Question for all, do you believe “Ben (hairdresser)” when he claims an n count of 50?

TheGreasyPole · 2018-03-16T10:22:26+00:00

Yes I believe his count is this high.

No, he’s not a chad.

This is from my personal experience (my mums a hairdresser and owned about 4 or 5 hairdressing shops over the course of my childhood, I spent a lot of my time in them and “washing hair” as a Saturday junior was my first paid job).

First, hairdressers (Male or female) are really social people who spend all day every day talking to women, and by so doing developing their social skills. Successful hairdressers are to social skills what Arnold Schwarzenegger is to muscles. There is no other role/job where your primary purpose is “to make women feel good about themselves 10 hours a day, with a new woman seated in front of you every half hour”.

In addition, because of the above, they get a natural opportunity for a half hour pickup (that’s not awkward in any way) 20 times a day. Literally a woman sitting in front of them, whilst they practice a “skill mastery” on them, where they are expected as part of the role to chat and flirt with the woman. It is an ideal hunting ground.

In addition to the above he’ll also do “private” clients on the side for extra tax free cash... where a woman literally invites you into her home to ~~flirt with her~~ style her hair for 30-60m in the privacy of her own home.

Thirdly, clicking on the link Ben has a lot of tats and looks quite masculine. This will be in an environment which is 80:20 women (hairdressers) and where 3/4 of the other males will be either actually gay or very effeminate if not gay.

Finally, a hairdressers appearance is their “shop window”. They tend to be highly fashion conscious with whatever the latest hairstyle is (sorted for free by a colleague, even if that is usually an expensive style to have done or maintain.. eg hair colour, bleach or perm) and they tend to be very fashionably dressed as well because of their orientation to fashion.

SO....

Ben is likely have top notch woman hunting skills (social skills), look as best he can for his natural looks (fashion hair), and be the ONLY masculine looking male in an extremely “target rich environment” as well as having 20 natural pickup opportunities literally “drop in his lap” every working day for years, at a time he is demonstrating skill mastery and competence and is expected to flirt as part of his job.

Plus the girls working in the shop tend to be CC riders as well so he probably picked up a handful of his count from colleagues.

I can absolutely believe, without a shadow of a doubt, he could get to a 40-80-100 N count if he wanted to... probably without even having to do a single “cold” pickup.

If you’re young and don’t mind working in a poorly paid position and you want to have lots of girls... this ain’t a bad route for a guy.

Just make sure that as soon as possible you own your own shop. That ain’t great pay.... but the pay if you don’t own the shop is fucking terrible (which is why it’s so female dominated as a profession).

simcity4000 · 2018-03-16T07:47:56+00:00

Yeah I believe him, he looks friendly and interesting, not bad looking.

What are you calling Chad? Any dude who can get laid?

Equalina · 2018-03-16T08:30:32+00:00

Why wouldn’t I believe him? He’s probably a fun, confident guy and likely in a social circle where hookups are more common.

DemonConsulting · 2018-03-16T09:19:15+00:00

He seems like a sociable, cool, interesting guy - has a lot of tattoos, is probably fairly outgoing with a large friend group/ social cycle and said he was more "crazy" when he was younger and not very picky so sounds to me like he went out a lot, partied, just had fun in an environment where hookups are common and was open for it.

He's not a male model or anything but I doubt his hookups were models either and if his personality is/was the outgoing, a bit "crazy" party type, I don't see why he shouldn't be able to find casual sex.

Aaren_Augustine · 2018-03-16T07:31:20+00:00

Ben is Chads slightly less attractive cousin, Aden. Relaxed, non-judgmental, you can tell by the amount of tattoos.

My brother in law is that dude. Except drugs. And it's cat nip for a lot of women.

[deleted] · 2018-03-16T09:29:46+00:00

He looks like he's in the party scene so probably. I doubt they were all Stacey, but whatever.

For all the speegs looking to get laid, maybe be construction workers 🤔

ContrasexualWoman · 2018-03-16T09:54:58+00:00

I believe him more than I believe the other guy who said he's slept with 80-90. I think both have probably increased their N for the interview, but Ben is more believable based on what many other women find attractive.

goatismycopilot · 2018-03-16T15:23:42+00:00

Hmmm. I would think hair dressers if they are successful probably have a good sized social network so based on that I think it is believable. Looks wise he has too much forehead but he has obviously figured out a way around that so good for him.

kandyapplez · 2018-03-16T17:12:52+00:00

uh yeah? why wouldn't i.

on quick glance i don't think he's a chad. just a normal, social young guy living in whats most likely a big city and goes out a lot. its a fairly normal thing.

and just by looking at him i'd bet he's been with a bunch of subpar hipster chicks. guys who know their "niche" as opposed to indiscrimately going after any young women have much better success. i'd bet he spends his friday nights in shitty dive bars, warehouse parties, and ironic "screamo" nights at clubs.

quicklogaccount · 2018-03-16T13:38:19+00:00

Yeah, I believe it might be around that.
These days anyone who wants to put effort into it will be adding 2 or 3 to their count every week, but 1 a month is a given for folks that are open and willing to have sex with strangers.
For starters it's probably a little harder for men, but once they can manage to open chicks, it's all the same or maybe even easier for us.

Ordinate1 · 2018-03-16T17:13:12+00:00

Um, who cares?

[deleted] · 2018-03-16T17:22:05+00:00

50 isn't unbelievable

LifterofThings · 2018-03-16T17:57:22+00:00

I'd believe it. He gabs with women all day at his job -- if he can manage that without coming off gay, he's probably relatively charming and comfortable talking to women.

He's not my personal cup of tea, but I can see objectively how he'd be attractive to women.

I don't know what a Chad is anymore. The term's been mutilated beyond all recognition.

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Merger-Arbitrage · 2018-03-16T16:22:23+00:00

Is Ben a chad?

With the chubby arms and bumfluff beard (how ironic) ... probably not, but he does have a 'mesomorphic' masculine-shaped upper body, which is a big plus.

He was sleeping mostly with these girls.

You rack up a high partner count by not saying no to anyone who shows interest (inc. dumpster diving) and being in a promiscuous social circle. The end.

Note: "sleep with" can probably be fairly loosely defined - including lower level sexual activity like hand/mouth. This is why CDC data is great, as it describes sexual acts in straightforward detail.

[deleted] · 2018-03-17T00:43:27+00:00

He's a liar.

Swallow_bird_ · 2018-03-17T01:19:02+00:00

Yeah I know multiple guys who look like him or worse with active sex lives. You don't have to be hot as a man to get casual sex, just social and fun.

Swallow_bird_ · 2018-03-17T02:23:34+00:00

He's the hottest guy on the list IMO. I'd bang.

MisterJose · 2018-03-18T15:43:58+00:00

Pro-wrestler Ric Flair's claimed n count is 10,000. 50 is nothing.

newName543456 · 2018-03-18T23:43:57+00:00

Yeah, he's a quintessential Chad.

You don't need to be insanely rich to get laid.

Reed_4983 · 2018-03-16T13:23:52+00:00

Based on that article, it the CDC's average partner number of 4 or 5 for Americans becomes even more questionable.

Title	Question for all, do you believe “Ben (hairdresser)” when he claims an n count of 50?
Author	simcity4000
Upvotes	1
Comments	68
Date	March 16, 2018 7:16 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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