Dating Black Women

boomhouser · 2014-10-22T13:14:37+00:00

I am a white male that only dates black women. I have been doing so for the last 3 years. My experience has been interesting, but it's just like dating a woman of any other race. Check them when they need to be checked and you will be fine. I haven't had a problem with outrageous attitudes or being embarrassed in public with them. My friends don't care who I date neither does my family. Now I will say this I have a lot of black women to choose from since I live in a major city where the population is half and half. I don't deal with any sort of ghettoness. When you are around them a lot you can spot that bad attitude a mile away. But in the end they are women first. Some are good in bed, some aren't. Some know how to give a great BJ, Some don't. It all depends. Also, as a white guy I fly under their radar for the most part. Where as a black male they usually have their guard up. I rarely experience that. Also, black guys are just as blue pill as white guys. Lately this place has been so focused on race that we are forgetting that we are men first.

EeeeeeevilMan · 2014-10-22T05:24:37+00:00

As someone with a bit of a black woman fetish who's dated several from a majority black area, this hasn't been my experience at all (or maybe I didn't get what you intended from your post).

I personally have found black women to have hypergamy on steroids: unabashedly materialistic, unabashedly self-interested, extremely entitled, fickle, etc.

In a way, it was nice because they're so open and unashamed about it unlike white women who try to disguise it, but it's also exhausting. Dating a black woman is a lot of goddamn work. You have to bring your A game for sure. They're used to dealing with black guys all the time who, frankly, tend to be more naturally red pill than white men. So they're harder to game.

Anyway, that's been my experience.

1point21Jigowatts · 2014-10-22T15:00:47+00:00

the only difference between dating a black woman and dating a white woman is, if a black woman asks "does my ass look big in this?", you say "hell yeah!".

Gold_Mouth · 2014-10-22T12:31:41+00:00

You're going to have to prevent your friends from using the word nigger in front of your girlfriend. Your friends will agree not to.

Do white people throw that word around like that?

TheeRyanGrey · 2014-10-22T09:28:04+00:00

I'm going to upset some people but I have to speak my mind.

I am a black man. I grew up around in the suburbs, quite poor, but fortunately located in a nice district. I went to a nice high school but playing sports my whole life I spent a lot of time around black people and black women.

I'm going to be honest: I can't date black women and I don't even enjoy sleeping with them unless they're mixed or are the black hipster girls. It's not that I haven't tried either. I always tried to hard to date/sleep with black girls as a youngster so I could feel more "black" and I could never make it work.

It wasn't until I got older I realized why: Black Women are Men. Point Blank.

There's a reason mothers and grandmothers are who rappers and athletes constantly thank. It's who they're usually raised by. Black Society is the prime example of a society run by women: Hypergamy is unleashed and the only men deemed valuable are the ones so cartoonishly masculine to tame them; pimps, drug dealers, rappers are the sex idols in my culture.

thick_knees · 2014-10-22T21:53:40+00:00

Hot black girls are no different then hot white girls. You sir are dating ugly black chicks

TRPsubmitter · 2014-10-22T04:50:56+00:00

I actually like black chicks a lot. They are usually cool and outright sexual. They are without all the white pretension.

Yes, many are overweight, but the young ones I see who are students around me are skinny and hot. A 125 lb black girl and 125 lb white girl. The black girl's body is better 9/10 times. They have amazing proportions.

I highly recommend going after non american black girls like french/north african and Caribbean. They're more feminine and aren't fat like americans.

TheRpPhilosopher · 2014-10-22T13:46:18+00:00

I've found that white women tend to be more submissive to their mates on average than black american women are. As /u/TheeRyanGrey pointed out, black women are basically men. They will challenge your authority, your masculinity, and your ego more often as well. It seems to be a daily struggle to prove your SMV.

I remember in college being rejected by black women because they thought I was "too white", which basically boiled down to the fact that I "spoke properly" and got good grades in my classes. These same women who rejected me ended up dating the utmost losers on campus. ie drug dealers, thugs, or dummies who they thought might make it to the NFL or NBA. Or and /u/TheeRyanGrey put it, "Cartoonishly masculine guys"

I love black women, but there is a distinct difference in black women from the older generation to the black girls we have today.

MrWoofles · 2014-10-22T03:21:10+00:00

Dated them a lot when I still dated, My warning to you white guys is that this is a real case of the grass is greener but at the same time I can understand the draw of the exotic.

Now there is the thing that black women act a lot better when with a white guy or an Asian, same for a black man dating a white woman outside the U.S. So go nuts if its what you want.

Lt_Muffintoes · 2014-10-22T09:05:25+00:00

Oh man.
I was in a bar in Barcelona before RedPill, and this black girl came up to me, aggressively hit on me and tried to drink with me.

Having seen so many streetwalkers there I assumed she was one, so I panicked and GTFO'd to the toilets to escape. My mate later said he spoke with her and she wasn't, oops.

You hear a lot about high rates of STD's among black girls, particularly herpes and syphillis, is this true?

yummyluckycharms · 2014-10-22T07:47:06+00:00

Hmmmm - my experiences with black women (about 5 in total) could be summed up as follows:

Pro:

Great in bed (very passionate)
- Good cooks
- for whatever reason - all of them were very well connected to the art communities
tend to have bigger tits than other ethnicities
- red/yellow bones very nice arm candy

Con:

Very opinionated (read: attitude)
Quick to get angry and violent
Tends to view things via racial lenses - and pullls out the race card when things go against them
- Not very nurturing

In essence, yes the stereotypes tended to be pretty accurate, varies abit based on income and education though. Never experienced racism from white people (probably due to fear of appearing non pc), but did experience the occaisional bit from other black women. Probably good for "hit it and quit it" type relationships, and not for long term (see cons for red flags)

masterpill7 · 2014-10-22T05:36:03+00:00

I know this place is pretty anti-PC but why the hell would you or your friends say "nigger"? Saying the word when its a lyric of a song or "nigga" I can understand, "nigger", not so much.

Using her because you don't want to be seen as racist is as stupid as how white girls actively go for black guys because they want to be seen as progressive. Both are racist.

I disagree with much of your post.

DatCisco · 2014-10-22T03:14:58+00:00

My only gripe with black women is if they talk in "ebonics". I've met plenty of black girls who don't talk like that normally but they do with their very best friend or with their family. I know it's harmless and sometimes fun but meeting her parents at a thanksgiving meal where everyone speaks like that except you makes you feel very out of place.

sir_wankalot_here · 2014-10-22T03:17:13+00:00

Black women seem to have a nasty vicious violent temper. Or maybe it was just the one I dated. Really good woman, but when she got mad she got really mad. And all her female relatives seem to be the same way. It didn't help matters that she was huge, not fat just big, she used to go to the gym like 3 times a week to lift weights and work out.

The violent temper thing might have been worked out. I was a lot younger then, and didn't know as much as I did now. The temper thing was the main reason we broke up, we probably would have killed each other.

Other then that she was a great woman. Really hard working.

argunta · 2014-10-22T03:22:58+00:00

There really are no advantages or disadvantages to dating a black woman, at all. It is really all a preference thing, some guys are into black women and some are not (I am not). That said, whatever you said about Black women can be applied to women of mostly any minority groups and even foreign White women that haven't had the world pander to them. The real divide is White Anglo women (aka White girls) and girls that are not white, sure cultural issues will come up such as her parents not liking you or you probably having to change your religion but outside of that there isn't that much of a divide as one might think.

Racist men sleep with women of other races ALL THE TIME. Do you think slave owners who impregnated black women were all about racial inequality?

As for personality (black women being funny) and not having the world pander to them, women that are not White in general are like that. Only white women in general are very spoiled by society.

You want to talk about struggles? Try dating White Ashley while being an Indian or Asian guy and having even the most politically correct and liberal white guy turn into David Duke in a heartbeat because he cannot see what is unfolding in front of his very own eyes.

writewhereileftoff · 2014-10-22T11:34:57+00:00

My experience with black women is mostly that of 2nd generation african immigrants. It's difficult pinning their values because they are so much influenced by other cultures. I hear and have witnessed multiple horror stories of blue pill white guys getting beaten up by their african spouse. Like seriously don't go there as a blue pill beta. They will chew you up & spit you out even faster than white girls do. They are much more used to alphas so they sense when you dont hold frame instantly & will capitalise on that even before you realise what's happening.

I also think the white girl-black girl jealousy is huuuge. It's like their worst nightmare to see you dating someone from the other race.

With that being said I have dated like almost every etnicity. Currently pretty happy with this beautiful black girl for almost a year now. Thank you TRP!

itsxeno · 2014-10-22T14:29:14+00:00

I feel like this post is directed to mainly white dudes, but interesting nonetheless.

culofiesta · 2014-10-22T19:00:28+00:00

The few times I've been out with black women they constantly brought up race to the point of cringe. They said things like

"You should go meet my friends! I wonder what they'd think of me dating a white man! My parents would kill me!" or

"I bet you've got some weird fantasy about being with a black woman. That's ok"

"All these people are looking at us because I'm with a white man" (no one was)

It was embarrassing for them.

lono12 · 2014-10-23T03:03:00+00:00

So you and your friends regularly say nigger? wtf?

8jh · 2014-10-22T05:28:07+00:00

This isn't a good post. Black women are only 5% of the united states population. First of all there is a huge contrast between black girls who are 3rd or higher generation american citizens (usually descendants of slaves) versus haitian immigrants or even african immigrants.

Each one comes from a different culture. And each one has different groups of girls. You have the ones that hate or distrust white people. In miami those are the ones who stare you down when they catch you looking at them. You have the ones who are really religious and don't have any sex. Then you have the white black girls who don't follow any black culture. Then you have the hood rats, the baby mamas, the ones that fucked every nigga in their old neighborhood, and the ones who are in uni with a free ride.

You have to treat black girls like you would white girls or they will write you off immediately.

noteventrying · 2014-10-22T11:10:39+00:00

who writes this shit? who reads this shit? jesus christ.

favours_of_the_moon · 2014-10-22T16:13:53+00:00

A black girl isn't afraid to cut loose and be a woman.

With a white girl, she thinks you owe her the sun and the moon and the stars, because she gave it up for you. A black woman will cook you sausage eggs and grits for breakfast, and probably even throw your laundry in before she leaves for work.

Probly doesn't even care if you have a job.

DominumVindicta · 2014-10-22T13:38:16+00:00

Just make sure you wrap it up...

http://sandrarose.com/2012/11/medical-minute-1-in-2-black-women-has-herpes/

http://www.reuters.com/article/2010/03/09/ps-herpes-usa-idUSN0923528620100309

http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/gender/women/facts/index.html?s_CID=tw_STD0131198

At some point in their lifetimes, an estimated 1 in 32 black/African American women will be diagnosed with HIV infection, compared with 1 in 106 Hispanic/Latino women and 1 in 526 white women.

African-American women have Chlamydia rates that are more than seven times higher, Gonorrhea rates that are about 16 times higher, and Syphilis rates that are 21 times higher than white women.

http://womenshealth.gov/minority-health/african-americans/stis.html

From the CDC: http://www.cdc.gov/std/stats10/minorities.htm

http://www.cdc.gov/nchhstp/newsroom/hsv2pressrelease.html

DTDtwopoint0 · 2014-10-22T19:02:25+00:00

The fact that a 7inches dick is considered average is the reason I won't date black women.

beware_the_syllogism · 2014-10-22T12:13:28+00:00

This is a stupid post.

The black girls I've dated do play the delicate flower, especially after getting their hair done. Can't work out as it sweats out the hair stuff.

So I'm not accused of being prejudiced white women can't work out because they are getting the presettling chubs (the weight gain they go through to see if you really like them prior to settling) and working out takes effort.

The other (asian, brown) can't work out because it interferes with their partying/hangover cycle.

These examples are limited to women I've dated, don't take it as empirical data.

Working out can be anything else, just the most convenient example I can think of right now.

JesusFuckILoveAnal · 2014-10-22T16:08:06+00:00

I'm never attracted to black people, personally.

Air4ce1 · 2014-10-22T18:28:51+00:00

Dealing with black women is the ultimate shit test IMO. Growing up with them I didn't like them because I was weak, now I like them just only if they're hot enough to put up with the immense shit testing. That's one thing black girls will do ESPECIALLY if they are not that good looking. They will shit test the fuck out of you.

Back in the summer, I was in line for something being handed out to us. The black girl behind me started complaining about something really stupid and I just couldn't handle it, so I turned around and calmly explained to her to stop complaining, why what she wanted to happen wasn't happening, and she was annoying to complain about it. (This was a long line so I wanted to entertain myself as well).

Here comes the test: Her: I wasn't talking to you. Me: It doesn't matter, I was talking to you, that's how convos work, I say something to you, you say something back and now you're talking to me. Her: "Whatever nigga" Me: Watch your mouth(sternly looking into her eyes) Her: :Rolls Eyes:

How I thought she was going to respond was that she'd just hate me and be annoyed at me the rest of the day. How she actually responded wsa she actually started flirting with me. (She was rather ugly so I didn't pursue).

Olipyr · 2014-10-22T18:58:20+00:00

I've not dated a full black American.

I've dated a mixed girl and an African and honestly they are the same as white chicks. At least, from what I experienced.

EDIT: The African girl was an awesome lay. Tight as fuck, growled/purred at me, just straight animalistic fucking.

RedPillSafe · 2014-10-22T12:09:47+00:00

The closest I ever got to dating an "African American" woman was with a mixed African-Irish blend.

Basically the same mix as Obama. Looked approximately Italian.

She was leaning more towards her Irish side culturally and was very fun to be around. She's probably not a real example because she was very heart warming and never had the bad temper you see with the pure breeds.

chrisjames0 · 2014-10-22T12:24:24+00:00

I dont know what It is, but im a white guy who has never once been attracted to a black girl. Ive been attracted to indians, asians, whites, latina, everything except black girls. No idea why

garlicextract · 2014-10-22T17:51:10+00:00

No matter how big your penis is, it will always look small in her WNBA hands.

LOL. Well that one's enough for me to stay away. If huge looks normal in WNBA hands, what will painfully average look like? Not sure I want to find out.

leftajar · 2014-10-22T18:23:11+00:00

I dated an awesome black girl for 8 months, let me chime in here.

Pros:

Best ass in the fucking universe.
Really on top of her appearance and taking care of herself.
Very RP and knew how to take care of a man.
High libido; liked to fuck.

Cons:

The hair is wiry as fuck and annoying. Imagine trying to spoon a girl while having an afro in your face.
Despite copious use of moisturizer, she had rough skin. As in, not soft. This was a turn-off.
The smell. Dude, black chicks just smell differently. Especially in the vag. The first time we hooked up, that smell lingered on me for over a day, despite repeated hand-washings. Although it got more tolerable over time, she never smelled "good" to me. This was true for other black chicks I dated. Honestly, I think it's biological differences.
Ebonics. I couldn't fucking understand her when we were on the phone. I literally had to ask her to repeat herself every third sentence.

I ended up breaking up with her because the cons outweighed the pros. The very next chick I banged (a latina), spoke perfect English, had soft skin, and her vag smelled great. I will not be dating any more black women.

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2014-10-22T14:23:53+00:00

I had serious reservations about this post when I saw you were the OP GLO but man that was hilarious.

raceAround126 · 2014-10-23T19:10:46+00:00

I'll fully admit. I just don't find black women attractive on the whole. They just don't give me the willies, so to speak.

That's not to say that every once in a while a black chick doesn't walk by with jaw-dropping features.

I dated a half-caste girl once. The emphasis is on once. I don't know if this is a UK thing, but we got to the race part. I admitted I'd never been out with anything other than white, simply because that's how life's happened, no other reason. She mentioned her Mom was white and her Dad was black, but she identified wholly as black. I felt, fair enough, whatever flicks your switch. But she didn't seem to move past it the whole night. Now don't get me wrong, she was hot as fuck! Her face was absolutely incredible, excellent tits presented like they were being served in a bra-plate.

She brought back up again a few times that I'd never been with a black girl. Again, I downplayed it, but this kinda went beyond shit testing. She brought up her cousins and brothers who kicked her last boyfriend's ass for "something". I don't really know what.

The final straw for me was when she said, "If we had kids, would you take them for black or white"... er... first date... Kids? Alarm alarm... I couldn't wait to get back to the train station where I was walking her to. As soon as we landed, I noped right the fuck out of there. I ran for my car and tossed my cellphone out the door.

Since that experience, I kinda stick to white chicks. I mean, they're nuts too, but in a slightly less dangerous way!

foxevv · 2014-10-22T18:49:00+00:00

Fortunately, you are in possession of the Anti-Race Card.

In a society that pulls the race card waaay too often this is awesome to have.

You're going to have to prevent your friends from using the word nigger in front of your girlfriend.

If the bitch is this sensitive find a new one. My gf (kinda black-ish) and I joke about each other all the time. She's not what you'd call a traditional American nigger though. I'd never date one of those.

Also, the biggest disadvantage that you've missed, African Americans, by far, carry the highest concentration of STDs. Be careful with them.

If you can find a real African you'll do much better, the Americanized ones that have been here for generations have attitude problems usually.

AchillesOtherLeg · 2014-10-22T17:44:36+00:00

You forgot the main disadvantage surely?

They have the lowest SMV of any group of people.

LeaveMeBe420 · 2014-10-22T05:29:00+00:00

You, and most of the people commenting , have a fucked up perception of women (black and white) and relationships in general. Redpill is so fucking stupid. Peace bitches.

NS_white · 2014-10-22T05:40:12+00:00

Suit yourself, but I'll never find myself dating outside my race, especially with negros.

niczar · 2014-10-22T06:00:26+00:00

You mean African American, and I do not mean that in a political correct way.

busior · 2014-10-26T08:10:23+00:00

Am I allowed to have my own preference or not if it's not PC ? Honestly, to me they look like shaved gorillas and their pussies like that of farm animals. They are loud and annoying as fuck.

SnoopKittyCat · 2014-10-22T05:13:53+00:00

My experience is black women can be as much diva and delicate flower than any other women. The main drawback for me is that they are plain freaking ugly, I'm not into dating silver back that's why I prefer asian woman.

Title	Dating Black Women
Author	GayLubeOil
Upvotes	65
Comments	150
Date	October 22, 2014 2:58 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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