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[–]SlumberAddictFDS Newbie136 points137 points138 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]_somoneyoumightknow10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yasss
[–]hikurangi2019FDS Apprentice88 points89 points90 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I picked up one of these “hobosexual” men, all the red flags were there but I was blind as a bat. He’s 30 and has a track record of moving in with women because he didn’t have a place, technically these women offered him to stay with them including me! (This was right before I found FDS, I was under the illusion if he wants to move in together it MUST mean he’s committed.)
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple41 points42 points43 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
My ex was a professional drug dealer with a criminal record, terrible credit, no high school diploma, who'd never held down a legitimate job for more than 6 months. The only apartments he ever had were either sublet from someone else (which he didn't like doing, because he's a controlling person and wants everything his way) or he'd have a girlfriend who'd be the one renting the apartment on paper.
He moved upstate from NYC after his girlfriend broke up with him and moved out. He no longer had a place to stay so he moved in with his mom and stepdad "temporarily" (planning on going legitimate and not dealing anymore) pending a new girlfriend, lmao. But he found that it's not as easy to obtain a girlfriend when you no longer have drug money, are only working a shitty part time job, live with your mom and stepdad, don't have a car (and you're not living in the city anymore, so it's no longer something women will so easily look over), and upstate girls don't find the whole thug thing so charming.
But then he lucked out and found the best sucker target: me! He was living with me within 3 months of us dating. 🤡
[–]Inspection-CriticalFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I hope you left him sooner than later. Marriage only makes these guys worse.
Knew a woman whose husband ran a very successful, in high demand business that easily pulled a million a year. SHE took out a $100K loan to help him start it.
He sold the business behind her back and divorced her. It's been 7 years, she's still paying off that loan. Her ex is long, long gone, just had another kid with his new wife.
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was with him for 7 months, which fortunately isn't that long in the grand scheme of things. Unfortunately though he's not just a LVM/NVM, he was abusive, raped me, coerced me into getting pregnant, drained my savings, and ate up p much all of my disposable income. I got an abortion because I couldn't stomach the thought of him being in my life forever, or the multitude of ways he'd harm a child.
This is why it's so important that we impress upon women the need to VET. If you entertain the wrong type of man he will leave you psychologically scarred for life.
[–]talldrankofH2OFDS Newbie129 points130 points131 points 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Has anyone seen those TikToks of women taking in homeless or nearly homeless men & turning them into husbands? There are way too many young women applauding them in the comments for me.
[–]evaporativeFDS Newbie53 points54 points55 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ve seen a few but I honestly just assumed they were jokes. I can’t imagine any woman actually doing that 🤢
[–]punyhumannumber2FDS Newbie36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why would they even want to do that? They know the guy doesn't love them and is just using them for their house and money, right?
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple40 points41 points42 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Maybe, MAYBE if these men would actually take this as a second chance to clean up their act, get a job, become a provider, and cherish the woman who saw something in him. But you know these bastards are going to become leeches and then eventually leave once they can obtain a "hotter" girl.
[–]Primary-AlarmFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh yeah, and then they'll resent her for taking care of him because he wants to be the "big man"
My ex pretended it bothered him that I paid for everything, because in his previous life as a drug dealer he made bank and any girl he was with never had to pay for anything. He swore up and down that once he got a big promotion he was working towards that things would change.
But I realized that nothing was actually stopping him from paying for stuff presently. Yeah, I was making more money than him but half his meager income was going towards weed and the other half was going towards his MOM'S bills when he was living with ME. Then he'd do shit like buy himself new sneakers he didn't need, buy his little sister $200 airpods to replace the second pair she'd lost (right around my birthday, which he never got me anything for).
I just wasn't a priority to him and that wasn't going to magically change if he started making more money. He told me he wanted a life with me, that I was the girl he was going to marry, and the bastard even coerced me into getting pregnant. Still didn't want to spend a dime on me. And that, in a nutshell, is why FDS states the man MUST pay on dates. If he won't spend money on you, you are not important to him.
[–]CherishedcrownFDS Newbie[S] 63 points64 points65 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh my gosh, for whaaaaat? I’m sick
[–]cryptohoboFDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No shortage of Bob the Builders!
[–]bigthotstatusFDS Newbie18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I saw one like this! Thank god it was fake I
[–]EmergencyShitFDS Apprentice6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is a thing? I’ve never seen it
[–]Jelly_LoverFDS Newbie65 points66 points67 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It's known as 'cocklodging' in the UK.
[–]ScotsburdFDS Disciple8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
MN? 😁
[–]Jelly_LoverFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha yes - love that term!
[–]Sage_PlanterFDS Disciple43 points44 points45 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My dad always warned me about these men.
[–]rubilocks10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My dad was these men
[–]dragon_wolf4FDS Newbie47 points48 points49 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men totally lust after women's bodies and drop them when they don't find them good looking, and are able to find a younger, better looking (in their pathetic opinion) chick. Men want women who will do housework, child rearing, emotional labour, make a house a home. Then they also want to treat women as their personal sex worker. But when it comes to relatively meagre job of paying rent & bills, the woman is a gold digger. Fuck these men. They want everything for nothing.
[–]2993FDS Newbie31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I say one of the #1 signs is having no place of their own (living with ex, parents, etc.). These parasites can't pay bills on their own and are nowhere ready to care for a partner. They can't even take care of themselves.
[–]IWannaBeAnArchitectFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes and living in a sober house doesn't count... - me to my former pickme self
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[–]redviolettaFDS Newbie33 points34 points35 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A guy with 2 kids (he repairs phones for living) wanted to marry me because of my work as a teacher. He aimed to be with me so I can make a loan from bank, to support his business. We haven't been in a relationship yet he tried to control everything (what car should I buy, how much money should I send to my parents after we get married etc). I quickly dropped that guy, blocked him, and never contact him anymore. Best decision ever.
[–]hanscons30 points31 points32 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i know more men like this than not. i wish i was kidding.
[–]feminologie_FDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
The Weeknd has a song that describes how he used women for shelter and sex back when he was homeless, before fame. It's called Nomads. In the second verse he explains how low value behavior:
I do it all to stay warm I do it all to get by I do it all for a home For a night But, baby I won't keep ya Just know that I'mma leave ya So, fuck me right Baby, fuck me right Until I'm too tired to leave ya
[–]PartypuppersFDS Apprentice26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
He's the king of romanticising toxic relationships.
[–]jeanneeebeanneeeFDS Apprentice13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He's a talented musician, but definitely not a HVM. He's a prodigious drug user and womanizer.
[–]feminologie_FDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I used to love his music in my pickme days even with the blatantly misogynistic lyrics. I used to think Bella Hadid was so lucky to be in a relationship with him. FDS taught me that money, fame and talent does not make a man high value. The Weeknd is the quintessential millennial fuckboy and is absolutely an LVM through and through.
[–]StrainingMyNeuronsFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What a turd.
[–]dreamytealuvFDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What's funny is I know a man like that, he used to find very insecure women off fb, chat them up and then move in. Once they got pregnant he'd dip and movein with his next victim.
Like, whew, having the self-confidence to not accept whatever comes crawling and not tolerating someone to leach off of you can really save you a headache.
[–]Lagaceta2020Throwaway Account13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We deserve so much better!.
[–]naga5497FDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m such a fool. I had at least 4 LTRs with hobosexuals. 🤦🏻♀️
[–]CherishedcrownFDS Newbie[S] 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s okay sis you live and you learn, just don’t fall back into the same behavior!
[–]cece188FDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, I’m really not afraid to admit I’m a gold digger. It’s really not a bad thing. Anybody that shames me and other women for it are broke and bitter scrotes.
[–]Amy3e13FDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Get the bag, girl! 💅
[–]cece188FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We have to try our best😂💕
[–]smart-tart23FDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hobo sexual..... I like it
[–]CommercialCamel2FDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yikes, and this could be a problem of mental health most likely,and/or substance abuse.
[–]GlamorKissFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men NEVER talk about hobosexuals... only gold diggers
[–]kmblueFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is my dearly departed father to a tee. He got his hooks into my mother and never let go.
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