Had my best experience busting through LMR tonight.

I'll try to keep this short. Second date, started at restaurant, she agrees to come back to my place for a drink. Lots of making out on the couch, but she resists any removal of clothing. I pull back and we talk a bit. I resist going forward, and eventually she comes over to me and we're making out again. She gets on top of me (straddles me) and this time I'm able to get her boobs out and lick/suck on them. This goes on for a bit, and she declares:

  1. That we're not having sex because she wants to be sure I like her for more than that
  2. That she's on her period

I say "OK", and sit back again, grab my beer. A little more chatting and sure enough she comes forward again for more kissing. I say listen, let's go to the bedroom and cuddle on the bed for a bit where it's more comfortable, no sex, and then I'll drive you home. She agrees.

On the bed, lots of making out, grinding, breast play. She lets me touch her vag but not under her jeans. Our play gets pretty hot and eventually I just stop and say that's enough and grab my beer (making it look like it's too intense to keep going without more escalation). She goes to the washroom and comes back, again declares she's on her period and there's still a little blood, and she wouldn't want her first time with me to be like that.

Again, all I say is "Ok".

We start playing again and she mentions a couple more times about not having sex. I stop, look her directly in the eyes and say firmly: "Don't worry. I'm not fucking you tonight". We continue making out/playing again, and this time she lets me go under her jeans. I finger bang her for a bit, then pull her jeans off. She says "what are you doing?" I say "Theres lots of things we can do without having sex." I go down on her (no signs of period of course) and make her cum once. She offers to return the favour so I take my jeans off and she blows me for a bit, but it's not doing enough for me to get off. So I pull her back onto her back and get on top of her, and we start making out again. I start lightly rubbing my cock around her clit and labia while kissing. She tells me she loves being teased, and I say "That's good cause we're not having sex". A little more teasing like that around the entrance, and she's getting really really worked up - she gets that desperate look in her eyes.

Eventually I say quietly "If you want it, you have to say it" and she says "Say what" and I say "Tell me you want me". And she says "What will happen if I say that" and I say "Say it and you'll find out". She pauses, bites her lip, and whispers in my ear "I want you". I drive inside her (very) wet pussy all the way. We have sex twice before the night is through.

I made her say it because I keep reading all the bad/false rape stories on here lately and I was genuinely nervous.

I drove her home, lots of kisses goodbye, and she texts me a few mins later that she had an amazing night and can't wait to do it again.

The moral of the story is - LMR is a shit test, nothing more.