment of laws, justice, and peace, but were held accountable for all the bad things. It's actually ironic, feminists only think about "man" when they talk about human history. They are fundamentally belittling themselves and also want to cement this feeling into others. So that this will never end. They could even argue in the future that their minds are contaminated by men, so they can never fully understand what it means to be a "free woman," and they might suggest crazier solutions.

If what a significant amount of feminists said were true, they wouldn’t have been able to get a single improvement in equality ever. But now they can push beyond their imagination, new day new goal for women. If they ever felt a real urge to make an honorable journey toward establishing justice, it would be clearly recognized.

This intricate and decades-old instrument is beyond factual or moral. It's all about staying in motion. It also has a complex communication system, like mycelium, with the help of the internet. What you hear from a random woman on the street can quickly find itself in academia, and then the whole world hears it and gets shaped by the new rules.

I don't know any better solution for simps than a good, healthy environment and world. I’m disgusted by them like the people they simp for are, but they’re just numbers. Miserable numbers. Human and most importantly men's lives are still worthless. It’s just a bit more comfortable now. I really don’t know what we’re facing as the majority of men, so I don’t know the solution. I’m sorry for whoever reads this ramble. Thanks.

_bisexualwarlock · 2025-07-11T12:50:15+00:00

You might be, I certainly am not.

peasey360 · 2025-07-11T00:02:59+00:00

Lol the moment they had me circumcised (which is illegal to do to women) all bets were off. My free time is spent staring at fires and drinking. Expect no favors from me.

AngryMustard · 2025-07-10T21:43:27+00:00

You are here no more to serve women than to serve religion, the state, an ideology, the economy. It is all arbitrary and the pressure to serve any of these comes from external sources, which leads to the feeling of pressure internally. If these concepts of servitute were never forced upon you, would would never have got them.

Daytona_675 · 2025-07-10T21:55:07+00:00

the cum and joke mines of Mars

michaelpaoli · 2025-07-11T04:58:02+00:00

Are we really just here to serve women?

Nope, but you can certainly do / work on that if you want, even make it a primary objective if you so choose.

Why are men paying millions of dollars on simply their pictures on onlyfans?

Can do that if you want. I really couldn't care less - haven't done so much as a single penny to onlyfans.

When will this simping mindset cease?

I suppose that quite depends on those on/using such a mindset. I think I'll skip most or all of that, thank-you-very-much.

InsaneBasti · 2025-07-10T22:21:47+00:00

When we flip the sex switch. Women are just as horny if not more, but they control us by controlling sex while men never say no. Make em starve for it and theyll serve you (or run to the next free dick).

IAmTakingThoseApples · 2025-07-11T02:08:20+00:00

Why is this in my feed lol 🤣

Anyway NO. Please be your own person. No one wants you to exist purely to attain women's attention or achieve sexual gratification, yourself least of all. These men you are talking about are doing it voluntarily.

And Christ almighty if men are killing each other over women then it's up to you to have a word with them. Speak up. This is not great behaviour

Try to find something tangible to work towards whether it be career, hobbies, family or social work.

Don't let women become your obsession. If sex is your obsession, then deal with that separately

ParamedicExcellent15 · 2025-07-11T05:54:10+00:00

Of course, it’s nothing new. Read the manipulated man

mrmensplights · 2025-07-10T22:39:42+00:00

A whole lot of people here are making arguments that men just wanna get laid etc, but I don't see it that way.

Someone who just wants to get laid can just go pay a prostitute. That isn't why men are addicted to thot streams, chat services, and only fans. They are desperately seeking a meaningful connection, and they are willing to subsist on low calorie gruel than go without entirely.

Holiday_Twist8268 · 2025-07-11T09:55:54+00:00

This is how 99% of women think, unfortunately. What men need to do is to unite and stand up... Unfortunately, there are too many doormats who would kill their brothers if they got a single woman looking at them...

This mindset is dividing men, making it easier for women to act like gods and consider themselves divine. It's disgusting, and seeing men cater to women like this is depressing.

Men should focus on standing against oppression and misandry and fight for their rights, not bend backwards for women.

ConfidenceUsed9249 · 2025-07-11T04:03:28+00:00

Even in death I serve the Omnissiah

Redsands · 2025-07-11T15:40:32+00:00

Rule 1. Don't be a SIMP!

Rule 2. Never get married, marriage is a bad deal for men.

Rule 3. Get some hobbies, live your life and be happy. Make the family law system collapse, it is already corrupt, dishonest and anti-male anyway.

xxTheMagicBulleT · 2025-07-11T18:14:35+00:00

If women are here to serve men in the same way i dont mind.

But if its only one way. Hell no.

Anything your unwilling to give someone else you become unworthy off.

So if women serve men in a relationship. Then im not against service of a women.

But il tell right now im not gonna stand in a bus or train or all that for a women for the same reason.

When I had a broken leg and was with couches no one stood up for me so ever since then I don't give a fk I stand up for no one.

Again if respect and service does not go both ways it goes no way.

Dark_Djinn85 · 2025-07-11T20:19:49+00:00

Consumerism has pretty much destroyed any sense of purpose and replaced it with "pleasure". Most men are taught from a young age that in order to feel useful and take part in pleasure and happiness they have to serve a woman or struggle to maintain a family.

I say to hell with that. Create your own purpose and don't listen to politicians or gossipy 40 year old women who try to shame you into servitude. Happiness is following ones own path, not accepting silently society's to God conventions.

pmpdaddyio · 2025-07-11T20:21:52+00:00

I think it’s definitely a younger generational thing. I don’t see those 50+ year old men simping like you describe.

Fit-Commission-2626 · 2025-07-11T23:10:10+00:00

We have to stop obsessing over women and feminism and start facing the reality: the entire system is broken. That’s where the real problem lies—and if we don’t deal with it head-on, we’re just spinning our wheels.

Not trying to double-comment—sorry if this shows up twice. I just wanted to share something I’ve been thinking about, especially around male rights.

In a lot of these spaces, people get caught up in going hard against women. And sure, I get where some of that frustration comes from—I’ve done it too. But honestly, I think that kind of focus ends up hurting us more than it helps. It distracts from the real enemies out there—powerful people, rich manipulators—who are the ones actually doing harm. And let’s be real, a lot of those people aren’t just women. In fact, many of them are men.

Trump, Gates, Weinstein—they’ve all done serious damage to men in different ways. Gates funding circumcision programs across Africa, Weinstein promoting feminist messaging while assaulting women… it’s messed up. So yeah, some are women. But some of the worst are guys, and if we obsess over blaming women, we let others—especially these rich con artists—slip through untouched.

This isn’t about turning on men’s rights or saying the movement is wrong. It’s just about staying sharp. Genitals don’t determine guilt. At the end of the day, male or female—if they’re actively hurting men, they’re the enemy.

TheDunnaMan · 2025-07-12T04:18:21+00:00

unless its my mother, or women in my close fam im not fighting for any of these harlots

ronstoppable7 · 2025-07-12T18:06:44+00:00

I had a falling out with a decade-long friend who I could not say a bad thing about before he got married.

The moment he got married--to an out of shape insufferable woman, by the way, and yes, describing her is important--he lost all forms of objective partiality that he once wielded better than anyone I'd known.

He would stan his wife and all her bad actions NO MATTER WHAT. And whenever his wife misstepped, he truly believed she was right and the world was wrong, even after his sister cut him out of his life, his best friend cut him out of his life, his college friend cut him out, and eventually, I cut him out. His mom even HATED the girl.

The point I'm trying to make is: even though his wife was REALLY OUT OF SHAPE, she was still able to capture a once very reasonable man as basically her servant.

That is the state of men in a nutshell. There will ALWAYS be a man to step up and stan bad behavior from women even if the women aren't even hot. It's a reality that once you see, you will realize fairness and reasonability in our species is a lost cause.

1TiME96 · 2025-07-14T09:34:28+00:00

Years ago way before my time women were also expected to serve men but today it's just one sided in my opinion and it'll most likely take years of unwiring to break that cycle in men and the expectations women have of men as well. I don't live to serve women but I've regretfully simped a time or two I can't deny. It's up to ourselves to decide what we are here for, and it shouldn't be to serve women who don't appreciate anything. I know this much

Ok-Theme784 · 2025-07-15T08:00:34+00:00

Your mother primed you for it. Nature, if you will.

CanOutrageous7665 · 2025-07-15T21:04:34+00:00

Not to say these ain't a thing but I think the way you're looking at it is rather biased. Humans are social hierarchical beings, generally they tend to naturally desire to form some sort of familial group with other people they find worthy of it, in a hierarchical group everyone has some roles and responsibilities and when people form such groups, there comes competition into play, the responsibilities can be negotiated in different ways best fitting every individual from the group, but that doesn't mean you doing something for someone else is "serving" that person. Nobody even forces men to do ANYTHING for women, sure the social standards are a thing, but does anyone put a gun at your head and tells you to go serve women? I doubt it. Now that women can exploit and manipulate men through their weakness mainly regarding sex it's another story, but even then it's more so a consented trade than straight up slavery, if you consider any such trade unfair, simply don't accept it, it's that easy, it's a matter of willpower and knowing your priorities and having self-control. If a woman marries and has to cook and clean, does that mean she's serving her husband? No. It means she does her duties, which she DELIBERATELY consented to, she didn't get married without knowing his expectations and her duties to him, same thing with men paying for onlyfans, or protecting random women, or fighting other men over women, nobody forced any of them into it, you always have a choice: follow the herd or go your own way, but you should always be willing to face the consequences of your choices which YOU made, otherwise, you will come off as childish for blaming someone else for your own choices and weaknesses. I'm not particularly happy with many MANY things and expectations from society, but I chose going my way knowing there will be some price to pay because I found the reward of going my way bigger than the price to pay for it.

AnonymousJoe35 · 2025-07-17T04:07:01+00:00

And this is news to who?

Women have always been the more shallow and materialistic sex. Women tend to be less idealistic and more primitive in their outlooks on life.

Women look for resources first above all else, love doesn't really exist to them. Love is an abstract concept, women tend to take things on face value. Men die for and defend their beliefs and principles women don't have to.

Women follow the lead of men with resources. Looks don't even matter to women, you could be Jabba the Hut and still get pussy nonstop, it's all about the money son.

Get you money up and you can grab any woman by the pussy.

NCC-1701-1 · 2025-07-10T20:06:39+00:00

It is instinct, males of many species fight for breeding rights.

Heavy_Consequence441 · 2025-07-11T02:12:38+00:00

Never gonna serve a female

Any man who does is a pussy and has been emasculated

Not_Just_Any_Lurker · 2025-07-11T02:53:52+00:00

I serve humanity. Sometimes that means women. Other times that means men. But always will it be of those that deserve that devotion.

Snoo-60669 · 2025-07-10T23:23:21+00:00

When some men learn to have true compassion, they will not longer support woman on OF. When you see woman as your mother, sister, daughter, gf or wife it’s a lot harder to pay them to degrade themselves.

I don’t judge the people who enjoy this but since becoming a dad I can’t support these woman at all and end up just feeling bad for them.

CrossboneSkulled · 2025-07-11T00:04:13+00:00

Those filthy landlubber guys be so hot headed. Even those pirate movies are insanely romanticized. Fortunately, I as a sailor of the seven seas be not doin' this. The website ye mentioned is a sin, those guys on there are goin' straight t' th' inferno (unleash the fire). AAAAARRRRGGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!!!

Accomplished_Dirt722 · 2025-07-11T11:44:09+00:00

Men are indeed the cause of this situation. We place women on a piedestal. Totally our own fault. Most men are cowards, because we would do anything for pussy. There you go. We are slaves under our own biology.

Dagenslardom · 2025-07-10T20:52:16+00:00

Buy hookers. They serve you.

Expensive-Plantain86 · 2025-07-11T10:49:10+00:00

Use your brain

eXDax · 2025-07-12T00:08:23+00:00

Women give us children and we provide for them both. This is how it's been all of history. I'd say women give us sex but, in a healthy society, husbands and wives both enjoy sex mutually and even have more sex than unmarried people.

Social engineers among the elite have taken numerous steps to configure society to deprive us of our ability and opportunity to provide for a big family, let alone a wife and one child. It's also deprived us of our masculinity by giving women too much power and the opportunity to dominate us. Ultimately, we are conquered and our conquerors are the men at the top. Women are simply following their lead. These same men are responsible for the mass legalisation and propagation of porn everywhere. Porn is truly the cancer of today.

erik_reeds · 2025-07-10T22:02:59+00:00

everyone should serve others

ButchDeanCA · 2025-07-11T01:58:46+00:00

Women need us to serve them which is not the same as us being here to serve women. We are the ones who hold the physical strength and superior finances.

Feminism has taught women that men are here to serve which is not the reality. Everything that women have or can do was provided by men who allowed them to benefit.

Past-Tie2085 · 2025-07-11T01:41:57+00:00

When education at school removes a whole lot of leftist ideas and prepares all children with practical skills for life, work and living. Can you teach stoicism?

Independent_Quote626 · 2025-07-10T23:18:53+00:00

Men fight because they are angry. They pay for only fans content because they are perverts. Hope that helps

Expensive-Plantain86 · 2025-07-11T11:46:00+00:00

Why so many questions?

musicnote22 · 2025-07-11T03:50:21+00:00

I mean considering how many countries enslave women, how many women die in unbelievably violent forms by men, how they were always the lower gender throughout history I think you have a very distorted view of women and men.

Title	Are we really just here to serve women?
Author	LumpyAbbreviations24
Upvotes	439
Comments	191
Date	July 10, 2025 7:14 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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