I went out with a girl. I ran exactly the same plan as I do with every girl. I went to a bar, drank a beer, chatted for about 30 minutes then switched the venue. Had a few drinks. Went outside to the patio and teased her with a kiss but did not do it. got her all hot and bothered. She invites me over to her house.

We make out, she gets naked, I'm on top, I'm touching her, fingering her, etc.

But, as with every first date I've been on lately. I'm breathing heavy, kissing her, pulling her hair like a virile bull, but inside. I feel nothing. I'm not hard.

I'm not emotionally, physically, or mentally aroused internally. My heart rate did not even increase. I'm not nervous so it's NOT ED but I can't fuck girls until at least the second date, where I feel I've established some sort of emotional connection because these girls offer nothing else.

Being able to fuck girls on first dates is something I'm very used so the novelty is gone, but I'm rarely able to get hard on first dates and it has cost me 5-6 girls. I'm simply not mentally or emotionally aroused with these women. It's me doing all the attracting and I don't feel anything on my end because they've allowed themselves to be seduced but not much else.

I'm often confused that these girls get naked with me because I feel nothing emotionally or mentally for them. They're always physically attractive to me. I feel like the novelty and excitement is gone and I'm just "going through the motions". The other possible reason I can think of is I'm very dominant, so most girls are almost like dead fish in bed, and throughout my trysts the women rarely kiss my neck and just take anything I give them. They lay there and get naked but don't do much else but I want more than that. I give out the energy and vibe I want and girls love it but I don't feel I get what I want in return.

It's simply a lack of raw desire. I'm...bored. I used to fuck for sport and went through a lot of women. I think part of that excitement of "conquering" a woman is gone, because I know I can do it.

Women are timid in bed. I want them to be hungry. I seduce them but they don't seduce me. There's girls don't have GAME. They feel turned on on their end but I do not.

The hooking up is all the same thing but a different face. I can only get hard if I happen to be very horny during that time or if I feel some sexual tension during the second date.

I don't fap at all but have a few girls I regularly fuck, no issues with them at all. Everything's in working order.

Do you guys have any solutions to this problem?