We've all learned to 1) Initiate often and 2) be outcome independent.
What happens if she plainly says "can you stop asking for sex every day".
I have been very much OI, but initiating often... accompanied with Kino. everyime she says no, I honest to god say "your loss!" or follow her denial up with some other fun statement, read a book, go downstairs and hit the bag for a while... but good god man, every day being told no, then "stop asking" is a serious kick in the nuts.
The fact is, it's been 4 months now. Initiating as often as possible, sometimes in the worst situations, sometimes in the best. I get a ton of "just let me take care of it", which always leads into a 2-3 week dry period. So then, a stallion like myself let's 2 days go by before I slap her ass and ask again. Waiting for her to initiate after what's likely a week or two, or more, isn't acceptable. So I don't stop initiating, as it's something I don't feel I need to refrain from doing if I genuinely want it. Initiating isn't about wanting to make her upset, it's about opening the air for her to jump on her readily available sexy and high value husband.
Some background. Married 12 years. BP probably 11 of those years. I honestly dont give a flying fuck if she flicks me a hard no, as at the end of the day I'm the prize and it honestly is her loss. Ideally I'd love to continue our marriage together, but if she doesn't jump on this train I'm fully prepared to keep on chuggin.
So, fellow MRP's. When the crazy lovely harpy says "stop asking every day", what is YOUR response? Do you trust the lady that shell actually initiate... or do you keep on keeping on, and continue to be OI. For example, tonight is night 12 of initiating , and still a no. I'm not butt hurt, nor upset... but, Id like to fuck her, not other women - genuinely - shes my wife and I love her. So, what now? Do I go 20 days initiating, 30, 40, 200, 2000, 20,0000 oohhhh gooddddddd......
Teach me something I don't already know you sexy fucks. And .... go!