Q4RP: wtf is a "red pilled woman"?

disposable_pants · 2017-06-19T16:28:57+00:00

Okay the biggest issue here is a misunderstanding of RP as a sexual strategy. Yes, it's about recognizing the differences between men and women. Both sexes are different, and as a result have different strengths and weaknesses.

For men, it is easy to get commitment (this is why beta bucks is often talked about as something to avoid). For women, it's easy to get sex. The thing is, men are generally not focused on commitment, they want to make sure they're getting sex. As a result, men focus on the things that allow them to get sex. RP men can focus on spinning plates (casual sex), monk mode (improving themselves and not focusing on dating), and LTRs/marriage (provided they find a good woman that makes them want to commit). Women can get sex easily, we basically just have to blink, but RP women don't want just sex. We're looking specifically for LTRs and marriage with good, naturally masculine men. RP women aren't looking for RP reddit users. We just want to earn the commitment of naturally masculine men.

RP has two sides, and the goals of men and women are often in conflict. Men dangle the promise of commitment in order to get sex, women dangle the promise of sex in order to get commitment. It's a struggle and a negotiation when two people meet, like each other, but have different goals.

Being a slut requires no talent whatsoever for women, getting into a relationship for a man requires no talent.

exit_sandman · 2017-06-19T10:24:54+00:00

From my understanding of TRP women already have a subconscious knowledge of the SMV. "Blue pilled women" already understand their dualistic sexual strategy of AF and BB (or show signs of following it, even if they claim it isn't true) So, what is the advantage of being a self-proclaimed "red pilled women"?

It isn't just about awareness, it's also about honesty, self-control and considerateness towards men.

A redpilled woman for example wouldn't mislead men about the nature of her attraction, she wouldn't lie to herself about what she really wants, she would exercise self-control when what she desires is stupid (and do so quite early on and not after she fell on her face 10 times in a row), and she doesn't expect men to act in the interest of women; but is accepting if they act in their own interest first and most (which also includes that she doesn't have a problem with men holding redpill positions because after all, what these men do is exactly that).

Thoroughly bluepilled women would do the opposite on most or even all accounts; most of it subconsciously. For example a bluepill woman isn't aware that what she expects of a man is against his own interest, no, she's adamant that she knows better than him what's good for him than he does, even though she's ultimately just thinking of her own interests or those of team woman.

Also, ideological reasons like /u/disposable_pants said.

Littleknownfacts · 2017-06-19T11:15:36+00:00

The TL;DR is Find a good man you are attracted to, hold on to him for dear life.

gabbygabretski · 2017-06-19T14:23:49+00:00

RPW are (as with most things, this is a generality and holds true about 90 percent of the time, which means there are outlier exceptions) women who want to gain attention in the "manosphere" by feigning that they are "not like that".

Eastuss · 2017-06-19T08:47:26+00:00

Most women out there have the BP mentality but acts RP nonetheless because that's their biological imperatives.

RPW are women that are conscious of it and embrace their biological imperatives and try to improve on top of it. Non RPW may suffer from their contradictory mindset and imperatives and may not understand themselves consciously.

[deleted] · 2017-06-19T15:11:49+00:00

Lol@RPW

blackedoutfast · 2017-06-19T18:56:34+00:00

the RPW sub exists to minimize the number of women shitposting in the main TRP sub.

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Willow-girl · 2017-06-20T15:49:42+00:00

Here's my take on it: I find it ludicrous to believe that men and women are actually identical except for their genitalia. I think women generally are more interested in home and family life than are men. Modern (feminist) society puts women, especially young women, into a terrible position by telling them they can 'have it all' without collapsing from exhaustion! Us old broads need to be honest with younger women, and tell them that it is extremely difficult to balance a demanding career AND family, and that you will probably have to make sacrifices on one side or the other. Also, it's unrealistic to expect that just because you want to fulfill a traditionally masculine role, career-wise, that your partner will want to step up and take on the traditionally feminine duties, like housework and childcare. Most likely he will NOT, and you will end up doing it ALL (or a lot will simply go undone and you'll live in chaos with unruly children). That is an ugly truth that feminists don't like to talk about, lol.

disposable_pants · 2017-06-19T09:06:08+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/

This is a spot for like-minded Women to objectively and realistically discuss sexual strategy from an anti-feminist, non-feminist, traditionalist and/or evolutionary psychology perspective. Our focus is on long-term goals that bring long-term happiness.

We agree with /r/TheRedPill in its description of male and female nature and seek to apply it to our lives. This feminized culture has told men and women over and over how to find happiness, and we're learning the hard way that maybe what we were told isn't working. Let's discuss!

Aaren_Augustine · 2017-06-19T09:19:50+00:00

The difference is ownership.

I'd feel like if I met a woman who was so open at categorizing her men

Blue answer - What? You must be insecure that I just told you my ex has a WAY bigger cock than you. Like really, JESUS. How dare you be upset about how crass I am being?! This is for health reasons! You need to know I've never had a one night stands technically because I just slept with some stranger I just met four times and no just ONCE! Why are you mad? You weren't the boyfriend at the time and I told him...like almost immediately! I'd never do that to you? Why don't you trust ME?! OH GOD, why am I not shutting up!?

Red answer - I've made mistakes and I'm learning to fix them. I like you. Lets go do cool stuff.

Il128 · 2017-06-19T08:52:22+00:00

As I understand it t RP women just understand RP and prefer the honesty of RP men.

Title	Q4RP: wtf is a "red pilled woman"?
Author	Fdreal
Upvotes	8
Comments	256
Date	June 19, 2017 8:34 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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