TLDR: It’s fine to call out women, but don’t whine when the traits you’re calling out benefits them more. If you want to complain about women’s willingness to obey authority, unwillingness to rock the boat, and in-group bias, fine. Then accept when theyre favored more by society and when they do more for each other than men do for each other. 

Longer version if you want to read them:

Men: Girls only do well in school because theyre easier to control!

Women: Then discipline your out-of-control son more.

Men: NO! Boys will be boys and boys are not defective girls!

Sidenote: The education system has actually been more accommodating to students than they were in the past. Also, schooling wasn’t as necessary back then to have a decent income. It’s very telling that the focus isn’t on more accommodating school structures, but on girls out perform boys and then calling that oppression.

Women: Hey, could you take care of your kids more?

Men: No, a man has to focus on providing. I’ll care for them later when theyre not as needy.

Family court: So she gets primary custody and you have to child support.

Men: WHAT?! The family court system is rigged! 

Sidenote 2: Keep in mind, there’s a large subset of men that barely know a damn thing about their kids. However, this sub seems to think that’s acceptable, including men abandoning their kids. For some reasons, despite men apparently caring more about accountability, women are somehow to blame for men’s actions.

Men: People dont care about men’s mental/emotional crisis like they do women?

Women: Did you tell people about it?

Men: Why bother?! And last time I did, everyone hated me.

Women: Were you expressing yourself in a non-unhinged way?

Men: Why should I express my self in a way to get your approval?! 

Women: Have you thought of going to therapy? 

Men: NO! THATS FEMINIST BULLSHIT!

Women: Have you thought up a better solution for other men?

Men: *Ignores* Feminists dont care about men!

Men: No one gives a fuck about male homelessness! 

Women: We are more likely to vote for policies that expands care for mental health, to ha e drug addictions decriminalized, and more safety nets for the poor.

Men: You only care because it benefits you too!

Women: So….. you don’t want to solve the problem and just want attention?

Sidenote 3: I rarely hear guys criticize other guys for their lack of care. Could it be that we understand women’s collectivist nature is actually more beneficial when it comes to actually giving a fuck about each other?

Men: Its awful that female rapists arent taken seriously!

Women: Dont men call male rape victims lucky?

Men: That’s still somehow feminism’s fault!

Women: Arent most lawmakers, cops, and judges men?

Men: THAT’S IRRELEVANT.

Men: Its bullshit when women expect men to be emotionally stable but we cant expect women to be!

Women: Then dont date emotionally unstable women.

Men: But then we cant get laid!