Being a virgin is completely useless

wtknight · 2025-12-31T15:00:58+00:00

Removed. No rants.

Valuable-Marzipan761 · 2025-12-31T11:58:14+00:00

Don't stay a virgin to impress future partners, but the benefit, for a woman, is that you won't get pregnant, and don't have to pump your body full of unnecessary hormones to avoid getting pregnant.

Gravel_Roads · 2025-12-31T10:46:55+00:00

You got it backwards.

The people who see value in staying a virgin aren’t doing it to impress men on dates.

They value being virgin for their own personal reasons, even if they don’t receive external approval for it.

If you WANT to have sex, just have sex. There is no point in staying a virgin if you don’t like staying a virgin.

TermAggravating8043 · 2025-12-31T10:15:27+00:00

It’s only common in countries where women are considered property.

Majority of men don’t give a shit and are actually more likely to prefer a girl not to be a virgin because it’s more likely she’ll want to wait longer or expect a lot of commitment first.

The message should always be have sex when your ready, (and obviously legal) with someone you care about and they care about you. Certainly not with a guy who refers to women as “belongs to the streets”

Naebany · 2025-12-31T10:18:14+00:00

Most men don't care if you're a virgin. They care if you are promiscuous and had 20 partners at 20 though. They just want someone who isn't a total hoe, can pair bond with them and isn't riddled with STDs.

It's nice if you are their first but in the long run it doesn't matter that much.

Icy-Condition-6724 · 2025-12-31T10:22:58+00:00

How is staying a virgin “ruining yourself”?

Many women do it not just for the sake of what future partners think but for their personal or religious beliefs.

You seem very resentful for some reason.

Disastrous_Agent9307 · 2025-12-31T13:31:21+00:00

I was a virgin until 28 and I can't say I ever encountered this particular issue.

beautiful_falcon776 · 2025-12-31T10:35:45+00:00

What solution do you propose? You said its useless but you seem to be arguing for it

TheOneWhoThinketh · 2025-12-31T11:12:33+00:00

The point of remaining a virgin isn't to lose your virginity randomly with a man, it's to lose your virginity when you get married. You shouldn't marry a man who's gonna scream and cry and accuse you of not being one when you have sex with him.

Yes, you won't always know what someone is like, but you should generally be screening sufficiently before marriage to get married to someone who will take it equally seriously.

Lastly, the point of remaining a virgin isn't solely to improve your sex life, it's to allow your partner to experience everything sexual in the relationship with you for the first time, and not have your sexual experience with your husband (or wife) conflated with those of your previous partners. If you don't take sex (or any other activities for that matter) within a relationship seriously, then you shouldn't avoid it just for the sake of a future partner, as it won't help them when you do have it.

alchemicore · 2025-12-31T10:50:05+00:00

It's only "useless" if you've already been corrupted. If your priorities are straight, and you care about things that actually matter (e.g. maintaining a life-long relationship, building a family, etc), then it's extremely beneficial. You're much less likely to end up divorced.

SecondEldenLord · 2025-12-31T10:55:30+00:00

Non religious men don't care about that, but they do care if you have a high body count. If you had 50 partners at 25 then that is an issue.

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-Shes-A-Carnival · 2025-12-31T14:07:29+00:00

"you dont bleed enough"--is it the 1400s? i guess probably where you all are now

Lift_and_Lurk · 2025-12-31T14:15:32+00:00

The only people who care about a woman’s virginity are the creepy dudes that virgin women should stay away from.

Most guys don’t care, they just want to like you and hope you vibe with them.

MarioWilson122 · 2025-12-31T10:40:28+00:00

Not really if they conduct themselves correctly then they can still be viewed as a virgin, so it isn't completely useless, unless she doesnt carry herself properly. Which if she is, she should be fine.

KayRay1994 · 2025-12-31T12:09:44+00:00

Virginity in itself is meaningless, it only has meaning because we choose to give it meaning

It also is never someone else’s fault that some dude freaks out about the prospect of a woman sleeping around

Title	Being a virgin is completely useless
Author	Emergency-Sell-6713
Upvotes	1
Comments	42
Date	December 31, 2025 10:07 AM UTC (7 months ago)
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