Girl claims sex with her ex-boyfriend of 3 years was rape and blames her school.

insickness · 2014-02-09T19:36:24+00:00

CNN should have titled this article, Girl Wants School to Convict Ex-Boyfriend of Rape Without Any Evidence.

otiswild · 2014-02-09T21:33:00+00:00

So he hypnotized her for 3 years with his cock?

Stupid girl.

Swimmingdunce · 2014-02-09T21:21:16+00:00

I read this with complete astonishment. Is this what it's like in the USA? How can anybody take these sorts of "claims" seriously? I'm making a firm resolution to never try it on with a woman from the US. They're nuts, as are the authorities for indulging them.

RojoEscarlata · 2014-02-09T19:35:54+00:00

I just read the first paragraph and had to drop it right there.

She claims that he never used force nor violence to have sex with her, and in the fucking same paragraph they said that she felt psychologicaly and physically coerced by him to fuck.

How can a "trusty" news source can contradict itself so fast is beyond me.

I literally stopped reading right there, what was this bitch after? If anyone care to fill me in.

boydeer · 2014-02-09T22:33:24+00:00

rape me once, shame on you. rape me 847 times, shame on me.

kick6 · 2014-02-09T22:48:42+00:00

"What we're seeing is a demand that schools treat complainants with compassion."

But never the accused. Ever. Even when exonerated, even when the complaints are entirely fabricated.

If you need evidence that society doesn't give a shit about you men: look no further.

RedBigMan · 2014-02-09T20:30:47+00:00

The verbal gymnastics you need to do to make what women say is rape seem like what rape actually is has become so absurd you could break your legs just thinking about it for too long.

Only someone completely devoid of any world view and sense of fairness could possibly believe that blurring of the definition of rape could be anything other than the blatant detriment to society that it is. Victim-blaming assholes can't hold a candle to the immeasurable damage to actual rape victims that these kinds of silly bitches do by sodomizing the definition of rape so thoroughly to fit their own personal agendas that it beggars belief.

It speaks volumes that I as a man who considers rape an appalling crime now by default do not believe a woman who says it happened to her until evidence is presented to the contrary.

What they have done is added an extra element to the mix that will stop actual victims from getting help. It's no longer a matter of whether you believe her or not: it's whether you believe she knows what rape actually is.

When someone, a man or a woman, saves another human being's life with complete disregard to their own well-being, you call that person a hero or a heroine. They acted heroically. When you start calling people wearing a military uniform a hero for doing so, you devalue that word. The real, genuine heroes are no longer respected like they deserve to be.

When a woman is held down and brutally raped, she is a rape victim. When you start calling women who didn't like that the boy they let into their pants hasn't called them in three days a rape victim, or women that don't like that their ex found a better girl a rape victim, or women who are happy to be freaks in bed until their friends find out about it a rape victim, you devalue that word. Actual rape victims suffer because of it.

StingrayVC · 2014-02-09T21:36:32+00:00

Strong, empowered and independent . . . but can't say no. Says a lot.

Clauderoughly · 2014-02-09T19:35:16+00:00

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btcnr · 2014-02-09T21:48:23+00:00

I would love to see that trial. And a subsequent civil lawsuit by the guy.

Heck, he should sue her for libel/defamation now.

imarcink · 2014-02-09T20:38:05+00:00

If you are so pathetic that over the course of three fucking years you not only don't tell someone who is "raping" you to stop, but also cannot leave a FUCKING RELATIONSHIP with them, then you are the most spineless and worthless human being. People in the world deal with actual fucking problems every day. Real rape. Real murder. This bitch is acting like she's jesus on the fucking cross because her boyfriend convinced her to have sex even though she really didn't want to?

I mean this when I say this girl should kill herself, but it's not even what she did but the people around her that reassured her that she was in the right. Does anybody else find that terrifying? That someone can come forward with a complaint that is so unsubstantiated and ridiculously illogical, but through sheer persistence can turn themselves into a fucking martyr as long as they have a vagina?

Sorry for the paragraph but I am honestly just so horrified. Someone needs to constantly monitor this woman and inform any man that she has contact with of the insanity she is capable of.

nivek7913 · 2014-02-09T22:02:50+00:00

No, he hadn't pinned her down, or threatened violence.

He persisted and she gave in "just to get it over with," she says.

Admits consenting to sex

They break up

"Rape"

You see this, feminists? You see this SRS and the Blue Pill? This is why people recoil from the word "feminist" and terms like "rape culture". This is why people think twice when a woman comes forward and says she was raped. This is why we ask, "Was she lying?" This article right here is your "rape culture". Because when women like this use a false accusation as a weapon, it becomes impossible for any rational person to fully believe the next one who comes along and says the same thing.

2014-02-10T04:05:23+00:00

Haven't we all forgotten to break up with our rapists for 3 years at one point or another?

GayLubeOil · 2014-02-09T19:48:07+00:00

This is like if you opened a bank account and then proceeded to be a customer for three years. Then after 3 years because you didn't pay some fee or whatever your bank revokes your membership. After that the bank files a lawsuit because you repeatedly robbed the bank over the coarse of three years with psychological coercion.

RedBigMan · 2014-02-09T21:20:55+00:00

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doveenigma13 · 2014-02-09T20:41:46+00:00

At first I thought this might be an onion article. Then I realized I must have woken up in the fucking twilight zone.

CultOfBlackPhillip · 2014-02-09T21:57:55+00:00

I read this and really fought the urge to throw up. Imagine being with a girl for 3 years, thinking you had a loving relationship only to find out she considers it rape.

gwizmcpyro · 2014-02-10T00:15:57+00:00

So for the three years she had his cock in her mouth, she felt the need to report the "rape" only when the relationship ended. Sounds like he dumped her for something better, and she's bitter that her pussy didn't keep her by his side.

shadowbanned6 · 2014-02-09T20:47:57+00:00

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sirron811 · 2014-02-10T01:35:36+00:00

I see now that my wife has been raping me for 14 years now, and has been coercing me into paying for things like a house and food and a college education. She's done this via psychological abuse and sexual manipulation. She never "pinned me down", but used the above, emotionally abusive tactics to make me take care of her and our offspring.

animalmother27 · 2014-02-10T03:27:05+00:00

uhhhh, it isn't rape if you don't say no. also why the fk did she stay with him for three years if it was rape all along? wtf

causack · 2014-02-10T08:30:05+00:00

This is a strange read for me, and ill tell you why.

A couple years ago I got out of these really bad relationship. I was super depressed after the breakup, and was talking to my friend about it over facebook. He had been my friend since childhood, so we went way back. His house was just a couple blocks from mine, and he told me to come over if I needed to talk. So I did, not expecting what would happen next. Next thing I knew I was ushered into his bedroom, with all the doors closed. Still at this point, I wasnt thinking of him as a threat, because he was a childhood friend. I was in tears and talking about my relationship, and thats when he started to make moves. I was shocked and I said no...but he literally blocked the doors and would not let me leave. I said no for long time, and he became more and more aggressive, but I'm pretty sure that at some point he had been accused of rape before (not to my knowledge at the time) and knew what he was "supposed" to do and say to get me to do what he wanted. He would not let me leave, and he would be on top of me on his bed. I got up many times to go but he would run and make sure i couldnt get out. I never said yes... but I did eventually stop saying no... and I cried during.

Now when this happened, I didnt want to be the self victimizing girl, but I really did feel violated. I didnt tell anyone till way later, where my friend consoled me and said that I was raped, truthfully I still am not sure. And its because of cases like these. The just "giving in to sex" and considering that as rape? As soon as this happened to me I immediatley felt violated, and I knew not to go back there or see him. I knew that he was forcing me to have sex, through these loopholes and tricks like im going to make you stay here till you say yes and consent so I didn't go back and confront him, because I knew what to expect from him.

Truthfully, maybe Im being a total bitch, but I do not believe for one second that this girl went through what I went through. I can't say that without feeling like a bitch though, because in the back of my head im wondering if she go through what I did. Truthfully, whether what happened to me was rape or not, it was traumatic. But i really cant believe that she would do this for 3 WHOLE YEARS As soon as that incident happened to me I felt absolutley violated. It was a one time situation that came completley out of the blue, it took me by complete surprise, and I avoided him afterwards, I didnt speak to him or anything. I didn't want to be a part of it. If he was my boyfriend, you bet your ass I would have confronted him after the first time in happened (in a public space of course, where I couldn't be trapped again.)

I dont believe that this girl was raped. Just because she said no at first doesn't mean there was a violation I feel like there has to be some accountability on her part, for letting this go on for 3 years. I dont think this can be called victim blaming considering we dont know if she is a victim or not....and voluntarily letting it go on for 3 years, I just dont think that sounds even remotely right. The fact that we immediatley have to blame the guy in the situation before we are accused of "victim blaming" is absolutley absurd. Theres being uncomfortable with sex, and going about it in a wary and shy way, and then giving into curiosity, or just giving in to indifferece, and just being annoyed and getting it over with. But rape?

I feel like, rape should FEEL wrong. I felt like what happened to me was a violation, even if its not considered rape. I would never be caught in that situation again, because I knew what to expect from him. If I went back I literally would be putting myself in a situation, that I knew how it was going to end up. You know, feminsts will talk about women's intuition till their blue in the face, where's this ones? Did she really feel like something was wrong these three years she was having sex with her boyfriend? If there was something wrong, did she speak up appropriatley? Did she confront HIM beore going to the police? I don't know, maybe I'm being a dick about this... but I feel this is a complete bullshit claim. This isnt victim blaming because it cant be proven that she is a victim. The world is an imperfect place. I dont know. I don't know if I'm being too cold hearted or not.

2014-02-09T20:59:32+00:00

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2014-02-10T00:54:43+00:00

Heres the reality gentlemen women through girl power feel they have given away their only ace card...Pussy. So now to get their power back they call us all rapists. To hell with white knight fuckery let their powerful vag be their shield. I refuse to protect people who would jeopardize my liberty and reputation.

HitlersCow · 2014-02-09T21:58:43+00:00

An important note, the concept from the solomon II archives.

When women bring up a topic like this to you, and they will, agree completely. Isn't that terrible, how awful, it must be so hard to be a woman.

You're not changing any minds, you're looking like an asshole. With the media and society pushing bullshit like this, all you can do is look like a misogynistic asshole.

2014-02-10T01:01:32+00:00

This can't be real.

ScannerSloppy · 2014-02-10T01:15:02+00:00

This kind of shit makes me want to send my kids to trade school.

Captain_Self_Promotr · 2014-02-10T01:32:18+00:00

The real story isn't that a girl tried to get away with calling this rape- trp teaches that a woman will always try to get her way +1, but that cnn, the most trusted name in news not only published her story but led with it. That should tell you about the state of affairs in America.

2014-02-10T01:49:34+00:00

I want to throw up

mheyk · 2014-02-10T05:18:16+00:00

Hes male in todays society hes automatically guilty like a black man

2014-02-09T20:30:03+00:00

"Yes, he was her boyfriend. No, he hadn't pinned her down, or threatened violence. But Espinosa insists that he coerced her, psychologically and physically, into having sex against her will for most of their three-year relationship."

Does anyone know the facts to this case? A quick Google search reveals nothing. The mystery of how you can coerce without violence or threats can't be solved unless her specific claims are actually examined.

Maybe he was just using game, and this is an attempt to "shine a light on" and possibly criminalize a "nefarious manipulative practice."

2014-02-09T22:30:35+00:00

It sounds like this girl felt she was in an abusive relationship and failed to act accordingly until it was too late -- at which point she tried to externalize the problem.

The funniest (saddest?) part is she expected the university to serve as her white knight -- how childish. Seeking support is reasonable; seeking revenge is not.

Veritisia · 2014-02-09T22:44:12+00:00

Manhood Academy handles women that claim in-relationship rape really well. Basically it doesn't exist, relationship = consent.

bama79rolltide · 2014-02-09T19:36:58+00:00

Psychological? I call spite. She said so herself.

watersign · 2014-02-09T23:35:40+00:00

articles like these make me glad i quit college. complete waste of time and a land mine trap. the demand for prostitutes will increase with this kind of shit...mark my word

-Strummer- · 2014-02-10T05:01:18+00:00

Patrice O'Neal explained this type of situation where a guy has no idea he's raping someone...Starts around 2:10

InternetFree · 2014-02-10T06:01:29+00:00

In the meantime:
http://www.reddit.com/r/PussyPass/comments/1xf7k8/gorgeous_24_year_old_meredith_powell_rapes/

2014-02-10T06:17:30+00:00

Sloot is gonna sloot. The sky is also blue and the earth is flat according to her mentality.

2014-02-10T09:11:09+00:00

Eugh, think less and less of Barak Obama every time he opens his mouth.

Clbull · 2014-02-09T22:36:14+00:00

That's why I'm afraid of ever losing my virginity in a one night stand of consensual, no-strings-attached sex.

The possibility of the girl feeling regretful (perhaps because she was tipsy and I wasn't actually as attractive as originally thought or because she has a boyfriend and he found out) then crying rape to cover up what she did at my expense is actually a realistic possibility; even a baseless accusation can ruin one's life.

2014-02-10T00:46:09+00:00

hahaha

einexile · 2014-02-10T00:09:20+00:00

At this point I honestly don't care anymore. The difference between asking too intensely and just plain fucking someone against their will is about as interesting as the difference between farting in the elevator and pressing the buttons in the wrong order. Interesting to some, and if it's your hobby that's nice for you, but let's keep our little hobbies to ourselves.

Title	Girl claims sex with her ex-boyfriend of 3 years was rape and blames her school.
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Date	February 9, 2014 7:14 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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